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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How do you deal with feeling angry? How do you get it out of your system?

Slamming doors or smashing things might feel good but it doesn't seem to help.

Do you have any anger management tips?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Yeah man ....... don't lose it.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Seriously, watching adults having a hissy is embarrassing and sometimes scary.

It's what two to six year olds do.

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By *ammers43Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Go for a long walk, fresh and air

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

"How do you deal with feeling angry? How do you get it out of your system?

Slamming doors or smashing things might feel good but it doesn't seem to help.

Do you have any anger management tips? "

If it is someone who has pissed you off, my favoured action is a sweet smile and scheming eyes. It will drive them nuts wondering what you are plotting!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Start a thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A nice cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At my work, there's a long corridor leading from the restaurant to the kitchen which is pretty soundproof... therefore I rant quietly in the kitchen (with lots of swears) count to ten then face the guests again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for a drive or masturbate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music

London grammar works for me.

Breath deep and have a brew xx

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By *ustakittenWoman
over a year ago

Truro

Go for a run.

Or deal with what made you angry if you can.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"How do you deal with feeling angry? How do you get it out of your system?

Slamming doors or smashing things might feel good but it doesn't seem to help.

Do you have any anger management tips?

If it is someone who has pissed you off, my favoured action is a sweet smile and scheming eyes. It will drive them nuts wondering what you are plotting! "

Love that!

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Go for a run and if it is somebody else who has annoyed me plot revenge.

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By *ammers43Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Go for a long walk, fresh and air

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I meant fresh air

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By *wo4play69Couple
over a year ago

bicester

All great advice, better than ours anyways, which is,

REVENGE!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The response depends on the cause! If I can scream I will ...if not I will plot! Hope you can chill soon x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"At my work, there's a long corridor leading from the restaurant to the kitchen which is pretty soundproof... therefore I rant quietly in the kitchen (with lots of swears) count to ten then face the guests again. "

I sometimes scream in the car, that feels good!

I'm not actually in a bad mood right now, it's just a question I was talking about today. Trying to give teenagers an outlet for their hormonal anger.

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

"How do you deal with feeling angry? How do you get it out of your system?

Slamming doors or smashing things might feel good but it doesn't seem to help.

Do you have any anger management tips?

If it is someone who has pissed you off, my favoured action is a sweet smile and scheming eyes. It will drive them nuts wondering what you are plotting!

Love that!

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The only things I actually plot are whats for dinner and whens my next fuck!

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By *orgeouslyyoursWoman
over a year ago

essex just looking around

Emotional reactions are created in our subconscious they are not based on reality or even facts merely our own personal.interpretations of events based on our past experiences and triggered.

Anger and unmet expectations go hand in hand.

There are many 3rd wave therapies to help you understand your triggers and how to combat them..

The brain is an immensely powerful tool / machine it can be re programmed...

I am not asking you to imagine that you can remain calm..Merely to suspend the idea that you can not xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Emotional reactions are created in our subconscious they are not based on reality or even facts merely our own personal.interpretations of events based on our past experiences and triggered.

Anger and unmet expectations go hand in hand.

There are many 3rd wave therapies to help you understand your triggers and how to combat them..

The brain is an immensely powerful tool / machine it can be re programmed...

I am not asking you to imagine that you can remain calm..Merely to suspend the idea that you can not xx "

Welcome eloquence and very interesting.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Emotional reactions are created in our subconscious they are not based on reality or even facts merely our own personal.interpretations of events based on our past experiences and triggered.

Anger and unmet expectations go hand in hand.

There are many 3rd wave therapies to help you understand your triggers and how to combat them..

The brain is an immensely powerful tool / machine it can be re programmed...

I am not asking you to imagine that you can remain calm..Merely to suspend the idea that you can not xx "

Well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know every body says it but counting to 30 and concentrating on your breathing helps me

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By *orwegian BlueMan
over a year ago

Iceland, but Aldi is closer..

music usually works for me, some light piano... A bit or Richard Clayderman does it for me (although any pianist will work)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take a few deep breaths, think about the consequences of my possible reaction then eat cake or chocolate or get busy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the past I've screamed. Used to do this in a previous job. Go to the loos and scream like a banshee. Definitely helped as a release of tension.

