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"He did skid a fucking long way on his face." don't think he'd have managed a smile after it though | |||
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"It was Rossi fault" How did you work that out.... ? You must have been watching a different crash to me. Cali | |||
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"It was Rossi fault" It was a tragic and unnavoidable accident. Nobody is at fault. | |||
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"It was Rossi fault It was a tragic and unnavoidable accident. Nobody is at fault." You're right you cant attribute blame. They all know its a dangerous sport its just a tragic outcome. ![]() | |||
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"It was Rossi fault" It was a tragic racing accident, no one is to blame. It looked like Marco was trying to stop the bike low siding, when he appears to loose control and swerves in front of Rossi and Edwards. My thoughts are not only with Simoncelli but also with Colin Edwards who judging by the footage I saw must be in complete shock | |||
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"It was Rossi fault" How the hell do you work that one out. Marco lost control and fell into the path of Edwards and then Rossi. A tragic accident! RIP Marco, a great racer and a larger than life personality. MOTO GP need more riders like Marco, he will be a great loss. | |||
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"Don't know who he was....but his pizzas are lovely and so glad that Asda decided to keep them on their shelves. Balsamic Cherry Tomatoes and Motzerella my particular fave....." a man has lost his life.. Show some respect... Cali | |||
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"Don't know who he was....but his pizzas are lovely and so glad that Asda decided to keep them on their shelves. Balsamic Cherry Tomatoes and Motzerella my particular fave..... a man has lost his life.. Show some respect... Cali " I respect his pizzas.... | |||
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" I respect his pizzas...." any further words would be lost on you.. but to say I am stunned at such disrespect for someone that was a great talent has me almost speechless.. I have re written this three times so as not to get myself banned.. Cali | |||
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"Don't know who he was....but his pizzas are lovely and so glad that Asda decided to keep them on their shelves. Balsamic Cherry Tomatoes and Motzerella my particular fave..... a man has lost his life.. Show some respect... Cali I respect his pizzas...." Sorry Jane, but you have complained before of people being flippant on serious discussions you have been in on threads, and I have agreed with you and others most of the time and sorted it....so for you to do it now is not good. ![]() | |||
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" I respect his pizzas.... any further words would be lost on you.. but to say I am stunned at such disrespect for someone that was a great talent has me almost speechless.. I have re written this three times so as not to get myself banned.. Cali " You'll get over it....maybe while you are showing such public outpouring of respect you could show some for the 21 year old Indian Gurkha killed serving this country in a dirty field in Afghanistan this week? Or do you just save your 'respect' for those who we are expected to see as more famous and more worthy? That's the problem....the 'famous' are seen to be more worthy than the ordinary troops that are killed every week serving this country. So if you don't mind....I'll keep my 'respect' and grieving private rather than posting it on a forum on a swingers website.... It would be lost on many on here anyway, as it doesn't involve someone 'famous'. | |||
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"Don't know who he was....but his pizzas are lovely and so glad that Asda decided to keep them on their shelves. Balsamic Cherry Tomatoes and Motzerella my particular fave..... a man has lost his life.. Show some respect... Cali I respect his pizzas.... Sorry Jane, but you have complained before of people being flippant on serious discussions you have been in on threads, and I have agreed with you and others most of the time and sorted it....so for you to do it now is not good. ![]() I reserve my respect for those I deem to be worthy of it....a sportsman who means nothing to me isn't in that catagory. | |||
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" I respect his pizzas.... any further words would be lost on you.. but to say I am stunned at such disrespect for someone that was a great talent has me almost speechless.. I have re written this three times so as not to get myself banned.. Cali " +1 the level of disrespect is appalling | |||
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" I respect his pizzas.... any further words would be lost on you.. but to say I am stunned at such disrespect for someone that was a great talent has me almost speechless.. I have re written this three times so as not to get myself banned.. Cali You'll get over it....maybe while you are showing such public outpouring of respect you could show some for the 21 year old Indian Gurkha killed serving this country in a dirty field in Afghanistan this week? Or do you just save your 'respect' for those who we are expected to see as more famous and more worthy? That's the problem....the 'famous' are seen to be more worthy than the ordinary troops that are killed every week serving this country. So if you don't mind....I'll keep my 'respect' and grieving private rather than posting it on a forum on a swingers website.... It would be lost on many on here anyway, as it doesn't involve someone 'famous'." if you want to redress the balance then start your own thread about the young man, dont go trouncing all over a tread that is here to alow fans of this man to show their respects - the 'post new topic' link should work on your computer to ![]() | |||
