FabSwingers.com forum: the acceptable and the unacceptable

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So ladies, you are in the early stages of chatting to a guy and he starts with 'the lines'

Out of all these regularly used 'terms of endearment / familiarity', which (if any) are acceptable (to you) and which make you cringe ?

Let's see if there is any consensus !

The usuals are :

Love / Lover

Darling

Honey / Honeybunch

Baby / Babes

Sweets / Sweetheart

Sexy

Sexbomb

Sugar Plum

Angel / Angel Cakes

This is an off the cuff posting, so feel free to add any that I have omitted !

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By *illow PimpMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Doll

Chik

Cupcake

I'll get my coat now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hey in my books I have to take daft bint or mad cow as a term of endearment

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By *ofakindCouple
over a year ago

Running with Monkeys

Ill be honest and say i use sweet and bab(not babe)

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I think alot of people use these as it's easier than trying to remember people's names.

I wouldn't say they bug me as such but if I'm honest I'm not that keen.

Tend to get babes or hun used the most with me and those are the ones I like the least.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I love to be called pet.. Irish and geordie accents and the use of that word and I melt..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love to be called pet.. Irish and geordie accents and the use of that word and I melt..

I think an Irish or Geordie accent can get you away with most things !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love all of them..saves having to remember the right names too!

my bf calls me hotbot, my ex calls me wee cunt..my hubby calls me spiteful bitch! haha! i call guys ..trouble,babe,sweetheart,fud,wee man,big man...they dont seem to mind..and if they do?

...So!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

someone called me sweetcheeks in a first message and that got my goat but not really sure why it annoyed me any more than the afore mentioned!! dont mind hun or babe so much as think most people who message me call me either of those and im used to it now!

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Hm...is said guy young fit and gorgeous....you know where I'm going with this I'm sure...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hm...is said guy young fit and gorgeous....you know where I'm going with this I'm sure...

haha - i did think of adding the term 'or does it depend who it is coming from ?' to the original post

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

She who must be obeyed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the only one i dont like is baby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So ladies, you are in the early stages of chatting to a guy and he starts with 'the lines'

Out of all these regularly used 'terms of endearment / familiarity', which (if any) are acceptable (to you) and which make you cringe ?

Let's see if there is any consensus !

The usuals are :

Love / Lover

Darling

Honey / Honeybunch

Baby / Babes

Sweets / Sweetheart

Sexy

Sexbomb

Sugar Plum

Angel / Angel Cakes

This is an off the cuff posting, so feel free to add any that I have omitted !

Im someones "lover"

I dont mind the title at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate all sexy, baby, gorgeous comments on first messages. All you can see are my tits with some tassles lol. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I hate all sexy, baby, gorgeous comments on first messages. All you can see are my tits with some tassles lol. xxx"

go on, give us a twirl !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

none make me cringe per say, it's more the content of a message that will make you cringe or not.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

There used to be a few that i didnt like but ive come to accept that some are regional.

The only one that makes me cringe is an american one "baby girl"

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Hm...is said guy young fit and gorgeous....you know where I'm going with this I'm sure...

haha - i did think of adding the term 'or does it depend who it is coming from ?' to the original post "

For me it does,some people clearly use endearments with everyone,so it would be natral to use them with me.

i also quite like older and seem to bring out their paternalistic side,which i quite like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually use the ladies' name but without thinking about all the other ways to start a friendly banter.

The more I stick around this site the more complex it seems; or am I learning that really I am absolutely clueless? I think the latter

Have a nice day Babes !!! (;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love to be called pet.. Irish and geordie accents and the use of that word and I melt..

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+1

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