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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

Neither i yearn for variety.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

Neither i yearn for variety."

Now I want variety pack cereal!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

Neither i yearn for variety.

Now I want variety pack cereal!

Ha. I havent had those for years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

Neither i yearn for variety.

Now I want variety pack cereal!

Ha. I havent had those for years.

They are not as amazing as you remember... leave them in the past as a great memory, I wished I had

Oh and more like others

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Nope .... I’m me and unique

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

Neither i yearn for variety.

Now I want variety pack cereal!

Ha. I havent had those for years.

Me either. Which one would you have first?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Neither. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

Neither i yearn for variety.

Now I want variety pack cereal!

Ha. I havent had those for years.

They are not as amazing as you remember... leave them in the past as a great memory, I wished I had

Oh and more like others"

Pick three role models...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope .... I’m me and unique

You’re special

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

Neither... I'm unique and prefer to stay that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

Neither i yearn for variety.

Now I want variety pack cereal!

Ha. I havent had those for years.

They are not as amazing as you remember... leave them in the past as a great memory, I wished I had

Oh and more like others

Pick three role models..."

Mandela, Mother Theresa and Santa

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

For some time when I was younger I thought I wanted to be like the majority of others but now I realise that I'm fucking fantastic as I am. And no to others being like me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

Neither... I'm unique and prefer to stay that way

People either love or hate you, Marmite

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

Neither i yearn for variety.

Now I want variety pack cereal!

Ha. I havent had those for years.

They are not as amazing as you remember... leave them in the past as a great memory, I wished I had

Oh and more like others

Pick three role models...

Mandela, Mother Theresa and Santa"

Why Santa?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For some time when I was younger I thought I wanted to be like the majority of others but now I realise that I'm fucking fantastic as I am. And no to others being like me. "

Love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

Neither... I'm unique and prefer to stay that way

People either love or hate you, Marmite

As the name says eh!

Well mostly hated.... but o don't it bother me anymore

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

Neither... I'm unique and prefer to stay that way

People either love or hate you, Marmite

As the name says eh!

Well mostly hated.... but o don't it bother me anymore

I’d warrant it’s mostly love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

Neither i yearn for variety.

Now I want variety pack cereal!

Ha. I havent had those for years.

They are not as amazing as you remember... leave them in the past as a great memory, I wished I had

Oh and more like others

Pick three role models...

Mandela, Mother Theresa and Santa

Why Santa?"

Kind, caring comfortable in his body with a touch of judgement

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I wouldn't want anyone to be like me and encourage change in anyone I care about who bears any resemblance to me.

I admire traits and characteristics in others but I'm too lazy to emulate them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

Neither i yearn for variety.

Now I want variety pack cereal!

Ha. I havent had those for years.

They are not as amazing as you remember... leave them in the past as a great memory, I wished I had

Oh and more like others

Pick three role models...

Mandela, Mother Theresa and Santa

Why Santa?

Kind, caring comfortable in his body with a touch of judgement

Great answer

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't want anyone to be like me and encourage change in anyone I care about who bears any resemblance to me.

I admire traits and characteristics in others but I'm too lazy to emulate them.

You’re wonderful, though!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Neither. I treasure my individuality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

Neither... I'm unique and prefer to stay that way

People either love or hate you, Marmite

As the name says eh!

Well mostly hated.... but o don't it bother me anymore

I’d warrant it’s mostly love

Really?? Haha

You not seen the haters on the forums then

As long as I enjoy life, then sod the haters.... they are not worth knowing

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I wouldn't want anyone to be like me and encourage change in anyone I care about who bears any resemblance to me.

I admire traits and characteristics in others but I'm too lazy to emulate them.

You’re wonderful, though!"

Thank you, that's very kind. There's a painting in the attic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

Neither i yearn for variety.

Now I want variety pack cereal!

Ha. I havent had those for years.

They are not as amazing as you remember... leave them in the past as a great memory, I wished I had

Oh and more like others

Pick three role models...

Mandela, Mother Theresa and Santa

Why Santa?

Kind, caring comfortable in his body with a touch of judgement

Great answer

Also all those toys.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Neither. I treasure my individuality "

That’s a lovely way to phrase it.

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By *lueWonderMan
over a year ago

Preston.....ish

I am just me.... For too long I have tried to please others. If they don't like it then that's their bad luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

Neither... I'm unique and prefer to stay that way

People either love or hate you, Marmite

As the name says eh!

Well mostly hated.... but o don't it bother me anymore

I’d warrant it’s mostly love

Really?? Haha

You not seen the haters on the forums then

As long as I enjoy life, then sod the haters.... they are not worth knowing

I only look for the good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm perfect, so of course everyone should be like me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't want anyone to be like me and encourage change in anyone I care about who bears any resemblance to me.

I admire traits and characteristics in others but I'm too lazy to emulate them.

You’re wonderful, though!

Thank you, that's very kind. There's a painting in the attic.

you, silly billy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

Neither... I'm unique and prefer to stay that way

People either love or hate you, Marmite

As the name says eh!

Well mostly hated.... but o don't it bother me anymore

I’d warrant it’s mostly love

Really?? Haha

You not seen the haters on the forums then

As long as I enjoy life, then sod the haters.... they are not worth knowing

I only look for the good

Oh I can be very good.... but can also be naughty too

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Neither. I treasure my individuality

That’s a lovely way to phrase it.

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it's a great way to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I’ve never been one for following the crowd. And not exactly someone others want to be x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

Neither i yearn for variety.

Now I want variety pack cereal!

Ha. I havent had those for years.

