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Are men in couples more grumpy than single men when they get no sex?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Men in relationships seem to be grumpier than genuinely single men.

Some swinging couples meet separately. The woman will most likely get many offers of sex and have a great time. But the man will be seen the same as a single man and likely get fewer offers of sex - or none at all.

Are the men in swinging couples sometimes grumpy because their woman partner is having lots more fun than they are?

Or such as non-swinger married men where their wife doesn't want to fuck them, so they have sex 'within reach' but they still can't have it?

Are single men less grumpy because they know they are unlikely to get sex so don't miss it the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a constant ray of sunshine, but then I’m fucking gorgeous and spend the majority of my time beating away the clunge with a shitty stick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i did used to have a bit of the green eye monster at first, my wife was getting plenty of offers and i was getting none at all, ive come to accept that that’s just the way it is on here, we play together sometimes with another guy joining us, but most of the time, it is her having the fun and not me.

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By *rank n BettyCouple
over a year ago

Not meeting

We only play together as a couple, swinging is just a bit of added fun for us, at the end of the we dont have to let anyone into our private lives. I cant understand why people want to try and cherry pick one half of a couple sounds like a total lack of respect to me.

Frank

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We only play together as a couple, swinging is just a bit of added fun for us, at the end of the we dont have to let anyone into our private lives. I cant understand why people want to try and cherry pick one half of a couple sounds like a total lack of respect to me.

Frank"

we get a lot of couples just asking for the mrs to join them

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

As a couple we only played together, or we didnt play at all.

though as a couple we found single men was an absolute pain in the arse with there pm's.

mainly asking to meet the female half of the couple, just some didnt like the answer.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I’m a grumpy single man - I can’t imagine being even more grumpy if I were in a relationship lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have WAY more sex as a single man than I ever have in relationships - monogamous, non-monogamous, and poly (I've been in all three).

I'm not sure if there's any direct correlation between how much sex someone has, their relationship status and how grumpy they are to be honest - it's about happiness in life on a more general level in my view.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I used to be extremely grumpy when l was married and not having any sex at all

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Yes. So obvious. Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Realistically, no difference, if you are not getting sex in a relationship you probably won't get it as a single bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex was a right miserable sod. I must have been really shit at sex because he went elsewhere to get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had a husband now I would fuck him every day.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to be extremely grumpy when l was married and not having any sex at all "

Was it worse being refused sex than just not getting any as a single man?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i did used to have a bit of the green eye monster at first, my wife was getting plenty of offers and i was getting none at all, ive come to accept that that’s just the way it is on here, we play together sometimes with another guy joining us, but most of the time, it is her having the fun and not me."

I think I'd be green eyed too. It's a human reaction.

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

I think what you say is true in a lot of cases, us personally not so much as we are stag n vixen couple and our main reason for being on here is for V to be able yo have sex with others outside of relationship. We both enjoy it. If there is someone I not comfortable with her meeting for any reason then i say and we move on. We could leave the site tomorrow and be very happy but for now we happy with how we do things. G

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Single guys have hope.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"I used to be extremely grumpy when l was married and not having any sex at all

Was it worse being refused sex than just not getting any as a single man?"
far worse....I mourned the loss of my sex life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My subjective experience has been that the single guys I’ve encountered on here are grumpier than the men in swinging couples.

However, it would be interesting to know how many of the single men I encounter who are grumpy are actually a man in a non-swinging couple rather than a single man...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am one happy chap

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I used to be extremely grumpy when l was married and not having any sex at all

Was it worse being refused sex than just not getting any as a single man?far worse....I mourned the loss of my sex life"

x

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