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How many people do you find attractive?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For me, in my current location, I estimate it to be 1 in 50. In London,1 in 20.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Very few to be honest.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Mine is a much much lower ratio than that but i can't put a precise figure on it

Someone can be attractive to look at but have an ugly personality.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

For me more ofton than not the 1s I fancy stop being so fancyable 1s they open there mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is a much much lower ratio than that but i can't put a precise figure on it

Someone can be attractive to look at but have an ugly personality.

"

This is so very true...

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

To clarify - I can appreciate people are attractive without being attracted to them for myself. Finding people I want for myself is hard, it gets harder as you get older (or rather as they do lol! ).

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By *ccasionalfunCouple
over a year ago

hereandthere

Very few indeed

We went to a very busy splash landings about a month ago and there were maybe 3 good looking women in the whole place.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Depends on my hormones and my location!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It varies - there'll be something attractive about most people but only about 1 in 20 who have high levels of fuller attraction. 1 in 100/200 who really send my pulse rate up.

It can often be the wrong people who message you though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the vast majority of women attractive. You're a fickle lot on here, aren't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can appreciate a good looking person but I wouldn't say I was attracted to them. I need to find their personality exciting and interesting to be attracted, that doesn't happen often.

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

Surprisingly few to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Based solely on physical attributes quite a few. Around 10 on 20.

However, as I need the physical to be in adequacy with the intellectual, it could be narrowed to 3 on 20.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once in a blue moon I find someone attractive. The last one was a guy walking out of Tesco who had just finished his work. He had a high vis on and his face was dirty and a scar down his cheek with his joggies were just below his waist. Just something about him. I'm not quite sure if it was his actual face or his demeanor but first time in years I actually had a double take x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a lot these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very few from being online. I have to meet people to be attracted to them

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By *icegentglosMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

Us men are normally very visual so any particular attribute can be attractive. Even more so when we’re horny, which is most of the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find lots of people attractive, men and women. It doesn’t mean I’m attracted to them, but I can appreciate lots of different things about people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attractive in general terms or sexually appealing to me personally?

The former, quite a few, the latter, almost none.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

If you look hard enough, you can see beauty somewhere in most people. Fee have nothing to recommend them.

However, even a Venus can be flawed enough in personality to put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Very few indeed

We went to a very busy splash landings about a month ago and there were maybe 3 good looking women in the whole place. "

But isn't good looking subjective to the person / people looking... Someone else at the same event could have said there were dozens of good looking women

(playing devil's advocate here )

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

In life generally lots,from my Dr to the bus driver to the jogger in the park etc.

On here NONE really as it is cock I want, it's the cock I find attractive (or not).

Yes I am very shallow lol

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Just reading through this thread, i do wonder why the fuck some of you are here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's interesting to see that others are as fussy as me. Was beginning to think that I was a bit odd (of course, I still might be)!

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By *ustme6Man
over a year ago

tamworth


"It's interesting to see that others are as fussy as me. Was beginning to think that I was a bit odd (of course, I still might be)! "
think most guys might say...anyone who responds..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can appreciate someone is attractive to look at but not feel compelled to actually want to do anything with them!

I like what other people may see as imperfections/not conventionally attractive. No patience for the carbon copy "trendies" all trying to fit a certain mould.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

There is something attractive in most people be it their looks or the way they just are.

On here though I find very few people I like enough to want to shag them. In fact I think I might have lost my mojo.

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By *ammers43Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Its when people say to me " at your age surely its more about companionship "

Nooooooo, id rather be on my own than just settle for what i can get

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds


" Just reading through this thread, i do wonder why the fuck some of you are here. "

My thoughts exactly. Explains why no one gets a fuck on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A reasonably large number, but it can something in particular about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its when people say to me " at your age surely its more about companionship "

Nooooooo, id rather be on my own than just settle for what i can get "

Sounds like they are consigning you to a slow totter towards the grave!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Around these parts the new lambs are a breath of fresh air but that's about it.

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By *ammers43Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Its when people say to me " at your age surely its more about companionship "

Nooooooo, id rather be on my own than just settle for what i can get

Sounds like they are consigning you to a slow totter towards the grave!"

Hmmm do you think

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds

So what we are saying is:

Women don't want to shag anyone.

Men will shag owt.

I think I'll become gay.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is only skin deep... some of us were born inside out! Haha

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I find lots of people physically attractive and enjoy admiring their form... but on a personal level I need more than that. I have to find someone truly intriguing and stimulating on an intellectual and emotional level for real attraction to take place... and chemistry... lots and lots of chemistry lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be terrible because I see more beauty in people than most. That doesn't mean I want to jump into bed with them. But I do appreciate all shapes and sizes of women. Thats why all the best sculptures are of women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is something attractive in most people be it their looks or the way they just are.

On here though I find very few people I like enough to want to shag them. In fact I think I might have lost my mojo. "

Oh no!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Its when people say to me " at your age surely its more about companionship "

Nooooooo, id rather be on my own than just settle for what i can get "

I thought this was a swinging site though? You're making it sound like a place to find your wife. I'm not saying its impossible but if i was looking for someone to play snooker with i wouldn't join a golf club.

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By *ammers43Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Its when people say to me " at your age surely its more about companionship "

Nooooooo, id rather be on my own than just settle for what i can get

I thought this was a swinging site though? You're making it sound like a place to find your wife. I'm not saying its impossible but if i was looking for someone to play snooker with i wouldn't join a golf club."

