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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are northerners and have been living in the south, and we have come to the conclusion that northern women are much more honest and friendly than southern women, it's not a criticism it's an opinion. What do you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are northerners and have been living in the south, and we have come to the conclusion that northern women are much more honest and friendly than southern women, it's not a criticism it's an opinion. What do you think?"

I think I'm disappointed that this thread isn't about a massive girl fight

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I think it's a generalisation more than anything - some Northerners may be more friendly than some Southerners, but conversely some Southerners...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are northerners and have been living in the south, and we have come to the conclusion that northern women are much more honest and friendly than southern women, it's not a criticism it's an opinion. What do you think?"

I think northerners in general are friendlier but i would say that lol

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I think it's a generalisation more than anything - some Northerners may be more friendly than some Southerners, but conversely some Southerners... "

Totally agree..

We are a Northern / Southern couple hence we have family and friends in both areas as well as several others and folk are folk wherever one is..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that's bollocks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's a generalisation more than anything - some Northerners may be more friendly than some Southerners, but conversely some Southerners... "

Been living here 15 years and believe us, when we say there seems to be a big difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't comment. I don't socialise with northerners

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

We said this at the Barnsley social the other week

‘Do Londoners go to socials and just grunt at one another like when you try to chat to someone at a tube station’ lol.

Joking aside you’re right. There’s good and bad wherever you go xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I was born down south... brought up in the north, spent my 20s in the midlands and now I'm almost pushing north again...

So What does that make me?!

Personally I would say woman in the midlands are the nicest as they are more genuine, I'm struggling to fit in with these northerners again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hubby thinks southern women tend to dominate (some people like that lol) men in the south.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I was born down south... brought up in the north, spent my 20s in the midlands and now I'm almost pushing north again...

So What does that make me?!

Personally I would say woman in the midlands are the nicest as they are more genuine, I'm struggling to fit in with these northerners again "

Yeh the north has changed a bit lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was born In the North have lift in the South for many years. I've got some wonderful friends but have to say met on the scene. I've lived on the isle of wight for 20 years and made two friends. Not at all approachable but that's just the way it is. I think there are friendly in both North and South

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By *onny1208Couple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

we are south north and I can tell you now northern women are 100% better friendly sexy bigger tits more open minded and generally better people than southerners and I'm born and bred in South London.... soyaknow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we are south north and I can tell you now northern women are 100% better friendly sexy bigger tits more open minded and generally better people than southerners and I'm born and bred in South London.... soyaknow "

Charming....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hubby thinks southern women tend to dominate (some people like that lol) men in the south."

So hubby prefers a woman to shut up and do as she's told huh? I see the problem...

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By *ammers43Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

My god what rubbish,absolute rubbish,

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By *osmosgirlWoman
over a year ago

Wetherby


"Well I was born down south... brought up in the north, spent my 20s in the midlands and now I'm almost pushing north again...

So What does that make me?!

Personally I would say woman in the midlands are the nicest as they are more genuine, I'm struggling to fit in with these northerners again

Yeh the north has changed a bit lol"

Too many southerners have moved up here?

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By *ammers43Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Well I was born down south... brought up in the north, spent my 20s in the midlands and now I'm almost pushing north again...

So What does that make me?!

Personally I would say woman in the midlands are the nicest as they are more genuine, I'm struggling to fit in with these northerners again "

You sound like me, brought up in kent, moved all around with work, now live in East Midlands, must say there is good and bad in all parts of the country, i dont get the more honest thing to be honest.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"we are south north and I can tell you now northern women are 100% better friendly sexy bigger tits more open minded and generally better people than southerners and I'm born and bred in South London.... soyaknow "

Lol, I know what you mean, I even have trouble getting a female friend down here, wether they swing or not, I find they all let you down in the end one way or the other, that happens in the north, but nowhere near as much.

Sandy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I was born down south... brought up in the north, spent my 20s in the midlands and now I'm almost pushing north again...

So What does that make me?!

Personally I would say woman in the midlands are the nicest as they are more genuine, I'm struggling to fit in with these northerners again

I mean friends don't have secrets from each other, and they don't have a different agenda,miso why bother trying to be what your not.

Sandy X

You sound like me, brought up in kent, moved all around with work, now live in East Midlands, must say there is good and bad in all parts of the country, i dont get the more honest thing to be honest....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like a rather pointless thread just to bash women from the south...

Having spent time all around the UK I think you're generalising in a big way...

So I stick with my initial response....

Utter bollocks.

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By *ammers43Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Seems like a rather pointless thread just to bash women from the south...

Having spent time all around the UK I think you're generalising in a big way...

So I stick with my initial response....