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"I've never understood why some people 'ration' grief. I can feel grief for the starving in Somalia, and the little girl in China, and the victims of the Japanese tsunami, and the soldiers fighting abroad, and two racing drivers who died in horrific accidents this week. Saying that someone is not worthy of grief just because they are famous is missing the point. The people close to them are grieving just as the soldiers family is grieving. Death is a risk in motorsport, fighting wars abroad, and living in an earthquake zone. No-one 'deserves' grief more or less than others. Someone has died, and respecting the dead is something we do." Very well said. | |||
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"Don't know who he was....but his pizzas are lovely and so glad that Asda decided to keep them on their shelves. Balsamic Cherry Tomatoes and Motzerella my particular fave..... a man has lost his life.. Show some respect... Cali I respect his pizzas.... Sorry Jane, but you have complained before of people being flippant on serious discussions you have been in on threads, and I have agreed with you and others most of the time and sorted it....so for you to do it now is not good. ![]() Thats not what I said. | |||
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"Anyway back to the topic. Sadly we hear of people all the time who die too young, it is sad whatever they do in their life, and very sad for their families left behind. " . Concur. My late partner's son recently died while serving his country. Although there was no love loss between us, it was still very sad to hear about his passing, and for those whom he left behind. ![]() | |||
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"fuckin tragic. He was the one that provided the entertainment to a poor season. I knew it was bad when his lid was rollin around. He was a star of the future no doubt. r.i.p marco. Hope he's lappin in the afterworld swappin paint." I am sure that there are going to be some epic races in the afterworld.. after all many greats are there.. Its one of the few racing accidents I was totally stunned by.. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Then why waste your time making such a big point of not caring? Nothing nice to say and all that... ![]() Just woke up to this news and i actually thought it would not get a mention in here, was nice to see,but then i scrolled down to the section that you can only class as the "if you have nothing nice to say"section, unbelievable ! He made the sport extra exciting, watched many riders with that style and eager to against all the technical odds, winning attitude, Nori Haga for example, its all they know,what separates us from them, the bravery and skill to do that week after week,that can easily be applied to soldiers too,very brave and again something i certainly could not do, because im this mere member of the public who has no right to say who deserves my sympathy, but they automatically do. | |||
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"fuckin tragic. He was the one that provided the entertainment to a poor season. I knew it was bad when his lid was rollin around. He was a star of the future no doubt. r.i.p marco. Hope he's lappin in the afterworld swappin paint. I am sure that there are going to be some epic races in the afterworld.. after all many greats are there.. Its one of the few racing accidents I was totally stunned by.. ![]() ![]() I believe Edwards was receiving treatment to his dislocated shoulder and was sedated so we won't hear from him just yet. I imagine Vale is in a real bad way mentally right now. My sympathy is with both of those guys also. | |||
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"I've never understood why some people 'ration' grief. I can feel grief for the starving in Somalia, and the little girl in China, and the victims of the Japanese tsunami, and the soldiers fighting abroad, and two racing drivers who died in horrific accidents this week. Saying that someone is not worthy of grief just because they are famous is missing the point. The people close to them are grieving just as the soldiers family is grieving. Death is a risk in motorsport, fighting wars abroad, and living in an earthquake zone. No-one 'deserves' grief more or less than others. Someone has died, and respecting the dead is something we do." +1 As others have said marco was the rider of the year if not the last 2 for me. He was a born and bred racer always pushing Also he had some crazy hair lol. Can't beieve he has gone. RIP 58 | |||
