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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Does it actually do just that ?

Describe your experiences .

I have all the symptoms for a meet today

Any female members interested ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when ever ive put a meet today on, ive not had anyone reply that ive wanted to meet, or theyve been to far away, so i dont use it anymore, easier to arrange in advance for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never used it and don't give it much of a thought either way. I have heard people say it looks desperate and others say it indicates they are free today. I assume it must work for some though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have used it but the responses we got were not what we were what we were actually looking for so had to come up with some fabulously inventive ways to say ta but no ta as i'm always worried of offending

so since then when we have found ourselves in the position of wanting a quickie meet we go looking for the ones that have put up the meet now marker so they have to be the ones to turn us down then i prefer to be rejected than do the rejecting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's a very efficient site function, which makes for easier searching….

I display the “Looking to meet today” logo whenever I'm online and available,,,,, although that doesn't mean I'll take every offer that comes along.....

I also find it’s a great assistance saving time when I’m searching for potential partners who are free when I am too…

Its an additional profile feature which allows you to clearly show your free to meet compatible swingers on that day …. The status banner give you an option add specific details…..

After-all…. This is a profile based contact site......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of people read 'meet today' as 'meet now'

If I do use it, it is generally because I am free that evening and would like to arrange something.

However, within minutes of putting it on, I get messages off guys looking to meet there and then.

So whilst I think it is a useful tool to a degree it does need to be used in conjunction with status updates and/or a placement in the planned meets pages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we have used it but the responses we got were not what we were what we were actually looking for so had to come up with some fabulously inventive ways to say ta but no ta as i'm always worried of offending

ah u always let me down gently!!!!!xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have never used it and dont think i would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i`d meet katie this minute

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"when ever ive put a meet today on, ive not had anyone reply that ive wanted to meet, or theyve been to far away, so i dont use it anymore, easier to arrange in advance for me"

You get replies , is that because your a single lady ?

It's different for single guys looking to meet females , In my experience . I have had interest from couples but never a female .

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've used it a few times. Sometimes it works brilliantly, other times it does not. As said above, people may well get in touch but it doesn't mean they magically start reading profiles.

I prefer arranging in advance, but a last minute quicky is always welcome. In that case I put the meet request up and cross my fingers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've used it a few times. Sometimes it works brilliantly, other times it does not. As said above, people may well get in touch but it doesn't mean they magically start reading profiles.

I prefer arranging in advance, but a last minute quicky is always welcome. In that case I put the meet request up and cross my fingers."

I have had my fingers crossed for quite a while. Try something differnt it don't work

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I use it from time to time, though not often.

Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.

Sometimes it results in a very pleasant encounter... it's how I first met one of my more regular playmates.

Sometimes you get an inbox full of dross.

I know a few very nice guys who only search via the meet today function.... so it's always worth a dip now and then to see what's out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tried it once a good while ago..normally use it when i'm with a female friend and we are looking for some company..but otherwise I dont use it...feels like a rejection when u dont get any relies lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when ever ive put a meet today on, ive not had anyone reply that ive wanted to meet, or theyve been to far away, so i dont use it anymore, easier to arrange in advance for me

You get replies , is that because your a single lady ?

It's different for single guys looking to meet females , In my experience . I have had interest from couples but never a female ."

very possibly just cos im a single fem, at any time there are 300+ guys, ive never seen it over 100 for women using the meet today featur

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont use it offen but i have every now and again

Always get loads of interested but find very few follow it thro

or what i have found is when i have put a meet today up i get loads of mail saying

hi cant meet today but im free tomorrow lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I've used it a few times. Sometimes it works brilliantly, other times it does not. As said above, people may well get in touch but it doesn't mean they magically start reading profiles.

I prefer arranging in advance, but a last minute quicky is always welcome. In that case I put the meet request up and cross my fingers.

I have had my fingers crossed for quite a while. Try something differnt it don't work

Well I can't cross my legs. Defeats the purpose!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think it is a great theory.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think it is a great theory.

Seems like most the ladies on here have their legs permanantly crosssed .

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I know a single guy that sometimes uses it if he has a contract finish early or an unexpected day off and i know he has had a good amount of success from it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

think its usefull to tell if people on your friends list are up for a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does it actually do just that ?

Describe your experiences .

