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Found an ex on here help!!!

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By *ummerof92 OP   Man
over a year ago

runcorn

Hey guys found an old ex on here the other day was tempted to message her but haven’t had the guts yet it ended amicably just after some advice thanks in advance.

Should ex’s stay ex’s ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're ex's for a reason. Sensible people don't go back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys found an old ex on here the other day was tempted to message her but haven’t had the guts yet it ended amicably just after some advice thanks in advance.

Should ex’s stay ex’s ????"

Best block. Nothing good ever comes out of contacting an ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it ended well, why not contacting her.

Not necessarily to make a move but just to say hello to her

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Once a door closes .... leave it closed ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys found an old ex on here the other day was tempted to message her but haven’t had the guts yet it ended amicably just after some advice thanks in advance.

Should ex’s stay ex’s ????

Best block. Nothing good ever comes out of contacting an ex"

What she said ^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it ended well, why not contacting her.

Not necessarily to make a move but just to say hello to her"

Bad advice ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t see the harm if it ended well, I still sleep with ex’s even when it ended badly but if they’re a good ride what can you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it ended well, why not contacting her.

Not necessarily to make a move but just to say hello to her

Bad advice ...... "

Depends on how they ended up tbh. If they both took different paths and choose ot would be best to separate...I don't see why a simple hello would be bad.

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

What's the worst that could happen.....A block from her.

I suppose a lot would depend if you are still speaking away from here. If you are and still friendly, then I don't think you should contact her on here. It may just cause divisions in your amicable friendship.

The decision though is solely in your hands. No one here knows either you or knows how close your friendship is. Take care, xxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t see the harm if it ended well, I still sleep with ex’s even when it ended badly but if they’re a good ride what can you do "

Nothing wrong with an emergency roll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you've spotted her she may well have spotted you. Was the sex any good? Only you can know if you should contact her or not. So man up and make your own decision. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why would you want to get in touch with her in here?

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By *ummerof92 OP   Man
over a year ago

runcorn


"Don’t see the harm if it ended well, I still sleep with ex’s even when it ended badly but if they’re a good ride what can you do "

I see where your coming from I seen her and all these memories started popping back up she definitely knew how to handle it aswell

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By *ummerof92 OP   Man
over a year ago

runcorn


"If you've spotted her she may well have spotted you. Was the sex any good? Only you can know if you should contact her or not. So man up and make your own decision. XXX"

I’m going to now will keep you guys updated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only you can make the decision based on the circumstances. Personally, for me, an ex is an ex for a reason and I don't believe in going backwards. Do whatever makes you happy, not hurt x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

If I saw an ex on here I'd block and forget them. If I still harboured feelings I'd contact them away from Fab.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"why would you want to get in touch with her in here? "

Think that's my point.

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By *essandpatCouple
over a year ago

chester


"Hey guys found an old ex on here the other day was tempted to message her but haven’t had the guts yet it ended amicably just after some advice thanks in advance.

Should ex’s stay ex’s ????"

My ex husbands brother found me wasn't sure how to take that as he's Really im to me X

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yep, I'd leave well alone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys found an old ex on here the other day was tempted to message her but haven’t had the guts yet it ended amicably just after some advice thanks in advance.

Should ex’s stay ex’s ????"

Cant she be an ex and a fb?

Maybe you could become a swinging couple

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By *auren001Woman
over a year ago

birmingham


"Hey guys found an old ex on here the other day was tempted to message her but haven’t had the guts yet it ended amicably just after some advice thanks in advance.

Should ex’s stay ex’s ????"

This happened to me very recently, I messaged. Didn’t end well and there was no animosity between us. Wish I’d have blocked, moved on and kept the good memories

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By *ummerof92 OP   Man
over a year ago

runcorn


"Hey guys found an old ex on here the other day was tempted to message her but haven’t had the guts yet it ended amicably just after some advice thanks in advance.

Should ex’s stay ex’s ????

My ex husbands brother found me wasn't sure how to take that as he's Really im to me X"

What has happened recently? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would run a mile in the opposite way.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

My ex is on Here. I’d give anything to fuck him again as the sex was terrific. I don’t see him having the same feelings tbh and I know it should stay a ‘fantasy’ or whatever the hell you’d call it.

Ps. Did message him a while ago and he gave me it both barrels so that was me told lol

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

Block them. My ex-husband is on here but I block & ignore them. Every now & then I unblock them so I can block everyone who has verified them then block again.

B x

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

You don't need to read the same book twice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys found an old ex on here the other day was tempted to message her but haven’t had the guts yet it ended amicably just after some advice thanks in advance.

Should ex’s stay ex’s ????

Cant she be an ex and a fb?

Maybe you could become a swinging couple"

I can't imagine anything worse than meeting a couple who are fwbs and also exes! To many emotions there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see the harm in a message personally, paricularly if the split was amicable amd there are no supressed emotions.

But playing with them is probably a recipe for disaster

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By *elsosreyxCouple
over a year ago

Southminster


"Once a door closes .... leave it closed ... "

Unless it the only way in and out, because you will be stuck if you dont open it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know it's her as most profiles without face pics give very little away?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So did you text her in the end ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t see the harm if it ended well, I still sleep with ex’s even when it ended badly but if they’re a good ride what can you do "

I've been back with the same ex about 4 times now and I would again.

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By *ummerof92 OP   Man
over a year ago

runcorn

Yes just chatted for a little and exchanged new numbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes just chatted for a little and exchanged new numbers "

Well done dear chap hope your friendship grows .

I have had a similar experience

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your on here , why shouldnt she be ..

leave her to enjoy herself ....

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By *ummerof92 OP   Man
over a year ago

runcorn


"your on here , why shouldnt she be ..

leave her to enjoy herself ...."

Don’t know where I said she shouldn’t be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your on here , why shouldnt she be ..

leave her to enjoy herself ....

Don’t know where I said she shouldn’t be "

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