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"Did you and ALL the single males out there have a meeting? My friends know about Fab but they're all happy just with their husbands. " Yes... Yes we did and the vote was close but we voted for more women  | |||
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"Did you and ALL the single males out there have a meeting? My friends know about Fab but they're all happy just with their husbands. Yes... Yes we did and the vote was close but we voted for more women "Even the gay ones? | |||
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"There are plenty of active single women on Fab already, you just have to know where to find them and how to treat them "Lol, I treat everyone as I'd like to be treated.. And as for where.. That's the issue, there are 100+ guys for every girl. If I check to see who is local, I can guarantee that 95 out of 100 will be men, 4 couples and maybe 1 woman. Just hoping for an even playing field | |||
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"Did you and ALL the single males out there have a meeting? My friends know about Fab but they're all happy just with their husbands. Yes... Yes we did and the vote was close but we voted for more women
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"I am doing my best but they don't want to... but I swear I try extra hard to make up for them "Okay, we can make you head of recruitment  | |||
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"Hi Fabbers, I think I can speak for all the single males out there that we need more active women on Fab. To this end, why don't you ladies each tell a friend about Fab, and so on, and so on, you get the picture. It would be great to see more ladies posting on the forums, meeting us single guys, just having Fab fun So is it a good idea or what?? "or what. Do your own recruiting  | |||
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"OP perhaps another way to address the gender imbalance is to persuade 99% of the men on fab to clear off "Good idea...might get rid of the..deadwood | |||
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"OP perhaps another way to address the gender imbalance is to persuade 99% of the men on fab to clear off "ouch | |||
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"OP perhaps another way to address the gender imbalance is to persuade 99% of the men on fab to clear off "That should be raised at their next meeting. They can rotate membership. | |||
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"OP perhaps another way to address the gender imbalance is to persuade 99% of the men on fab to clear off
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"OP perhaps another way to address the gender imbalance is to persuade 99% of the men on fab to clear off "Ha! This is the best idea yet. Maybe it's time for us 'ladies' to have our own meeting... | |||
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"OP perhaps another way to address the gender imbalance is to persuade 99% of the men on fab to clear off
Good idea...might get rid of the..deadwood "I'll get my coat on the way out | |||
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"OP perhaps another way to address the gender imbalance is to persuade 99% of the men on fab to clear off
Good idea...might get rid of the..deadwood
I'll get my coat on the way out "Is your wood dead? There's Viagra on offer a few threads down. | |||
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"OP perhaps another way to address the gender imbalance is to persuade 99% of the men on fab to clear off
Good idea...might get rid of the..deadwood
I'll get my coat on the way out
Is your wood dead? There's Viagra on offer a few threads down.
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"My friends would give me slap if they knew I was on here so no you tell your friends and put a flyer in your window saying SWINGERS NEEDED." even better is to get them made and put them on random cars | |||
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"OP perhaps another way to address the gender imbalance is to persuade 99% of the men on fab to clear off
Good idea...might get rid of the..deadwood
I'll get my coat on the way out
Is your wood dead? There's Viagra on offer a few threads down.
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Guy with the visgra had a queue at his front door. May explain the shortage of women thats upsetting OP. | |||
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"Hi Fabbers, I think I can speak for all the single males out there that we need more active women on Fab. To this end, why don't you ladies each tell a friend about Fab, and so on, and so on, you get the picture. It would be great to see more ladies posting on the forums, meeting us single guys, just having Fab fun So is it a good idea or what?? "I have lots of female friends on fab from Aberdeen who actively meet. Maybe you're just unlucky that you aren't their type. It's just a case of being patient until you find someone you have chemistry with OP? | |||
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"My friends would give me slap if they knew I was on here so no you tell your friends and put a flyer in your window saying SWINGERS NEEDED. even better is to get them made and put them on random cars " Give them to your family members | |||
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"I feel that some of the ladies have gotten the wrong end of the stick (no pun intended).. Competition is good "Unless you're a man? | |||
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"My friends would give me slap if they knew I was on here so no you tell your friends and put a flyer in your window saying SWINGERS NEEDED. even better is to get them made and put them on random cars " Perhaps a more subtle approach might work...like a billboard.. | |||
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"My friends would give me slap if they knew I was on here so no you tell your friends and put a flyer in your window saying SWINGERS NEEDED. even better is to get them made and put them on random cars Perhaps a more subtle approach might work...like a billboard.. "Loud speaker | |||
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"My friends would give me slap if they knew I was on here so no you tell your friends and put a flyer in your window saying SWINGERS NEEDED. even better is to get them made and put them on random cars Perhaps a more subtle approach might work...like a billboard..
