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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have u blocked a fellow Fabber and what was the reason ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their profile pic made me want to spoon my eyes out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they kept looking at me and having indirect digs at my birthplace

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By *addys_Little_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

London

I stopped counting at 100 on my blocked list

Honestly most of my blocking comes from people who send disrespectful first messages, clearly haven't read my profile at all, or repeatedly message when their message gets deleted (which as per fab guidelines means no thank you).

I don't suffer idoits, they just get an instant block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads,I didn't want anything to do with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"they kept looking at me and having indirect digs at my birthplace "

Bloody newbies who haven't learnt to Yet eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their profile pic made me want to spoon my eyes out. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may have blocked one or two..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes too close to where my kids live

or generally being an arse

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Yes and usually because they were being a dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never !

If you read that but notice that you are blocked, remember that I don't mean what I say and ultimately what I say doesn't have any meaning.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Lots - I generally don't remember them, except those that keep setting up new profiles and message again, as if nothing has happened or we've never chatted.

Usually do it when their messages get unpleasant and it's very obvious they are totally wrong to meet with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their profile pic made me want to spoon my eyes out. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their profile pic made me want to spoon my eyes out. "

Brutal but I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their profile pic made me want to spoon my eyes out. "

Sorry

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Naggers. Tossers. People who’s forum posts make me literally cringe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block anyone who asks if I’ve blocked anyone .... they’re getting a little personal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my block list is immense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block anyone who asks if I’ve blocked anyone .... they’re getting a little personal."

welcome back mister bee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their profile pic made me want to spoon my eyes out.

Sorry "

You're forgiven now that you have your flower out

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

We block anyone who verifies my ex

B x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Main reason for us is unsolicited friend requests, if it clearly says we sont want them in the profile then its just ignorance to send one, closely followed by poeple who are the furthest thing from the people we would want to meet. We know we have been blocked by people we have never spoken to and can only assume its the same reason they have, doesnt bother us, saves wasting time communicating with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stopped counting at 100 on my blocked list

Honestly most of my blocking comes from people who send disrespectful first messages, clearly haven't read my profile at all, or repeatedly message when their message gets deleted (which as per fab guidelines means no thank you).

Looking forward to not being blocked in the near future.

I don't suffer idoits, they just get an instant block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Random reasons

My block list is longer than my hotlist.

I was hoping they wouldn't come up in a search and that when they search they wouldn't see me either. But I'm new to this site and I'm not entirely sure it works that way. I blocked some just to experiment with this and then look for them but I would still see them. However I noticed I haven't seen others that I blocked longer ago. It could be a coincidence and they haven't logged in.

I blocked a few because I suspect they know someone who knows me.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I’ve blocked in the heat of the moment before but, then calmed down and come to my senses. They are times though when people get nasty and really do deserve to be blocked but, reporting is often a better way to deal with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve yet to block a single soul. I’m blocked by one account that I know of. It was a difference of opinion regarding a social outlook. I applied logic and fact, they went a whole other way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Naggers. Tossers. People who’s forum posts make me literally cringe. "

Add people who don’t understand the word no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have u blocked a fellow Fabber and what was the reason ??"

-Blank profiles sending random friends requests

-One line messages with 4 cock pics attached

-Won’t take no for an answer

-pestering messages, sending “???” When no reply within 2mins

-mail tennis with no intention to meet

-

It’s so painful how bad guys are on here once you become part of a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have u blocked a fellow Fabber and what was the reason ??"

Yes clingy stalker , never met her thank fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their profile pic made me want to spoon my eyes out. "

Seen a few of those in my time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their profile pic made me want to spoon my eyes out.

Sorry

You're forgiven now that you have your flower out "

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By *essandpatCouple
over a year ago

chester

Wasn't what I was looking for x

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Not many, a handful for abuse and a couple of counter blocks

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By *essandpatCouple
over a year ago

chester


"Wasn't what I was looking for x"

Kept mithering me to meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take your pick:

Clearly didn't read my profile

Freaky/wired requests

Clearly fake profile (thank you Google reverse)

The content of messages went rapidly from casual conversation to wired shit

Harrassing messages despite polite decline

Suspicion I knew the person outside fab (and they're an arrsehole)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their profile pic made me want to spoon my eyes out. "

Nicking this phrase!

