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WHY ARE WE HAVING NO LUCK !!

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By *lutandhubby OP   Couple
over a year ago

west midlands

why are we having no luck finding a genuine couple? ( are we doing something wrong ), love, slut and hubby. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By *adchickCouple
over a year ago

Cyprus


" why are we having no luck finding a genuine couple? ( are we doing something wrong ), love, slut and hubby. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

How do I put this nicely........ eerrr... you are not going to be everyone one's cup of tea.

Please don't take offence but judging by the first two photos on your profile, you are only going to appeal to the more...eerrr.... dominant/sub couples or singles on here.

You may be better off with a site like alt.com.

just my thoughs after having a quick scan of your profile and your pictures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi there, i think you are limiting yourself by the captions to your pics and the type of picture you are taking. The language will put many people off and the pictures also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just give it time

as iam having no luck with meeting single fems as yet

been here for 7months now

just had time wasters

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By *eordiesCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

You have 11 verifications on your profile, so you must be meeting quite a few genuine couples!!

Everyone on every site such as this meets more than enough timewasters, wannabees and fakers, that's just a fact of life.

I think you profile and pictures are OK, says who you are, what you like and shows what you look like.

One point tho, think its a good idea to have the car reg number on show in one photo?

John & Shel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by the verifications on your profile, you ain't done too bad in 12 months. I wish I could have the same amount of bad luck doing the lottery as you have had with your meets

How many more meets do you want for heavens sake ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also concur on the idea that you must be having some luck, considering how many verifications you have!

On you asking about your profile, i'll be honest, the excessive use of the word slut is quite off putting. Not to say that i don't like the word, it's just that to read it over and over (like used in your photo captions) makes the suggestion that a person has no standards at all. or something...i can't really explain why it puts me off, but it does.

Your pictures, yes i would agree that they seem a bit more 'kinky', and more like they would be suited on alt.com.

Finally, for me as a bi women, i find that if i read a profile where a person describes themself as 'very bi', i simply back up and go onto the next profile. No-one is very bi. They are bi or not. Thing is, when i see that, the "very bi" on a couple's profile, i immediately relate that to the male centric view of f/f sex and don't wish to simply be a performing seal for the purpose of said male. Either that or i imagine that they are trying rather too hard to get a bi woman in their bed.

None of these comments i make are meant to be taken offensively. I hope you do not take them as such.

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By *lutandhubby OP   Couple
over a year ago

west midlands

hi all, thank you for the advice, love, amanda and steve. xxxxxxxxxxxx

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By *cite6662002Couple
over a year ago

glos

think the pics are grate thay look good

but i do think if you take the slut

bit out of _lutandhubby it will help ??

you may find more members take a look

at your profile and not just pass it

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By *eznhannahCouple
over a year ago

leeds

again judging by verifications you seem to be doing well, but the internet isnt the best place to meet, we much prefer clubs, having said that if you were more local we would deffo be interested, any critisism just one the we dont bite unles asked to bit must be on 9 out of 10 profiles, but yeah good pics good verifications, good couple

ps we love sluts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the opinion that you have actually not done too badly... a lot of people on here haven't had as many meets as you have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol, got in there before me _eznhannah, also agree the biting thing is on a lot of profiles too. Its an overdone joke unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd hate to be one of your validations now lol...

They are all Fakes then pmsl....

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

11 verifications in a year, that means your getting at least one decent meet a month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"11 verifications in a year, that means your getting at least one decent meet a month."

By that reckoning we have only had three meets in the past two years.

We're shit at this swinging malarky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We agree with Starra,the word slut would put us off.Its a demeaning word and conjours up a less than savoury picture.Its not a word that would probably attract what you'd call "genuine" couples,if by genuine you mean return meets.Its probably more likely to attract the shoot and go types,as in "cum slut".Thats just our opinion but it may be that others think the same way.

Trace & Ric

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The frequent use of the word slut, would put me off, and I'm not even part of a couple. Yeah, i know Im not everyones cuppa.

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By *ton DiamondWoman
over a year ago

Slough/Windsor

Ive seen this exact same thread by the same people elsewhere and they got exactly the same answers there too.... i suspect its just a way of gaining attention and perhaps a little sympathy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive seen this exact same thread by the same people elsewhere and they got exactly the same answers there too.... i suspect its just a way of gaining attention and perhaps a little sympathy."

Well it ain't worked lolll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi im billy from stourbridge,im comming down to Bath on saturday,any singles or couples up for a GENUINE meet????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Billy,

Did you read any of this tread.............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Billy,

Did you read any of this tread............. "

LOL single males don't "do" reading

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By *ton DiamondWoman
over a year ago

Slough/Windsor


"Billy,

Did you read any of this tread.............

LOL single males don't "do" reading"

How very true lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oi fussierpussy. Not all of us hun. Some of us are edumacated and it aint good to generalise either. so ner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oi fussierpussy. Not all of us hun. Some of us are edumacated and it aint good to generalise either. so ner"

Obviously hehehehehe

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By *lutandhubby OP   Couple
over a year ago

west midlands

thanks for the info, we are changing the captions on our pics. amanda and steve. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Billy,

Did you read any of this tread.............

LOL single males don't "do" reading

How very true lol"

Yes we do. I've read this thread from the start and would just like to say...

I'm going to be available for fun on Tuesday.. LOL! kidding! :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your also living on the wrong side of the country...

I only search locally, lol.

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