Not always possible but I try to deal with situations that are pissing me off before I get to yo angry stage and this is actually more manageable than you may think. I think a lot of day to day anger comes from lack of communication and people feeling taken for granted. If you're not happy with a situation say so, if someone is pissing you off then tell them. If you don't want to do something,then don't. It sounds very simple but as someone who used to (sometimes still does) run around like a blue arsed fly after others, there is an immense feeling of relief and empowerment from simply saying "No". It means I'm less likely to feel resentful and angry towards others and, more importantly, less angry with myself.

Wee mindfulness apps like Headspace are good too. And massage and other relaxation therapies.

Oh,and wine helps too.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

"At my work, there's a long corridor leading from the restaurant to the kitchen which is pretty soundproof... therefore I rant quietly in the kitchen (with lots of swears) count to ten then face the guests again.

I sometimes scream in the car, that feels good!

I'm not actually in a bad mood right now, it's just a question I was talking about today. Trying to give teenagers an outlet for their hormonal anger. "

Teens hormonal anything.. Exercise and fresh air. competitive anything swim- ice skate- gym- box. Get them into sport young. Never had any of that with my two as they never had time for temper or boredom. In bed by 9 up at 5 am skate at 6am 50 miles down the road 3 times a week.In school by 9am. Gym and skate after school 5 days. We were all too bloody exhausted for hormones lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Push ups until arms hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music.

I can change my mood with the right tracks loud.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"In the past I've screamed. Used to do this in a previous job. Go to the loos and scream like a banshee. Definitely helped as a release of tension.

Not always possible but I try to deal with situations that are pissing me off before I get to yo angry stage and this is actually more manageable than you may think. I think a lot of day to day anger comes from lack of communication and people feeling taken for granted. If you're not happy with a situation say so, if someone is pissing you off then tell them. If you don't want to do something,then don't. It sounds very simple but as someone who used to (sometimes still does) run around like a blue arsed fly after others, there is an immense feeling of relief and empowerment from simply saying "No". It means I'm less likely to feel resentful and angry towards others and, more importantly, less angry with myself.

Wee mindfulness apps like Headspace are good too. And massage and other relaxation therapies.

Oh,and wine helps too."
what does your wife do to calm?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

When my son was a teenager he went through terrible anger tantrums. I had to wait until he was in the right frame of mind then we discussed it. Wrote triggers and made plan. It worked

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"At my work, there's a long corridor leading from the restaurant to the kitchen which is pretty soundproof... therefore I rant quietly in the kitchen (with lots of swears) count to ten then face the guests again.

I sometimes scream in the car, that feels good!

I'm not actually in a bad mood right now, it's just a question I was talking about today. Trying to give teenagers an outlet for their hormonal anger. "

I bought one of those blow up figures that you punch for one hormonal teenager. It's so silly that seeing me demonstrating hitting it changed anger to laughter. It wasn't needed for long and now we talk about what is making them angry.

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By *icearmsMan
over a year ago

KIDLINGTON

Go for a walk...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When my son was a teenager he went through terrible anger tantrums. I had to wait until he was in the right frame of mind then we discussed it. Wrote triggers and made plan. It worked"

Great idea.

I wish I had you around in my teens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I feel like I’m getting angry I count to ten,

and then ask the question is it really worth being angry over this situation, 9 times out of ten it really isn’t worth the hassle

If the one out of 10 times situation causes anger it’s probably justified go crazy lol

Failing that have a herbal cigarette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give yourself five minutes to be alone, deep breaths, and most of all, NEVER text anyone when you’re angry. Wait half an hour, the likelihood is that you won’t feel the same 30 minutes later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you deal with feeling angry? How do you get it out of your system?

Slamming doors or smashing things might feel good but it doesn't seem to help.

Do you have any anger management tips? "

I take a fitbaw and boot fuck out it onto the fence

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Depends what's made me angry but a good old scream and shot, Guestual therapy, works wonders.

Walking the dog and playing with him helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get angry very often and it's only ever a quick flash of anger, then it goes on its own.

I'm lucky I suppose.

