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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know I don't have to read all the status updates but really

Constant moaning from new couples about the lack of stunning bifems rolling up to have threesomes.

I can't help reading their profiles and wow, it's all written by the men to get themselves laid

I'm on here as a bifem to meet hot women. When I tell them I have a hubby and only meet at home for soft swap or full swap suddenly I'm the unreasonable one for not agreeing to drop everything, change my preferences and rush off to meet them alone because "they" have "chosen" me for their first experience ffs.

It's not like us hot chicks have a problem finding good looking men, so without wishing to sound rude, if you "let" your wife and I play it really doesn't entitle you to an exclusive threesome with me, so there

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

The modesty implant didn't work then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Gave up being modest, nobody else is

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"Gave up being modest, nobody else is "

When you are hot, don't see the problem in saying so! And you are HOT HOT HOT!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just annoyed that there aren't more Bi-fems around

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By *ingmasterMan
over a year ago

nottingham

she does have a point though .

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By *ingmasterMan
over a year ago

nottingham

she does have a point though .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you "let" your wife and I play it really doesn't entitle you to an exclusive threesome with me, so there "

Quite happy to let Miss have all the physical fun with the ladies - just so long as I can watch..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know I don't have to read all the status updates but really

Constant moaning from new couples about the lack of stunning bifems rolling up to have threesomes.

I can't help reading their profiles and wow, it's all written by the men to get themselves laid

I'm on here as a bifem to meet hot women. When I tell them I have a hubby and only meet at home for soft swap or full swap suddenly I'm the unreasonable one for not agreeing to drop everything, change my preferences and rush off to meet them alone because "they" have "chosen" me for their first experience ffs.

It's not like us hot chicks have a problem finding good looking men, so without wishing to sound rude, if you "let" your wife and I play it really doesn't entitle you to an exclusive threesome with me, so there "

maybe if you dont want to be seen as a single female you shouldnt have a single females profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but i have to laugh at this. You are obviously looking for women yet have a picture of you sucking 2 guys, also a single male verification. Now a clever person looking for women wouldn’t have this as they would realise it attracted the wrong attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's probably because there's not many of us around lol mmf is better then no fun at all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never opened my mouth !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just never get why couples have single females profiles then moan about people contacting them as a single woman

People who are looking for single females will pull your profile up on a search, if you want to be seen as a couple and not be contacted by people wanting to meet you alone get a couples profile......honestly its not rocket science

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I know I don't have to read all the status updates but really

Constant moaning from new couples about the lack of stunning bifems rolling up to have threesomes.

I can't help reading their profiles and wow, it's all written by the men to get themselves laid

I'm on here as a bifem to meet hot women. When I tell them I have a hubby and only meet at home for soft swap or full swap suddenly I'm the unreasonable one for not agreeing to drop everything, change my preferences and rush off to meet them alone because "they" have "chosen" me for their first experience ffs.

It's not like us hot chicks have a problem finding good looking men, so without wishing to sound rude, if you "let" your wife and I play it really doesn't entitle you to an exclusive threesome with me, so there

maybe if you dont want to be seen as a single female you shouldnt have a single females profile "

But I do want to be seen as a single fem, I just want to play with women(single or married) and single men I choose. I don't contact couples, they contact me ha!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry but i have to laugh at this. You are obviously looking for women yet have a picture of you sucking 2 guys, also a single male verification. Now a clever person looking for women wouldn’t have this as they would realise it attracted the wrong attention."

So I can't meet men in case it puts women off? I'm not that desperate or I would agree to threesomes with couples!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i just never get why couples have single females profiles then moan about people contacting them as a single woman

People who are looking for single females will pull your profile up on a search, if you want to be seen as a couple and not be contacted by people wanting to meet you alone get a couples profile......honestly its not rocket science "

Nor is it rocket science to understand what I said! My profile explains it quite clearly, hubby doesn't care about swinging, I don't want threesomes with couples, that should just leave fem/fem.

By your logic, every single fem on here should expect her profile to be ignored and to be contacted by anyone who likes her pic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think many guys read profiles I think as usual they think with their cocks first xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i just never get why couples have single females profiles then moan about people contacting them as a single woman

People who are looking for single females will pull your profile up on a search, if you want to be seen as a couple and not be contacted by people wanting to meet you alone get a couples profile......honestly its not rocket science

Nor is it rocket science to understand what I said! My profile explains it quite clearly, hubby doesn't care about swinging, I don't want threesomes with couples, that should just leave fem/fem.