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" I respect his pizzas.... any further words would be lost on you.. but to say I am stunned at such disrespect for someone that was a great talent has me almost speechless.. I have re written this three times so as not to get myself banned.. Cali You'll get over it....maybe while you are showing such public outpouring of respect you could show some for the 21 year old Indian Gurkha killed serving this country in a dirty field in Afghanistan this week? Or do you just save your 'respect' for those who we are expected to see as more famous and more worthy? That's the problem....the 'famous' are seen to be more worthy than the ordinary troops that are killed every week serving this country. So if you don't mind....I'll keep my 'respect' and grieving private rather than posting it on a forum on a swingers website.... It would be lost on many on here anyway, as it doesn't involve someone 'famous'." +1 sorry,outpourings of emotions for strangers because they are famous turns my stomach. Tonight there are people grieving for family members,famous and non famous,they all share the same emotions,because one happened on tv does not make it worthy of respect or greater attention. | |||
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" sorry,outpourings of emotions for strangers because they are famous turns my stomach. Tonight there are people grieving for family members,famous and non famous,they all share the same emotions,because one happened on tv does not make it worthy of respect or greater attention." Oh my god, how bitter and twisted do you have to be to lose all emotional respect for someones passing just because they are famous? By using your twisted sick logic we should now not care about the ghurka previously mentioned because he has now been mentioned in a public forum so to an extent now has a level of fame attached to him. At no point has ANYONE said that people are more worthy of our respect simply because they are famous. Outside of friends and family, people are affected by events / people that are important to them. You seem to fail to understand that people may be upset about this persons death because of their respect for him, their admiration for his ability, their understanding of what he does away from the track. You know, things that make humans make a connection with another human being. Just because he became famous does not suddenly invalidate any respect people may have had for him before his fame or since his fame. To think that people are only bothered about Marcos passing because he was famous says a hell of a lot more about you as a very very sad and insecure and bitter human being than it ever will about the people who admired and respected him. | |||
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" sorry,outpourings of emotions for strangers because they are famous turns my stomach. Tonight there are people grieving for family members,famous and non famous,they all share the same emotions,because one happened on tv does not make it worthy of respect or greater attention. Oh my god, how bitter and twisted do you have to be to lose all emotional respect for someones passing just because they are famous? By using your twisted sick logic we should now not care about the ghurka previously mentioned because he has now been mentioned in a public forum so to an extent now has a level of fame attached to him. At no point has ANYONE said that people are more worthy of our respect simply because they are famous. Outside of friends and family, people are affected by events / people that are important to them. You seem to fail to understand that people may be upset about this persons death because of their respect for him, their admiration for his ability, their understanding of what he does away from the track. You know, things that make humans make a connection with another human being. Just because he became famous does not suddenly invalidate any respect people may have had for him before his fame or since his fame. To think that people are only bothered about Marcos passing because he was famous says a hell of a lot more about you as a very very sad and insecure and bitter human being than it ever will about the people who admired and respected him." ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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" Can we keep personal abuse out of this please.... " You should have thought about that before you told people that their genuine emotions turned your stomach and made you sick. | |||
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"wouldnt be surprised if rossi or edwards pack in motogp after that fucking horrendous to watch. brings a tear to the eye" I was actually thinking the same.. ![]() | |||
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" Can we keep personal abuse out of this please.... You should have thought about that before you told people that their genuine emotions turned your stomach and made you sick." Where did i personally attack anyone...i felt the same about jade goody and princess diana.i cannot see that it is emotionally healthy to project emotions onto people because they are famous. i also said all grief by family members is suffering,but by trying to claim that suffering as our own we are behaving n a manner that is close to rubbernecking.Wallowing in emotions that properly belong to friends and family of the deceased.This has been described as grief tourism,and many psychologists share my view that it is a sign of the cognitive dissonance of modern society. How many of the people grieving here will visit their widowed elderly neighbour,make an effort to visit a bereaved person,and how many will cross the street because death makes them uncomfortable and "they dont know what to say" It is the gap between cyber tributes and real life actions that turns my stomach.1000 people are dead in turkey,i have been on the phone twice tonight,one as part of a prayer chain,the other in conversation with the local red cross representative,as their is an emergency appeal being planned. i save my emotional energy and thus remain unbitter,untwisted and mentally aware of where my emotions come from. | |||
