FabSwingers.com forum: Dressed to impress

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I see the phase dress to impress banded about a lot.

Does this mean looking nice when you meet, ie. your best skinny jeans, heels and a blouse and lovely hair and makeup or does is specifically relate to bedroom attire, lingerie and sexy outfits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol I have no idea!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find shorts, long socks and baggy tshirt more sexy than lingerie myself so I guess the phrase is subjective

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

"I see the phase dress to impress banded about a lot.

Does this mean looking nice when you meet, ie. your best skinny jeans, heels and a blouse and lovely hair and makeup or does is specifically relate to bedroom attire, lingerie and sexy outfits? "

I think it’s intended more for men. Scruffy lazy men more to the point who think scruffy jeans trainers and their best pulling shirt ( badly ironed) will suffice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For women, I take it as they want a short skirt, stockings and heels, a plunging neckline and a face caked in make up.

No one will ever get that from me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see the phase dress to impress banded about a lot.

Does this mean looking nice when you meet, ie. your best skinny jeans, heels and a blouse and lovely hair and makeup or does is specifically relate to bedroom attire, lingerie and sexy outfits?

I think it’s intended more for men. Scruffy lazy men more to the point who think scruffy jeans trainers and their best pulling shirt ( badly ironed) will suffice. "

It's not. You may not read as many male profiles as us women, but it's in them as a requirement for a lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see the phase dress to impress banded about a lot.

Does this mean looking nice when you meet, ie. your best skinny jeans, heels and a blouse and lovely hair and makeup or does is specifically relate to bedroom attire, lingerie and sexy outfits?

I think it’s intended more for men. Scruffy lazy men more to the point who think scruffy jeans trainers and their best pulling shirt ( badly ironed) will suffice. "

Yes because people should dress uncomfortably to make others feel better...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I often get asked are you going to dress to impress and I think yeah of course I’m not going to turn up looking a dog (this is also subjective!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I see the phase dress to impress banded about a lot.

Does this mean looking nice when you meet, ie. your best skinny jeans, heels and a blouse and lovely hair and makeup or does is specifically relate to bedroom attire, lingerie and sexy outfits?

I think it’s intended more for men. Scruffy lazy men more to the point who think scruffy jeans trainers and their best pulling shirt ( badly ironed) will suffice.

It's not. You may not read as many male profiles as us women, but it's in them as a requirement for a lady. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For women, I take it as they want a short skirt, stockings and heels, a plunging neckline and a face caked in make up.

No one will ever get that from me. "

Never show legs and cleavage, one or the other is the best way eh?

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By *ammers43Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

As a guy i always try and make an effort, nice jeans, shirt and shoes or boots,i think not only does it show you have respect for yourself but i believe it shows respect to the person or persons you are meeting that they have taken there time up to meet me therefore i should also make an effort,... thats me anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find shorts, long socks and baggy tshirt more sexy than lingerie myself so I guess the phrase is subjective

This is what I’m trying to figure out though, is that your idea of what the phrase means as clearly a woman isn’t going to meet you in a pub dressed like that. Well unless she’s into roller derby or the like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see the phase dress to impress banded about a lot.

Does this mean looking nice when you meet, ie. your best skinny jeans, heels and a blouse and lovely hair and makeup or does is specifically relate to bedroom attire, lingerie and sexy outfits?

I think it’s intended more for men. Scruffy lazy men more to the point who think scruffy jeans trainers and their best pulling shirt ( badly ironed) will suffice.

Yes because people should dress uncomfortably to make others feel better..."

Some men look fine (and sexy) in scruffy jeans and t-shirt; some look unwashed and grim.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For women, I take it as they want a short skirt, stockings and heels, a plunging neckline and a face caked in make up.

No one will ever get that from me.

Never show legs and cleavage, one or the other is the best way eh?

I rarely show my legs. They are vampire legs and hate the sun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think dress appropriate for the occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Scruffy lazy men more to the point who think scruffy jeans trainers and their best pulling shirt ( badly ironed) will suffice.

Yes because people should dress uncomfortably to make others feel better..."

Cos stilettos, suspender belts, basques and corsets are well known for their comfort...lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Scruffy lazy men more to the point who think scruffy jeans trainers and their best pulling shirt ( badly ironed) will suffice.

Yes because people should dress uncomfortably to make others feel better...

Cos stilettos, suspender belts, basques and corsets are well known for their comfort...lol."

And you're FORCED to wear them...I know such a pain...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find shorts, long socks and baggy tshirt more sexy than lingerie myself so I guess the phrase is subjective

I prefer for her to wear something comfortable, I'm not her stylist.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve actually never heard/seen a woman say it in relation to a man’s attire but obviously if they say it too it’s not specific to lingerie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For women, I take it as they want a short skirt, stockings and heels, a plunging neckline and a face caked in make up.

