FabSwingers.com forum: Get first meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi what more can i do to my profile or say to get my first meet

HELP ME PLS

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You could say something interesting in your profile.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"You could say something interesting in your profile. "

^^Exactly! Why would I be interested in you if you messaged me? Your profile tells me sweet FA to be blatantly honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a think about why you're worth meeting. Then write it, and show it in your profile. Read other people's profiles and only message those that actual fit what you, and they, are looking for. Even then it's hit and miss.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Might want to re-think your sexual orientation too dude, given the amount of TV's you have as friends, its a little confusing.

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

"Might want to re-think your sexual orientation too dude, given the amount of TV's you have as friends, its a little confusing.

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good point. It’s a fairly dull profile that says not a lot, and the friends list is ambiguous

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Might want to re-think your sexual orientation too dude, given the amount of TV's you have as friends, its a little confusing.

The thought crossed my mind as well, has more male and TV's as friends than single women or couples

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks will do a revamp based on that info

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will you really meet 99 yr old people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good point but if i get that age then hope i can still go strong hahahaha

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Might want to re-think your sexual orientation too dude, given the amount of TV's you have as friends, its a little confusing.

good point. It’s a fairly dull profile that says not a lot, and the friends list is ambiguous"

You see his friends list and think "ambiguous"?

Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attend a group social and get some verifications, you might even meet somebody who’s perfect without all the faffing on here

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Attend a group social and get some verifications, you might even meet somebody who’s perfect without all the faffing on here

Bingo

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How about now people

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"How about now people "

Still don't tell us much about you.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

You put if you like what you see then message.

You have 1 picture. Not much to judge.

My apologies if I'm coming over harsh, I'm tired and I'm aware I'm turning into a grumpasaurus rex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You put if you like what you see then message.

You have 1 picture. Not much to judge.

My apologies if I'm coming over harsh, I'm tired and I'm aware I'm turning into a grumpasaurus rex.

I can be harsh... come over me baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try a varied selection of pics fella..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah thats cool need the help any comments welcomed im new to this so thanks and yes gotta put more pics up

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"You put if you like what you see then message.

You have 1 picture. Not much to judge.

My apologies if I'm coming over harsh, I'm tired and I'm aware I'm turning into a grumpasaurus rex.

I can be harsh... come over me baby

I'll cum over you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You put if you like what you see then message.

You have 1 picture. Not much to judge.

My apologies if I'm coming over harsh, I'm tired and I'm aware I'm turning into a grumpasaurus rex.

Can you cum over me too

I can be harsh... come over me baby

I'll cum over you "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hows it looking people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hows it looking people

I got help from the lasses on here with mine. They say its great now. Give it a look.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hows it looking people

I got help from the lasses on here with mine. They say its great now. Give it a look. "

Looks good did it work do u think i could do more to mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hows it looking people

I got help from the lasses on here with mine. They say its great now. Give it a look.

Looks good did it work do u think i could do more to mine "

Haven't had a meet in ages. Its difficult for most young single guys. Not sure how the ones that get meets do it.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Hows it looking people

I got help from the lasses on here with mine. They say its great now. Give it a look.

Looks good did it work do u think i could do more to mine "

Loads better than it was. I'm not sure what you're expecting though, it's not just the profile that gets meets, it's how you conduct yourself and interact with people too.

Your profile may pique interest but ultimately you need to keep the person interested, and that's where your personality and being yourself comes into action.

Remodelling your profile won't have you knee deep in clunge by 8pm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us single guys we are a massive ocean with a pond of girls who will want to meet you. Thats if you can keep them interested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Tell me about it seems harder then going to a pub n picking up a stranger just by chatting to her the old fashioned way haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hows it looking people

I got help from the lasses on here with mine. They say its great now. Give it a look.

Looks good did it work do u think i could do more to mine

Loads better than it was. I'm not sure what you're expecting though, it's not just the profile that gets meets, it's how you conduct yourself and interact with people too.

Your profile may pique interest but ultimately you need to keep the person interested, and that's where your personality and being yourself comes into action.

Remodelling your profile won't have you knee deep in clunge by 8pm. "

Knee deep in clunge is officially my favourite ever line...

All hail the Inbetweeners

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It might b how i write message maybe to start with as i get no reply no matter how much i change waht im saying

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Tell me about it seems harder then going to a pub n picking up a stranger just by chatting to her the old fashioned way haha

It is! In person you have eye contact and all that from the start so it really is easier.

I generally advise people on here to go to clubs or social events to make connections and meet people.

I'm curious as to your expectations of the site. Genuinely curious, how did you hear about it? What were you told? What were your expectations?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"Hows it looking people

I got help from the lasses on here with mine. They say its great now. Give it a look.

Looks good did it work do u think i could do more to mine

Loads better than it was. I'm not sure what you're expecting though, it's not just the profile that gets meets, it's how you conduct yourself and interact with people too.