Loud speaker "I'll drive, you can use the megaphone | |||
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"My friends would give me slap if they knew I was on here so no you tell your friends and put a flyer in your window saying SWINGERS NEEDED. even better is to get them made and put them on random cars Perhaps a more subtle approach might work...like a billboard..
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"My friends would give me slap if they knew I was on here so no you tell your friends and put a flyer in your window saying SWINGERS NEEDED. even better is to get them made and put them on random cars Perhaps a more subtle approach might work...like a billboard..
Loud speaker
I'll drive, you can use the megaphone "Deal as I can't drive but I'm really loud | |||
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"Look at it this way, I've seen many of you ladies complaining about the mass of messages you constantly receive. That is because there are fewer of you than of us single guys. If there were a more balanced pool of contacts, you would have much more manageable messages every day... I am only thinking of your best interests "Most blokes act as their own filters, so don't you worry | |||
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"Look at it this way, I've seen many of you ladies complaining about the mass of messages you constantly receive. That is because there are fewer of you than of us single guys. If there were a more balanced pool of contacts, you would have much more manageable messages every day... I am only thinking of your best interests
Most blokes act as their own filters, so don't you worry " | |||
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"Look at it this way, I've seen many of you ladies complaining about the mass of messages you constantly receive. That is because there are fewer of you than of us single guys. If there were a more balanced pool of contacts, you would have much more manageable messages every day... I am only thinking of your best interests
Most blokes act as their own filters, so don't you worry "I manage the few messages I get from friends quite well lol | |||
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"If there were a more balanced pool of contacts, you would have much more manageable messages every day..." Who’s to say that the multitudinous over-horny males wouldn’t just start firing out even more messages? | |||
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"Look at it this way, I've seen many of you ladies complaining about the mass of messages you constantly receive. That is because there are fewer of you than of us single guys. If there were a more balanced pool of contacts, you would have much more manageable messages every day... I am only thinking of your best interests "There will always be more men that are open to this stuff than lasses. Men are naturally hornier and open to sleeping around. | |||
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"If there were a more balanced pool of contacts, you would have much more manageable messages every day... Who’s to say that the multitudinous over-horny males wouldn’t just start firing out even more messages?" Very true. You used to be able to reply to guys on here and enjoy a bit of banter but nowadays it just seems that if you reply you're up for jumping into bed with everyone which puts us off replying | |||
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"I think it would be a valuable social experiment that could have far reaching benefits, so well worth the risk "I doubt it. There's been a social advertised for last couple months which offered the chance for all these single men who struggle the chance to meet other local fab members and it's had to be called off due to lack of interest. Seems if there's not a guaranteed shag at the end of it we aren't worth the effort. I'll stick with those I know I think | |||
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"If there were a more balanced pool of contacts, you would have much more manageable messages every day... Who’s to say that the multitudinous over-horny males wouldn’t just start firing out even more messages? Very true. You used to be able to reply to guys on here and enjoy a bit of banter but nowadays it just seems that if you reply you're up for jumping into bed with everyone which puts us off replying" Sometimes you dont even need to reply. I saw you once looked at my profile for a millisecond, surely that means you're gagging for me right?  | |||
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"If there were a more balanced pool of contacts, you would have much more manageable messages every day... Who’s to say that the multitudinous over-horny males wouldn’t just start firing out even more messages? Very true. You used to be able to reply to guys on here and enjoy a bit of banter but nowadays it just seems that if you reply you're up for jumping into bed with everyone which puts us off replying Sometimes you dont even need to reply. I saw you once looked at my profile for a millisecond, surely that means you're gagging for me right? "Haha, yeah that's exactly what I mean 
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"I think it would be a valuable social experiment that could have far reaching benefits, so well worth the risk
I doubt it. There's been a social advertised for last couple months which offered the chance for all these single men who struggle the chance to meet other local fab members and it's had to be called off due to lack of interest. Seems if there's not a guaranteed shag at the end of it we aren't worth the effort. I'll stick with those I know I think "I've had a few people think that socials are a huge orgy. | |||
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"I think it would be a valuable social experiment that could have far reaching benefits, so well worth the risk