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By *eather_Loves_SexWoman
over a year ago

Halfway Between London and Brighton


"I stopped counting at 100 on my blocked list

Honestly most of my blocking comes from people who send disrespectful first messages, clearly haven't read my profile at all, or repeatedly message when their message gets deleted (which as per fab guidelines means no thank you).

I don't suffer idiots, they just get an instant block

"

This and persistant people i don’t fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wasn't what I was looking for x

Kept mithering me to meet x"

Haven’t seen that word used in a very long time. Given the context I’m going with the welsh strain and not the Scottish one (mother) or the Norman derivative (self admiring).

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I block people who are abusive or can't take no for an answer - the people who message again and again even after you've said no thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have u blocked a fellow Fabber and what was the reason ??

-Blank profiles sending random friends requests

-One line messages with 4 cock pics attached

-Won’t take no for an answer

-pestering messages, sending “???” When no reply within 2mins

-mail tennis with no intention to meet

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It’s so painful how bad guys are on here once you become part of a couple. "

This!

Geeky x

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By *aggie and DanCouple
over a year ago

Swansea


"Have u blocked a fellow Fabber and what was the reason ??"

1.Being pestered despite a polite "No thanks"

2.Wanting to go bareback-not respecting our preference for staying alive...

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By *aggie and DanCouple
over a year ago

Swansea


"Have u blocked a fellow Fabber and what was the reason ??"

3. And fake profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block married people who are on here without their partner's knowledge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was an arsehole

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Have blocked because I get fedup of their profile updates. So block them and they wont appear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stopped counting at 100 on my blocked list

Honestly most of my blocking comes from people who send disrespectful first messages, clearly haven't read my profile at all, or repeatedly message when their message gets deleted (which as per fab guidelines means no thank you).

I don't suffer idoits, they just get an instant block

"

This

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By *essandpatCouple
over a year ago

chester


"Wasn't what I was looking for x

Kept mithering me to meet x

Haven’t seen that word used in a very long time. Given the context I’m going with the welsh strain and not the Scottish one (mother) or the Norman derivative (self admiring). "

(Scottish)

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Yep for several reasons:

Pushy,

rude on forums

Whiny attention seeking updates

Repeat messaging after we said ni ta.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fucking time wasters!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guy wanted to tell us about his session he just had with his sister ?? (profile cock pic) rolly eyes lol when I declined not my thing he just banged on about it.... blocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guy wanted to tell us about his session he just had with his sister ?? (profile cock pic) rolly eyes lol when I declined not my thing he just banged on about it.... blocked!"

I’ve had this!!! Had a guy ask me if I do anal...on behalf of his dog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guy wanted to tell us about his session he just had with his sister ?? (profile cock pic) rolly eyes lol when I declined not my thing he just banged on about it.... blocked!

I’ve had this!!! Had a guy ask me if I do anal...on behalf of his dog "

I mean wtf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aggressive.

Won't take no for an answer.

Not my type.

Let me down.

....there are probably more reasons, but these are the most common. I've blocked loads.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Guy wanted to tell us about his session he just had with his sister ?? (profile cock pic) rolly eyes lol when I declined not my thing he just banged on about it.... blocked!"

Ah, so it's not just us, had the exact same one twice in a week now.

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By *oneyBear100Couple
over a year ago

Gatwick area

Various reasons we block

People looking for something specific we can't/won't be (such as BBC)

When we open up to single males any that send just cock pics

People that have said 'not for us

Just sorts the chaff from the wheat when searching for a meet.

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By *essandpatCouple
over a year ago

chester

I got blocked by a guy for not being bi, dose say on profile that I don't play with other girls, (Jess) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to maintain privacy if I think it's compromised.

I have blocked a few who I thought were objectionable characters based on forum posts.

I'm sure I've been blocked for similar reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve blocked people for nasty messages and I’ve been blocked for not replying to messages... but they always send you a message to say your blocked first.. why?? haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guy wanted to tell us about his session he just had with his sister ?? (profile cock pic) rolly eyes lol when I declined not my thing he just banged on about it.... blocked!

