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I don't get these messaging threads

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What I mean is those threads where you message someone you fancy. I don't understand them at all.

I know that that they're just for fun but I wouldn't have a clue on what to say and I don't think I'd get anything back anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t join in then

It’s just a bit of banter anyway, I hardly ever get messages in response to them but I still join in

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive become very good friends with someone who just messaged me and said i fancy you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive become very good friends with someone who just messaged me and said i fancy you"

oooooh, where have you been lately ? Missed you

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Bloody hell I bet you're fun on a night out.

Hey x, you look gorgeous and I I really fancy you.

What's the worst that can happen ?

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"What I mean is those threads where you message someone you fancy. I don't understand them at all.

I know that that they're just for fun but I wouldn't have a clue on what to say and I don't think I'd get anything back anyway."

You say you are in, then wait for somebody you like the look of to pop up and contact them via the reply privately tab.... they then know its contact from the thread and will reply.

Its good practice for starting a conversation with a stranger and stops your inbox dying from a lack of mail

Its meant to be fun so don't get all excited and assume you will get a meet from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive become very good friends with someone who just messaged me and said i fancy you"

This! We met on one such thread and in 4 days we're getting married

Ads

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Due to my area they don't work for me, so I don't join in, quite simple, they are just for a bit of fun and a possible future meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What I mean is those threads where you message someone you fancy. I don't understand them at all.

I know that that they're just for fun but I wouldn't have a clue on what to say and I don't think I'd get anything back anyway.

You say you are in, then wait for somebody you like the look of to pop up and contact them via the reply privately tab.... they then know its contact from the thread and will reply.

Its good practice for starting a conversation with a stranger and stops your inbox dying from a lack of mail

Its meant to be fun so don't get all excited and assume you will get a meet from it.

"

I wasn't expecting a meet or anything like that. I just wanted to see what these were all about and maybe say hi to a few but I never seem to muster up the balls to do so due to my autism affecting my social skills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say I'm in then someone messages you and you find out they're pretty awesome and all is good with the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP - a fair number of meets happen off the back of them - chance your arm - you might find a match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aww congratulations guys


"Ive become very good friends with someone who just messaged me and said i fancy you

This! We met on one such thread and in 4 days we're getting married

Ads"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Aww congratulations guys

Ive become very good friends with someone who just messaged me and said i fancy you

This! We met on one such thread and in 4 days we're getting married

Ads"

Thank you

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"What I mean is those threads where you message someone you fancy. I don't understand them at all.

I know that that they're just for fun but I wouldn't have a clue on what to say and I don't think I'd get anything back anyway.

You say you are in, then wait for somebody you like the look of to pop up and contact them via the reply privately tab.... they then know its contact from the thread and will reply.

Its good practice for starting a conversation with a stranger and stops your inbox dying from a lack of mail

Its meant to be fun so don't get all excited and assume you will get a meet from it.

I wasn't expecting a meet or anything like that. I just wanted to see what these were all about and maybe say hi to a few but I never seem to muster up the balls to do so due to my autism affecting my social skills"

In that case those threads are exactly the ones you need to take part in... push yourself!

Practice you social skills on people who should reply as thats the idea of the thread. Use them to brush up on sincere complements and general chit chat.

Its going to be challenging for you but at least the effort wont be wasted on random people who probably wont reply.

Like i said... push your self and hopefully improve yoursocial ability.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I mean is those threads where you message someone you fancy. I don't understand them at all.

I know that that they're just for fun but I wouldn't have a clue on what to say and I don't think I'd get anything back anyway.

You say you are in, then wait for somebody you like the look of to pop up and contact them via the reply privately tab.... they then know its contact from the thread and will reply.

Its good practice for starting a conversation with a stranger and stops your inbox dying from a lack of mail

Its meant to be fun so don't get all excited and assume you will get a meet from it.

I wasn't expecting a meet or anything like that. I just wanted to see what these were all about and maybe say hi to a few but I never seem to muster up the balls to do so due to my autism affecting my social skills

In that case those threads are exactly the ones you need to take part in... push yourself!

Practice you social skills on people who should reply as thats the idea of the thread. Use them to brush up on sincere complements and general chit chat.

Its going to be challenging for you but at least the effort wont be wasted on random people who probably wont reply.

Like i said... push your self and hopefully improve yoursocial ability. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What I mean is those threads where you message someone you fancy. I don't understand them at all.

I know that that they're just for fun but I wouldn't have a clue on what to say and I don't think I'd get anything back anyway.

You say you are in, then wait for somebody you like the look of to pop up and contact them via the reply privately tab.... they then know its contact from the thread and will reply.

Its good practice for starting a conversation with a stranger and stops your inbox dying from a lack of mail

Its meant to be fun so don't get all excited and assume you will get a meet from it.

I wasn't expecting a meet or anything like that. I just wanted to see what these were all about and maybe say hi to a few but I never seem to muster up the balls to do so due to my autism affecting my social skills

In that case those threads are exactly the ones you need to take part in... push yourself!

Practice you social skills on people who should reply as thats the idea of the thread. Use them to brush up on sincere complements and general chit chat.

Its going to be challenging for you but at least the effort wont be wasted on random people who probably wont reply.

Like i said... push your self and hopefully improve yoursocial ability. "

Ok. I'll give it a try. I think posted in one earlier but then chose to back out

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish


"What I mean is those threads where you message someone you fancy. I don't understand them at all.

I know that that they're just for fun but I wouldn't have a clue on what to say and I don't think I'd get anything back anyway.

You say you are in, then wait for somebody you like the look of to pop up and contact them via the reply privately tab.... they then know its contact from the thread and will reply.

Its good practice for starting a conversation with a stranger and stops your inbox dying from a lack of mail

Its meant to be fun so don't get all excited and assume you will get a meet from it.

I wasn't expecting a meet or anything like that. I just wanted to see what these were all about and maybe say hi to a few but I never seem to muster up the balls to do so due to my autism affecting my social skills

In that case those threads are exactly the ones you need to take part in... push yourself!

Practice you social skills on people who should reply as thats the idea of the thread. Use them to brush up on sincere complements and general chit chat.

Its going to be challenging for you but at least the effort wont be wasted on random people who probably wont reply.

Like i said... push your self and hopefully improve yoursocial ability.

Ok. I'll give it a try. I think posted in one earlier but then chose to back out"

Go on... be brave... put you pulling pants on, smile and get in there x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"What I mean is those threads where you message someone you fancy. I don't understand them at all.

I know that that they're just for fun but I wouldn't have a clue on what to say and I don't think I'd get anything back anyway.

You say you are in, then wait for somebody you like the look of to pop up and contact them via the reply privately tab.... they then know its contact from the thread and will reply.

Its good practice for starting a conversation with a stranger and stops your inbox dying from a lack of mail

Its meant to be fun so don't get all excited and assume you will get a meet from it.

I wasn't expecting a meet or anything like that. I just wanted to see what these were all about and maybe say hi to a few but I never seem to muster up the balls to do so due to my autism affecting my social skills

In that case those threads are exactly the ones you need to take part in... push yourself!

Practice you social skills on people who should reply as thats the idea of the thread. Use them to brush up on sincere complements and general chit chat.

Its going to be challenging for you but at least the effort wont be wasted on random people who probably wont reply.

Like i said... push your self and hopefully improve yoursocial ability.

Ok. I'll give it a try. I think posted in one earlier but then chose to back out

Go on... be brave... put you pulling pants on, smile and get in there x"

Ok I'll give it a shot.

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