I doubt it. There's been a social advertised for last couple months which offered the chance for all these single men who struggle the chance to meet other local fab members and it's had to be called off due to lack of interest. Seems if there's not a guaranteed shag at the end of it we aren't worth the effort. I'll stick with those I know I think "That is sad to here about.. But sadly I live in the armpit of the UK and there are no socials within 100 miles. | |||
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"I think it would be a valuable social experiment that could have far reaching benefits, so well worth the risk
I doubt it. There's been a social advertised for last couple months which offered the chance for all these single men who struggle the chance to meet other local fab members and it's had to be called off due to lack of interest. Seems if there's not a guaranteed shag at the end of it we aren't worth the effort. I'll stick with those I know I think
That is sad to here about.. But sadly I live in the armpit of the UK and there are no socials within 100 miles. "According to your profile you're in Aberdeen same as me. It's hardly an armpit | |||
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"There is a flaw here though. I think chances are, the men who are idiots won't have a better chance at getting laid. The more popular guys would likely just get laid more often... " Thats true. Not all of us are charismatic and whatever women actually like. I feel that the guys that aren't getting anything out of this site, (me included) either have no idea about women, a crap profile or are just uncharismatic. | |||
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"OP perhaps another way to address the gender imbalance is to persuade 99% of the men on fab to clear off
Good idea...might get rid of the..deadwood
I'll get my coat on the way out
Is your wood dead? There's Viagra on offer a few threads down.
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"There is a flaw here though. I think chances are, the men who are idiots won't have a better chance at getting laid. The more popular guys would likely just get laid more often... Thats true. Not all of us are charismatic and whatever women actually like. I feel that the guys that aren't getting anything out of this site, (me included) either have no idea about women, a crap profile or are just uncharismatic. " I personally think your age plays a part a little. I see no problem with your profile per say. I'm not sure what you put in your messages, obviously, but I do think you've not been here for long lovely. It can take a little time to get going on here. A lot of the more successful ones have been around for quite a bit and have learned the ropes | |||
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"There is a flaw here though. I think chances are, the men who are idiots won't have a better chance at getting laid. The more popular guys would likely just get laid more often... Thats true. Not all of us are charismatic and whatever women actually like. I feel that the guys that aren't getting anything out of this site, (me included) either have no idea about women, a crap profile or are just uncharismatic. I personally think your age plays a part a little. I see no problem with your profile per say. I'm not sure what you put in your messages, obviously, but I do think you've not been here for long lovely. It can take a little time to get going on here. A lot of the more successful ones have been around for quite a bit and have learned the ropes "They are just normal friendly messages. Nothing vulgar or offensive. I feel like its not much to do with time on here, but more to do with charisma and personality. I get plenty of attention but just no messages. | |||
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"There is a flaw here though. I think chances are, the men who are idiots won't have a better chance at getting laid. The more popular guys would likely just get laid more often... Thats true. Not all of us are charismatic and whatever women actually like. I feel that the guys that aren't getting anything out of this site, (me included) either have no idea about women, a crap profile or are just uncharismatic. I personally think your age plays a part a little. I see no problem with your profile per say. I'm not sure what you put in your messages, obviously, but I do think you've not been here for long lovely. It can take a little time to get going on here. A lot of the more successful ones have been around for quite a bit and have learned the ropes "The more successful ones lol, it’s not any different from a pub or school. If you don’t succeed and it annoys then try something new | |||
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"There is a flaw here though. I think chances are, the men who are idiots won't have a better chance at getting laid. The more popular guys would likely just get laid more often... Thats true. Not all of us are charismatic and whatever women actually like. I feel that the guys that aren't getting anything out of this site, (me included) either have no idea about women, a crap profile or are just uncharismatic. " Perhaps you should look at your reasons for being on a swinging site, because it's not all about a guarenteed shag.. | |||
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"There is a flaw here though. I think chances are, the men who are idiots won't have a better chance at getting laid. The more popular guys would likely just get laid more often... Thats true. Not all of us are charismatic and whatever women actually like. I feel that the guys that aren't getting anything out of this site, (me included) either have no idea about women, a crap profile or are just uncharismatic. Perhaps you should look at your reasons for being on a swinging site, because it's not all about a guarenteed shag.." I understand that you aren't gonna shag on the first meet every time, but swinging is mostly about the sex and the friendships and social side is a bonus. | |||