By your logic, every single fem on here should expect her profile to be ignored and to be contacted by anyone who likes her pic. "

And relax...... You know its a swinging site right? I could write "Wont meet anyone at all, ever!" and still get messages. Ask my good friend MC, she has a profile that states she is not playing and if you contact her she will block you, yet she still gets "I loved your profile" messages, what does she do? Block them.

You do sound quite selfish, "I WANT what I WANT and there are NO concessions" See what you are saying is I WANT to play with YOUR wife but YOU CANT play with ME....... If I was a couple I would avoid you, as a single, just smacks of high maintenance..... Ho hum, its not raining here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

And relax...... You know its a swinging site right? I could write "Wont meet anyone at all, ever!" and still get messages. Ask my good friend MC, she has a profile that states she is not playing and if you contact her she will block you, yet she still gets "I loved your profile" messages, what does she do? Block them.

You do sound quite selfish, "I WANT what I WANT and there are NO concessions" See what you are saying is I WANT to play with YOUR wife but YOU CANT play with ME....... If I was a couple I would avoid you, as a single, just smacks of high maintenance..... Ho hum, its not raining here"

Ah, right, you see I don't see wives/gf's as somebody else's possession.

If the lady wants to have sex with me why does that entitle her man to demand a "concession" from me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Further to the above, it's the husbands that offer their wives to me in return for them getting an evening with two women. What you say is me saying "I WANT I WANT" is actually me saying "I don't want your cock, can I talk to the pussy please"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And relax...... You know its a swinging site right? I could write "Wont meet anyone at all, ever!" and still get messages. Ask my good friend MC, she has a profile that states she is not playing and if you contact her she will block you, yet she still gets "I loved your profile" messages, what does she do? Block them.

You do sound quite selfish, "I WANT what I WANT and there are NO concessions" See what you are saying is I WANT to play with YOUR wife but YOU CANT play with ME....... If I was a couple I would avoid you, as a single, just smacks of high maintenance..... Ho hum, its not raining here

Ah, right, you see I don't see wives/gf's as somebody else's possession.

If the lady wants to have sex with me why does that entitle her man to demand a "concession" from me? "

Well I always thought the thing about swinging was "mutual" enjoyment with "likeminded" people, where one can relax and have fun, and not be constrained by rules and regulations, mind you I have only been swinging off and on since I was 21, so I guess I wouldnt know that much.

As an aside, what you are asking of the couple, is actually what a single guy asks from a couple (in most cases unless bisexual himself), "ere mate, I will play with your wife, but don't come near me with your todger"..... and well, if its a choice between a relaxed single guy, or someone who seems to have bypassed modesty, imposes specific rules etc... I know where I would go.

As a rule I avoid any profile that states "beautiful" "fit" "generous" "hot chick" etc..... Bring the Swinger not the ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but i have to laugh at this. You are obviously looking for women yet have a picture of you sucking 2 guys, also a single male verification. Now a clever person looking for women wouldn’t have this as they would realise it attracted the wrong attention.

So I can't meet men in case it puts women off? I'm not that desperate or I would agree to threesomes with couples! "

Lol how did i guess you wouldn't understand what i was saying. There's nothing to stop you getting what you want but you are way of with the way you have constructed your profile to get what you want and you could stop geeing unwanted offers if you choose to. It amazes me how some women just take what is on offer to them rather than going out and looking for what they want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

And relax...... You know its a swinging site right? I could write "Wont meet anyone at all, ever!" and still get messages. Ask my good friend MC, she has a profile that states she is not playing and if you contact her she will block you, yet she still gets "I loved your profile" messages, what does she do? Block them.

You do sound quite selfish, "I WANT what I WANT and there are NO concessions" See what you are saying is I WANT to play with YOUR wife but YOU CANT play with ME....... If I was a couple I would avoid you, as a single, just smacks of high maintenance..... Ho hum, its not raining here

Ah, right, you see I don't see wives/gf's as somebody else's possession.

If the lady wants to have sex with me why does that entitle her man to demand a "concession" from me?

Well I always thought the thing about swinging was "mutual" enjoyment with "likeminded" people, where one can relax and have fun, and not be constrained by rules and regulations, mind you I have only been swinging off and on since I was 21, so I guess I wouldnt know that much.

As an aside, what you are asking of the couple, is actually what a single guy asks from a couple (in most cases unless bisexual himself), "ere mate, I will play with your wife, but don't come near me with your todger"..... and well, if its a choice between a relaxed single guy, or someone who seems to have bypassed modesty, imposes specific rules etc... I know where I would go.