No one will ever get that from me. "

nor me I dress the way I like to

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

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I like a lady to look good. Obviously. What defines whether a lady looks good to me is a very wide spectrum. If she wants to wear heels and the full lingerie malarky underneath a sexy dress I am not going to complain. If she turns up in a pair of jeans I am still going to grab her bum with permission lol.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I stick clean duds on if she asks it's no biggie

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So I take it there is no specific meaning for it, obviously I understand everyone’s tastes are different I just wondered if it meant dressing nice for a “date” or the sexy kind you’d only do in private (regardless of what you personally find sexy). Is it just subjective, whatever the person is actual referring to? Next time I’ll ask what is your idea of this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im always showered and shaved and dress smartly ,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Scruffy lazy men more to the point who think scruffy jeans trainers and their best pulling shirt ( badly ironed) will suffice.

Yes because people should dress uncomfortably to make others feel better...

Cos stilettos, suspender belts, basques and corsets are well known for their comfort...lol.

And you're FORCED to wear them...I know such a pain..."

You should see the look of disappointment on the faces of men when I walk up to them wearing trousers, flat shoes and a thick winter coat.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

For me it would depend on the venue and occasion, but i would always try to look good on the outside. And to wear nice knickers in the hope that events progressed to that point...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Scruffy lazy men more to the point who think scruffy jeans trainers and their best pulling shirt ( badly ironed) will suffice.

Yes because people should dress uncomfortably to make others feel better...

Cos stilettos, suspender belts, basques and corsets are well known for their comfort...lol.

And you're FORCED to wear them...I know such a pain...

You should see the look of disappointment on the faces of men when I walk up to them wearing trousers, flat shoes and a thick winter coat."

Haha! Exactly.

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

You could turn up in a suit of armour. Can't deny that's impressive! Jousting anyone?

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"You could turn up in a suit of armour. Can't deny that's impressive! Jousting anyone?"

Kinky bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dress for myself, if it pleases the other person then that’s a bonus x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dress for myself, if it pleases the other person then that’s a bonus x

I’d agree, I think most would, but it’s just the actually phrase I was wondering if it had a specific definition ie. bedroom wear or clothes in general

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always dress very smartly and smell like a million dollars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see the phase dress to impress banded about a lot.

Does this mean looking nice when you meet, ie. your best skinny jeans, heels and a blouse and lovely hair and makeup or does is specifically relate to bedroom attire, lingerie and sexy outfits? "

I always took it to mean for women to wear sussies and heels with sexy lingerie under their short skirt and plunging neckline blouse....

I have only ever met one man who dressed to impress me as I do like to see a man in a suit.... but he looked even better out of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I see the phase dress to impress banded about a lot.

Does this mean looking nice when you meet, ie. your best skinny jeans, heels and a blouse and lovely hair and makeup or does is specifically relate to bedroom attire, lingerie and sexy outfits?

I always took it to mean for women to wear sussies and heels with sexy lingerie under their short skirt and plunging neckline blouse....

I have only ever met one man who dressed to impress me as I do like to see a man in a suit.... but he looked even better out of it

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

If a guy told me to dress to impress I'd tell him to fuck off!! I go off someone instantly if they ask me what I'm wearing/going to wear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For women, I take it as they want a short skirt, stockings and heels, a plunging neckline and a face caked in make up.

No one will ever get that from me. "

You forgot the all-over fake tan and fake nails.

No one will be getting any of them from me either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a guy told me to dress to impress I'd tell him to fuck off!! I go off someone instantly if they ask me what I'm wearing/going to wear. "

Same although I think this is more about advance wank fodder than an expectation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If a guy told me to dress to impress I'd tell him to fuck off!! I go off someone instantly if they ask me what I'm wearing/going to wear.

Same although I think this is more about advance wank fodder than an expectation."

I’m the same too, really annoys me when they ask especially when I’m in work. I deliberately tell them exactly, like cardigan, trousers and slippers and you always get what’s underneath. All I can say to that is I wish there was a two fingers up emoji

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a guy told me to dress to impress I'd tell him to fuck off!! I go off someone instantly if they ask me what I'm wearing/going to wear. "

Snap....especially as most mens idea of dressing up is tatty t shirt and ripped jeans...

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"If a guy told me to dress to impress I'd tell him to fuck off!! I go off someone instantly if they ask me what I'm wearing/going to wear. "

Absolutely!!!

All I do and expect from others is be clean.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If a guy told me to dress to impress I'd tell him to fuck off!! I go off someone instantly if they ask me what I'm wearing/going to wear.

Snap....especially as most mens idea of dressing up is tatty t shirt and ripped jeans...

