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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When it comes to lust are looks the only thing that sparks the urge or are there other things that cam make the average looking guy/girl more desireable as a sexual partner than a hot one? So what qualities make you lust for someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looks play a very important factor for me,call me shallow but i know who floats my boat...and who dosent..

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The mind over looks for me, but i couldnt shag a munter. I like average looking people who i can connect with. Im not looking for adonis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"looks play a very important factor for me,call me shallow but i know who floats my boat...and who dosent.."

Same here but i wouldn't shag a stunning bitch i wouldn't enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i am meeting 1 on 1, I need to be attracted to someone so yes in that scenario, looks are important.

I have however had it where I have been playing with someone in a non private room and another person has joined in 'half way through'

In that scenario, I have let them carry on, despite not being totally attracted to them.

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By *uckscouple2007Couple
over a year ago

Bucks

the man's looks are a definate first to by considered by Sarah ... after that his character and only then cock size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The mind over looks for me, but i couldnt shag a munter. I like average looking people who i can connect with. Im not looking for adonis"

+1

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By *atureFem4FunWoman
over a year ago

Petts Wood

A mutual attraction is paramount in my meets, so yes there must be an element of 'looks' being important...

Personality, humour, also come into play.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Looks are fairly important but I also have to like their personality. A Sense of humour, charm and someone who is interested in others, goes a long way.

Could find a guy / lady drop dead gorgeous but if they are arrogant with an oversized ego...puts me right off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, they arent essential, but there are some people i just dont like the look of at all, even though other people find them attractive. I like men who are realy clean and tidy looking, not someone who wears old clothes. Someone who has a nice smile, looks more attractive. Someone who is quite confident without being arrogant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a terrific personality can make average looks unimportant. After a while with someone it's how you get on that counts and that's more than skin deep (;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Looks can be part of intital attraction but if they're coupled with the personality of a plank of wood they mean nothing,if they have a great personality and think on the same wavelength as me then...party on!!!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

There are people whose personality just shines out...this makes them attractive to me.i may be an aging hippy but i do think what is inside makes someone ugly or beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definatly.

we have looked for a single man to join us before.there are 100's to choose from so why not be very fussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here looks are massively important.

I often search round and try and find couples that are good-looking enough but it's very hard to find two people up to my very exacting standards.

Why not be fussy I say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one to one then looks are high on my list.. they dont have to do much else but look good and have a hard cock and know how to use it..

And cum lots..

for a group situation it doesnt really bother me as its cock and cum I am after.. one on one, I may want to kiss them.. so I have to find them mmmm

Cali x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"one to one then looks are high on my list.. they dont have to do much else but look good and have a hard cock and know how to use it..

And cum lots..

for a group situation it doesnt really bother me as its cock and cum I am after.. one on one, I may want to kiss them.. so I have to find them mmmm

Cali x"

Are you saying you'd have sex with someone you could not bring yourself to kiss? Wow, that possibility never occurred to me. I'm on a learning curve (;-)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"one to one then looks are high on my list.. they dont have to do much else but look good and have a hard cock and know how to use it..

And cum lots..

for a group situation it doesnt really bother me as its cock and cum I am after.. one on one, I may want to kiss them.. so I have to find them mmmm

Cali x

Are you saying you'd have sex with someone you could not bring yourself to kiss? Wow, that possibility never occurred to me. I'm on a learning curve (;-)"

I think if its a group situation its more to do with the scenario and the group rather than the individuals. It still makes you think though.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Looks are the initial impression you have of somebody - it is when they open their mouth and exude confidence and charisma... when I start paying attention. A man for me does not have to look like George Clooney but he needs to have modicum of flair, intelligence, wit in copious portions, a sense of humour and be... well just somewhat manly.So so so so sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There definitely has to be some physical attraction for me to want to play, but if there is no personality attatched i find it a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Looks are the initial impression you have of somebody - it is when they open their mouth and exude confidence and charisma... when I start paying attention. A man for me does not have to look like George Clooney but he needs to have modicum of flair, intelligence, wit in copious portions, a sense of humour and be... well just somewhat manly.So so so so sexy "