Utter bollocks."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hubby thinks southern women tend to dominate (some people like that lol) men in the south.

So hubby prefers a woman to shut up and do as she's told huh? I see the problem..."

No he doesn't he's a gent,mothered a big difference

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seems like a rather pointless thread just to bash women from the south...

Having spent time all around the UK I think you're generalising in a big way...

So I stick with my initial response....

Utter bollocks."

You would lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hubby thinks southern women tend to dominate (some people like that lol) men in the south.

So hubby prefers a woman to shut up and do as she's told huh? I see the problem...

No he doesn't he's a gent,mothered a big difference "

mothered? Jeez if that's what northern women do I'm glad to be southern!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We are northerners and have been living in the south, and we have come to the conclusion that northern women are much more honest and friendly than southern women, it's not a criticism it's an opinion. What do you think?"

Not a criticism? Ok....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hubby thinks southern women tend to dominate (some people like that lol) men in the south.

So hubby prefers a woman to shut up and do as she's told huh? I see the problem...

No he doesn't he's a gent,mothered a big difference

mothered? Jeez if that's what northern women do I'm glad to be southern!"

That was a pretext thing, I ment there is a big difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems like a rather pointless thread just to bash women from the south...

Having spent time all around the UK I think you're generalising in a big way...

So I stick with my initial response....

Utter bollocks.

You would lol x"

Yeah...because I tend not to tar all with the same brush, generalise or judge people based on where they live...

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Hubby thinks southern women tend to dominate (some people like that lol) men in the south.

So hubby prefers a woman to shut up and do as she's told huh? I see the problem...

No he doesn't he's a gent,mothered a big difference "

Mithered? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m pretty sure geography has chuff all to do with personality (born in the Midlands, grew up in the South, currently living in the North, soon to be moving to East Anglia).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seems like a rather pointless thread just to bash women from the south...

Having spent time all around the UK I think you're generalising in a big way...

So I stick with my initial response....

Utter bollocks.

You would lol x

Yeah...because I tend not to tar all with the same brush, generalise or judge people based on where they live...

"

It's a question Hun, I'm sure somtimes you have opinions like all, that's just mine.

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By *onny1208Couple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

PMSL ha ha

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I live in the Midlands, grew up in the south east and spent a few years in Loughborough so not really that North.

I think it all depends on you, how confident you are, how friendly, how approachable etc. It bollocks that women from either area are friendlier than the other.

Having said that we have a couple of ladies from Yorkshire way at work and they are both really hard work.

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By *ammers43Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"I’m pretty sure geography has chuff all to do with personality (born in the Midlands, grew up in the South, currently living in the North, soon to be moving to East Anglia). "

Spot on

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"We are northerners and have been living in the south, and we have come to the conclusion that northern women are much more honest and friendly than southern women, it's not a criticism it's an opinion. What do you think?"

An outrageous suggestion and possibly in the current climate, something of a hate crime.

Southern men are much better lovers however.

Confirmed thanks to research from Sydney University

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems like a rather pointless thread just to bash women from the south...

Having spent time all around the UK I think you're generalising in a big way...

So I stick with my initial response....

Utter bollocks.

You would lol x

Yeah...because I tend not to tar all with the same brush, generalise or judge people based on where they live...

It's a question Hun, I'm sure somtimes you have opinions like all, that's just mine."

I have loads of opinions...they're just not judgements on people's personalities based on the part of the country they live in...

I have no issue with opinions...sweeping judgements are usually bollocks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the southern women you have met haven't taken to you as you have a pre conceived idea that they aren't friendly. People pick up on that kind of thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m pretty sure geography has chuff all to do with personality (born in the Midlands, grew up in the South, currently living in the North, soon to be moving to East Anglia). "

Lol, don't think so Hun, I'm not trying to upset people it's just an opinion, I am a women and it's me who thinks this after 15 years of living here, and got some friends here as well, but most of my friends were northerners who moved here, it's a subject we all talked about on a girls night out once, just wanted to know what you all thought, and I respect all opinions.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It's *generally* true that people from the south are more reserved than people from the north. Someone gave a fairly goodd explanation on a north south divide thread recently. They basically said that the denser population tends to make us more protective of our space.

As far as honesty is concerned l think that depends on the person. Some people confuse rudeness with honesty and that's not nice whetever you live.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Maybe the southern women you have met haven't taken to you as you have a pre conceived idea that they aren't friendly. People pick up on that kind of thing. "

So there you go,nwhobare would they know what you are thinking?

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"I’m pretty sure geography has chuff all to do with personality (born in the Midlands, grew up in the South, currently living in the North, soon to be moving to East Anglia). "

East Anglia - magnet for swingers. Welcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seems like a rather pointless thread just to bash women from the south...