I’ve had this!!! Had a guy ask me if I do anal...on behalf of his dog

I mean wtf "

was tempted to joke and ask what kind of dog (I have four dogs, I love dogs!) but I didn’t reply and he started telling me about all the women who have supposedly done it and filmed it for him....instant block and report

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far to many blocked for many reasons

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Far to many blocked for many reasons "

This....some just don't accept no for an answer.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

When they blocked me ive blocked back, have blocked one or two fuckwits for saying outrageously insulting stuff but mainly I use the note feature.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

????????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fake pictures,or pretending to be a couple.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thats very weird ...

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"Thats very weird ..."

Reply + quote button mate

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

My block list expands daily and the reasons are many and varied.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

My main reason for blocking is guys that think that because I’m here my legs should be open to them regardless of if I’m actually attracted to them or not

Self entitled wankers basically and believe me there’s plenty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their profile pic made me want to spoon my eyes out. "

It’s not that bad I have writing

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I agree with that statement!

My block list is a long one! One in particular that plays mind games.... my low tolerance level doesn’t allow for jealous peacocks either

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I stopped counting at 100 on my blocked list

Honestly most of my blocking comes from people who send disrespectful first messages, clearly haven't read my profile at all, or repeatedly message when their message gets deleted (which as per fab guidelines means no thank you).

I don't suffer idoits, they just get an instant block

"

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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Oh yes

My block list is 3 x bigger than my friends list lol

Instant block for

1....wanna fuck now (and similar messages)

2....sending a friend invite without messaging first - annoying, rude and clearly haven't read my profile.

3....Supposed cpl but only the guy is meeting(fake)

X

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Yes, thier values were so not aligned to ours.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"When they blocked me ive blocked back, have blocked one or two fuckwits for saying outrageously insulting stuff but mainly I use the note feature. "

No so much a block back but we use the notes to remind why we've been blocked. Only yesterday blocked because we didn't agree with a post, notes reads: didn't like we didn't agree with post, titty baby.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"When they blocked me ive blocked back, have blocked one or two fuckwits for saying outrageously insulting stuff but mainly I use the note feature.

No so much a block back but we use the notes to remind why we've been blocked. Only yesterday blocked because we didn't agree with a post, notes reads: didn't like we didn't agree with post, titty baby. "

Lol

I love the notes feature

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My block list is rather large and I add to it every day

I block people for various different reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block anyone who asks if I’ve blocked anyone .... they’re getting a little personal.

welcome back mister bee"

Haha. That’s just a rumour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guy wanted to tell us about his session he just had with his sister ?? (profile cock pic) rolly eyes lol when I declined not my thing he just banged on about it.... blocked!

I’ve had this!!! Had a guy ask me if I do anal...on behalf of his dog

I mean wtf

was tempted to joke and ask what kind of dog (I have four dogs, I love dogs!) but I didn’t reply and he started telling me about all the women who have supposedly done it and filmed it for him....instant block and report "

Sure he was a total fantasist! I hope haha

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

I blocked one guy cause he was a bit of a nutter. Keeps setting up couples profiles with different women and contacting me again..so strange, I mean why?

They are real profiles as well which I find stranger

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London

They do not read profiles.

I am not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I stated I’m straight and a guy wouldn’t listen

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Have u blocked a fellow Fabber and what was the reason ??"

I block between 3 and 10 daily x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have just blocked someone - they’ve sent persistently been messaging me for the last hour, even though my profile is clear in what I want. Why don’t some people just get the hint after their first message is deleted without being read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys asking to suck my cock aways get blocked..... says clearly on my profile that I'm not interested.... and i have filters.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I have blocked loads over the years I have been here.

Main reasons are, crude, abusive, pushy, constant messaging, I could go on, but people are blocked for a reason

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

Blocked loads mainly because they can't take no for an answer or haven't read my profile. Why try to strike up a conversation with someone who obviously isn't interested in chatting or meeting with you, I can only imagine they think you won't recognise them from previous attempts lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

- We've made contact and they're not interested, or I'm not. It keeps them out of my searches and prevents further pointless and possibly annoying exchanges. Sometimes it's just profiles I look at and decide they aren't for me and want them out of my searches.

They are the vast majority. The remaining few are

- People who can't even spare a few minutes to read a profile and send some naff cliched one liner like "what u into?"