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

"If it is someone who has pissed you off, my favoured action is a sweet smile and scheming eyes. It will drive them nuts wondering what you are plotting! "

I prefer to tell the person why I’m not happy with them, and then resolve it. Scheming eyes are for soap operas and teenagers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve spent a long time dealing with it, when I was a teenager the answer was punching someone, as I got older it moved to working out, now I’ve got to the point where I tell myself it almost certainly doesn’t matter, be it what made you made, the person or situation...

Maybe not the healthiest but it works for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm one of those people who is angrily calm. If someone is having a go at me, and I'm not reacting, I'm plotting their demise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Give yourself five minutes to be alone, deep breaths, and most of all, NEVER text anyone when you’re angry. Wait half an hour, the likelihood is that you won’t feel the same 30 minutes later."

Or email if a work environment!

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By *ustme6Man
over a year ago

tamworth

So angry...go to the gym..or jump.on the boxing ring...dimples. ..

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

My first reaction is get sweary so long as there's no little ears around. Maybe a cry if it's really got to me....

Then I'll put some music on, deep breathes, bit of single, single, doubling in the kitchen. Or a walk with some music on

Portishead or something like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've been very curious about lots of things lately, OP.

I spend time with my dogs when I'm angry. No one could stay angry when they're messing around with their dogs. I don't think it's possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Give yourself five minutes to be alone, deep breaths, and most of all, NEVER text anyone when you’re angry. Wait half an hour, the likelihood is that you won’t feel the same 30 minutes later.

Or email if a work environment!"

Yes!

If I’m super pissed, I just finish it with ‘regards’. Haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bite a pillow

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

I so rarely get angry I don't even know how I handle it... I know if Im feeling a bit narked a drive with loud music helps... I sing until my voice goes croaky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deep breathing works. Tell your self it's not worth getting a bad heart and acid stomach over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

usually take my anger out on my bike when cycling, excercise releases stress and anger

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I control my mind it does not control me, I simply decide I am not angry and it is done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sing out loud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I control my mind it does not control me, I simply decide I am not angry and it is done."

I talk to myself too. Out loud sometimes. My grandchildren think I'm mad.

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I go to the gym & throw heavy shit around.

Actually I do that everyday, but when I'm angry I don't stop til I collapse

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

If it's at work my mouse or phone usually gets slammed on my desk (if on my own, I don't do it in front of colleagues) or some excessively loud rock music goes on in the car on the way home. Breathing exercises help too.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I used to shout and smash a room up but then you've just got a headache and a mess to deal with.

Was angry about an ex trying get back in my life earlier today. Had a little cry, did some breathing, had a cheese toastie and now watching Die Hard. Not the most relaxing of films I grant you but nice distraction

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By *heIcebreakersCouple
over a year ago

Cramlington

"How do you deal with feeling angry? How do you get it out of your system?

Slamming doors or smashing things might feel good but it doesn't seem to help.

Do you have any anger management tips? "
Pause

Pause a little more.

Reflect

Why are you angry?

Seek a space where you don't have to speak, or type, or perform

Reflect

Check out whether your anger is valid, or just an emotional reaction

Then get even, with extreme prejudice, if required.

Or apologize.

Both outcomes are equally likely.

Carter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go for a long walk until I feel calmer. It works.

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Earphones and my favorite music up loud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music - loud, usually in the car. Works everytime and I end up singing.

Mrs

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By *erotic_adventureMan
over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,

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By *erotic_adventureMan
over a year ago

London, Scotland & The North,

Learn to channel ones anger into something meaningful....whilst this is subjective you need to configure what works best for you....a run, workout, cycle, warm bath, meditation etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In the past I've screamed. Used to do this in a previous job. Go to the loos and scream like a banshee. Definitely helped as a release of tension.

Not always possible but I try to deal with situations that are pissing me off before I get to yo angry stage and this is actually more manageable than you may think. I think a lot of day to day anger comes from lack of communication and people feeling taken for granted. If you're not happy with a situation say so, if someone is pissing you off then tell them. If you don't want to do something,then don't. It sounds very simple but as someone who used to (sometimes still does) run around like a blue arsed fly after others, there is an immense feeling of relief and empowerment from simply saying "No". It means I'm less likely to feel resentful and angry towards others and, more importantly, less angry with myself.

Wee mindfulness apps like Headspace are good too. And massage and other relaxation therapies.