Having spent time all around the UK I think you're generalising in a big way...

So I stick with my initial response....

Utter bollocks.

You would lol x

Yeah...because I tend not to tar all with the same brush, generalise or judge people based on where they live...

"

Well said, just wish all were like you but there not Hun x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m pretty sure geography has chuff all to do with personality (born in the Midlands, grew up in the South, currently living in the North, soon to be moving to East Anglia).

East Anglia - magnet for swingers. Welcome "

Pmsl

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By *eckycreweslutTV/TS
over a year ago

crewe

I'd like to see 5 geordie girls take on 5 Essex girls what a cat fight! All mini skirts and heels! LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Maybe the southern women you have met haven't taken to you as you have a pre conceived idea that they aren't friendly. People pick up on that kind of thing.

So there you go,nwhobare would they know what you are thinking?"

You've never picked up on people's vibes? Positive or negative?

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By *exybecs777TV/TS
over a year ago

Weymouth

As a southerner living up north, I think the blokes are maybe more friendly. The women think that they are, but I’m my experience tend to be more bitchy and rude (sorry direct). I am basing my opinions from a work setting rather than swinging scene. That being said it depends on who you know and the circles you move in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems like a rather pointless thread just to bash women from the south...

Having spent time all around the UK I think you're generalising in a big way...

So I stick with my initial response....

Utter bollocks.

You would lol x

Yeah...because I tend not to tar all with the same brush, generalise or judge people based on where they live...

Well said, just wish all were like you but there not Hun x"

By the same rule as you're using, after your comments in should assume all from the north are judgemental, right?

No!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd like to see 5 geordie girls take on 5 Essex girls what a cat fight! All mini skirts and heels! LOL "

You perv! Lol to be honest most northern people like Essex people down to earth love it. Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m pretty sure geography has chuff all to do with personality (born in the Midlands, grew up in the South, currently living in the North, soon to be moving to East Anglia).

Lol, don't think so Hun, I'm not trying to upset people it's just an opinion, I am a women and it's me who thinks this after 15 years of living here, and got some friends here as well, but most of my friends were northerners who moved here, it's a subject we all talked about on a girls night out once, just wanted to know what you all thought, and I respect all opinions."

You didn’t upset me, it’s good to have differing opinions and a jolly debate. Also, give lovely Hampshire my best, I miss the seaside and I definitely miss the Still and West in Old Portsmouth.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Maybe the southern women you have met haven't taken to you as you have a pre conceived idea that they aren't friendly. People pick up on that kind of thing.

So there you go,nwhobare would they know what you are thinking?

You've never picked up on people's vibes? Positive or negative? "

Yes! But I don't look for them unless there obvious.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a southerner living up north, I think the blokes are maybe more friendly. The women think that they are, but I’m my experience tend to be more bitchy and rude (sorry direct). I am basing my opinions from a work setting rather than swinging scene. That being said it depends on who you know and the circles you move in. "

I think women can be bitchs everywhere, but northern girls tend to tell you to your face, I would lol

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By *uckymooMan
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire

Ha haaaa great fishing looks like you caught a few whoopers there!!

Northern Women are dangerous

They are loving, friend, content

Until they are uncontent then fook me vicious, vipers who relentlessly chip away at you until you are down beaten down trodden hen pecked subservient beings.

Wouldn’t change a thing!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seems like a rather pointless thread just to bash women from the south...

Having spent time all around the UK I think you're generalising in a big way...

So I stick with my initial response....

Utter bollocks.

You would lol x

Yeah...because I tend not to tar all with the same brush, generalise or judge people based on where they live...

Well said, just wish all were like you but there not Hun x

By the same rule as you're using, after your comments in should assume all from the north are judgemental, right?

No! "

This isn't an opinion your just looking for a fight lol bring it on Hun.

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By *eckycreweslutTV/TS
over a year ago

crewe

I thought all women were like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m pretty sure geography has chuff all to do with personality (born in the Midlands, grew up in the South, currently living in the North, soon to be moving to East Anglia).

Lol, don't think so Hun, I'm not trying to upset people it's just an opinion, I am a women and it's me who thinks this after 15 years of living here, and got some friends here as well, but most of my friends were northerners who moved here, it's a subject we all talked about on a girls night out once, just wanted to know what you all thought, and I respect all opinions.

You didn’t upset me, it’s good to have differing opinions and a jolly debate. Also, give lovely Hampshire my best, I miss the seaside and I definitely miss the Still and West in Old Portsmouth. "

Well if you ever want to visit give me a call ok xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Maybe the southern women you have met haven't taken to you as you have a pre conceived idea that they aren't friendly. People pick up on that kind of thing.

