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How do I get taken seriously?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't want this thread to be just me having a winge, but how do I make myself not get ignored because I'm "too young" for the majority of fabs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be the cartoon devil face emoji

Just a guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe change the profile pic from a giant pink bubble head!...really,that is the first thing anyone can see"..and lose the stupid 'warning' on your profile, and maybe add a bit more about you and what you're looking for, what you like etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've changed the picture and the little warning message lol.

Do people really pay attention to likes/dislikes?

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"I don't want this thread to be just me having a winge, but how do I make myself not get ignored because I'm "too young" for the majority of fabs?"

There's nothing wrong with a little sprinkling of silliness. Just chip in here and there and over time people will stop ignoring you

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I do when I check out a profile. like to see a bit about their experience and what they are after...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've changed the picture and the little warning message lol.

Do people really pay attention to likes/dislikes?"

i dont mean a list, i mean actual text...writing a bit about yourself, what you offer, what experiences you might enjoy etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't want this thread to be just me having a winge, but how do I make myself not get ignored because I'm "too young" for the majority of fabs?"

Patience... in 9 years you won't be too young, in 10 you will be too old

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Define "seriously", most single guys are on here to get their dick wet occasionally. Yes you are young and that will put a lot of ladies off as they have kids older than you. Try a few clubs and meet people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do when I check out a profile. like to see a bit about their experience and what they are after..."

Even if it's very limited experience? I wanna get more involved but loads of people are setting the bar way too high for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at this as a marathon, not a sprint, don't take the rejections seriously, single guys outnumber the ladies on here something like 20 to one, have patience, chat in the forums, maybe go to a local club, but most of all don't be pushy, you are bound to peek someone's interest at some point

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Target people who are looking for your age, knowing that as a single male you are one of very many here. It's standard to be ignored if you are the majority that don't match their interests at that time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be serious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So it's basically a combo of sprucing up my profile and waiting.

Rome wasn't built in a day, and my sex life seems like it would take longer than that

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

You’re young and at uni, OP. Go and enjoy life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty OP I did think there is anything a man your age can do to be taken seriously on this site. There’s no point in being unrealistic about life. The good news is that you won’t be young forever.

Mrs

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By *aggie and DanCouple
over a year ago

Swansea


"I don't want this thread to be just me having a winge, but how do I make myself not get ignored because I'm "too young" for the majority of fabs?"

Go to your room!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You’re young and at uni, OP. Go and enjoy life."

This!

Get on Tinder instead!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't want this thread to be just me having a winge, but how do I make myself not get ignored because I'm "too young" for the majority of fabs?"
cloth cap and tartan slippers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Target people who are looking for your age, knowing that as a single male you are one of very many here. It's standard to be ignored if you are the majority that don't match their interests at that time "

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Do a search in your area for people who are looking for your age group then further narrow it by selecting only those whose interests coincide with yours. This will give you an idea of how many people you have to choose from and vice versa.

It will be more difficult for someone of your age but you have nothing to lose by being here.

I think a lot of clubs have a 21 age limit but if there's a social being organised near you that might be worth a try.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice guys,I think it's pretty helpful to hear if you're a young lad getting into this.

Out of curiosity, when did most of you get into the scene?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, on and off for 10 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why so serious

Why so serious

You just need to put a smile on your face

In my best joker voice

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