Your profile may pique interest but ultimately you need to keep the person interested, and that's where your personality and being yourself comes into action.

Remodelling your profile won't have you knee deep in clunge by 8pm.

Knee deep in clunge is officially my favourite ever line...

All hail the Inbetweeners "

Quality ain't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hows it looking people

I got help from the lasses on here with mine. They say its great now. Give it a look.

Looks good did it work do u think i could do more to mine

Loads better than it was. I'm not sure what you're expecting though, it's not just the profile that gets meets, it's how you conduct yourself and interact with people too.

Your profile may pique interest but ultimately you need to keep the person interested, and that's where your personality and being yourself comes into action.

Remodelling your profile won't have you knee deep in clunge by 8pm.

Knee deep in clunge is officially my favourite ever line...

All hail the Inbetweeners "

I get told I look like will. Got told that last week by 3 different guys in the gym locker room.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Tell me about it seems harder then going to a pub n picking up a stranger just by chatting to her the old fashioned way haha

It is! In person you have eye contact and all that from the start so it really is easier.

I generally advise people on here to go to clubs or social events to make connections and meet people.

I'm curious as to your expectations of the site. Genuinely curious, how did you hear about it? What were you told? What were your expectations? "

I dont expect anything really mainly here for abit of fun make some new friends and go new places if i get a shag then it an added bonus happy days

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I get views but no response to messages so dont know where im going wrong ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should have figured this shit out by the time you’re 39

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You should have figured this shit out by the time you’re 39"
what shit out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should have figured this shit out by the time you’re 39 what shit out"

You seem like a good bloke, so I think you’ll do alright.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I get views but no response to messages so dont know where im going wrong ?"

Maybe some people find the pic of your St George flag "and proud" tattoo offputting ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why sould that put people off im proud that i have an English heart and were i come from thats what it means but the way the racist card get pulled out over a fucking flag u probably r right the fucking twats

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You should have figured this shit out by the time you’re 39 what shit out

You seem like a good bloke, so I think you’ll do alright. "

Thanks tool that size u might ok to hahah

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I get views but no response to messages so dont know where im going wrong ?

Maybe some people find the pic of your St George flag "and proud" tattoo offputting ?"

So apart from that does profile look ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I don't think you're cut enough to be teasing it like that.

But the profile is only around 20% of a meet. The other 80% is how you talk.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally I don't think you're cut enough to be teasing it like that.

But the profile is only around 20% of a meet. The other 80% is how you talk. "

I stoped going gym years ago.

So what message works for u the 1st is most important i think as no eye contact like in a pub advice at mo and is what im going to try is go to club and do it the old fashioned way by talking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally I don't think you're cut enough to be teasing it like that.

But the profile is only around 20% of a meet. The other 80% is how you talk.

I stoped going gym years ago.

So what message works for u the 1st is most important i think as no eye contact like in a pub advice at mo and is what im going to try is go to club and do it the old fashioned way by talking

Plus im 40 this year so i look ok i think just not sure to keep body hair or not haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I don't think you're cut enough to be teasing it like that.

But the profile is only around 20% of a meet. The other 80% is how you talk.

I stoped going gym years ago.

So what message works for u the 1st is most important i think as no eye contact like in a pub advice at mo and is what im going to try is go to club and do it the old fashioned way by talking

But thats the world we live in now. Tinder, pof etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For us single guys we are a massive ocean with a pond of girls who will want to meet you. Thats if you can keep them interested. "

WOMEN

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For us single guys we are a massive ocean with a pond of girls who will want to meet you. Thats if you can keep them interested.

WOMEN

They are the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally I don't think you're cut enough to be teasing it like that.

But the profile is only around 20% of a meet. The other 80% is how you talk.

I stoped going gym years ago.

So what message works for u the 1st is most important i think as no eye contact like in a pub advice at mo and is what im going to try is go to club and do it the old fashioned way by talking

But thats the world we live in now. Tinder, pof etc. "

Yes very true but its very fake this digital world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I don't think you're cut enough to be teasing it like that.

But the profile is only around 20% of a meet. The other 80% is how you talk.

I stoped going gym years ago.

So what message works for u the 1st is most important i think as no eye contact like in a pub advice at mo and is what im going to try is go to club and do it the old fashioned way by talking

But thats the world we live in now. Tinder, pof etc.

Yes very true but its very fake this digital world "

There is a 17 year gap between us. So its normal for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personally I don't think you're cut enough to be teasing it like that.

But the profile is only around 20% of a meet. The other 80% is how you talk.

I stoped going gym years ago.

So what message works for u the 1st is most important i think as no eye contact like in a pub advice at mo and is what im going to try is go to club and do it the old fashioned way by talking

But thats the world we live in now. Tinder, pof etc.

Yes very true but its very fake this digital world

There is a 17 year gap between us. So its normal for me. "

Hahah alright dont rub it in

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