So there you go,nwhobare would they know what you are thinking?

You've never picked up on people's vibes? Positive or negative?

Yes! But I don't look for them unless there obvious."

Ok. In that case you're dead right. We're all unfriendly. Point proved. I wondered why I've gone my whole life with no friends. Now I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems like a rather pointless thread just to bash women from the south...

Having spent time all around the UK I think you're generalising in a big way...

So I stick with my initial response....

Utter bollocks.

You would lol x

Yeah...because I tend not to tar all with the same brush, generalise or judge people based on where they live...

Well said, just wish all were like you but there not Hun x

By the same rule as you're using, after your comments in should assume all from the north are judgemental, right?

No!

This isn't an opinion your just looking for a fight lol bring it on Hun."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ha haaaa great fishing looks like you caught a few whoopers there!!

Northern Women are dangerous

They are loving, friend, content

Until they are uncontent then fook me vicious, vipers who relentlessly chip away at you until you are down beaten down trodden hen pecked subservient beings.

Wouldn’t change a thing!!

Lol yep you got us x

"

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"We are northerners and have been living in the south, and we have come to the conclusion that northern women are much more honest and friendly than southern women, it's not a criticism it's an opinion. What do you think?"

Some are and some aren't

#threadclosed

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By *ammers43Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Seems like a rather pointless thread just to bash women from the south...

Having spent time all around the UK I think you're generalising in a big way...

So I stick with my initial response....

Utter bollocks.

You would lol x

Yeah...because I tend not to tar all with the same brush, generalise or judge people based on where they live...

Well said, just wish all were like you but there not Hun x

By the same rule as you're using, after your comments in should assume all from the north are judgemental, right?

No!

This isn't an opinion your just looking for a fight lol bring it on Hun."

I think its a fair point and your reply was urmm very friendly

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"We are northerners and have been living in the south, and we have come to the conclusion that northern women are much more honest and friendly than southern women, it's not a criticism it's an opinion. What do you think?"

I think you came to the conclusion that you wanted to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seems like a rather pointless thread just to bash women from the south...

Having spent time all around the UK I think you're generalising in a big way...

So I stick with my initial response....

Utter bollocks.

You would lol x

Yeah...because I tend not to tar all with the same brush, generalise or judge people based on where they live...

Well said, just wish all were like you but there not Hun x

By the same rule as you're using, after your comments in should assume all from the north are judgemental, right?

No!

This isn't an opinion your just looking for a fight lol bring it on Hun.

Only joking Hun x

"

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By *lanPartridgeMan
over a year ago

nottingham

Are Midlanders in the middle then? I mean: we are of course ...

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By *ammers43Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Seems like a rather pointless thread just to bash women from the south...

Having spent time all around the UK I think you're generalising in a big way...

So I stick with my initial response....

Utter bollocks.

You would lol x

Yeah...because I tend not to tar all with the same brush, generalise or judge people based on where they live...

Well said, just wish all were like you but there not Hun x

By the same rule as you're using, after your comments in should assume all from the north are judgemental, right?

No!

This isn't an opinion your just looking for a fight lol bring it on Hun.

I think its a fair point and your reply was urmm very friendly "

Wrong face should of been

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Seems like a rather pointless thread just to bash women from the south...

Having spent time all around the UK I think you're generalising in a big way...

So I stick with my initial response....

Utter bollocks.

You would lol x

Yeah...because I tend not to tar all with the same brush, generalise or judge people based on where they live...

Well said, just wish all were like you but there not Hun x

By the same rule as you're using, after your comments in should assume all from the north are judgemental, right?

No!

This isn't an opinion your just looking for a fight lol bring it on Hun.

I think its a fair point and your reply was urmm very friendly "

It was a joke x

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I think it's a generalisation more than anything - some Northerners may be more friendly than some Southerners, but conversely some Southerners...

Been living here 15 years and believe us, when we say there seems to be a big difference."

You'd think you'd realise after 15 years that if you haven't adapted, it's you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are Midlanders in the middle then? I mean: we are of course ... "

You lot are very mixed up lol

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I couldn't comment. I don't socialise with northerners "

Only cos they won't let you.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Utter bollocks.

With regards to honesty, there's definitely not a Northern/southern divide.

As a Herts girl living in hillbilly land, I think that it depends (to a certain extent) on how you interact with others with regards to friendliness.

If I was to use the unpleasant, racist experiences I've experienced up here as evidence that Northern women are that way, it'd be a bit of an offensive generalisation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's a generalisation more than anything - some Northerners may be more friendly than some Southerners, but conversely some Southerners...