I have all the symptoms for a meet today

Any female members interested ? "

I have never been let down on a meet today listing i have placed.

i sieve through them and only reply to the ones im interesting in talking?meeting with

u usually know if they want a meet today by how quick the messages are and how quick u get a number to call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it is a great theory.

Seems like most the ladies on here have their legs permanantly crosssed .

only when you are arounf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i dont use it offen but i have every now and again

Always get loads of interested but find very few follow it thro

or what i have found is when i have put a meet today up i get loads of mail saying

hi cant meet today but im free tomorrow lol"

i get that alot so i dont reply to any that say i cant meet today

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

We have used a couple of times when we fancy a threesome and no regular playmates are free...worked fine for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have used a couple of times when we fancy a threesome and no regular playmates are free...worked fine for us

and u never want to meet me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Does it actually do just that ?

Describe your experiences .

I have all the symptoms for a meet today

Any female members interested ? "

As a percentage of members not many use this feature from my observation .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do look at the meet today section and find 75% of the people are the same people on it each day! Always makes me wonder!! Good idea in practice I think

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It does seem like its always the same people on it , which proves not many members use it .

I have been on meet today for most of the past week as I have had time off .

Not Much interest from it ? Do I seek something that is not on here .

It's funny because this is a site which promotes NSA sex , that's exactly why I am here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have used the meet today when i am horny and in need of some nsa fun or simply as i fancy going to chams but not alone

most of the messages i get from this they rarely read the meet listing and think meet today could infact me a meet tomorrow.

if i am browsing the meet listings (and yes i do)i look at the profile and the photos and the verifications if these do not appeal i move on BUT some of the meet listings of single men doesnt have a full profile or photos or verifications listed so they could be missing out

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I only used meet today once....bout three years ago.....it worked got a meet within the hour

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I only used meet today once....bout three years ago.....it worked got a meet within the hour

An hour , I would have been there in half an hour , bloody timewaster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only used meet today once....bout three years ago.....it worked got a meet within the hour

only as you are sexy as hell x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I only used meet today once....bout three years ago.....it worked got a meet within the hour

I put a meet today up over a week ago and yes you guessed it .

It still has not happened

'Patience is a virtue'

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

We replied to one before n we met the same day n it was a great meet.Guess it was our lucky day.......so going bck 2 the qn it does work only by luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I only used meet today once....bout three years ago.....it worked got a meet within the hour

I put a meet today up over a week ago and yes you guessed it .

It still has not happened

'Patience is a virtue' "

I am learning

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

"when ever ive put a meet today on, ive not had anyone reply that ive wanted to meet, or theyve been to far away, so i dont use it anymore, easier to arrange in advance for me"
you are fussy tho lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive never used the meet today but when ive had a meet cancel last minute i will put something on my status saying been let down and have always had one of my friends contact me to say they are free.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I only used meet today once....bout three years ago.....it worked got a meet within the hour

I put a meet today up over a week ago and yes you guessed it .

It still has not happened

'Patience is a virtue'

I am learning

Sitting back and waiting , wondering what the time limit is on 'Patience' ?

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By *anictechCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow - ish ;-)

It's a back up, there is nothing to lose by using it. XxX MT

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's a back up, there is nothing to lose by using it. XxX MT"

Like backing up your files on a pc , always something to fall back on ? I would assume that always works but ' meet today' ? , not so sure .

Of course just my experience , it sounds like it works fine for most of the posters on here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have problems when I use it xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i`d meet katie this minute

I think we all would great arse xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting to read these _iews.

I always took meet today to mean 'I'll shag anything' or 'come and get it'

I prefer to check people out before I meet them to be in the safe side (by text, messages, phone calls etc) No time to do that on a 'meet today' basis

And NSA means just that. Not any cock who's owner is free today will do!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Interesting to read these _iews.

I always took meet today to mean 'I'll shag anything' or 'come and get it'

I prefer to check people out before I meet them to be in the safe side (by text, messages, phone calls etc) No time to do that on a 'meet today' basis

And NSA means just that. Not any cock who's owner is free today will do! "

Good point , but when your need is today then how can you go through weeks and months of messages before someone is comfortable enough to meet you , if that , Ladies you know who I am talking about .

I would not shag anything but have my meet today up , waiting for the right offer. Some of you ladies can drag it on so long that you can make a man lose interest . It's supposed to be NSA .

Look I got my meet today up again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting to read these _iews.