As a rule I avoid any profile that states "beautiful" "fit" "generous" "hot chick" etc..... Bring the Swinger not the ego

"

Are you seriously suggesting that it's ok for man A to ask man B not to try and fuck him while he is playing with man B's wife but it's not ok for me to ask the same?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry but i have to laugh at this. You are obviously looking for women yet have a picture of you sucking 2 guys, also a single male verification. Now a clever person looking for women wouldn’t have this as they would realise it attracted the wrong attention.

So I can't meet men in case it puts women off? I'm not that desperate or I would agree to threesomes with couples!

Lol how did i guess you wouldn't understand what i was saying. There's nothing to stop you getting what you want but you are way of with the way you have constructed your profile to get what you want and you could stop geeing unwanted offers if you choose to. It amazes me how some women just take what is on offer to them rather than going out and looking for what they want. "

Really! I'm choosing the men I want by going out and looking for them.

Should I dress as a virgin and pretend I don't meet men?

Should I not meet couples for soft swing because it's not fair on the lady's partner leaving him out?

I haven't been talking about getting unwanted offers, I love all offers but from the female of the couple, not a bartering session with the male to see what I will offer to be allowed to play with his wife!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Are you seriously suggesting that it's ok for man A to ask man B not to try and fuck him while he is playing with man B's wife but it's not ok for me to ask the same?"

Regarding the term bisexual - it means that you enjoy BOTH sexes, if Man A has not declared that he is bisexual and Man B and his partner have not met Man A thinking that his is bisexual, then yes, it is perfectly acceptable for STRAIGHT Man A to say, "where are you going with that Man B", however if Man A has declared that he is Bisexual, just to get with Man B's woman, then this is not acceptable.

In your case, its quite simple, if a couple contact you, your first message back should be to tell them straight (if you pardon the pun), that you will only play with the woman, if they dont like this and get arsey, move on. You cannot, however, dictate to them, how THEY have to behave with you, its MUTUAL, if there is no sense of mutuality why would you want to meet them? It takes less than 5 minutes to tell people this, it takes 5 minutes for them to respond, it was 10 minutes of your life, and now you know that this particular couple dont play the way you like, you have learned something in 10 minutes you can take a poistive from a negative and block or just avoid that couple in the future, making better use of your "search time" in the future......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i just never get why couples have single females profiles then moan about people contacting them as a single woman

People who are looking for single females will pull your profile up on a search, if you want to be seen as a couple and not be contacted by people wanting to meet you alone get a couples profile......honestly its not rocket science

Nor is it rocket science to understand what I said! My profile explains it quite clearly, hubby doesn't care about swinging, I don't want threesomes with couples, that should just leave fem/fem.

By your logic, every single fem on here should expect her profile to be ignored and to be contacted by anyone who likes her pic. "

but thats what does happen lol

i only meet guy and my profile says that quite clearly, but i still get mail from women and couples and guys outside the age range that ive stated im after

Its just what happens, your not alone in getting unwanted mail every women on here get it

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Passionate views flying around today! I do sort of understand what the OP is saying, allbeit coming over in a rather egotistical way... we did try meeting couples for bifem fun/own partner fun ourselves. Both times the other guy seemed to have other ideas about how things would go.... its very offputting when you meet someone having agreed you both want the same thing only to be made uncomfortable about the other guys agenda afterall. Needless to say we didnt take things further... it was only a social afterall but even then they seemed to think we could be persuaded to do more. Maybe we were just unlucky but it was enough to put us off trying.... back to the straightforward single guys and knowing where we are!

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

OP maybe it would be better if you blocked all couples and approached the ones you are interested in yourself?

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"

And relax...... You know its a swinging site right? I could write "Wont meet anyone at all, ever!" and still get messages. Ask my good friend MC, she has a profile that states she is not playing and if you contact her she will block you, yet she still gets "I loved your profile" messages, what does she do? Block them.

You do sound quite selfish, "I WANT what I WANT and there are NO concessions" See what you are saying is I WANT to play with YOUR wife but YOU CANT play with ME....... If I was a couple I would avoid you, as a single, just smacks of high maintenance..... Ho hum, its not raining here

Ah, right, you see I don't see wives/gf's as somebody else's possession.

If the lady wants to have sex with me why does that entitle her man to demand a "concession" from me?

Well I always thought the thing about swinging was "mutual" enjoyment with "likeminded" people, where one can relax and have fun, and not be constrained by rules and regulations, mind you I have only been swinging off and on since I was 21, so I guess I wouldnt know that much.