Been living here 15 years and believe us, when we say there seems to be a big difference.

You'd think you'd realise after 15 years that if you haven't adapted, it's you."

It a nice area Hun, we have adapted when in Rome and all that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldn't comment. I don't socialise with northerners

Only cos they won't let you."

Yeah I've been banned from the north of the country for being too unfriendly

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By *ammers43Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Seems like a rather pointless thread just to bash women from the south...

Having spent time all around the UK I think you're generalising in a big way...

So I stick with my initial response....

Utter bollocks.

You would lol x

Yeah...because I tend not to tar all with the same brush, generalise or judge people based on where they live...

Well said, just wish all were like you but there not Hun x

By the same rule as you're using, after your comments in should assume all from the north are judgemental, right?

No!

This isn't an opinion your just looking for a fight lol bring it on Hun.

I think its a fair point and your reply was urmm very friendly

It was a joke x"

Ok fair enough im a bit slow this morning x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people from different places, with different social norms (however small the differences may seem) are more likely to see those differences as personality *faults* rather than personality *differences*.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Utter bollocks.

With regards to honesty, there's definitely not a Northern/southern divide.

As a Herts girl living in hillbilly land, I think that it depends (to a certain extent) on how you interact with others with regards to friendliness.

If I was to use the unpleasant, racist experiences I've experienced up here as evidence that Northern women are that way, it'd be a bit of an offensive generalisation."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Utter bollocks.

With regards to honesty, there's definitely not a Northern/southern divide.

As a Herts girl living in hillbilly land, I think that it depends (to a certain extent) on how you interact with others with regards to friendliness.

If I was to use the unpleasant, racist experiences I've experienced up here as evidence that Northern women are that way, it'd be a bit of an offensive generalisation."

Not a north south divide!!!! What planet you living on? Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's *generally* true that people from the south are more reserved than people from the north. Someone gave a fairly goodd explanation on a north south divide thread recently. They basically said that the denser population tends to make us more protective of our space.

As far as honesty is concerned l think that depends on the person. Some people confuse rudeness with honesty and that's not nice whetever you live."

I reckon there are more people living in my Borough than the whole of Liverpool. I went there once-expecting it to be teeming with people-and it looked like it was closed.

The few people I did cross paths with didn't say a word to me, so I'm going with they are all ignorant. I regularly chat with people at the bus stop or in shops.

Is the OP talking about people in swingers clubs or in general?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I live in the Midlands, grew up in the south east and spent a few years in Loughborough so not really that North.

I think it all depends on you, how confident you are, how friendly, how approachable etc. It bollocks that women from either area are friendlier than the other.

Having said that we have a couple of ladies from Yorkshire way at work and they are both really hard work. "

Oooooo interesting. In what way are they hard work ?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I think it's a generalisation more than anything - some Northerners may be more friendly than some Southerners, but conversely some Southerners... "

couldn't agree more!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think people from different places, with different social norms (however small the differences may seem) are more likely to see those differences as personality *faults* rather than personality *differences*. "

Good point xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think people from different places, with different social norms (however small the differences may seem) are more likely to see those differences as personality *faults* rather than personality *differences*. "

I expect you experience that a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think people from different places, with different social norms (however small the differences may seem) are more likely to see those differences as personality *faults* rather than personality *differences*.

I expect you experience that a lot."

Yep.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think people from different places, with different social norms (however small the differences may seem) are more likely to see those differences as personality *faults* rather than personality *differences*.

I expect you experience that a lot.

Yep. "

one of us and by default our children have continental european heritage. It's interesting to observe the assumptions made.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think people from different places, with different social norms (however small the differences may seem) are more likely to see those differences as personality *faults* rather than personality *differences*.

I expect you experience that a lot."

Yes but finding it hard to trust a southern woman, so many has let me down, and they do tend to be a lot more dominant here than the north, just an opinion but I now wouldn't trust a southern woman, like I said. X

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think people from different places, with different social norms (however small the differences may seem) are more likely to see those differences as personality *faults* rather than personality *differences*.

I expect you experience that a lot.

Yes but finding it hard to trust a southern woman, so many has let me down, and they do tend to be a lot more dominant here than the north, just an opinion but I now wouldn't trust a southern woman, like I said. X"

By dominant what do you mean?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I would just like to thank everyone for the input, it's been interesting xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think people from different places, with different social norms (however small the differences may seem) are more likely to see those differences as personality *faults* rather than personality *differences*.

I expect you experience that a lot.

Yep.

one of us and by default our children have continental european heritage. It's interesting to observe the assumptions made."