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By *ammers43Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Its when people say to me " at your age surely its more about companionship "

Nooooooo, id rather be on my own than just settle for what i can get

I thought this was a swinging site though? You're making it sound like a place to find your wife. I'm not saying its impossible but if i was looking for someone to play snooker with i wouldn't join a golf club."

really, nah dont think i am it was a simple comment about attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Just reading through this thread, i do wonder why the fuck some of you are here. "

You n me both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, in my current location, I estimate it to be 1 in 50. In London,1 in 20."

in norwich .............You

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Its when people say to me " at your age surely its more about companionship "

Nooooooo, id rather be on my own than just settle for what i can get

I thought this was a swinging site though? You're making it sound like a place to find your wife. I'm not saying its impossible but if i was looking for someone to play snooker with i wouldn't join a golf club.

really, nah dont think i am it was a simple comment about attraction "

Fair one.

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By *ammers43Man
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Its when people say to me " at your age surely its more about companionship "

Nooooooo, id rather be on my own than just settle for what i can get

I thought this was a swinging site though? You're making it sound like a place to find your wife. I'm not saying its impossible but if i was looking for someone to play snooker with i wouldn't join a golf club.

really, nah dont think i am it was a simple comment about attraction

Fair one. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different for different demographics

Women about 1 in 3 to 5

Couples 1 in about 7 ish

Men 1 in 374

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Different for different demographics

Women about 1 in 3 to 5

Couples 1 in about 7 ish

Men 1 in 374"

That’s a very precise number when it comes to men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not many men on fab in north east who have nice personality and looks .looking at local updates

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"I find lots of people physically attractive and enjoy admiring their form... but on a personal level I need more than that. I have to find someone truly intriguing and stimulating on an intellectual and emotional level for real attraction to take place... and chemistry... lots and lots of chemistry lol."

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By *rladytoyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth


"For me, in my current location, I estimate it to be 1 in 50. In London,1 in 20."

Within 30 miles of my location theres probably 10 decent profiles . The south west really is shockingly bad on here. Every time i have a great time with people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far far too many for my own good!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Not many men on fab in north east who have nice personality and looks .looking at local updates "

I just looked and mine and had to stop after about 10 seconds.....

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Not many men on fab in north east who have nice personality and looks .looking at local updates

I just looked and mine and had to stop after about 10 seconds....."

Thanks ladies

,

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Not many men on fab in north east who have nice personality and looks .looking at local updates

I just looked and mine and had to stop after about 10 seconds.....

Thanks ladies

,

"

Oh there are some gross pictures being posted on here, truly!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4²

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"4²"

Wrong thread - but Im impressed by your superscript.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

964,354,921.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Just reading through this thread, i do wonder why the fuck some of you are here. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See attractive people all the time. Very rarely see someone who makes my button twitch though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One more for me. Just had a peek at Tiny Temptress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people are attractive in some way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people are attractive in some way "

How about Fred West?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet


"Most people are attractive in some way

How about Fred West? "

He was to Rose.

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By *arksMan
over a year ago

in the centre


"Most people are attractive in some way

How about Fred West?

He was to Rose."

Maybe it was his killer looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people are attractive in some way

How about Fred West?

He was to Rose.

Maybe it was his killer looks "

both of you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people are attractive in some way

How about Fred West? "

I said MOST not all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people are attractive in some way

How about Fred West?

I said MOST not all! "

Lol you did and you are right. I always look for attractive qualities and features in people. My downfall! Lol

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"For me more ofton than not the 1s I fancy stop being so fancyable 1s they open there mouth "

Word!

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By *ieman300Man
over a year ago

Best Greggs in Cheshire East


"Most people are attractive in some way

How about Fred West?

He was to Rose.

Maybe it was his killer looks "

Haha

Oh dear but

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people are attractive in some way

How about Fred West?

I said MOST not all!

Lol you did and you are right. I always look for attractive qualities and features in people. My downfall! Lol "

It's not a downfall. That in itself is an attractive quality x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most people are attractive in some way

How about Fred West?

I said MOST not all!

Lol you did and you are right. I always look for attractive qualities and features in people. My downfall! Lol

It's not a downfall. That in itself is an attractive quality x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought all the attractive people used the forum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, in my current location, I estimate it to be 1 in 50. In London,1 in 20."
cracking boobs there (ment as compliment)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, not many. May be we are too picky ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is beautiful to someone. Just have to find the bugger in this vast world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As ever i didnt answer the question. I find alot of people attractive, and not just from how they look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find many attractive everyone is attractive in their own way.

Not that i am depserate or easy but i find i will have fun with most should the occasion arise (which isn't that often).

Lifes to short to be shallow and degrade people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction like many other things starts in the mind....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many but very few live near me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Few only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few visually attractive, probably say about 1 in 15ish if i were to put a number in on. Full on attraction rarely happens though.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"Everyone is beautiful to someone. Just have to find the bugger in this vast world "

True story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some can be attractive but horrible personality that makes them ugly .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard to say as more people join up

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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago

norwich

Its great being bi ,loads more choices and i tend to find personality the most attractive thing in people . X

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By *aisyDDWoman
over a year ago

North West

Oh maybe 1 in 50 on here. Nightmare for dating. Good job I prefer to get to know people first.

Fred durst would be perfect if he’s on here

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

Quite a lot if I'm onist

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By *eothelionMan
over a year ago

chester

Depends on the definition of attractive.

If you mean looks, body, personality and intelligence all coming together???

look no further. Shit that wasn’t the question.

Having moved around a bit. Around the Wirral and Chester area has loads of friendly lovely people. Definitely attractive and more than just looks.

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