- People who can't take a polite no thanks, without launching into a stream of abuse

- People who creep me out

- Assorted idiots who piss me off in other ways

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

Many many reasons for blocking, the list is huge!

The most recent was a couple who say on their profile that they insist on receiving a pic with a fist message and warn that they will block those who do not comply. They have no public pics and when they contacted us they did not send a pic as they ask others to do.

Can’t stand hypocrites!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rude people

People who reply Hello after sending the original message saying hello and me messaging saying Hi thanks for your message... clearly have nothing to say so get blocked

Men who send a message simply saying ... fuck today?

Women who are clearly men or couples who are clearly just men

And tbh, people if the conversation runs dry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes abusive and nasty

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

If a person replies saying I’m not for them i send them a Happy Fabbing message then I block then. It’s not because of bruised ego but because I don’t want the embarrassment of messaging them again in another six months.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a person replies saying I’m not for them i send them a Happy Fabbing message then I block then. It’s not because of bruised ego but because I don’t want the embarrassment of messaging them again in another six months. "

Haha d*unk and no recollection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block twats. Mostly those who send pervy messages or won't take no for an answer.

I used to counter-block people who blocked me but then I realised I don't care.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham


"they kept looking at me and having indirect digs at my birthplace "

What for being a Scouser, I heard somewhere that you need Scousers to cheer people up. As no matter what is happening, a Scouser will see the funny side of things.

As for blocking people, loads of reasons.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne


"Have u blocked a fellow Fabber and what was the reason ??"

Many, many reasons. Didn't like the look of them from their photos, we were not in their age range. Been turned down, not reading our profile and sending a friends request. Just being in a mood and getting send a rude email and even blocked a few because of what they have posted on the forum it really does depend.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Usually cause i think their a telwst in some form

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a person replies saying I’m not for them i send them a Happy Fabbing message then I block then. It’s not because of bruised ego but because I don’t want the embarrassment of messaging them again in another six months.

Haha d*unk and no recollection "

Do you do that often

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"My main reason for blocking is guys that think that because I’m here my legs should be open to them regardless of if I’m actually attracted to them or not

Self entitled wankers basically and believe me there’s plenty "

Totally agree on this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block anyone I,m not interested in meeting and anyone rude. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More times than I care to remember and for many different reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a person replies saying I’m not for them i send them a Happy Fabbing message then I block then. It’s not because of bruised ego but because I don’t want the embarrassment of messaging them again in another six months.

Haha d*unk and no recollection

I can’t recollect haha

Do you do that often "

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By *alking DisasterWoman
over a year ago

South Oxfordshire


"I block twats. Mostly those who send pervy messages or won't take no for an answer.

I used to counter-block people who blocked me but then I realised I don't care. "

Unless someone tells you, how do you know if you've been blocked?

I know the message comes up if you have been, but only if you click on their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, I don't block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block twats. Mostly those who send pervy messages or won't take no for an answer.

I used to counter-block people who blocked me but then I realised I don't care.

Unless someone tells you, how do you know if you've been blocked?

I know the message comes up if you have been, but only if you click on their profile."

That's the only way you know unless they do tell you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a person replies saying I’m not for them i send them a Happy Fabbing message then I block then. It’s not because of bruised ego but because I don’t want the embarrassment of messaging them again in another six months.

Haha d*unk and no recollection

I can’t recollect haha

Do you do that often "

Smooth haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a person replies saying I’m not for them i send them a Happy Fabbing message then I block then. It’s not because of bruised ego but because I don’t want the embarrassment of messaging them again in another six months.

Haha d*unk and no recollection

I can’t recollect haha

Do you do that often

Smooth haha"

Thank you x

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

I have blocked for the following reasons:

1. Guys messaging from a couples profile asking that I play bi.

2. People who put up status updates that put me off them.

3. Profiles that when I open pics really really put me off them for some reason (some things can never be unseen)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reason:

Disrespect

Stalker type

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody text talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have. The one's that are abusive, the one's who keep sending the same message, the ones that send several different messages b4 you get to read any.

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

I block often, you get to act rude only once.

And If they just don't take no thank you and message constantly.

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By *ong legs n LingeireWoman
over a year ago

it up to me neck. :-)

Lots blocked for different reasons.