To be fair, I'm guilty of it too. Moving here I constantly thought things people did were rude. It takes a while, and a bit of openmindedness, to realize that it's just a bunch of people who grew up doing things differently than me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think people from different places, with different social norms (however small the differences may seem) are more likely to see those differences as personality *faults* rather than personality *differences*.

I expect you experience that a lot.

Yes but finding it hard to trust a southern woman, so many has let me down, and they do tend to be a lot more dominant here than the north, just an opinion but I now wouldn't trust a southern woman, like I said. X

By dominant what do you mean?"

It's a pc thing Hun, southern women seem to have taken the burn your bra thing a bit too far lol x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think people from different places, with different social norms (however small the differences may seem) are more likely to see those differences as personality *faults* rather than personality *differences*.

I expect you experience that a lot.

Yep.

one of us and by default our children have continental european heritage. It's interesting to observe the assumptions made.

To be fair, I'm guilty of it too. Moving here I constantly thought things people did were rude. It takes a while, and a bit of openmindedness, to realize that it's just a bunch of people who grew up doing things differently than me. "

Yeah. That's a good attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think people from different places, with different social norms (however small the differences may seem) are more likely to see those differences as personality *faults* rather than personality *differences*.

I expect you experience that a lot.

Yes but finding it hard to trust a southern woman, so many has let me down, and they do tend to be a lot more dominant here than the north, just an opinion but I now wouldn't trust a southern woman, like I said. X

By dominant what do you mean?

It's a pc thing Hun, southern women seem to have taken the burn your bra thing a bit too far lol x"

Now get back to the kitchen woman and cook me my tea

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think people from different places, with different social norms (however small the differences may seem) are more likely to see those differences as personality *faults* rather than personality *differences*.

I expect you experience that a lot.

Yes but finding it hard to trust a southern woman, so many has let me down, and they do tend to be a lot more dominant here than the north, just an opinion but I now wouldn't trust a southern woman, like I said. X

By dominant what do you mean?

It's a pc thing Hun, southern women seem to have taken the burn your bra thing a bit too far lol x"

You haven't met my mum then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think people from different places, with different social norms (however small the differences may seem) are more likely to see those differences as personality *faults* rather than personality *differences*.

I expect you experience that a lot.

Yep.

one of us and by default our children have continental european heritage. It's interesting to observe the assumptions made.

To be fair, I'm guilty of it too. Moving here I constantly thought things people did were rude. It takes a while, and a bit of openmindedness, to realize that it's just a bunch of people who grew up doing things differently than me.

Yeah. That's a good attitude "

Like I said, it's an opinion, when in Rome, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m pretty sure geography has chuff all to do with personality (born in the Midlands, grew up in the South, currently living in the North, soon to be moving to East Anglia).

East Anglia - magnet for swingers. Welcome "

Now we just need to have East Anglia added as an area and not lumped in under East Midlands lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think people from different places, with different social norms (however small the differences may seem) are more likely to see those differences as personality *faults* rather than personality *differences*.

I expect you experience that a lot.

Yes but finding it hard to trust a southern woman, so many has let me down, and they do tend to be a lot more dominant here than the north, just an opinion but I now wouldn't trust a southern woman, like I said. X

By dominant what do you mean?

It's a pc thing Hun, southern women seem to have taken the burn your bra thing a bit too far lol x

You haven't met my mum then "

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I live in the Midlands, grew up in the south east and spent a few years in Loughborough so not really that North.

I think it all depends on you, how confident you are, how friendly, how approachable etc. It bollocks that women from either area are friendlier than the other.

Having said that we have a couple of ladies from Yorkshire way at work and they are both really hard work.

Oooooo interesting. In what way are they hard work ?"

Difficult to chat to. They always seem to be quite defensive. Could just be me I guess, I've worked with these 2 for years and it's always been the same.

Northern guys seem to be much friendlier with me!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I live in the Midlands, grew up in the south east and spent a few years in Loughborough so not really that North.

I think it all depends on you, how confident you are, how friendly, how approachable etc. It bollocks that women from either area are friendlier than the other.

Having said that we have a couple of ladies from Yorkshire way at work and they are both really hard work.

Oooooo interesting. In what way are they hard work ?

Difficult to chat to. They always seem to be quite defensive. Could just be me I guess, I've worked with these 2 for years and it's always been the same.

Northern guys seem to be much friendlier with me!!! "

I wonder why!!! Lol

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I live in the Midlands, grew up in the south east and spent a few years in Loughborough so not really that North.

I think it all depends on you, how confident you are, how friendly, how approachable etc. It bollocks that women from either area are friendlier than the other.