So a intelligent guy who is a bit ruff looks wise but is humorous can get on the meet list?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There definitely has to be some physical attraction for me to want to play, but if there is no personality attatched i find it a turn off. "

So how much is looks and how much personality?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Looks are the initial impression you have of somebody - it is when they open their mouth and exude confidence and charisma... when I start paying attention. A man for me does not have to look like George Clooney but he needs to have modicum of flair, intelligence, wit in copious portions, a sense of humour and be... well just somewhat manly.So so so so sexy

So a intelligent guy who is a bit ruff looks wise but is humorous can get on the meet list?"
Absolutely true for me... I find really good looking men (often) a bit shallow and too vain for my liking, but of course there are some exceptions...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I find really good looking men (often) a bit shallow and too vain for my liking, but of course there are some exceptions..."

Arrh fankoo xx

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"Looks are the initial impression you have of somebody - it is when they open their mouth and exude confidence and charisma... when I start paying attention. A man for me does not have to look like George Clooney but he needs to have modicum of flair, intelligence, wit in copious portions, a sense of humour and be... well just somewhat manly.So so so so sexy

So a intelligent guy who is a bit ruff looks wise but is humorous can get on the meet list?Absolutely true for me... I find really good looking men (often) a bit shallow and too vain for my liking, but of course there are some exceptions..."

Stops brushing his hair and starts reading again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks are just one part of it for me ..... if a nasty peace of work and up there own bum well ........ its no way no matter now lovely thay look that go for men and woman ... I have to like the look and person too .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes yes yes.

Its the first thing we judge. Call me shallow but that's me, I know what I like.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


" I find really good looking men (often) a bit shallow and too vain for my liking, but of course there are some exceptions...

Arrh fankoo xx "
You re as always very very welcome xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a man purely for his looks: he was a dead ringer for Daniel Craig. He was immaculately dressed and his baby blues lit up when he spotted me...I nearly creamed my panties there and then...then he opened his mouth. He sounded like Joe Pasquale...it had the same effect as a cold shower.

To make matters worse he was the most boring man I ever had the misfortune to meet...he spoke about his mum the whole time. I couldn't wait to put daylight between us.

Whilst I still prefer attractive men they have to have depth, charisma and intelligence: good looks along with big cock is not enough for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looks are the initial impression you have of somebody - it is when they open their mouth and exude confidence and charisma... when I start paying attention. A man for me does not have to look like George Clooney but he needs to have modicum of flair, intelligence, wit in copious portions, a sense of humour and be... well just somewhat manly.So so so so sexy

So a intelligent guy who is a bit ruff looks wise but is humorous can get on the meet list?Absolutely true for me... I find really good looking men (often) a bit shallow and too vain for my liking, but of course there are some exceptions..."

I couldn't have put it better myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are looks essential??

Well Frock gets meets xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are looks essential??

Well Frock gets meets xx "

FROCK RIGHT OFF!!!

You wait til I see you #%+? head

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Looks are the initial impression you have of somebody - it is when they open their mouth and exude confidence and charisma... when I start paying attention. A man for me does not have to look like George Clooney but he needs to have modicum of flair, intelligence, wit in copious portions, a sense of humour and be... well just somewhat manly.So so so so sexy

So a intelligent guy who is a bit ruff looks wise but is humorous can get on the meet list?Absolutely true for me... I find really good looking men (often) a bit shallow and too vain for my liking, but of course there are some exceptions...

I couldn't have put it better myself "
You can put most things better than me...;-);-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are looks essential??

Well Frock gets meets xx

FROCK RIGHT OFF!!!

You wait til I see you #%+? head "

Hi darling is ya keyboard broke?? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are looks essential??

Well Frock gets meets xx

FROCK RIGHT OFF!!!

You wait til I see you #%+? head

Hi darling is ya keyboard broke?? xx "

Not half as broke as certain parts of you when I get hold

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