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" Where did i personally attack anyone... i also said all grief by family members is suffering,but by trying to claim that suffering as our own we are behaving n a manner that is close to rubbernecking.Wallowing in emotions that properly belong to friends and family of the deceased.This has been described as grief tourism,and many psychologists share my view that it is a sign of the cognitive dissonance of modern society. How many of the people grieving here will visit their widowed elderly neighbour,make an effort to visit a bereaved person,and how many will cross the street because death makes them uncomfortable and "they dont know what to say" It is the gap between cyber tributes and real life actions that turns my stomach.1000 people are dead in turkey,i have been on the phone twice tonight,one as part of a prayer chain,the other in conversation with the local red cross representative,as their is an emergency appeal being planned. i save my emotional energy and thus remain unbitter,untwisted and mentally aware of where my emotions come from." Its the fact that you have judged the people in this post and measured (by your own perspectives) the value and genuine feeling of their sadness at this loss. The general dismissing of their sadness as cyber tributes, and the implication that they do not care about anyone other than famous people, that says a lot about you. To then feel the need to state that your feelings of emotion are more genuine and that you have personally been on the phone twice this evening (as if to prove that you REALLY care, whereas we are all bathing in public outpourings of cyber emotion). To me, the fact that you need to express your more meaningful emotional response is actually the shallowest statement of it all. A prayer chain... bet thats really helping the Turkish people right now... | |||
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"There is no weeping / wailing/ people saying that they are overcome with grief / black armbands or laying of flowers. All I saw on this thread is people saying what a waste of life and how sad for someone so young to die. Why can't people think it sad that someone has lost their life so young/ tragically? Even if you didn't know the person, it is still sad....just like it is sad about the Ghurka who no one knew personally. I really don't know why these type of threads end up this way. What is sad though, is you can't even have a thread like this go the way it is was intended which was to say something was very sad without it causing a ruck and point scoring. ![]() Amen Ruggers x | |||
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"It was Rossi fault" how was it rossi,s fault..marco slid into colin then rossi. blaming people for what was a tragic accident is disgusting and you should be ashamed of your self.. | |||
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"There is no weeping / wailing/ people saying that they are overcome with grief / black armbands or laying of flowers. All I saw on this thread is people saying what a waste of life and how sad for someone so young to die. Why can't people think it sad that someone has lost their life so young/ tragically? Even if you didn't know the person, it is still sad....just like it is sad about the Ghurka who no one knew personally. I really don't know why these type of threads end up this way. What is sad though, is you can't even have a thread like this go the way it is was intended which was to say something was very sad without it causing a ruck and point scoring. ![]() I'm not sure if you're addressing what I've said. I think we may be at cross purposes, but I think it's fair to say that I have more faith in a prayer chain doing some good than people telling strangers in an internet forum that they hope someone who is dead will rest in peace, whatever that means. I'll say this. If you say that the death of a racer in a crash is a waste of a life, you have a serious problem with racing, because death is as natural and integral to racing as the pleasures of victory. If you choose to be a racer, you are choosing to accept that you might die. Does that mean that racing is a waste of your life? | |||
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"I am as a fan, shocked by the accident that we saw this morning! Yes I said shocked!! Nothing to do with fame but has everything to do with ability and the way I felt about the guy! I am also saddened by the way some on here who are always saying that they don't judge, have judged anyone who has shown grief at the passing of a talented young man! Another reason it is so difficult to take in is the way it happened and the fact that deaths in Moto GP are a rare occurence.. Quite frankly, one of them I am not surprised about but I did kinda think that another one was better than that even though we don't always see eye to eye and have "crossed swords" on here.. For shame.. ![]() What does 'For shame' mean? | |||
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" because death is as natural and integral to racing as the pleasures of victory. If you choose to be a racer, you are choosing to accept that you might die. Does that mean that racing is a waste of your life?" It is not natural and integral to racing. It is a risk that everyone accepts, but it will never be natural and integral. It is one aspect of racing that will never EVER come naturally to racing and will never ever be viewed as integral. In fact, I would say most (if not all) people involved in any form of motor sport will say it the LEAST integral part of motorsport that anyone could think of. | |||