Having said that we have a couple of ladies from Yorkshire way at work and they are both really hard work.

Oooooo interesting. In what way are they hard work ?

Difficult to chat to. They always seem to be quite defensive. Could just be me I guess, I've worked with these 2 for years and it's always been the same.

Northern guys seem to be much friendlier with me!!!

I wonder why!!! Lol "

Maybe because they are more relaxed and don't have a chip on their shoulder?!!! There I said it

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

Now now boys and girls play nicely. It’s only a bit of fun lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We said this at the Barnsley social the other week

‘Do Londoners go to socials and just grunt at one another like when you try to chat to someone at a tube station’ lol.

Joking aside you’re right. There’s good and bad wherever you go xx"

I'm a Londoner and have never found London unfriendly - especially since moving to Norwich 6 years ago, where without being actively hostile, in general I have found the people very inward-looking. Geography has to come into it I guess, but mostly it's down to your own experience and attitude

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Now now boys and girls play nicely. It’s only a bit of fun lol"

Would love too lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I live in the Midlands, grew up in the south east and spent a few years in Loughborough so not really that North.

I think it all depends on you, how confident you are, how friendly, how approachable etc. It bollocks that women from either area are friendlier than the other.

Having said that we have a couple of ladies from Yorkshire way at work and they are both really hard work.

Oooooo interesting. In what way are they hard work ?

Difficult to chat to. They always seem to be quite defensive. Could just be me I guess, I've worked with these 2 for years and it's always been the same.

Northern guys seem to be much friendlier with me!!!

I wonder why!!! Lol

Maybe because they are more relaxed and don't have a chip on their shoulder?!!! There I said it "
with how you look, I think it's a bit more than that Hun lol xx

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I live in the Midlands, grew up in the south east and spent a few years in Loughborough so not really that North.

I think it all depends on you, how confident you are, how friendly, how approachable etc. It bollocks that women from either area are friendlier than the other.

Having said that we have a couple of ladies from Yorkshire way at work and they are both really hard work.

Oooooo interesting. In what way are they hard work ?

Difficult to chat to. They always seem to be quite defensive. Could just be me I guess, I've worked with these 2 for years and it's always been the same.

Northern guys seem to be much friendlier with me!!! "

Thanks

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

I know lots of women from the north & south & have found they both have their unique qualities / different styles I love, I have been traveling up north for years & find the ladies up there straight talking & very forward compared to southern ladies who may be just as naughty but have that refined barrier you have to crack first.

Don't forget the Welsh ladies in this debate as they too are unique in a sexy style all of their own too.

Who's best in the sack, I can't say yet I don't have the experience lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not English but from my experience of meeting lots of English ladies is that Northern ladies seem to be more friendly and forthcoming in getting down to business and southern ladies a bit less until you got to them and there sexy accent... I once new a girl from Nottingham.. She was extremely friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm from the southwest and I'm definitely a lot quieter and more reserved than any of the northern women I've met in life. Generally really lovely but they can sometimes come across as brash and in your face... So I tend to back off as can find it quite overwhelming.

I think people show their warmth and kindness in different ways though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm from the southwest and I'm definitely a lot quieter and more reserved than any of the northern women I've met in life. Generally really lovely but they can sometimes come across as brash and in your face... So I tend to back off as can find it quite overwhelming.

I think people show their warmth and kindness in different ways though."

This is a good comment, and sums us women or northerners up, we don't mean to but we can be in your face, I have been Todd that before by southerners men and women lol, well said. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are northerners and have been living in the south, and we have come to the conclusion that northern women are much more honest and friendly than southern women, it's not a criticism it's an opinion. What do you think?"

Im a southerner and you won’t find anyone more friendly

I take the time to politely reply to as many lists as I can whether I’m interested if not..

Manners and a good nature exist all over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a part-Northerner who now lives in the South. I’ve lived in Yorkshire & Manchester, and now London. I don’t agree at all that there’s a difference between them. People in Manchester can be just as standoffish as people in London, and people can also be really lovely and friendly here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are northerners and have been living in the south, and we have come to the conclusion that northern women are much more honest and friendly than southern women, it's not a criticism it's an opinion. What do you think?

Im a southerner and you won’t find anyone more friendly

I take the time to politely reply to as many lists as I can whether I’m interested if not..