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

Some block because they can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes he was really rude when I said no thank you.

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

Not many this time..but requests for bareback..white powder...or trolling in the forums were always my main reasons

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Usually men for being stupid

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block when people are rude or abusive on a personal level either here or privately

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

The last was yesterday when we were messaged asking if it was Mrs on the platform at new street station waiting for a specific train!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only ever block when I’ve deleted like 50 times and politely told them no and they still keep sending

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The last was yesterday when we were messaged asking if it was Mrs on the platform at new street station waiting for a specific train! "

Haha now I wonder if it was Mrs ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rude or abusive or send me the same message every few weeks

And when mother nature's around I have no patience and block anyone and everyone

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Think we're going have to. Received a nice message yesterday so replied, thanks but not meeting, good luck blah blah. Since received lots of graphic messages about what he would like to do, eight so far without reply. Best thing is I usually just block off the bat but with his initial message being so nice; just thought if he enjoys the pics let him get on with it but it's a bit irritating now. Hmmmm

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By *nked_DemonWoman
over a year ago

near Cardiff

I only take action to block Fabbers if they are offensive and/or make pests of themselves with multiple messages despite being asked to stop. I’d rather talk to someone and ask them to leave off than block immediately

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By *nked_DemonWoman
over a year ago

near Cardiff


"Rude or abusive or send me the same message every few weeks

And when mother nature's around I have no patience and block anyone and everyone "

lol love it!

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire


"The last was yesterday when we were messaged asking if it was Mrs on the platform at new street station waiting for a specific train!

Haha now I wonder if it was Mrs ? "

Ha ha might have been but then again it might not have been her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few, all single guys I think! First wink or message gets a polite “thanks but not interested in guys”, anything after that gets blocked!

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I only block if I get hassle via message.

Blocking someone on the forums for an opinion unless it’s straight up nasty is the equivalent of picking your ball up and taking it home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a few, all single guys I think! First wink or message gets a polite “thanks but not interested in guys”, anything after that gets blocked!"

You know if you change your message filters, men wouldn’t be able to message you right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only block if I get hassle via message.

Blocking someone on the forums for an opinion unless it’s straight up nasty is the equivalent of picking your ball up and taking it home. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only take action to block Fabbers if they are offensive and/or make pests of themselves with multiple messages despite being asked to stop. I’d rather talk to someone and ask them to leave off than block immediately"

That's the adult thing to do.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod

over a year ago

My Own Little World

I have 100s on my block list for many different reasons, ranging from stopping their irritating pics or status updates appearing on my home page to them keep mailing the same C&P message over and over and getting shitty when I tell them no thanks.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Not listening, constant needy or abusive messages. It used to be rare for me to block but these days the block button is my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a few, all single guys I think! First wink or message gets a polite “thanks but not interested in guys”, anything after that gets blocked!

You know if you change your message filters, men wouldn’t be able to message you right?"

I’ve had a few messages from single guys with FBs who want another guy for MMF so I keep it open just in case!

I don’t get enough messages to make it a hassle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another one on the list this morning. I get so totally pissed of when idiots ask "Are you dressed today?" or "Have you been out dressed much" or whatever variation on that. Read the fucking profile!! Grrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I stopped counting at 100 on my blocked list

Honestly most of my blocking comes from people who send disrespectful first messages, clearly haven't read my profile at all, or repeatedly message when their message gets deleted (which as per fab guidelines means no thank you).

I don't suffer idoits, they just get an instant block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they don't take no for an answer and just keep messaging. I try to be polite and reply to people when they've written a decent message, but one worders do nothing for me. Blocking saves me wasting my time with fucktards

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By *iker BullMan
over a year ago

leeds

Had to bloc single females for a while,just couldn't keep up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i block the people who are not interested in meeting me or dont reply... saves me wasting there time again and mine

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

??????????

yup ....know the feelin ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep again today. Best folder on here for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i block the people who are not interested in meeting me or dont reply... saves me wasting there time again and mine "

This...main reason for blocking. It's a huge time saver.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you need a reason?

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Have u blocked a fellow Fabber and what was the reason ??"

Because I can

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

Yeah, loads this time round. Mainly for messaging a few weeks later after I've politely said no.

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