FabSwingers.com forum: Making an impression

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you think you make a good impression?

I'm thinking mostly in a group or social situation rather than one on one.

When you meet new people are you friendly and open or are you quite reserved. Do you stand out from the crowd?

Do you ever receive compliments after and feel shocked you were even noticed?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I like to blend into the background and be unobtrusive. I’m actually quite quiet, it’s only on here I yap on and on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a rather shy chap so I tend to be found on the periphery to begin with, only becoming involved when I feel I’ve got something worthwhile to add.

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Quiet until I get to know people.

Then I'm turn into an "omg he's off again" type

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Very friendly with anyone I meet. It's just my nature.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not shy. Very friendly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being in a group environment I'm a fairly confident without being overpowering

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

No idea ask somebody I've met but beware I know some dodgy fuckers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i shy at first but who knows what will be will be in life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm shy to at start but when get chatting with someone I become comfortable and talk for ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Working a bar, you can't be shy, but I like to think I make people feel welcome

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Not shy. Very friendly"
I’m shy. Not very friendly either. We are opposites.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to blend in till I feel comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really a shy person, do like to talk to new people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not shy im confident and good company alone and in social group .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really sure, I'm just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm always astounded at how many people are convinced I'm the consummate professional and even been called intimidating...if only they knew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very friendly, love meeting new people, will talk to anyone!

MrH is the opposite

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Not shy. Very friendly I’m shy. Not very friendly either. We are opposites. "
they say opposites attract.....not in this case

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Not shy. Very friendly I’m shy. Not very friendly either. We are opposites. they say opposites attract.....not in this case"
I thought I’d made it perfectly clear before we met - no cabbages!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im friendly and polite but probably secretly wishing i was somewhere else if its a group thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon I’m quite good in a social situation. I like to chat and mingle...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im friendly and polite but probably secretly wishing i was somewhere else if its a group thing"

I mostly wish I was at home with my bra off...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to be friendly and chatty and enjoy a social setting.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Im friendly and polite but probably secretly wishing i was somewhere else if its a group thing

I mostly wish I was at home with my bra off..."
so do I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im friendly and polite but probably secretly wishing i was somewhere else if its a group thing

I mostly wish I was at home with my bra off..."

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

Slips in reads thread....

Groups? Crowds? ...

Wanders quietly back into the man cave...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im friendly and polite but probably secretly wishing i was somewhere else if its a group thing

I mostly wish I was at home with my bra off... so do I

It’s a joyous occasion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being so tall and having purple hair i couldnt blend into the background if i tried!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more of a 'speak when spoken to' kind of guy when I'm in a new crowd once I'm more comfortable I'll chip in if I have anything interesting to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I can hold my own in a group, I'm very chatty and have no problems talking to new people.

After attending my first fab social about 5 years ago I received a load of messages and verifications declaring how lovely I was to meet and full of compliments. At the time my confidence was super low and I remember shitting myself (metaphorically) before the event. On the night I vowed to just enjoy it and be myself. The fact I was well received was a huge confidence boost and actually a pretty life changing thing for me. I think that was the first time I realised it's ok to just be myself, everyone won't like me sure, but the cool people will

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Im quite shy but very friendly, I like to chat and inspite of being shy I will talk to anyone. Cheffy is very comfortable talking too.

We are a very sociable couple all in all

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