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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello this is just a curiousity thing after seeing something last week.

At what point after meeting someone did you ask them out or they you, and how did they do it?

I ask because someone I knowasked someone else out quite shortly after meeting them and as far as I could tell it was almost like

“Erm yeah go on then” - they had almost nothing in common or seemed to like each other much.

Maybe it was fear of being alone but It was very half hearted lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t remember the last time I was asked out! (Violins are playing as I type!!)

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I don’t remember the last time I was asked out! (Violins are playing as I type!!) "

Same

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Same here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To refine my pet idea some people are like magnets- they immediately have to connect with an opposite or they repell others

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"Same here "

I'll get my keys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think i was in school last time i was asked out

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

True story. The last time I was asked out was in 1974.

Mr N didn't ask me out I just clung on to his ankles until he got fed up of dragging me around

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

OP, are you talking about asking someone to go out on a date? Because that can happen very quickly. But your phrasing makes it all sound like young teenagers ‘going out’ with each other, classing themselves as ‘going out’ while never doing anything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t remember the last time I was asked out! (Violins are playing as I type!!) "

same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"True story. The last time I was asked out was in 1974.

Mr N didn't ask me out I just clung on to his ankles until he got fed up of dragging me around "

1974?..... you can't of been born then

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I have had people walk up to me and their opening line, the first thing they have ever said to me, is asking me if I'd like to go for a drink or a meal.

There's no time that is too soon, if you look at someone and feel you'd like to get to know them better, ask them out.

The worst they can say is no.now

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Being the shy and retiring type i don't like being asked out it makes me blush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got asked out a couple of weeks ago by a taxi driver I had booked. He just asked if I was single and could he take me out to dinner sometime. Given the fact I had my two year old with me and I was a customer I wasn't impressed. I think if you are on a night out and get chatting, quite soon is fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP, are you talking about asking someone to go out on a date? Because that can happen very quickly. But your phrasing makes it all sound like young teenagers ‘going out’ with each other, classing themselves as ‘going out’ while never doing anything."

In the case in question they’re young adults- i was just surprised at how they went out ( not dating like teenagers) so half heartedly- it’s difficult to explain in text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm wondering after my reply.... Do you mean as in if will they be your boyfriend/girlfriend?

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire


"I got asked out a couple of weeks ago by a taxi driver I had booked. He just asked if I was single and could he take me out to dinner sometime. Given the fact I had my two year old with me and I was a customer I wasn't impressed. I think if you are on a night out and get chatting, quite soon is fine. "

“I’d like to take you out to dinner. I mean, I won’t come in to the restaurant, or eat with you, or pay, but I’d like to take you there. In the back of my car. For money.”

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

The last time I got asked out it ended up with me and another guy having a scrap in a pub carpark

We bought each other a pint afterwards though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got asked out a couple of weeks ago by a taxi driver I had booked. He just asked if I was single and could he take me out to dinner sometime. Given the fact I had my two year old with me and I was a customer I wasn't impressed. I think if you are on a night out and get chatting, quite soon is fine.

“I’d like to take you out to dinner. I mean, I won’t come in to the restaurant, or eat with you, or pay, but I’d like to take you there. In the back of my car. For money.”"

Perhaps that's what he meant...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"True story. The last time I was asked out was in 1974.

Mr N didn't ask me out I just clung on to his ankles until he got fed up of dragging me around

1974?..... you can't of been born then "

Ah, ya silver tongued charmer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same here "

Now that I find hard to believe....

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Same here

Now that I find hard to believe...."

Well it's true. I honestly can't remember the last time somwone asked me out for a drink etc, like a date

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