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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How and where did you both discuss swinging how long did it take to talk about it and who was first to bring the subject up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

With us I mr always had the fantasy but never told miss occasionally I would put porn on when we mad love always hot wife or wife swap films but I never told her how I felt then one night I was out with a good friend and he came back to mine miss was in bed I couldn’t find any bed sheets for him on the sofa so I said come up to our bed miss will be in her p j’s. I was not thinking anything could happen but she was sleeping across the bed so he went down stairs next day I told her and she said what if I touched him.well that woke the fantasy up on my head then about a year later I was brave enough to tell her how I felt her reaction was surprising

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By *ewcouple321Couple
over a year ago

teesside

We realised it turned us both on but It took us a few years of fantasising before we finally took the first step...still new to it but can’t wait for our next encounter x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I met my partner in a porn cinema no need for discussion

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By *ilNdoCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

It was me (Mrs) who broached the topic!

Yrs ago a work colleague had shown me this site, I found it amazing and I researched swinging.

I'd always thought of 3somes with men and women but, never couples.

One night Mr had called me fridget (It was obvs drought season) and I said 'You don't know how naughty I can be'. He said he knew I was going to say let's add people in!

The rest is history....

We made a profile and thought let's just go with the flow and see what happens. That was 3 yrs ago.

We've had some amazing horny nights with mainly couples. Men and women.

Yet more to experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I first mentioned it, back when the internet was only just born, you can imagine how difficult it was back then to arrange meeting, the websites were few and the abuse was unchecked, needless to say this site has been our most successful and we’ve both met a lot of lovely people here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was always in my wank bank. I Googled how to spice up your sex life. Found the old game 20 questions play it via text. Have to admit I was shitting myself with the first few. Then the Mrs answers started comeing back. I was really surprised at some of them. Fast forward a few months and we are here. We have not swung yet. We just gonna take it slow and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Mick) have previous experience, and after Amanda told me a tale from her past, then asked me if I saw her any different. (And was genuinely concerned)

I tod her a similar but more extreme tale I've been involved in with a previous girlfriend.

Then replied. No, I don't see you any different, but now how do you see me?

Her reply was..... Omg, that sounds so hot.

Me.... You like thee sound of that?

Amanda... Oh gawd yes

Me.... Would you like to do something like that?

Amanda.... Gawd, yes please.... I've always fantasised about that.

Me.... Ah, ok, maybe we should talk about it then.

And now we're here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most folk will discuss it during sex as a fantasy,that's what we did,but to my happy surprise, Mrs kept the interest going and it turned in a reality than a fantasy about 18 years ago.. things have changed for us over the years, for me Mr, it's more of a thrill to see her having fun or solo meets and telling me about them as we have sex ..

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London

I met my girlfriend on a BDSM site. As a veteran swinger looking for something deeper and not wanting to hide who I am. I felt that it was a better place to look than traditional dating sites.

I hid nothing about my desire to keep swinging and she was open minded and eager to explore her sexuality so we set up a joint account on here.

Because swinging was on the cards right from the beginning we've made a point of focusing on building solid relationship foundations and only swing occasionally. Seems to work for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We were just discussing fantasies one day in bed and a fmf came up as our first one we’d both like to try. Got to do that and found this site and the rest is history as they say. X

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By *aggie and DanCouple
over a year ago

Swansea


"How and where did you both discuss swinging how long did it take to talk about it and who was first to bring the subject up "

We got into group sex after we had a relationship that lasted half a year with another couple; it just seemed a natural progression after discussing how much we loved MMFF. We don't play that often and only at clubs with nice people; our last orgy started over a glass of wine in a Bristol beer garden-old school.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’ve talked about having extra people for sex over the years but not swinging. A d*unken conversation 3 weeks ago turned into MrH registering us on Fab and now we’re raring to go!

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