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"There is a flaw here though. I think chances are, the men who are idiots won't have a better chance at getting laid. The more popular guys would likely just get laid more often... Thats true. Not all of us are charismatic and whatever women actually like. I feel that the guys that aren't getting anything out of this site, (me included) either have no idea about women, a crap profile or are just uncharismatic. Perhaps you should look at your reasons for being on a swinging site, because it's not all about a guarenteed shag.. I understand that you aren't gonna shag on the first meet every time, but swinging is mostly about the sex and the friendships and social side is a bonus. " Thats is just your perception of swinging. Actually the truth is nearer opposite to that... swinging is about friendship and socialising with like minded adults. Sex is the bonus. | |||
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"There is a flaw here though. I think chances are, the men who are idiots won't have a better chance at getting laid. The more popular guys would likely just get laid more often... Thats true. Not all of us are charismatic and whatever women actually like. I feel that the guys that aren't getting anything out of this site, (me included) either have no idea about women, a crap profile or are just uncharismatic. Perhaps you should look at your reasons for being on a swinging site, because it's not all about a guarenteed shag.. I understand that you aren't gonna shag on the first meet every time, but swinging is mostly about the sex and the friendships and social side is a bonus. " Actually in swinging, the social element tends to be just as ingrained as the sexual part. You are thinking more about sex sites | |||
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"Look at it this way, I've seen many of you ladies complaining about the mass of messages you constantly receive. That is because there are fewer of you than of us single guys. If there were a more balanced pool of contacts, you would have much more manageable messages every day... I am only thinking of your best interests
Most blokes act as their own filters, so don't you worry " | |||
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"OP perhaps another way to address the gender imbalance is to persuade 99% of the men on fab to clear off " | |||
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"OP perhaps another way to address the gender imbalance is to persuade 99% of the men on fab to clear off "Fuck you Yorkie - Laptop covered in tea - Brilliant answer clap, clap clap... | |||
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"OP perhaps another way to address the gender imbalance is to persuade 99% of the men on fab to clear off
ouch"Agreed remember it's the chaps that create the false female/couples profiles not us ladies | |||
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"You mean I have to reveal this side of my life to my friends and then also convince them to join so that men can ogle them instead of me? " | |||
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"Look at it this way, I've seen many of you ladies complaining about the mass of messages you constantly receive. That is because there are fewer of you than of us single guys. If there were a more balanced pool of contacts, you would have much more manageable messages every day... I am only thinking of your best interests
Most blokes act as their own filters, so don't you worry "You ladies are on form another great answer. | |||
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"Did you and ALL the single males out there have a meeting? My friends know about Fab but they're all happy just with their husbands. " | |||
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"There is a flaw here though. I think chances are, the men who are idiots won't have a better chance at getting laid. The more popular guys would likely just get laid more often... Thats true. Not all of us are charismatic and whatever women actually like. I feel that the guys that aren't getting anything out of this site, (me included) either have no idea about women, a crap profile or are just uncharismatic. Perhaps you should look at your reasons for being on a swinging site, because it's not all about a guarenteed shag.. I understand that you aren't gonna shag on the first meet every time, but swinging is mostly about the sex and the friendships and social side is a bonus. Thats is just your perception of swinging. Actually the truth is nearer opposite to that... swinging is about friendship and socialising with like minded adults. Sex is the bonus. "
Go to a club or social and socialise without expectations of sex if you don't think you have the skillset to do yourself justice in written words, you might surprise yourself | |||
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"There is a flaw here though. I think chances are, the men who are idiots won't have a better chance at getting laid. The more popular guys would likely just get laid more often... Thats true. Not all of us are charismatic and whatever women actually like. I feel that the guys that aren't getting anything out of this site, (me included) either have no idea about women, a crap profile or are just uncharismatic. Perhaps you should look at your reasons for being on a swinging site, because it's not all about a guarenteed shag.. I understand that you aren't gonna shag on the first meet every time, but swinging is mostly about the sex and the friendships and social side is a bonus. Thats is just your perception of swinging. Actually the truth is nearer opposite to that... swinging is about friendship and socialising with like minded adults. Sex is the bonus.