Oh,and wine helps too.what does your wife do to calm?"

Looks at dick pics on here.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"How do you deal with feeling angry? How do you get it out of your system?

Slamming doors or smashing things might feel good but it doesn't seem to help.

Do you have any anger management tips? "

Quote from GOT

Fuck me like there is is the last day on earth.

Kind of changes the perspective when you have finished.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Drink tea, works for me (hey I’m a poet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a good sex session

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By *onysutchMan
over a year ago

luton

"Emotional reactions are created in our subconscious they are not based on reality or even facts merely our own personal.interpretations of events based on our past experiences and triggered.

Anger and unmet expectations go hand in hand.

There are many 3rd wave therapies to help you understand your triggers and how to combat them..

The brain is an immensely powerful tool / machine it can be re programmed...

I am not asking you to imagine that you can remain calm..Merely to suspend the idea that you can not xx "

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I used throw heavy objects at the offender lol, was a bit hot-headed in my youth!

I don't do that anymore, but I will express my anger honestly sometimes, then get over it quickly, or channel the energy into something useful. ... like sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Emotional reactions are created in our subconscious they are not based on reality or even facts merely our own personal.interpretations of events based on our past experiences and triggered.

Anger and unmet expectations go hand in hand.

There are many 3rd wave therapies to help you understand your triggers and how to combat them..

The brain is an immensely powerful tool / machine it can be re programmed...

I am not asking you to imagine that you can remain calm..Merely to suspend the idea that you can not xx "

CBT 101?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anger Management course ?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I clean my kitchen. It can be productive.

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By *onysutchMan
over a year ago

luton

but for me my anger builds up without signs inside in the sense I get pissed at something but as soon as I get angry it bottles up before I can react then after a while it snaps and goes either one of 2 ways....

the first way is I lose my temper and start hitting things and normally after 1 or 2 hits I'm all calm and anger reserves are empty haha it's like I channel all the anger into my fists and when it connects with something it feels like the anger gets expelled.

Or the other way is I get really vocally aggressive but the thing is to people who don't really know me it looks really nasty but in reality I would never actually be aggressive to someone it's just everyone gets the brunt of it but I don't actually mean it if that makes sense..

but I do also have a short fuse and get reactive to being snapped at in situations like an argument haha it's a pain in the arse but I can't actually help it lol just part of my nature haha...

sorry if this isn't helpfull o just wanted to throw my 2pence in haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take the pups out for a long walk to clear my head works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I was shouting at the sat nav earlier and it seemed to help

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Shoot the bastord

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally when things get on top of me I find a good hard run or cycle ride help clear my thoughts and put things into perspective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you deal with feeling angry? How do you get it out of your system?

Slamming doors or smashing things might feel good but it doesn't seem to help.

Do you have any anger management tips? "

I'm guessing it would help in the short term though? also keep away from anyone who you know would probably tell you to 'chillax' as that would tip you over the edge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find someone for an aggressive fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you deal with feeling angry? How do you get it out of your system?

Slamming doors or smashing things might feel good but it doesn't seem to help.

Do you have any anger management tips? "

I'm not an angry person. Just tend to grump it out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to shout and smash a room up but then you've just got a headache and a mess to deal with.

Was angry about an ex trying get back in my life earlier today. Had a little cry, did some breathing, had a cheese toastie and now watching Die Hard. Not the most relaxing of films I grant you but nice distraction "

A cheese toastie makes everything better!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to take myself off for a good cry. Gets rid of the frustration.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"How do you deal with feeling angry? How do you get it out of your system?

Slamming doors or smashing things might feel good but it doesn't seem to help.

Do you have any anger management tips? "

A long slow walk on the cost normally works.

If not

Boxing a boxing bag

Wii boxing

Shooting games.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Have you calmed down yet Doris?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the level of rage

Pushups

Sometimes i store it up

Go for a drive

Go to the gym

Mainly try exhaust myself

Or act like a spoiled baby and go start an argument

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saving for later

Two teenagers in the house it's good to get tips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Realise you are losing your shit, get a grip and move on. No need for anger. Everybody has bad days etc but it’s upto you to control your emotions.

Not having a dig etc, just our view.