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"There is no weeping / wailing/ people saying that they are overcome with grief / black armbands or laying of flowers. All I saw on this thread is people saying what a waste of life and how sad for someone so young to die. Why can't people think it sad that someone has lost their life so young/ tragically? Even if you didn't know the person, it is still sad....just like it is sad about the Ghurka who no one knew personally. I really don't know why these type of threads end up this way. What is sad though, is you can't even have a thread like this go the way it is was intended which was to say something was very sad without it causing a ruck and point scoring. ![]() Not got a clue what the hell you are on about and won't try to be honest. What I do know is... I know nothing about bike racing, I am not a fan, I know nothing about the man who died...so I can't answer the questions that you are asking. | |||
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" because death is as natural and integral to racing as the pleasures of victory. If you choose to be a racer, you are choosing to accept that you might die. Does that mean that racing is a waste of your life? It is not natural and integral to racing. It is a risk that everyone accepts, but it will never be natural and integral. It is one aspect of racing that will never EVER come naturally to racing and will never ever be viewed as integral. In fact, I would say most (if not all) people involved in any form of motor sport will say it the LEAST integral part of motorsport that anyone could think of." You're entitled to your opinion. It's nice to see you;re so sure of it that you can treat me as someone not involved in any form of motorsport since I've dared to disagree with you. | |||
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" You're entitled to your opinion. It's nice to see you;re so sure of it that you can treat me as someone not involved in any form of motorsport since I've dared to disagree with you." Im not saying you arent involved in motorsport, and if thats how it came across then I apologise. I am saying that I have never met anyone in motorsport who finds death natural and integral to the sport. If you think it is, then I will accept that as your point of view. But seriously, (and I mean this genuinely and not for the purpose of disagreeing) I honestly have never met anyone in all the years of my motorsport involvement who has felt that death is natural and integral. | |||
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"What does 'For shame' mean?" for shame Used to express great discontent, dissatisfaction, disappointment, often in a funny way; usually used after someone (including oneself) has done something wrong, committed a party foul, or said something not cool. In this case? Disappointment at some of the comments that are neither required or IMHO fair. Also, so not cool! I have no doubt loads feel nothing for someone who they didn't know, but I see no creedence in being openly disrespectful to those who are affected in whatever way... | |||
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"What does 'For shame' mean? for shame Used to express great discontent, dissatisfaction, disappointment, often in a funny way; usually used after someone (including oneself) has done something wrong, committed a party foul, or said something not cool. In this case? Disappointment at some of the comments that are neither required or IMHO fair. Also, so not cool! I have no doubt loads feel nothing for someone who they didn't know, but I see no creedence in being openly disrespectful to those who are affected in whatever way... " So we censor the forums now because someone people watched on tv died...i notice no one had this concern about the hotpot jokes on the betty driver thread ![]() | |||
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" You're entitled to your opinion. It's nice to see you;re so sure of it that you can treat me as someone not involved in any form of motorsport since I've dared to disagree with you. Im not saying you arent involved in motorsport, and if thats how it came across then I apologise. I am saying that I have never met anyone in motorsport who finds death natural and integral to the sport. If you think it is, then I will accept that as your point of view. But seriously, (and I mean this genuinely and not for the purpose of disagreeing) I honestly have never met anyone in all the years of my motorsport involvement who has felt that death is natural and integral." Perhaps, like me, those people who disagree with you gave up marshalling and watching because the cognitive dissonance became too great? I only watch motorsport with a good track record on fatalities now, and Moto GP and bike road racing in general don't fit that template. | |||
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"What does 'For shame' mean? for shame Used to express great discontent, dissatisfaction, disappointment, often in a funny way; usually used after someone (including oneself) has done something wrong, committed a party foul, or said something not cool. In this case? Disappointment at some of the comments that are neither required or IMHO fair. Also, so not cool! I have no doubt loads feel nothing for someone who they didn't know, but I see no creedence in being openly disrespectful to those who are affected in whatever way... " Who decides what's required, or cool? The Fonz? | |||
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