Go to a club or social and socialise without expectations of sex if you don't think you have the skillset to do yourself justice in written words, you might surprise yourself "He’s already said that there’s no point in going to a club if he’s not going to get laid. | |||
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"There is a flaw here though. I think chances are, the men who are idiots won't have a better chance at getting laid. The more popular guys would likely just get laid more often... Thats true. Not all of us are charismatic and whatever women actually like. I feel that the guys that aren't getting anything out of this site, (me included) either have no idea about women, a crap profile or are just uncharismatic. Perhaps you should look at your reasons for being on a swinging site, because it's not all about a guarenteed shag.. I understand that you aren't gonna shag on the first meet every time, but swinging is mostly about the sex and the friendships and social side is a bonus. Thats is just your perception of swinging. Actually the truth is nearer opposite to that... swinging is about friendship and socialising with like minded adults. Sex is the bonus.
Go to a club or social and socialise without expectations of sex if you don't think you have the skillset to do yourself justice in written words, you might surprise yourself
He’s already said that there’s no point in going to a club if he’s not going to get laid."But that's the point, if the attitude is going to the club with that expectation, then why bother being here at all? Yes sex happens at clubs, but as they say with the lottery, and clubs are that also for many, you've got to be in it to win it... It's called networking, you see real people who by and large are looking for the same thing, saving the ladies their valuable time here, looking through the reams of men profiles and trying to see whose worth persuing. Our last visit saw Mrs FGoS, asking if we could change our FAB view of single men as one guy we chatted to piqued her interest
Being at home on your device pretty much guarentees that you won't get laid. | |||
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"There is a flaw here though. I think chances are, the men who are idiots won't have a better chance at getting laid. The more popular guys would likely just get laid more often... Thats true. Not all of us are charismatic and whatever women actually like. I feel that the guys that aren't getting anything out of this site, (me included) either have no idea about women, a crap profile or are just uncharismatic. Perhaps you should look at your reasons for being on a swinging site, because it's not all about a guarenteed shag.. I understand that you aren't gonna shag on the first meet every time, but swinging is mostly about the sex and the friendships and social side is a bonus. Thats is just your perception of swinging. Actually the truth is nearer opposite to that... swinging is about friendship and socialising with like minded adults. Sex is the bonus.
Go to a club or social and socialise without expectations of sex if you don't think you have the skillset to do yourself justice in written words, you might surprise yourself
He’s already said that there’s no point in going to a club if he’s not going to get laid.
But that's the point, if the attitude is going to the club with that expectation, then why bother being here at all? Yes sex happens at clubs, but as they say with the lottery, and clubs are that also for many, you've got to be in it to win it...