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By *horecruxCouple
over a year ago

SE4

Heavy metal music head phones and a jog seems to be working for me whilst I quit smoking

Failing that get yourself some dark clothes and have yourself a night fight

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By *eanne n AliCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

I (Leanne) tend to let my anger out through playing some fast heavy rock or metal on my guitar. Works for me.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Been reading up about grief and anger and they advise punching a cushion.

Worth a try.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Become a sadist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you deal with feeling angry? How do you get it out of your system?

Slamming doors or smashing things might feel good but it doesn't seem to help.

Do you have any anger management tips? "

I grew out of angry, it is completely pointless. Practice some relaxation or meditation techniques and you might be the last one in the shopping queue to get pissed off. By the way high blood pressure causes anger, not the other way round. Get your BP down before it kills you.

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By *axyMan
over a year ago

Great Ayton

Masturbation!

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By *appytrailmanMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I get a stress ball and throw it as hard as I can a few times until I calm down

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over a year ago

I flare up pretty quickly and it’s best to just leave me be to cool off and calm down. Then i can discuss things more rationally.

If you don’t leave me to cool off then you’re pretty much going to get my unedited thoughts and feelings and i make no apologies for that.

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over a year ago

"How do you deal with feeling angry? How do you get it out of your system?

Slamming doors or smashing things might feel good but it doesn't seem to help.

Do you have any anger management tips? "

Haha before my operation I would go for walk or go to gaming or bedroom an listen to music. Now I can’t walk as great so just play games haha

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Listen to music loudly and cry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smoke a jont then u wont care about what was annoying you

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

A punching bag is usfall for things like that.

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Join 0 meet club and try and get a meet.

That may also help

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

Quick trip to my Dojo, sit down and read a book, study, meditate/contemplate or just get a sword out and thrash around for a bit.

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over a year ago

I think in my adult life I've lost my temper about 5 times. I only lose it when it's been a built up for a long period of time. I think the best thing to do is get it all out and don't hold back so you can draw a line under it and move on. It's weird because I don't raise my voice when I'm angry and have been told it's quite scary to watch as I'm so laid back and easy going. I lost my temper in work and my colleague said she's never in her life saw someone be so angry while still talking in the same tone then so calm so quickly. Being angry and holding back doesn't do you any good in the long run x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to go with wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to go with wine"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a shower or a bath!! I then think things over and calm down!! Hydro therapy is amazing

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By *onysp654Man
over a year ago

Loddington

To be honest, a long walk does it for me.

If it's something that can be pushed to one side and given time to come back to even better.

Don't act on anger, don't decide anything when your angry.

Have a good friend to talk to

Hope this helps a little x

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By *oachman 9CoolMan
over a year ago

derby

The brain is a powerful tool I just wish it had helped me more at school..

but as mentioned somethings it never forgets in your subconcious some good some bad I just wish my proper memory was as good getting more absent minded now days

its a good thing I have a sense of humour..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Push ups until arms hurt"
This works

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"Push ups until arms hurtThis works

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Me thinks the anger may have abated by now -especially as the OP posted this 23 weeks ago?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lay down, take a deep breath in through your nose. Hold it untill you feel your chest hurting! Then SLOWY breath out through your mouth! Concentrate on the feeling of the relief of the stress leaving your body as you breath out! Then lay still a little longer as you rerun to gentle breathing again.

After trying this a few times you should find that each time you encounter a stressfull situation you will subconsciously hold your breath and breath out taking the stress with it! It does work!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lay down, take a deep breath in through your nose. Hold it untill you feel your chest hurting! Then SLOWY breath out through your mouth! Concentrate on the feeling of the relief of the stress leaving your body as you breath out! Then lay still a little longer as you rerun to gentle breathing again.

After trying this a few times you should find that each time you encounter a stressfull situation you will subconsciously hold your breath and breath out taking the stress with it! It does work! "

That sounds helpful. Might work for stress too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have you calmed down yet Doris?

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The OP was for tips to pass on, I'm calm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A nice cup of tea"

Possibly the most British solution to just about anything haha!

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By *aycambsMan
over a year ago

kettering-ish

If you have access to a computer, and have children, look through your old pictures and videos to where they were really young....should put a smile on your face!

