FabSwingers.com forum: Not looking to fuck my way round the site

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you saw this on a profile what would you think?

I've updated mine, going to see what effect it has on my inbox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d think

“Yeah. You are”

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Id think it was a same old same old cliche that some use to make them feel better/above others

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’d think ‘a weak excuse to use for lack of meets’ but I’m not very sympathetic when it comes to cliches. People use them till the cows come home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it usually goes with someone who has a couple of hundred veries....or so it often appears on fab.

Strangely they usually also have the temerity to tell others they have had too many meets / veries

#doublestandards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may use it too ... minus the "not"

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Well if it's clichés. I will go with what most of you forum regulars say.

"It's upto them what they put on their profiles"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’d think

“Yeah. You are”

same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw this on a profile what would you think?

I've updated mine, going to see what effect it has on my inbox.

good luck

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Id think they are just saying it coz they've seen it on somebody elses profile and thought it would make them sound a bit choosey... usually they will in actual fact fuck anything with a pulse

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

It is just another cliche that people pick up on site like “professional”

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'd think they think it will make them look better than those with many verifications.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I don’t care about you fucking your way through the entire site, I just care if you’ll fuck me

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"I’d think

“Yeah. You are”

^^ This

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Well if it's clichés. I will go with what most of you forum regulars say.

"It's upto them what they put on their profiles" "

Exactly! It's all part of the filtering process.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Wow aren't we a judgemental bunch!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I don't think we'd get away with putting this on our profile.... unless of course we hid our veries lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd think you're typing what you think people want to hear instead of what your groin is telling you!

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds

This is a recreational sex site not Match.Com ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why the hell not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's part of me that might quite enjoy "Fu*king my way round the site" or the UK.

If only I had the time..

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I think it's an odd thing to say on a site like this to be honest. Seems to be almost shaming people who are looking for more sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I may use it too ... minus the "not"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wow aren't we a judgemental bunch!"

Swingers are open minded.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I think meh. Don't think it'll have much difference on here whether you put it on or not. At the end of the day your the gate keeper of who you fuck or not and who gives a shit what others perceptions of you are?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

When I go on tour I do look for meets wherever I am staying.* Is that fucking my way around the site?

* I'm not having much luck for Devon on Monday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want to meet them, it sounds judgemental to me. X

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Wow aren't we a judgemental bunch!

Swingers are open minded.

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you asked a question and got answers. What did you expect. You asked what people thought. They answered. Why would that make them judgemental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd think that person is like me... More than happy to not bother going through the effort we do, all in the name of just any old leg over.

That person is happy to go without meets until someone comes along who actually does tick their boxes.

Just because sex is offered on a plate, doesn't mean all of us go running to it. We all have our own preferences and desires.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When I go on tour I do look for meets wherever I am staying.* Is that fucking my way around the site?

* I'm not having much luck for Devon on Monday.

I think that's fucking your way round the country.

You could change your profile postcode to Devon. People don't seem to like 'drive by' fucks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd think that person is like me... More than happy to not bother going through the effort we do, all in the name of just any old leg over.

That person is happy to go without meets until someone comes along who actually does tick their boxes.

Just because sex is offered on a plate, doesn't mean all of us go running to it. We all have our own preferences and desires.

That's positive.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"When I go on tour I do look for meets wherever I am staying.* Is that fucking my way around the site?

* I'm not having much luck for Devon on Monday.

I think that's fucking your way round the country.

You could change your profile postcode to Devon. People don't seem to like 'drive by' fucks.

Yeah, but, no, but... I've got a vulva and boobs!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I just think yeah whatever,I'm damn sure you would if you could.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I've seen this more and more since coming back, after 6 years away. It smacks of judgement to me.

I've also seen a lot more comments about what others are choosing to do, particularly in terms of how many meets people have - perhaps it's just more out there now?

I've had a couple of blokes I've met even just for a drink behaving oddly after they've found out I've met someone else. I don't meet often so I can't think how they behave with women who are having 1 or 2 meets each week. They must truly think they're the devil's spawn!

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Id think it was a same old same old cliche that some use to make them feel better/above others"

This ,or they don't get the chance to

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is a recreational sex site not Match.Com ffs"

Doesn't mean you can't be very selective though and some people are on here for more than NSA.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im looking to fuck my way round the site but sadly the site has no wish to reciprocate lol

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By *aptain BangalotMan
over a year ago

SW London

It means they are very selective and choosy, that they won’t put out for any old Dick, Mary or Gary. You gotta wear socks that match before you get into their pants.

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Im looking to fuck my way round the site but sadly the site has no wish to reciprocate lol"

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"I wouldn't want to meet them, it sounds judgemental to me. X

Yep , same here...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"If you saw this on a profile what would you think?

I've updated mine, going to see what effect it has on my inbox.