It's called networking, you see real people who by and large are looking for the same thing, saving the ladies their valuable time here, looking through the reams of men profiles and trying to see whose worth persuing. Our last visit saw Mrs FGoS, asking if we could change our FAB view of single men as one guy we chatted to piqued her interest
Being at home on your device pretty much guarentees that you won't get laid. "I know that and you know that.... | |||
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"There is a flaw here though. I think chances are, the men who are idiots won't have a better chance at getting laid. The more popular guys would likely just get laid more often... Thats true. Not all of us are charismatic and whatever women actually like. I feel that the guys that aren't getting anything out of this site, (me included) either have no idea about women, a crap profile or are just uncharismatic. Perhaps you should look at your reasons for being on a swinging site, because it's not all about a guarenteed shag.. I understand that you aren't gonna shag on the first meet every time, but swinging is mostly about the sex and the friendships and social side is a bonus. Thats is just your perception of swinging. Actually the truth is nearer opposite to that... swinging is about friendship and socialising with like minded adults. Sex is the bonus.
Go to a club or social and socialise without expectations of sex if you don't think you have the skillset to do yourself justice in written words, you might surprise yourself
He’s already said that there’s no point in going to a club if he’s not going to get laid."I wouldn't spend nearly £100 on a night out if it was likely I'd get ignored, left on my own all night and not even a fuck. I don't blame men for that at all. | |||
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"There is a flaw here though. I think chances are, the men who are idiots won't have a better chance at getting laid. The more popular guys would likely just get laid more often... Thats true. Not all of us are charismatic and whatever women actually like. I feel that the guys that aren't getting anything out of this site, (me included) either have no idea about women, a crap profile or are just uncharismatic. Perhaps you should look at your reasons for being on a swinging site, because it's not all about a guarenteed shag.. I understand that you aren't gonna shag on the first meet every time, but swinging is mostly about the sex and the friendships and social side is a bonus. Thats is just your perception of swinging. Actually the truth is nearer opposite to that... swinging is about friendship and socialising with like minded adults. Sex is the bonus.
Go to a club or social and socialise without expectations of sex if you don't think you have the skillset to do yourself justice in written words, you might surprise yourself
He’s already said that there’s no point in going to a club if he’s not going to get laid.
I wouldn't spend nearly £100 on a night out if it was likely I'd get ignored, left on my own all night and not even a fuck. I don't blame men for that at all."Goodness £100!? What clubs are you going to? Think the most expensive Ive seen is £40 for a single man.... unless of course you mean a killing kittens event? With the right attitude and a friendly approach very few men would come away from a club having had no fun whatsoever | |||
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"There is a flaw here though. I think chances are, the men who are idiots won't have a better chance at getting laid. The more popular guys would likely just get laid more often... Thats true. Not all of us are charismatic and whatever women actually like. I feel that the guys that aren't getting anything out of this site, (me included) either have no idea about women, a crap profile or are just uncharismatic. Perhaps you should look at your reasons for being on a swinging site, because it's not all about a guarenteed shag.. I understand that you aren't gonna shag on the first meet every time, but swinging is mostly about the sex and the friendships and social side is a bonus. Thats is just your perception of swinging. Actually the truth is nearer opposite to that... swinging is about friendship and socialising with like minded adults. Sex is the bonus.
Go to a club or social and socialise without expectations of sex if you don't think you have the skillset to do yourself justice in written words, you might surprise yourself
He’s already said that there’s no point in going to a club if he’s not going to get laid.
I wouldn't spend nearly £100 on a night out if it was likely I'd get ignored, left on my own all night and not even a fuck. I don't blame men for that at all.
Goodness £100!? What clubs are you going to? Think the most expensive Ive seen is £40 for a single man.... unless of course you mean a killing kittens event?
