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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who else has had it where you are messaging someone and they say they want to meet.

Messages go back and forth a little bit no date gets set but they keep statusing (if that’s even a word) “looking for a meet .... anyone want to meet... etc”. It’s happened to me and a couple I know as well. Anyone else had this nonsense ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock teases.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"Anyone else had this nonsense?"
Do you expect them to be exclusive to you? When you haven’t even set a date, let alone met? On a swinging website?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone else had this nonsense?Do you expect them to be exclusive to you? When you haven’t even set a date, let alone met? On a swinging website?"

Sigh

No who said that . Read the post again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone else had this nonsense?Do you expect them to be exclusive to you? When you haven’t even set a date, let alone met? On a swinging website?"

And I’m talking about a social meet or any other kind. If you say you want to meet and they say yes let’s set it up why then not do it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably just dangling a carrot with no real intention of meeting you. Why not stop messaging them and see if they still instigate messaging you. Then you’ll know.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Have you suggested a date? If I suggest a particular date and time and the person doesn't get back to me, they'd be off my chat list at least then you know.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

It doesn't sound like theyre hugely enthusiastic about meeting I'd move on.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Is it a woman. In truth probably forgot what she’s arranged she’s had that many messages x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it a woman. In truth probably forgot what she’s arranged she’s had that many messages x"

That’s prob a good explanation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It doesn't sound like theyre hugely enthusiastic about meeting I'd move on. "

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you suggested a date? If I suggest a particular date and time and the person doesn't get back to me, they'd be off my chat list at least then you know. "

That’s another good idea !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who else has had it where you are messaging someone and they say they want to meet.

Messages go back and forth a little bit no date gets set but they keep statusing (if that’s even a word) “looking for a meet .... anyone want to meet... etc”. It’s happened to me and a couple I know as well. Anyone else had this nonsense ? "

All the time it's all I get these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a woman. In truth probably forgot what she’s arranged she’s had that many messages x"

this, it’s happened to me on more than one occasion when a women id arranged to meet, completely forgot about it cause she was getting bombarded the few days before our arranged meet, needless to say, i’ve not bothered to try again with her, she’s in high demand and i just can’t be arsed conpeting with guys you get and fitter than myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a woman. In truth probably forgot what she’s arranged she’s had that many messages x

this, it’s happened to me on more than one occasion when a women id arranged to meet, completely forgot about it cause she was getting bombarded the few days before our arranged meet, needless to say, i’ve not bothered to try again with her, she’s in high demand and i just can’t be arsed conpeting with guys you get and fitter than myself."

. I'll have to remember that as my next excuse!!!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Is it a woman. In truth probably forgot what she’s arranged she’s had that many messages x"

If she was into him she wouldn't have forgotten.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"It doesn't sound like theyre hugely enthusiastic about meeting I'd move on. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it a woman. In truth probably forgot what she’s arranged she’s had that many messages x

this, it’s happened to me on more than one occasion when a women id arranged to meet, completely forgot about it cause she was getting bombarded the few days before our arranged meet, needless to say, i’ve not bothered to try again with her, she’s in high demand and i just can’t be arsed conpeting with guys you get and fitter than myself.

. I'll have to remember that as my next excuse!!!"

That will be a new excuse for the next few weeks on dab hahaha

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Is it a woman. In truth probably forgot what she’s arranged she’s had that many messages x

If she was into him she wouldn't have forgotten."

True that. I’d just send a reminder OP and say ‘I’m free to meet’ if ur still up for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a woman. In truth probably forgot what she’s arranged she’s had that many messages x

If she was into him she wouldn't have forgotten.

True that. I’d just send a reminder OP and say ‘I’m free to meet’ if ur still up for it. "

Exactly.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Is it a woman. In truth probably forgot what she’s arranged she’s had that many messages x

If she was into him she wouldn't have forgotten.

True that. I’d just send a reminder OP and say ‘I’m free to meet’ if ur still up for it. "

I wouldn't bother op she forgot about you. Smiley face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it a woman. In truth probably forgot what she’s arranged she’s had that many messages x

this, it’s happened to me on more than one occasion when a women id arranged to meet, completely forgot about it cause she was getting bombarded the few days before our arranged meet, needless to say, i’ve not bothered to try again with her, she’s in high demand and i just can’t be arsed conpeting with guys you get and fitter than myself.

. I'll have to remember that as my next excuse!!!"

remember you can only do it once, second time round the guy gets on to the fact that you’re not interested in meeting anymore but don’t know how to tell them

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By *aggie and DanCouple
over a year ago

Swansea


"Who else has had it where you are messaging someone and they say they want to meet.

Messages go back and forth a little bit no date gets set but they keep statusing (if that’s even a word) “looking for a meet .... anyone want to meet... etc”. It’s happened to me and a couple I know as well. Anyone else had this nonsense ? "

Yep-too often, so we opted for club meets only

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"Who else has had it where you are messaging someone and they say they want to meet.

Messages go back and forth a little bit no date gets set but they keep statusing (if that’s even a word) “looking for a meet .... anyone want to meet... etc”. It’s happened to me and a couple I know as well. Anyone else had this nonsense ? "

Have you suggested times, dates, placesvto meet or are you sitting back waiting for them to organise it?

Try it... if they keep making excuses not to meet they are not that keen and you can move on.

Although really even if you are in conversation pending meeting I dont see why you shouldnt continue looking and chatting elsewhrere.

Dont put all your eggs in one basket.

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By *cceptedKinkMan
over a year ago

Coventry

We've had some very hot chats only for the penultimate message to be "I will have to see what she says when she gets in" or "when I get home" only to find the lady from Del Humpy says "no" - Damned frustrating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it a woman. In truth probably forgot what she’s arranged she’s had that many messages x

If she was into him she wouldn't have forgotten.

True that. I’d just send a reminder OP and say ‘I’m free to meet’ if ur still up for it.

I wouldn't bother op she forgot about you. Smiley face. "

I’m crying right now....

I just haven’t got what it takes

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