As an aside, what you are asking of the couple, is actually what a single guy asks from a couple (in most cases unless bisexual himself), "ere mate, I will play with your wife, but don't come near me with your todger"..... and well, if its a choice between a relaxed single guy, or someone who seems to have bypassed modesty, imposes specific rules etc... I know where I would go.

As a rule I avoid any profile that states "beautiful" "fit" "generous" "hot chick" etc..... Bring the Swinger not the ego

"

Yes I hate the ones who are prepared to be generous in bed too..... what bastards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP maybe it would be better if you blocked all couples and approached the ones you are interested in yourself? "

Precisely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Are you seriously suggesting that it's ok for man A to ask man B not to try and fuck him while he is playing with man B's wife but it's not ok for me to ask the same?

Regarding the term bisexual - it means that you enjoy BOTH sexes, if Man A has not declared that he is bisexual and Man B and his partner have not met Man A thinking that his is bisexual, then yes, it is perfectly acceptable for STRAIGHT Man A to say, "where are you going with that Man B", however if Man A has declared that he is Bisexual, just to get with Man B's woman, then this is not acceptable.

In your case, its quite simple, if a couple contact you, your first message back should be to tell them straight (if you pardon the pun), that you will only play with the woman, if they dont like this and get arsey, move on. You cannot, however, dictate to them, how THEY have to behave with you, its MUTUAL, if there is no sense of mutuality why would you want to meet them? It takes less than 5 minutes to tell people this, it takes 5 minutes for them to respond, it was 10 minutes of your life, and now you know that this particular couple dont play the way you like, you have learned something in 10 minutes you can take a poistive from a negative and block or just avoid that couple in the future, making better use of your "search time" in the future......"

I agree totally babes! My reason for being a bit pissed off is if a couple say they soft swap and exchange messages, details and arrange to meet why, 99 times out of a 100, do they eventually bring it round to them "needing" a threesome.

I have only been swinging for a year but I would never dream of insisting a woman did anything she didn't want to do with my hubby when we were on here as a couple, so I don't see why it is fair for couples to do the same to me when I have made my wishes very clear

Btw nice pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry but i have to laugh at this. You are obviously looking for women yet have a picture of you sucking 2 guys, also a single male verification. Now a clever person looking for women wouldn’t have this as they would realise it attracted the wrong attention.

So I can't meet men in case it puts women off? I'm not that desperate or I would agree to threesomes with couples!

Lol how did i guess you wouldn't understand what i was saying. There's nothing to stop you getting what you want but you are way of with the way you have constructed your profile to get what you want and you could stop geeing unwanted offers if you choose to. It amazes me how some women just take what is on offer to them rather than going out and looking for what they want.

Really! I'm choosing the men I want by going out and looking for them.

Should I dress as a virgin and pretend I don't meet men?

Should I not meet couples for soft swing because it's not fair on the lady's partner leaving him out?

I haven't been talking about getting unwanted offers, I love all offers but from the female of the couple, not a bartering session with the male to see what I will offer to be allowed to play with his wife!

"

You really don't get it, it must be an intellect thing to understand. I will simplify.

-Block couples and pick your own- That means send a message to people you like spelling out what you want. Its really not that hard.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP maybe it would be better if you blocked all couples and approached the ones you are interested in yourself? "

It's a good point well put

I'm thinking of becoming a lesbian who likes muscle men too! xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I agree totally babes! My reason for being a bit pissed off is if a couple say they soft swap and exchange messages, details and arrange to meet why, 99 times out of a 100, do they eventually bring it round to them "needing" a threesome.

I have only been swinging for a year but I would never dream of insisting a woman did anything she didn't want to do with my hubby when we were on here as a couple, so I don't see why it is fair for couples to do the same to me when I have made my wishes very clear

Btw nice pics "

Some people arent honest about what they want, how you would go about getting this honesty is difficult to surmise.... There must be a few questions or statements that you can "cut and paste" into a message to see whether the couple are genuinely into what you are into? Something along the lines of

"What I want is to play with the woman, I am not in this for a threesome, the guy can watch but not take part, if you are uncomfortable with this or think you can "persuade" me to change my mind, then I would be grateful if you didnt continue messaging me, I have had a number of couples recently that have tried to change my mind, and I really dont like being "forced" into a threesome"

Using the word "forced", implies that you are uncomfortable witha threesome, and that should they insist, you will walk away, it should be strong enough"

As for my pics, hmmm, well thank you, but I have a face like a slapped arse, I am not a "hot bloke"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where is man A and Women B they sound hot and I want a 3 some xx

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"OP maybe it would be better if you blocked all couples and approached the ones you are interested in yourself?

