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By *infullysweet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swindon

A single guy who asked us to attend a party.

We asked who else was going.

He said people who were not on fabs.

We said if he had no guest list or photos of those coming we were unlikely to attend.

To which he replied that his party wasn't for us as we were 'Hardened swingers'

One question for the lovely people of fabs.... Is this an insult?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I think 'hardened swinger' is used in a derogatory way. People are keen to say they are not 'hardened swingers' on their profiles.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

If the men aren’t hardened, there won’t be much swinging...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"A single guy who asked us to attend a party.

We asked who else was going.

He said people who were not on fabs.

We said if he had no guest list or photos of those coming we were unlikely to attend.

To which he replied that his party wasn't for us as we were 'Hardened swingers'

One question for the lovely people of fabs.... Is this an insult? "

People say things designed to dismay when they don’t get what they want. Ignore him - your interpretation of ‘hardened’ might be different to his, and indeed, you may decide that adjective isn’t accurate anyway. It boils down to: who cares?

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By *infullysweet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swindon

Oh maybe 'you don't know the half of it' wasn't the right reply then

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By *infullysweet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swindon


"If the men aren’t hardened, there won’t be much swinging..."

True that

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Oh maybe 'you don't know the half of it' wasn't the right reply then "

A witty reply to ‘you’re hardened swingers’ could have been ‘you’re too soft for us’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A single guy who asked us to attend a party.

We asked who else was going.

He said people who were not on fabs.

We said if he had no guest list or photos of those coming we were unlikely to attend.

To which he replied that his party wasn't for us as we were 'Hardened swingers'

One question for the lovely people of fabs.... Is this an insult? "

He said it to save face because you dared to refuse his invite! He needs to build a bridge and get over himself

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I wouldn't be upset by that remark.

Off topic....but....you have beautiful boobs OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe, maybe not.

It might just mean everyone else is just starting out and might for whatever reason feel intimidated by anyone more experienced.

Similar to going to a club for the first time kind of thing.

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By *infullysweet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swindon


"A single guy who asked us to attend a party.

We asked who else was going.

He said people who were not on fabs.

We said if he had no guest list or photos of those coming we were unlikely to attend.

To which he replied that his party wasn't for us as we were 'Hardened swingers'

One question for the lovely people of fabs.... Is this an insult?

He said it to save face because you dared to refuse his invite! He needs to build a bridge and get over himself "

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By *infullysweet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swindon


"I wouldn't be upset by that remark.

Off topic....but....you have beautiful boobs OP "

Thanks

And right back at ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A single guy who asked us to attend a party.

We asked who else was going.

He said people who were not on fabs.

We said if he had no guest list or photos of those coming we were unlikely to attend.

To which he replied that his party wasn't for us as we were 'Hardened swingers'

One question for the lovely people of fabs.... Is this an insult? "

It was meant as one but I’m a firm believer in if the person doesn’t matter to you then it’s irrelevant anyway!

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By *infullysweet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swindon


"Maybe, maybe not.

It might just mean everyone else is just starting out and might for whatever reason feel intimidated by anyone more experienced.

Similar to going to a club for the first time kind of thing."

Valid point if it was written in that context. However, he has no idea what experience we have aside from our veri's which he should of. Checked out before sending us a message

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By *infullysweet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swindon


"A single guy who asked us to attend a party.

We asked who else was going.

He said people who were not on fabs.

We said if he had no guest list or photos of those coming we were unlikely to attend.

To which he replied that his party wasn't for us as we were 'Hardened swingers'

One question for the lovely people of fabs.... Is this an insult?

It was meant as one but I’m a firm believer in if the person doesn’t matter to you then it’s irrelevant anyway!"

I did respond to his intended insult with 'thanks for providing some entertainment for what was a dull night'

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By *andrewMan
over a year ago

GUILDFORD

Probably no party at all and was an attempt to get you to go to a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was saying you wouldn't enjoy it because all the men there would have soft, floppy cocks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably no party at all and was an attempt to get you to go to a meet."

And the other people cancelled at the last minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

45 veris I’d say time served or experienced not hardened ffs x

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"A single guy who asked us to attend a party.

We asked who else was going.

He said people who were not on fabs.

We said if he had no guest list or photos of those coming we were unlikely to attend.

To which he replied that his party wasn't for us as we were 'Hardened swingers'

One question for the lovely people of fabs.... Is this an insult? "

A single bloke looking to get you round and lo and behold all the other couples who are not on fab dont turn up

Ahh that old chestnut

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By *infullysweet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swindon


"He was saying you wouldn't enjoy it because all the men there would have soft, floppy cocks. "

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By *infullysweet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swindon


"45 veris I’d say time served or experienced not hardened ffs x"

Well I prefer your spin on it

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By *infullysweet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swindon


"Probably no party at all and was an attempt to get you to go to a meet.

And the other people cancelled at the last minute. "

Does this actually happen?

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By *heEpicureanMan
over a year ago

Warminster

By default isn’t anyone on here with a few veris hardened? You’re either in the lifestyle or not, tell him to bore off

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By *ccasionalfunCouple
over a year ago

hereandthere

I would have told him "go hard or go home,We are real swingers"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably no party at all and was an attempt to get you to go to a meet.

And the other people cancelled at the last minute.

Does this actually happen? "

more than you would think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably no party at all and was an attempt to get you to go to a meet.

And the other people cancelled at the last minute.

Does this actually happen? "

So I've been told.

It happens to men too. They pay to attend a party and only one woman turns up, but the others are on their way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"By default isn’t anyone on here with a few veris hardened? You’re either in the lifestyle or not, tell him to bore off "

I'm a concrete post then.

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By *infullysweet OP   Couple
over a year ago

Swindon


"By default isn’t anyone on here with a few veris hardened? You’re either in the lifestyle or not, tell him to bore off

I'm a concrete post then. "

Now that's something to be proud of

I will use that line in the future

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