FabSwingers.com forum: Would u ever go to ur exes family party and would u bring ur new bf or gf

By *lasgow_dude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Happened to me few years bk my gf at time said she gone to her exes family party and i said al go way u like a support thing but she said i was weird for wanting to go to her ex family party. What would use have done. And the ex was there aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, and if I had a boyfriend he would be invited too.

I was out last night with my ex husband, his gf, our children, grandchildren, nephew and nieces and their children. I get on with my in-laws.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does a funeral count, in which case yes I have

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

When my ex husband remarried his new wife used to drop my son of after visits. She would stay chatting for a couple of hours. But the funniest was when her and my ex split up it was one of their kids birthday. My ex had a new girlfriend who hadnt met us. She must of felt intimidated walking in with wife one and two sat there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt go

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By *lasgow_dude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

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By *lasgow_dude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Well she didnt want me to go. I only was going for support for her. Then i started getting bit paranoid as why she didnt want me to go

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By *lasgow_dude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Does a funeral count, in which case yes I have"
no a house party

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By *lasgow_dude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"When my ex husband remarried his new wife used to drop my son of after visits. She would stay chatting for a couple of hours. But the funniest was when her and my ex split up it was one of their kids birthday. My ex had a new girlfriend who hadnt met us. She must of felt intimidated walking in with wife one and two sat there

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By *lasgow_dude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I wouldnt go"
thanks for the feedbavk bud

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

My ex father in law is just about to move in with me as he's not coping too well since his wife died. Both were better parents to me than my own. Don't get on with the ex at all but my relationship with his parents and his sister never changed

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Ex girlfriend's yes why not. Ex wife I'd rather stick 6 inch nails in my eyes.

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By *lasgow_dude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Yes, and if I had a boyfriend he would be invited too.

I was out last night with my ex husband, his gf, our children, grandchildren, nephew and nieces and their children. I get on with my in-laws. "
just weird as she didnt want me to go

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By *lasgow_dude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"My ex father in law is just about to move in with me as he's not coping too well since his wife died. Both were better parents to me than my own. Don't get on with the ex at all but my relationship with his parents and his sister never changed

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sorry to hear bout at

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Does your gf think it's weird you being here....

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By *lasgow_dude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Ex girlfriend's yes why not. Ex wife I'd rather stick 6 inch nails in my eyes."

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By *lasgow_dude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Does your gf think it's weird you being here...."
a didnt go but she says it would be

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By *lasgow_dude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Does your gf think it's weird you being here...."
am single read bk first comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Might just be her feeling uncomfortable having you there. My ex's new partner was very put out that I was invited to his families ' parties. They soon shut her up though. She's ok now she knows we have no intentions of getting back together.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Does your gf think it's weird you being here....am single read bk first comment "
i wouldnt worry about it all these years later

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By *lasgow_dude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I felt a bit paranoid tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the situation. After my mother and father divorced, they would sometimes attend events together for the sake of the kids. Like... my dad came to my 21st birthday party which was at my mum's house and had a lot of family members, but he didn't bring his wife because no one was comfortable with it.

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By *lasgow_dude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Does your gf think it's weird you being here....am single read bk first comment i wouldnt worry about it all these years later"
think thats y we broke up as i couldnt trust her

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My partner still does family stuff with his ex wife including the lot of them going away for a week in the summer. I couldnt give a hoot

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I have no need or desire to ever see him again. amen

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By *lasgow_dude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"My partner still does family stuff with his ex wife including the lot of them going away for a week in the summer. I couldnt give a hoot"

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By *lasgow_dude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Depends on the situation. After my mother and father divorced, they would sometimes attend events together for the sake of the kids. Like... my dad came to my 21st birthday party which was at my mum's house and had a lot of family members, but he didn't bring his wife because no one was comfortable with it. "
thanks so ur dad leave mum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a good relationship with my ex in-laws, but it doesn't extend to bringing Lee to their family funerals.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Absolutely... I've stayed friends with most of my ex boyfriends and their families. I've even a couple of weddings coming up this year

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By *lasgow_dude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I have a good relationship with my ex in-laws, but it doesn't extend to bringing Lee to their family funerals."
ats what i mean she wouldnt invite me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see how it's relevant but no, my mum left my dad. But they always managed to maintain a friendly relationship for the sake of their children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a good relationship with my ex in-laws, but it doesn't extend to bringing Lee to their family funerals.ats what i mean she wouldnt invite me"

Why would you want to go?

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By *lasgow_dude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

"I have a good relationship with my ex in-laws, but it doesn't extend to bringing Lee to their family funerals.ats what i mean she wouldnt invite me

Why would you want to go?"
support for her

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By *lasgow_dude2017 OP Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I don't see how it's relevant but no, my mum left my dad. But they always managed to maintain a friendly relationship for the sake of their children. "
if my dad left my mum n turned up way wife or gf ad b pissed. But not otherway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't even know where to find my ex!

Even when i was finally allowed to divorce him last year i could only serve papers on him via Facebook messenger

I am still in touch with his step mum and her family though as we always got on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy I started seeing, we were going on our first date, he said he just had to pop in by a bbq first so would I go with him. I assumed it woukd be his mates but turned out to be his wee granddaughters birthday party. In his ex's garden! So I met his ex, his kids and step-kids that day and even had to pop in to his mothers on the way home. I got very very d*unk after that...

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"I have a good relationship with my ex in-laws, but it doesn't extend to bringing Lee to their family funerals.ats what i mean she wouldnt invite me"
but it wasnt her place to invite you. Did her ex invite you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see how it's relevant but no, my mum left my dad. But they always managed to maintain a friendly relationship for the sake of their children. if my dad left my mum n turned up way wife or gf ad b pissed. But not otherway"

Well a lot of it depends on dynamics and the like. That's why I said it varies. But if she didn't want your support, I think it's kind of weird that you have such an issue with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the relationship with the ex and if children are involved. But if friends then yes and yes to the new partner again as long as it wouldn't cause awkwardness

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

There’s one ex from years ago I would, probably only that one though and it would depend on the situation

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