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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Next month me. My husband and his best friend go on holiday, my husband wants me to fuck him, I don't mind. Give me some advice. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your husband wants you to fuck him....

And you need advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Has anyone else done this?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Next month me. My husband and his best friend go on holiday, my husband wants me to fuck him, I don't mind. Give me some advice. X"

Don't you want to fuck your husband?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Of course I do. The other guy is vanilla. That's the thing.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Of course I do. The other guy is vanilla. That's the thing. "

I had sex with my partner's friend and partner as a Christmas present to him. We were all vanilla. I doubt I would have done it on holiday, except perhaps at the end. If it didn't work out it would ruin the holiday.

We split about 6 months later and I did wonder if acquiescence to his desire for me to do that played a part.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I can't quite believe I'm having to type this but:

If you don't want to fuck someone, don't fuck them. Don't allow other people to coerce you into sex no matter who they are.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I can't quite believe I'm having to type this but:

If you don't want to fuck someone, don't fuck them. Don't allow other people to coerce you into sex no matter who they are. "

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Of course I do. The other guy is vanilla. That's the thing. "

Does the other guy know about your plan?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't quite believe I'm having to type this but:

If you don't want to fuck someone, don't fuck them. Don't allow other people to coerce you into sex no matter who they are. "

Great to have a White Knight in....

OP said she doesn't mind !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any chance I could come too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defecation and doorsteps springs to mind...

Some things need to stay in fantasy land.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"I can't quite believe I'm having to type this but:

If you don't want to fuck someone, don't fuck them. Don't allow other people to coerce you into sex no matter who they are.

Great to have a White Knight in....

OP said she doesn't mind !

How on earth is it "white Knighting" to advise someone to avoid being coerced into sex?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I actually want to fuck him, he has fancied me for 25 years. I'm just wondering about the repercussions with a vanilla guy actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I actually want to fuck him, he has fancied me for 25 years. I'm just wondering about the repercussions with a vanilla guy actually. "

Is it worth risking a 25 year friendship? Vanilla types can behave oddly.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I actually want to fuck him, he has fancied me for 25 years. I'm just wondering about the repercussions with a vanilla guy actually. "

Repercussions could be you fuck him on day one, neither of you really enjoy it, the rest of the holiday is ruined, your husband loses a friend.

Or you all thoroughly enjoy it and live happily ever after.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

"I actually want to fuck him, he has fancied me for 25 years. I'm just wondering about the repercussions with a vanilla guy actually. "

He's a man... vanilla or not. What repercussions might there be?

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By *cot611Man
over a year ago

carterton

Jayne Here's my early morning thoughts for you. I see how your husband would like to watch you and feel proud that his friends find you attractive, he's obviously a decent fella that knows the importance of sharing but I think you should in this case only agree to go as far with his friend add he is willing to go himself. A kiss for a kiss etc. What's good for the goose and all that. Will also help you keep some control of the situation and feel more relaxed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't know. That's the point. X

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I don't know. That's the point. X"

If the guy has no idea of what you're planning I don't think it's fair. I think any repercussions would be recuced if you actually spoke to him about it as a couple and took it from there.

You said he fancies you but that is a far cry from fucking you in front of your husband.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol. Kev will sound him out. Don't worry.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

"Has anyone else done this? "

Nope and wouldn't ...

Miss

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"I actually want to fuck him, he has fancied me for 25 years. I'm just wondering about the repercussions with a vanilla guy actually. "

Maybe he's not quite as vanilla as you think...

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

"I actually want to fuck him, he has fancied me for 25 years. I'm just wondering about the repercussions with a vanilla guy actually. "

No no no no .you can fuck anyone you fancy .but finding a 25 year friendship is rare to find and is a good fuck worth destroying the trust built up over 25 years

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

If you are going to do it, do it for you not to,please hubby.

If it’s just so he can watch you would be better off with someone at a club.

Less likelihood of any attachment issues after the event.

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By *litteasingManMan
over a year ago

Thereabouts

"Of course I do. The other guy is vanilla. That's the thing.

We split about 6 months later and I did wonder if acquiescence to his desire for me to do that played a part.

I am tempted to slide to your suspicion. Sometimes we let our desires run away with us without considering the consequences. Your (ex) partner may have imagined how it would make him feel in his head, but, he forgot reality is often more brutal than mere imaginations.

Hope you've moved on by the way.

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By *RayMan
over a year ago

essex

"If you are going to do it, do it for you not to,please hubby.

If it’s just so he can watch you would be better off with someone at a club.

Less likelihood of any attachment issues after the event.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go in dry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And don't use any unanimous objects that may get stuck up his arse! Haha Un necessary trips to the hospital of this sort are unwanted!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Are you both not worried incase thing's go tits up,what if the guy forms feelings for you after sex. Is it not a bit to close to home,what if it gets awkward for your husband when he fucks you better than he does,he may get jealous.

Who knows it could be great and he moves in and you all live happily ever after...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because you could, doesnt mean you should. Personally id not do it. Leave the friendship as it is.

Danger Will Robinson

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Next month me. My husband and his best friend go on holiday, my husband wants me to fuck him, I don't mind. Give me some advice. X"

Wear Sunscreen

If I could offer you only one tip for the future,

Sunscreen would be it

The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think it's a bad idea, find a stranger to fuck, not like it's difficult.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Consider him, his feelings and situation, where he's solo with a couple for a holiday. And don't forget yourself op, as it's not your husband having sex with him.

Holidays should be great for us but it sounds like he could be set-up for an uncomfortable holiday, under pressure. Consider such an encounter whilst you are all more free, on home ground.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Have you asked your husband why he wants you to fuck him?

Is he hoping to watch? Join in?

I think there's a huge potential for things to go wrong and unless you've got a huge urge to fuck this mate I'd avoid it if I was you.

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Just roll with it.

Sorry that had to be said, go on holiday, pick a stranger, fuck him in front of hubby, keep your friend as a friend, don't open that particular can of worms.

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By *uckymooMan
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire

Ohh you’ll find out they are actually more than friends abd it’s their way of telling you

#Obvious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Next month me. My husband and his best friend go on holiday, my husband wants me to fuck him, I don't mind. Give me some advice. X"

Well he is your husband, legally you're allowed to fuck him

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