Manners and a good nature exist all over "

Agreed xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m a part-Northerner who now lives in the South. I’ve lived in Yorkshire & Manchester, and now London. I don’t agree at all that there’s a difference between them. People in Manchester can be just as standoffish as people in London, and people can also be really lovely and friendly here. "

Not talking about the whole population of the south Hun, but definitely a difference by a long way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a southerner who now lives very happily up North.. I think a lot has to do with lifestyle, how relaxed and content you are as to how friendly you come across. 25 years working/commuting in London.. stress, tiredness and expense can wear people down. I chose to move North for a lifestyle change and my sanity , best thing I ever did, and everyone I have met here work and social has been friendly.. I would never live down South again.. do I think that southerners are not friendly?.. no.. just maybe don’t have as much time and space to relax and chill and chat.. just my personal opionion A x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a part-Northerner who now lives in the South. I’ve lived in Yorkshire & Manchester, and now London. I don’t agree at all that there’s a difference between them. People in Manchester can be just as standoffish as people in London, and people can also be really lovely and friendly here.

Not talking about the whole population of the south Hun, but definitely a difference by a long way x"

Well you did make a sweeping generalisation in your op so it came across as referring to the whole of the south.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are northerners and have been living in the south, and we have come to the conclusion that northern women are much more honest and friendly than southern women, it's not a criticism it's an opinion. What do you think?"

I totally agree

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

People are just people wherever they are around the world....I generally find if you're nice and outgoing people will be the same in return. I've never had an issue wherever I've lived.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm from the southwest and I'm definitely a lot quieter and more reserved than any of the northern women I've met in life. Generally really lovely but they can sometimes come across as brash and in your face... So I tend to back off as can find it quite overwhelming.

I think people show their warmth and kindness in different ways though.

This is a good comment, and sums us women or northerners up, we don't mean to but we can be in your face, I have been Todd that before by southerners men and women lol, well said. X"

Aww I wasn't being rude in any way so I hope no one took it that way. It just might be why southern women can seem standoffish perhaps to northerners xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a load of shit. Whether you're a northerner or a southerner you get nice people and not so nice people. No matter where you live.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We spend a lot of time in the south. We think you need to give it more time and meet more people. Go so far as to say the opposite is true!

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Being a typical down to earth eastender I get on well with most people whoever & where ever they originate from, I can go Glasgow or Brighton & always find someone to chat to so it's a persons attitude more than regional areas that alienate them from the rest of society.

The north & south are always going to be here & I find it an adventure to learn each others ways & enjoy peoples company for who they are not where their from.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"we are south north and I can tell you now northern women are 100% better friendly sexy bigger tits more open minded and generally better people than southerners and I'm born and bred in South London.... soyaknow

Charming.... "

Seconded!

From a friendly, open minded southern woman (40F boobs too so stick that in your judgemental pipe). The word 'friendly' appears frequently on our verifications so I think your assertion is bollocks.

PS

I lived in Yorkshire for 5 years so have a basis for comparison. People are people and you get all sorts wherever you go.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

PPS

The south is a lot more than just London by the way!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I'm originally from the Midlands but I've lived down South, Herts & Sussex for more than half my life.

Moving south was a huge culture shock.

Passing people in the street, in the supermarket "how do" and being met with looks of horror that a stranger had spoken to them

It's better now days people seem to be more approachable.

But I'd definitely agree the North is friendlier, I visit my family, can say hello to someone up there & still be chatting an hour later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yorkshire birds will happily say stuff to your face other folks not so sure fellas tend to be the same

At least round me they do

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow


"We said this at the Barnsley social the other week

‘Do Londoners go to socials and just grunt at one another like when you try to chat to someone at a tube station’ lol.

Joking aside you’re right. There’s good and bad wherever you go xx"

Yes I do grunt at people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about us women in the middle?

This post is middleist.

I'm putting a complaint in to the pc world idiots x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New post for you middle people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"New post for you middle people"

Call it calling all the Inbetweeners x

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I grew up all over the south and now live in the capital but would agree.

I just don't like entitled people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"New post for you middle people

Call it calling all the Inbetweeners x "

Damn too late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed I’m a Yorkshireman living down here and we’re more upfront and honest in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So iv don a mid vs wales was gonna do an irish on but i didnt want it kicking off again so though better

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's amazing the shit people spout just to start a thread!

Yes we are Southerners and proud. Southerners lives matter. Down with the Northerners.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"So iv don a mid vs wales was gonna do an irish on but i didnt want it kicking off again so though better "

Eeerrr... You're forgetting an entire country!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So iv don a mid vs wales was gonna do an irish on but i didnt want it kicking off again so though better

Eeerrr... You're forgetting an entire country! "

I class you as northern

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are northerners and have been living in the south, and we have come to the conclusion that northern women are much more honest and friendly than southern women, it's not a criticism it's an opinion. What do you think?"

If you think people are X then you will act Y and therefore they will respond to the way you are acting so it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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