It's a good point well put

I'm thinking of becoming a lesbian who likes muscle men too! xxx"

Welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As for my pics, hmmm, well thank you, but I have a face like a slapped arse, I am not a "hot bloke""

some of us like slapped arses

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"As for my pics, hmmm, well thank you, but I have a face like a slapped arse, I am not a "hot bloke"

some of us like slapped arses "

Some of us like slapping said arses

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

You really don't get it, it must be an intellect thing to understand. I will simplify.

-Block couples and pick your own- That means send a message to people you like spelling out what you want. Its really not that hard. "

I knew it would be silly me getting confused!

I'm on here to advertise myself as a woman wanting to meet women, so you think I should block most of them because they are part of a couple?

I thought the idea was to find people to play with that matched what both sides want according to their profiles.

I don't ignore any part of a profile that I don't like and pretend it's not there, I expect the same in return. Is that unreasonable?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As for my pics, hmmm, well thank you, but I have a face like a slapped arse, I am not a "hot bloke"

some of us like slapped arses "

I find my meets very successful when I walk backwards into the house, backwards up the stairs, ask the lady to lie back on the bed with her feet on the floor, and then kneel between her thighs. After a while and few groans, I ask her to assume the doggy position whereupon I take her from behind (hard or slow, here she gets a choice). After the deed is done I can leave safely (you should never walk backwards down the stairs).

70% of my meets have no idea what I look like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

"What I want is to play with the woman, I am not in this for a threesome, the guy can watch but not take part, if you are uncomfortable with this or think you can "persuade" me to change my mind, then I would be grateful if you didnt continue messaging me, I have had a number of couples recently that have tried to change my mind, and I really dont like being "forced" into a threesome"

As for my pics, hmmm, well thank you, but I have a face like a slapped arse, I am not a "hot bloke""

I cut and pasted that onto my profile, hope you don't mind!

A hot bloke is whatever turns me on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

"What I want is to play with the woman, I am not in this for a threesome, the guy can watch but not take part, if you are uncomfortable with this or think you can "persuade" me to change my mind, then I would be grateful if you didnt continue messaging me, I have had a number of couples recently that have tried to change my mind, and I really dont like being "forced" into a threesome"

As for my pics, hmmm, well thank you, but I have a face like a slapped arse, I am not a "hot bloke"

I cut and pasted that onto my profile, hope you don't mind!

A hot bloke is whatever turns me on "

I hope you didnt paste the last bit, telling people you are a single, not-hot bloke, reaffirms the belief that all single women are men posing as single women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

You really don't get it, it must be an intellect thing to understand. I will simplify.

-Block couples and pick your own- That means send a message to people you like spelling out what you want. Its really not that hard.

I knew it would be silly me getting confused!

I'm on here to advertise myself as a woman wanting to meet women, so you think I should block most of them because they are part of a couple?

I thought the idea was to find people to play with that matched what both sides want according to their profiles.

I don't ignore any part of a profile that I don't like and pretend it's not there, I expect the same in return. Is that unreasonable?

"

to be honest yes it is unreasonable

Its unresonabke to expect people to read your profile, its unresonable to expect people to respect your wishes, becaused its a sex site and it dont work like that on here

Id say less than 20% of the messages i get are from people i have stated im looking for the rest are from others

I get loads of mail that start with

I know your not looking for couples but.....

i know your after guys over 30 but......

i know your not bi but......

because thats just how it works on here

The amount of mail i get from couples who tell me i will like women if i met theirs and its cause i aint met the right one yet is unreal, some people just cant take no for an answer, and will go on and on to try and change your mind and then get arsey because they cant change your mind, just block them, forget about it and move on

Theres no point getting into a flap because people you dont want to meet contact you because it wonrt stop them unless you block everyone and contact people yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

! Just the top bit! Mwah xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with NaughtyNymphos on this one. OP, you're not unreasonable to want to what you want, and you're not unreasonable to refuse to do what you don't want. However, it's pointless to complain about getting mail from people you're not interested in - we all get them.

Delete (with a mental 'tut' if you wish) and block (if you really feel strongly about it).

I agree that there aren't enough bisexual females on Fab - if there were more, perhaps I would get fewer mails from people trying to persuade me that I would like being bisexual if I tried it!

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