I always took meet today to mean 'I'll shag anything' or 'come and get it'

I prefer to check people out before I meet them to be in the safe side (by text, messages, phone calls etc) No time to do that on a 'meet today' basis

And NSA means just that. Not any cock who's owner is free today will do! "

some of the men assume as you put a listing up that u will meet them even when they dont meet your criteria's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting to read these _iews.

I always took meet today to mean 'I'll shag anything' or 'come and get it'

I prefer to check people out before I meet them to be in the safe side (by text, messages, phone calls etc) No time to do that on a 'meet today' basis

And NSA means just that. Not any cock who's owner is free today will do!

Good point , but when your need is today then how can you go through weeks and months of messages before someone is comfortable enough to meet you , if that , Ladies you know who I am talking about .

I would not shag anything but have my meet today up , waiting for the right offer. Some of you ladies can drag it on so long that you can make a man lose interest . It's supposed to be NSA .

Look I got my meet today up again

id only reply to one if i was generally interested and the profile and photos was there and comprehensive

but i dont do many meet today listings no more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not worked for me, as a single guy I never got a single response, just _iewers.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Haven't used it on here but used a similar thing on another site a few times.

Found that sometimes it worked and other times it didn't.

Actually had one of our best meets through using it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The search goes on .

Patience !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The search goes on .

Patience ! "

But how much longer ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never used it but if it works for some then it does no harm. I wouldn't say it makes someone look desperate but does look like they are in a rush.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never used it but if it works for some then it does no harm. I wouldn't say it makes someone look desperate but does look like they are in a rush.

I agree it does look a bit like that sometimes, have used it when got few hours spare and had great success, and many failures, meets have worked best in past when arranged a meet a few days in advance.

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Have used it both as an advert and to respond to someone else's mt request. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't - it just depends who's around. It's not a bad thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP if you're only looking for ladies then that narrows the field dramatically as they are so outnumbered on here. Everyone is entitled to their preferences but that will make it harder to find what you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it works for when you are looking and the friends list knows u are looking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OP if you're only looking for ladies then that narrows the field dramatically as they are so outnumbered on here. Everyone is entitled to their preferences but that will make it harder to find what you're looking for."

So I keep getting told.

Solution:

Would any couple allow the female half to play alone ?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

So I keep getting told.

Solution:

Would any couple allow the female half to play alone ? "

you were offered by a lady to join her visit the leeds club... did you take her up on the offer.

she wrote it on your thread the other day... a nice and genuine offer.

I wrote to you just in case you had missed it..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I keep getting told.

Solution:

Would any couple allow the female half to play alone ?

you were offered by a lady to join her visit the leeds club... did you take her up on the offer.

she wrote it on your thread the other day... a nice and genuine offer.

I wrote to you just in case you had missed it.. "

Yes we were in contact. Thanks for reminder .

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

good news...

enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I keep getting told.

Solution:

Would any couple allow the female half to play alone ? "

some ladies in couples choose to play alone and some choose not to. Unless it's a sub/master relationship being "allowed" to play alone doesn't come into it as it's a mutual decision. I strongly suspect you might have more success on a dating site.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Interesting to read these _iews.

I always took meet today to mean 'I'll shag anything' or 'come and get it'

I prefer to check people out before I meet them to be in the safe side (by text, messages, phone calls etc) No time to do that on a 'meet today' basis

And NSA means just that. Not any cock who's owner is free today will do!

Good point , but when your need is today then how can you go through weeks and months of messages before someone is comfortable enough to meet you , if that , Ladies you know who I am talking about .

I would not shag anything but have my meet today up , waiting for the right offer. Some of you ladies can drag it on so long that you can make a man lose interest . It's supposed to be NSA .

Look I got my meet today up again

If a guy cant wait until im comfortable enough to meet him then im not going to be loosing any sleep over it.

Not all women will jump at the chance of meeting that day, im not saying that is wrong but not all play the same way on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Interesting to read these _iews.

I always took meet today to mean 'I'll shag anything' or 'come and get it'

I prefer to check people out before I meet them to be in the safe side (by text, messages, phone calls etc) No time to do that on a 'meet today' basis

And NSA means just that. Not any cock who's owner is free today will do!

Good point , but when your need is today then how can you go through weeks and months of messages before someone is comfortable enough to meet you , if that , Ladies you know who I am talking about .