What a point!! Never thought that. I take hours to make sure I’m looking as good as possible and what do men do?! I’ve never had anyone turn up really smart, nobody terrible either but always just jeans and a t-shirt, yet many have requested me to wear certain things ie. skirt. I always wear what I want to if they’re not happy then tough!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"If a guy told me to dress to impress I'd tell him to fuck off!! I go off someone instantly if they ask me what I'm wearing/going to wear.

Snap....especially as most mens idea of dressing up is tatty t shirt and ripped jeans...

But they was clean on that morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a guy told me to dress to impress I'd tell him to fuck off!! I go off someone instantly if they ask me what I'm wearing/going to wear.

Snap....especially as most mens idea of dressing up is tatty t shirt and ripped jeans...

But they was clean on that morning

talk to the hand lol

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"If a guy told me to dress to impress I'd tell him to fuck off!! I go off someone instantly if they ask me what I'm wearing/going to wear.

Snap....especially as most mens idea of dressing up is tatty t shirt and ripped jeans...

But they was clean on that morning

talk to the hand lol"

What you can't think of out else better to do with it.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"So I take it there is no specific meaning for it, obviously I understand everyone’s tastes are different I just wondered if it meant dressing nice for a “date” or the sexy kind you’d only do in private (regardless of what you personally find sexy). Is it just subjective, whatever the person is actual referring to? Next time I’ll ask what is your idea of this?

I guess different people have different definitions, but for us it means lingerie for her and nicely dressed and spruced up for him.

It's all part of the fun and excitement for us.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

"I always dress very smartly and smell like a million dollars

You've obviously never had a whiff of a million dollars that have been rattling around rednecks pockets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

T shirt

Slim fit jeans (not quite skinny jeans)

Vans trainers or boots

Decent watch

Job done

I don’t ever dress smart I.e shirt and trousers unless it’s for a wedding etc

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By *iL77Woman
over a year ago

Torquay

Guess it depends on the situation or where your meeting

Social drink smart casual, hint of tart (cleavage or leg, never both) hair done etc

If it's a fuck n go at mine then it's full on lingerie

Fuck n go elsewhere smart casual with the works underneath

Does depend on the meet I guess

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"T shirt

Slim fit jeans (not quite skinny jeans)

Vans trainers or boots

Decent watch

Job done

I don’t ever dress smart I.e shirt and trousers unless it’s for a wedding etc "

Didn’t have much on when I saw you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"T shirt

Slim fit jeans (not quite skinny jeans)

Vans trainers or boots

Decent watch

Job done

I don’t ever dress smart I.e shirt and trousers unless it’s for a wedding etc

Didn’t have much on when I saw you

Wrong emoji sorry!!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If someone said to me dress to impress id just press the block button

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

"You could turn up in a suit of armour. Can't deny that's impressive! Jousting anyone?

Kinky bitch

Hehe have your tin opener handy!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"If someone said to me dress to impress id just press the block button"

Not even a cat sout

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I see the phase dress to impress banded about a lot.

Does this mean looking nice when you meet, ie. your best skinny jeans, heels and a blouse and lovely hair and makeup or does is specifically relate to bedroom attire, lingerie and sexy outfits? "

Depends where you're meeting I guess. The latter wouldn't go down too well in Costa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone said to me dress to impress id just press the block button"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If a guy told me to dress to impress I'd tell him to fuck off!! I go off someone instantly if they ask me what I'm wearing/going to wear.

Snap....especially as most mens idea of dressing up is tatty t shirt and ripped jeans...

But they was clean on that morning

talk to the hand lol

What you can't think of out else better to do with it.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"You could turn up in a suit of armour. Can't deny that's impressive! Jousting anyone?

Kinky bitch

Hehe have your tin opener handy!"

Sod that take way to long. I'll bring a grinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For women, I take it as they want a short skirt, stockings and heels, a plunging neckline and a face caked in make up.

No one will ever get that from me. "

Nor me, that’s not my style.

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

"For women, I take it as they want a short skirt, stockings and heels, a plunging neckline and a face caked in make up.

No one will ever get that from me. "

Not necessarily, a long dress can be sexy and less make up can be attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For women, I take it as they want a short skirt, stockings and heels, a plunging neckline and a face caked in make up.

No one will ever get that from me.

Not necessarily, a long dress can be sexy and less make up can be attractive. "

A nice top with boots n leggings is what i wear.. with or without knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a quirky style and will not change that for anyone. I turn up as ‘me’ and always will do. I’m not into little dresses with stockings and heels when I go out. In the bedroom is a different story.

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"I see the phase dress to impress banded about a lot.

Does this mean looking nice when you meet, ie. your best skinny jeans, heels and a blouse and lovely hair and makeup or does is specifically relate to bedroom attire, lingerie and sexy outfits? "

I dont think your definition applies to the chaps........

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I quite often get ask when going on a meet, “are you going to be dressed to impress”. I usually don’t answer but think I bloody hope so, I’m not exactly going to turn up in my pjs !!

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