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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just a personal observation, but now I have passed 55, it has become increasingly more difficult to find people who would be interested in meeting. It was pretty good before then and I had some very enjoyable times, both as a single and couple. I fully accept that everyone has their preferences etc and I'm not complaining as it has been very enjoyable in the past, and I have been lucky enough to be allowed to join in with the intimate side of others lives. Does there come a time when it all ends and we revert to a vanilla life again?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

My partner is 75 and still at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come join the over 55 leisure cruise as we sail past hordes of wild females roaming the virtual landscape

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

The time might come for individuals when for one reason or another they can no longer get meets. However there's no upper age limit in clubs or on the site so its possible to be in a swinging atmosphere until you feel you no longer want to be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I remain positive and hopeful. I know there is a plethora of single men on here and the numbers far out weigh couples and single ladies, thus it can take time to get meets. Clubs are really not my thing due to bad experiences in the past. I know all clubs aren't the same but I find them daunting somehow. But I will remain upbeat.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

It's a bit like this ........

As you age, you are slowly rolled along toward the end of the swingers conveyor belt by the youngsters who are hopping on at the beginning.

As they are v.young they set upper limits so that they can have sex with anyone from their age to a decrepit old person of 30.

Change your view point You are not losing an internet pick up site. That was just your caterpillar stage You outgrew IT. It never could outgrow people of our age and experience. We just move on to higher branches x

Perspective / B.S. which ever philosophy you are following today

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

A conveyor belt! I thought I felt the earth mpve...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"A conveyor belt! I thought I felt the earth mpve... "

You Fracking with me ? eh ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 to 99 are the cut off points. According to the sites looking for options.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"A conveyor belt! I thought I felt the earth mpve...

You Fracking with me ? eh ?"

Just having a gas...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"18 to 99 are the cut off points. According to the sites looking for options. "

Theoretically, I could enter a rave club at 99. The probability however is a lot less likely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A conveyor belt! I thought I felt the earth mpve...

You Fracking with me ? eh ?"

That was probably the belt snapping under the strain of all those young people

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"Come join the over 55 leisure cruise as we sail past hordes of wild females roaming the virtual landscape"

I think you mean dogging at

Dovestones ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"18 to 99 are the cut off points. According to the sites looking for options.

Theoretically, I could enter a rave club at 99. The probability however is a lot less likely."

I know. But some people do actually use the full 18 to 99 age range on their profile looking for it. Amazes me.

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I think it's about adjustment.

I have had a lot more sex since hitting 60 than before.

What I wanted and needed at 30 is totally alien from present day..

A significant number of people on here are looking for older in fact I would argue it's probably easier for you at 55 than for someone 20.

Many a tune.

have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep the faith OP. I'm still enjoying myself despite nearing 60. 'Life's a gas' sorry, couldn't resist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just a personal observation, but now I have passed 55, it has become increasingly more difficult to find people who would be interested in meeting. It was pretty good before then and I had some very enjoyable times, both as a single and couple. I fully accept that everyone has their preferences etc and I'm not complaining as it has been very enjoyable in the past, and I have been lucky enough to be allowed to join in with the intimate side of others lives. Does there come a time when it all ends and we revert to a vanilla life again?"

Think that's rubbish tbh!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just a personal observation, but now I have passed 55, it has become increasingly more difficult to find people who would be interested in meeting. It was pretty good before then and I had some very enjoyable times, both as a single and couple. I fully accept that everyone has their preferences etc and I'm not complaining as it has been very enjoyable in the past, and I have been lucky enough to be allowed to join in with the intimate side of others lives. Does there come a time when it all ends and we revert to a vanilla life again?

Think that's rubbish tbh!!"

I appreciate your candor, but it is just my personal and subjective observation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I remain positive and hopeful. I know there is a plethora of single men on here and the numbers far out weigh couples and single ladies, thus it can take time to get meets. Clubs are really not my thing due to bad experiences in the past. I know all clubs aren't the same but I find them daunting somehow. But I will remain upbeat. "

Well that made me smile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP Get down to your doctors and ask for some Peter Pan pills

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP Get down to your doctors and ask for some Peter Pan pills"

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

I agree about adjustment..

time for a re.think and re.vamp the old profile..

change of season change of mind change of heart..

Lots of lonely,needy and desirable folk out there..

go for it or hang up yr boots!

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"My partner is 75 and still at it"

75 - that’s impressive. Hope for us all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you considered trying harder? Everything needs more effort as we get older (except older women on the internet who are awash with offers).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It appears most tell fibs about their age anyway.... No I don’t before you ask! Keep trawling my friend it’s the Fab Way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just lie loads do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just lie loads do "

I won't lie, I can't see the point. You only get found out at the end of the day and gain nothing from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

over 55 and loving it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you considered trying harder? Everything needs more effort as we get older (except older women on the internet who are awash with offers)."

I like to think I try hard without being pushy or disrespectful. I know it takes time and I will persevere. It's not the be all and end all at the end of the day.

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