They are not as amazing as you remember... leave them in the past as a great memory, I wished I had

Oh and more like others

Pick three role models...

Mandela, Mother Theresa and Santa

Why Santa?

Kind, caring comfortable in his body with a touch of judgement

Great answer

Also all those toys....."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am just me.... For too long I have tried to please others. If they don't like it then that's their bad luck

Word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm perfect, so of course everyone should be like me

Oh Niki you're so fine...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm perfect, so of course everyone should be like me

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

neither. people being different is what makes things interesting! I really love getting to know people who are different, strange, weird and simply themselves!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

Neither... I'm unique and prefer to stay that way

People either love or hate you, Marmite

As the name says eh!

Well mostly hated.... but o don't it bother me anymore

I’d warrant it’s mostly love

Really?? Haha

You not seen the haters on the forums then

As long as I enjoy life, then sod the haters.... they are not worth knowing

I only look for the good

Oh I can be very good.... but can also be naughty too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Neither. I treasure my individuality

That’s a lovely way to phrase it.

it's a great way to be

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, I’ve never been one for following the crowd. And not exactly someone others want to be x "

Perfectly you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm perfect, so of course everyone should be like me

Oh Niki you're so fine..."

Ha ha ha ha ha ha!

Was your mind blown?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"neither. people being different is what makes things interesting! I really love getting to know people who are different, strange, weird and simply themselves!!"

Weird is wonderful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As my name is Mike, every one wants to like Mike (bad boys)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither. I like being individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Neither. I like being individual. "
wouldn't have it any other way xxxxxxx

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By *aptain ScarlettWoman
over a year ago

swansea

Really interesting question!!! Unfortunately my answer is both!! At the same time!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"neither. people being different is what makes things interesting! I really love getting to know people who are different, strange, weird and simply themselves!!"

This

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

I’m me and that’s how I’m staying! I don’t want people imitating me either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want anyone to be like me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

Neither i yearn for variety.

Now I want variety pack cereal!

Ha. I havent had those for years.

Me either. Which one would you have first?

You always start with the worst and save the best for last. Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say neither in a way... I like being me and a I like variety.. I just wish people were nicer, I feel sometimes I go out of my way for friends and would do anything to help people but find it's not always reciprocated when you need them back.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Neither, personality wise. I do occasionally wish I had either the body confidence or the body of others but those are within my control to get for myself.

I also know myself well enough to know I infuriate quite a few people just by being me, so I can only conclude that more mes would be pretty annoying and I wouldn't inflict that on people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't want anyone to be like me and encourage change in anyone I care about who bears any resemblance to me.

I admire traits and characteristics in others but I'm too lazy to emulate them.

You’re wonderful, though!

Thank you, that's very kind. There's a painting in the attic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actively encourage people I come into contact with not to be like me... or act on any advice i ever give.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spent most of my life alternating between trying to fit in by being what I thought others wanted, and rebelling against every effort to make me conform.

Now I'm happy as a pig in the proverbial just being me. It only took me 50 years too

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

I have enough of me to find one Im happy with at any given time. I don't want to be anyone else and I wouldn't wish being like me on my worst enemy.

Some call it schizophrenia, I call it social networking in my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd do anything to be nice like others. But I'm not. I wouldn't wish being like me on anyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actively encourage people I come into contact with not to be like me... or act on any advice i ever give."

Everybody should be like you, Sam..tall strong dark and handsome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like others

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We're all full of great qualities, it would be awful to wish away the variety. I like qualities in others but usually it's behaviour and attitudes that I'm happy to absorb.

We all change anyway, so keep living your life as yourself and who you become

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're all full of great qualities, it would be awful to wish away the variety. I like qualities in others but usually it's behaviour and attitudes that I'm happy to absorb.

We all change anyway, so keep living your life as yourself and who you become "
that so true but when you try to make it more enjoyably it seem hard but that life these days

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I don't think the world could handle many more of me, and I don't wanna be like others either.

I do hope however that qualities I think I have like consideration, good will, and caring etc were more abundant in others.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Neither, I like being different!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I actively encourage people I come into contact with not to be like me... or act on any advice i ever give.

Everybody should be like you, Sam..tall strong dark and handsome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither. I think everyone should be themselves

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @

"Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

Others to be more like me,because i'm awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing productive would get done if everyone was like me. Except each other, we'd do that a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing productive would get done if everyone was like me. Except each other, we'd do that a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't wish being like me on anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being me. I like being the only one of me, I’m unique and that’s the way I want it to stay!

Geeky x

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I'd be worried if anyone was like me!

I like to be individual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't wish being like me on anyone. "

Why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want someone extremely close to me, to be more like me. He is struggling with some issues and I'm desperately trying to get him around to my way of thinking as I know it will help him immensely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't wish being like me on anyone.

Why not?"

That's far too long and complicated an answer for me to write out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

Neither. I want us both to be happy how we are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't wish being like me on anyone.

Why not?

That's far too long and complicated an answer for me to write out. "

There's probably someone out there right now who wishes they were you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am more than happy to be me...

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Neither I like being me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither.

'Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.'~ Oscar Wilde

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imperfect but relatively happy being me. Most of the time at least and certainly enough to not want to be anyone else.

How about you OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont want them gatecrashing a lifestyle such as mine, as crazyness would soon become the norm as it becomes the majority... And i sure as hell dont wanna be them

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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

"Do you want others to be more like you, or do you want to be more like others?

The latter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously, I wouldn't wish me on anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind being Celine Dion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't mind being Celine Dion. "

Come on, who would?

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