I would not shag anything but have my meet today up , waiting for the right offer. Some of you ladies can drag it on so long that you can make a man lose interest . It's supposed to be NSA .

Look I got my meet today up again

If a guy cant wait until im comfortable enough to meet him then im not going to be loosing any sleep over it.

Not all women will jump at the chance of meeting that day, im not saying that is wrong but not all play the same way on here"

Let's not start losing sleep over such trivial matters its NSA sex we are talking about , how much of someone do you really need to know that will take months to find out my point is I am not interested in women that take so long to make up the their minds, appearance and personality comes through within a few messages and a telephone conversation should help to seal the deal then if your treated nice when you do meet , job done. Hence I choose to stick up my meet today so I am in the spotlight and just maybe I get a meet or 2 or 3 lol

I am clued up enough to know its not gonna happen for a single guy to get a meet today there are much better looking blokes with better physique that don't get a look in on this site.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Interesting to read these _iews.

I always took meet today to mean 'I'll shag anything' or 'come and get it'

I prefer to check people out before I meet them to be in the safe side (by text, messages, phone calls etc) No time to do that on a 'meet today' basis

And NSA means just that. Not any cock who's owner is free today will do!

Good point , but when your need is today then how can you go through weeks and months of messages before someone is comfortable enough to meet you , if that , Ladies you know who I am talking about .

I would not shag anything but have my meet today up , waiting for the right offer. Some of you ladies can drag it on so long that you can make a man lose interest . It's supposed to be NSA .

Look I got my meet today up again

If a guy cant wait until im comfortable enough to meet him then im not going to be loosing any sleep over it.

Not all women will jump at the chance of meeting that day, im not saying that is wrong but not all play the same way on here

I am clued up enough to know its not gonna happen for a single guy to get a meet today there are much better looking blokes with better physique that don't get a look in on this site."

errrrrrrrrrrr whose loosing sleep i only said not everyone plays that way. As i choose to entertain in my own home there is noway i would invite anyone over until i felt comfortable.

Your meet today isnt working, you could have spoke to a woman and been chatting to her for a week and still meet her in the length of time youve not been gettig a meet today. Just pointing out that everyone doesnt do spontanious.

If one way doesnt work whats wrong with giving the other way a chance. Your getting no meets now so you wouldnt get less.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I keep getting told.

Solution:

Would any couple allow the female half to play alone ?

Yes that's been suggested too and I am a member

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting to read these _iews.

I always took meet today to mean 'I'll shag anything' or 'come and get it'

I prefer to check people out before I meet them to be in the safe side (by text, messages, phone calls etc) No time to do that on a 'meet today' basis

And NSA means just that. Not any cock who's owner is free today will do! "

Pretty much my _iew too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have put a meet today request up and it lets the guys on our friends list know we are available, so its a good tool for that. Ive already spoken to and flirted with the guys on my friends list so am happy with that.

I do not think that anyone who uses it is desperate.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

So I keep getting told.

Solution:

Would any couple allow the female half to play alone ? "

lots...its a swinging site you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting to read these _iews.

I always took meet today to mean 'I'll shag anything' or 'come and get it'

I prefer to check people out before I meet them to be in the safe side (by text, messages, phone calls etc) No time to do that on a 'meet today' basis

And NSA means just that. Not any cock who's owner is free today will do! "

not always, most of my meets are spare of the moment, because of my life style i can not always arrange meets

im a single working mum and i dont know week to week what nights the ex is having the nipper as it has to fit round his shifts too, so some weeks he'll call me saying hes having her tonight/tomorrow, its just different week to week depending on his shifts, there for if he calls me up to say hes having her that night i will put a meet today up

however that does not mean i will just fuck the first guy who asks

i have put a meet today up before and still not met anyone because i have not liked anyone whos replied

i still want to see them, like them, meet them for a drink etc before i play, just means i want to do that in the same day not over weeks

i just dont have the life style where i can plan meets weeks in advance as i dont know that far in advance when im going to be child free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting to read these _iews.

I always took meet today to mean 'I'll shag anything' or 'come and get it'

I prefer to check people out before I meet them to be in the safe side (by text, messages, phone calls etc) No time to do that on a 'meet today' basis

And NSA means just that. Not any cock who's owner is free today will do!

Pretty much my _iew too."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

however that does not mean i will just fuck the first guy who asks

this is how i feel, just as im on a swinging site doesnt mean i will open my legs to anyone x

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