No access to a computer...then fuck it, its going to take at least 4 min to boil the kettle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gym and music

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By *xplorer13Man
over a year ago

glenrothes

"Go for a run.

Or deal with what made you angry if you can."

This made me smile, you have now probably knocked her self esteem now too lol

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

I go for a drive and play loud music but it's very rare for me to get angry.

Anger is a very negative and draining emotion. I try to turn whatever is making me angry into something positive or I breath through it, chanting in my head or out loud if I can.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"Have you calmed down yet Doris?

The OP was for tips to pass on, I'm calm.

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Excellent, I recommend a good massage

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do something that requires lots of concentration (to block out whatever made me mad) like playing something loud and complex on the piano.

Or I take it out on the garden. Shrubs have been massacred after a bad day at work.

I hope you're feeling more serene now, OP.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I just take things slowly, as it's too easy to rush and do things that may make stress and anger worse.

I'll leave people for a while, if it's a problem being with them.

Exercise is my favorite way of getting my anger out with a vengeance. Or I relax and meditate. I spend time around nature - it's very calming and grounds me.

I may also shout and scream, if there's something to get out too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do something that requires lots of concentration (to block out whatever made me mad) like playing something loud and complex on the piano.

Or I take it out on the garden. Shrubs have been massacred after a bad day at work.

I hope you're feeling more serene now, OP. "

Shrub massacre sounds good.

I'm ok thank you.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I do something that requires lots of concentration (to block out whatever made me mad) like playing something loud and complex on the piano.

Or I take it out on the garden. Shrubs have been massacred after a bad day at work.

I hope you're feeling more serene now, OP.

Shrub massacre sounds good.

I'm ok thank you.

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I was thinking that, hopefully it was a machete massacre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go for a drive or masturbate "

Or do both go for the drive and masterbate when you find a quiet spot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I'm having a particularly bad day, I just act like a twat on tbe forums.

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By *ove3funCouple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Run!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do you deal with feeling angry? How do you get it out of your system?

Slamming doors or smashing things might feel good but it doesn't seem to help.

Do you have any anger management tips? "

I'm chilled at most when out exploring, so walking in countryisde does it for me

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over a year ago

You need to find your release.

For me it's a physical activity. Run, punch bag, some dips or something.

I've recently taken up boxing again and I'm a lot more relaxed day to day too.

I used to let myself get so, so wound up but what's the point?

It solves nothing

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I used to find getting out on the motorbike or bicycle did it for me, I could go from wanting to rip someone apart with my bare hands to very chilled out in less than 5 minutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

heyheyhey chill man whatever the issue it will eventualy go as life carries on just remember to take something from the situation learn from it no point in anger it doesn't make you happy x

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over a year ago

"How do you deal with feeling angry? How do you get it out of your system?

Slamming doors or smashing things might feel good but it doesn't seem to help.

Do you have any anger management tips? "

EFT = Emotional Freedom Technique is great for anger. EFT is very easy to learn and costs nothing to do. You can learn the basics in minutes.

Do Google and YouTube searches for

EFT

What can EFT help with

EFT and anger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Box it out at the gym!

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By *heDesiCandiTV/TS
over a year ago

Leicester

I chose to go to sleep

Anger doesn’t resolve the issue - a brain reset does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play a video game

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

OP.

Strange as it sounds, my dentist showed me a way earlier this year of defusing my stress and anger.

She picked up on the fact my jaws don't align properly. When angry, my upper and lower front teeth crash on each other putting me in the possible danger of fracturing my two top front teeth.

The risk of doing that and all the pain and repair costs has worked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a punch bag in the garden works for me and hormonal teenagers lol x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

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"I have a punch bag in the garden works for me and hormonal teenagers lol x"

Where do you punch the teenagers?

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over a year ago

"I have a punch bag in the garden works for me and hormonal teenagers lol x

Where do you punch the teenagers?

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Lol they have boxing gloves and pads lol it does get the aggression out they don't hit each other lol x

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over a year ago

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"I have a punch bag in the garden works for me and hormonal teenagers lol x

Where do you punch the teenagers?

Lol they have boxing gloves and pads lol it does get the aggression out they don't hit each other lol x"

Controlled aggression is good, if you know how to handle it

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