Pretentious twat trying to apply degrees of promiscuity.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Fuck my way round fabs?

Road trip!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just think yeah whatever,I'm damn sure you would if you could."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just makes me chuckle. I'm a swinger... I fuck lots of men and women and enjoy group fun at clubs and parties. If people want to judge me for that they can fuck off lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw this on a profile what would you think?

I've updated mine, going to see what effect it has on my inbox.

I'd think they had worked out their sums and thought there's no way in 10 lifetimes that the could do this but they're being very busy all the same.

I do tend to think they are looking for the semi-virgins of fab with 1 or 2 veris and will soon clock up the numbers themselves.

I recently saw one lady who has about 180+ 'displayed' veris who has recently put up... "Only selective meets now". I though...yep you're right there's only a few left over here now lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d think “call yourself a swinger”"?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you saw this on a profile what would you think?

I've updated mine, going to see what effect it has on my inbox.

I'd think they had worked out their sums and thought there's no way in 10 lifetimes that the could do this but they're being very busy all the same.

I do tend to think they are looking for the semi-virgins of fab with 1 or 2 veris and will soon clock up the numbers themselves.

I recently saw one lady who has about 180+ 'displayed' veris who has recently put up... "Only selective meets now". I though...yep you're right there's only a few left over here now lol."

Line up the virgins!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It means they are very selective and choosy, that they won’t put out for any old Dick, Mary or Gary. You gotta wear socks that match before you get into their pants. "

Matching socks is very important. I'll add that, thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I may use it too ... minus the "not"

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The effect was no mail.

Next update coming up....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw this on a profile what would you think?

I've updated mine, going to see what effect it has on my inbox.

I think it's just them saying they'd rather fuck them in one place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or maybe somebody is actually just looking for one regular partner and there's no ulterior motive? Judgemental lot on here or what?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Or maybe somebody is actually just looking for one regular partner and there's no ulterior motive? Judgemental lot on here or what?

Indeed.

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By *edonistic Bi.Man
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

"I’d think

“Yeah. You are”

Or "not had the offers they'd thought "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw this on a profile what would you think?

I've updated mine, going to see what effect it has on my inbox.

Great profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means "what a bunch of skangers, still, if I'm lonely on a Saturday night, one of you will probably do"

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

It’s interesting - I know some people won’t play with me because of some people I have met socially

For me I don’t mind who people play with

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Depends on whether anything else on their profile contradicts it or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you saw this on a profile what would you think?

I've updated mine, going to see what effect it has on my inbox.

Great profile

I've updated it since my OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Id think they are just saying it coz they've seen it on somebody elses profile and thought it would make them sound a bit choosey... usually they will in actual fact fuck anything with a pulse

Bit like the morons who copy the “legal” bit about using pictures etc...waste of server space...nothing more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw this on a profile what would you think?

I've updated mine, going to see what effect it has on my inbox.

Great profile

I've updated it since my OP.

That’s always been my favourite profile of yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw this on a profile what would you think?

I've updated mine, going to see what effect it has on my inbox.

Great profile

I've updated it since my OP.

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go on try it without the "not".... I dare ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw this on a profile what would you think?

I've updated mine, going to see what effect it has on my inbox.

Great profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you saw this on a profile what would you think?

I've updated mine, going to see what effect it has on my inbox.

Great profile

I've updated it since my OP.

go on try it without the "not".... I dare ya

Challenge accepted.

I'll have it as my profile header x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw this on a profile what would you think?

I've updated mine, going to see what effect it has on my inbox.

Great profile

I've updated it since my OP.

go on try it without the "not".... I dare ya

Challenge accepted.

I'll have it as my profile header x"
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Your veris are hilarious I think I actually did PMSL

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By *ubiousOatcakeMan
over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

As with all negative comments on profiles, I think it’s more likely to put off the kind of people that the profile owner would be interested in, and encourage exactly the kind of people that they wouldn’t. Just one of a long list of things people put in their profiles that serves no real purpose. If it makes them happy, though...

"I've had a couple of blokes I've met even just for a drink behaving oddly after they've found out I've met someone else."
There’s two sides to this, I think. It depends how it’s done. We all know what the site is for, so we know that people we meet will meet others. But I have no interest in disclosing if/when/who I’ve met with my meets, and no interest in hearing from meets if/when/who they’ve met.

Except if it’s another woman, in which case I want to hear about what they got up to, obviously...

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By *urSurveySaysMan
over a year ago

London/Chichester

"I’d think ‘a weak excuse to use for lack of meets’ but I’m not very sympathetic when it comes to cliches. People use them till the cows come home. "

Haha love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you saw this on a profile what would you think?

I've updated mine, going to see what effect it has on my inbox.

Great profile

I've updated it since my OP.

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