With the right attitude and a friendly approach very few men would come away from a club having had no fun whatsoever"I agree. I have been to a few clubs as a single man and I would say that about 80% of the time I got to have sex with someone. If you attend a club on a night they let in single men by definition couples and women there will be interested in single men. . If you have a reasonable level of attractiveness, can hold a conversation and don't behave like someone on the register, more likely than not you will pull. | |||
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"Hi Fabbers, I think I can speak for all the single males out there that we need more active women on Fab. To this end, why don't you ladies each tell a friend about Fab, and so on, and so on, you get the picture. It would be great to see more ladies posting on the forums, meeting us single guys, just having Fab fun So is it a good idea or what?? "This is an amazing idea. I intend to tell EVERY female I know , including me mum, she's single....... everyone in work ( M'lud ) and my daughters..... FAB idea. x | |||
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"There is a flaw here though. I think chances are, the men who are idiots won't have a better chance at getting laid. The more popular guys would likely just get laid more often... Thats true. Not all of us are charismatic and whatever women actually like. I feel that the guys that aren't getting anything out of this site, (me included) either have no idea about women, a crap profile or are just uncharismatic. Perhaps you should look at your reasons for being on a swinging site, because it's not all about a guarenteed shag.. I understand that you aren't gonna shag on the first meet every time, but swinging is mostly about the sex and the friendships and social side is a bonus. Thats is just your perception of swinging. Actually the truth is nearer opposite to that... swinging is about friendship and socialising with like minded adults. Sex is the bonus.
Go to a club or social and socialise without expectations of sex if you don't think you have the skillset to do yourself justice in written words, you might surprise yourself
He’s already said that there’s no point in going to a club if he’s not going to get laid.
I wouldn't spend nearly £100 on a night out if it was likely I'd get ignored, left on my own all night and not even a fuck. I don't blame men for that at all.
Goodness £100!? What clubs are you going to? Think the most expensive Ive seen is £40 for a single man.... unless of course you mean a killing kittens event?
With the right attitude and a friendly approach very few men would come away from a club having had no fun whatsoever"£50 to get in. Money for drinks and taxis or a hotel room. It adds up. | |||
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"There is a flaw here though. I think chances are, the men who are idiots won't have a better chance at getting laid. The more popular guys would likely just get laid more often... Thats true. Not all of us are charismatic and whatever women actually like. I feel that the guys that aren't getting anything out of this site, (me included) either have no idea about women, a crap profile or are just uncharismatic. Perhaps you should look at your reasons for being on a swinging site, because it's not all about a guarenteed shag.. I understand that you aren't gonna shag on the first meet every time, but swinging is mostly about the sex and the friendships and social side is a bonus. Thats is just your perception of swinging. Actually the truth is nearer opposite to that... swinging is about friendship and socialising with like minded adults. Sex is the bonus.
Go to a club or social and socialise without expectations of sex if you don't think you have the skillset to do yourself justice in written words, you might surprise yourself
He’s already said that there’s no point in going to a club if he’s not going to get laid.
I wouldn't spend nearly £100 on a night out if it was likely I'd get ignored, left on my own all night and not even a fuck. I don't blame men for that at all.
Goodness £100!? What clubs are you going to? Think the most expensive Ive seen is £40 for a single man.... unless of course you mean a killing kittens event?
With the right attitude and a friendly approach very few men would come away from a club having had no fun whatsoever
£50 to get in. Money for drinks and taxis or a hotel room. It adds up. "Drinking to any excess is generally frowned upon at most clubs, and many are bring your own booze, they provide (usually complimentary) soft drinks and tea or coffee, far better to go with something non alcoholic and cut the need for taxis by driving. Lets face it a vanilla date can easily add up to similar amounts and more sometimes, do they expect a shag at the end of those too? | |||
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" £50 to get in. Money for drinks and taxis or a hotel room. It adds up. " You can't make an omelette without breaking eggs. Sometimes you just have to "invest" your time and some cash to get the ball rolling. You can add a car ferry to that scenario for us (£50 minimum) and we are below the national average wage. You meet people at the club and should get some veri's, that's a start. The same people you've met maybe will take things further in the future, or on the day for that matter. If you are good fun, chances are you may be mentioned to others in their circles and be invited to play elsewhere. This place it seems to us is about having to put a lot of work in to get the best from it, and TBH its worth every minute, penny and conversation we've put in and thankfully, lots of others think likewise. | |||
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"OP perhaps another way to address the gender imbalance is to persuade 99% of the men on fab to clear off " | |||
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