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"Next month me. My husband and his best friend go on holiday, my husband wants me to fuck him, I don't mind. Give me some advice. X" Don't you want to fuck your husband? ![]() | |||
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"Of course I do. The other guy is vanilla. That's the thing. " I had sex with my partner's friend and partner as a Christmas present to him. We were all vanilla. I doubt I would have done it on holiday, except perhaps at the end. If it didn't work out it would ruin the holiday. We split about 6 months later and I did wonder if acquiescence to his desire for me to do that played a part. | |||
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"I can't quite believe I'm having to type this but: If you don't want to fuck someone, don't fuck them. Don't allow other people to coerce you into sex no matter who they are. " ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Of course I do. The other guy is vanilla. That's the thing. " Does the other guy know about your plan? | |||
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"I can't quite believe I'm having to type this but: If you don't want to fuck someone, don't fuck them. Don't allow other people to coerce you into sex no matter who they are. Great to have a White Knight in.... OP said she doesn't mind ! " How on earth is it "white Knighting" to advise someone to avoid being coerced into sex? | |||
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"I actually want to fuck him, he has fancied me for 25 years. I'm just wondering about the repercussions with a vanilla guy actually. " Is it worth risking a 25 year friendship? Vanilla types can behave oddly. | |||
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"I actually want to fuck him, he has fancied me for 25 years. I'm just wondering about the repercussions with a vanilla guy actually. " Repercussions could be you fuck him on day one, neither of you really enjoy it, the rest of the holiday is ruined, your husband loses a friend. Or you all thoroughly enjoy it and live happily ever after. | |||
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"I actually want to fuck him, he has fancied me for 25 years. I'm just wondering about the repercussions with a vanilla guy actually. " He's a man... vanilla or not. What repercussions might there be? | |||
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"I don't know. That's the point. X" If the guy has no idea of what you're planning I don't think it's fair. I think any repercussions would be recuced if you actually spoke to him about it as a couple and took it from there. You said he fancies you but that is a far cry from fucking you in front of your husband. | |||
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"Has anyone else done this? " Nope and wouldn't ... Miss | |||
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"I actually want to fuck him, he has fancied me for 25 years. I'm just wondering about the repercussions with a vanilla guy actually. " Maybe he's not quite as vanilla as you think... ![]() | |||
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"I actually want to fuck him, he has fancied me for 25 years. I'm just wondering about the repercussions with a vanilla guy actually. " No no no no .you can fuck anyone you fancy .but finding a 25 year friendship is rare to find and is a good fuck worth destroying the trust built up over 25 years ![]() | |||
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"Of course I do. The other guy is vanilla. That's the thing. I had sex with my partner's friend and partner as a Christmas present to him. We were all vanilla. I doubt I would have done it on holiday, except perhaps at the end. If it didn't work out it would ruin the holiday. We split about 6 months later and I did wonder if acquiescence to his desire for me to do that played a part. " I am tempted to slide to your suspicion. Sometimes we let our desires run away with us without considering the consequences. Your (ex) partner may have imagined how it would make him feel in his head, but, he forgot reality is often more brutal than mere imaginations. Hope you've moved on by the way. | |||
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"If you are going to do it, do it for you not to,please hubby. If it’s just so he can watch you would be better off with someone at a club. Less likelihood of any attachment issues after the event. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Next month me. My husband and his best friend go on holiday, my husband wants me to fuck him, I don't mind. Give me some advice. X" Wear Sunscreen If I could offer you only one tip for the future, Sunscreen would be it The long term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists. | |||
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"Next month me. My husband and his best friend go on holiday, my husband wants me to fuck him, I don't mind. Give me some advice. X" Well he is your husband, legally you're allowed to fuck him | |||
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