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Do you think that love at first sight can sustain for lifetime?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you think that love at first sight can sustain for lifetime?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, as its usually lust at first site and based on hormone response. Love is more of a slow burn... Its the thing that keeps going even when you think your partners being a twat

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By *iscreet UnicornWoman
over a year ago

Windsor-ish

Yes. 15 years for us so far xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes. 15 years for us so far xx"

than is possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not?

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

I’d like to think so.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It can turn in to to real love but you can't (imho) love someone at first sight, you know nothing about them other than what they look like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bloody hope so!

Geeky x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love at first sight is mainly based on physical attraction so not sure it can be sustain once you start to get to know the person.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Do you think that love at first sight can sustain for lifetime?"

From our experience... nearly thirty years of marriage, being head over heels for each other and an incredible an incredible sex life says yes, love at first site CAN sustain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. My husband loved me from day 1 and told me 2 weeks later. We've been together 17 years now.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"Love at first sight is mainly based on physical attraction so not sure it can be sustain once you start to get to know the person.

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Well that doesn't make sense. It suggests the physical attraction disappears.

It can do, granted, but it's not a given.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple
over a year ago

South Wales


"It can turn in to to real love but you can't (imho) love someone at first sight, you know nothing about them other than what they look like."

That's a fair point.

If I or my missus had revealed ourselves as personalities the other disliked, it wouldn't have gone past the attraction stage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it can....

But then what would I know I'm a man in a cave

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We are doing okay after 33 years so we would obviously say yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's true that you meet someone and just know. I met hubby over 20 years ago during my 2nd year at uni. My heyday if you will. Every guy I'd ever met or had any "dalliance" with up to that point bored me within the first 24 hours really. Some I persevered with (some for many months)because I thought they could be but mostly wanted them to be, something special... but many I didn't. When I meet hubby I just knew that something was different. Straight away. Was it love at first sight? Dunno. But I don't think it comes much closer than that.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I think it's true that you meet someone and just know. I met hubby over 20 years ago during my 2nd year at uni. My heyday if you will. Every guy I'd ever met or had any "dalliance" with up to that point bored me within the first 24 hours really. Some I persevered with (some for many months)because I thought they could be but mostly wanted them to be, something special... but many I didn't. When I meet hubby I just knew that something was different. Straight away. Was it love at first sight? Dunno. But I don't think it comes much closer than that. "

He's a lucky guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love at first sight is mainly based on physical attraction so not sure it can be sustain once you start to get to know the person.

Well that doesn't make sense. It suggests the physical attraction disappears.

It can do, granted, but it's not a given."

Physical attraction doesn't disappears but you get to know the person... Which means that you get to see things that you may don't like about the person and it may hamper the said love for that person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's true that you meet someone and just know. I met hubby over 20 years ago during my 2nd year at uni. My heyday if you will. Every guy I'd ever met or had any "dalliance" with up to that point bored me within the first 24 hours really. Some I persevered with (some for many months)because I thought they could be but mostly wanted them to be, something special... but many I didn't. When I meet hubby I just knew that something was different. Straight away. Was it love at first sight? Dunno. But I don't think it comes much closer than that.

He's a lucky guy. "

I'm the lucky one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think that love at first sight can sustain for lifetime?"

No.. otherwise you would stay with the person you fell in love with forever...

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Yes it can.. and does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I think so... with hard work...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who knows but it's worth a shot and heck if you crash and burn at least you tried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did for my mam&dad they had over 60 years together

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I think it can sustain. My mum and dad knew each other for just 9 days before they got married and they were together for 47 years until he passed away from cancer in 2008. He was the only man she's ever been with.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"It can turn in to to real love but you can't (imho) love someone at first sight, you know nothing about them other than what they look like.

That's a fair point.

If I or my missus had revealed ourselves as personalities the other disliked, it wouldn't have gone past the attraction stage."

Yep. However I heard Mr N's name before I met him and knew he would be significant in my life. 37 nearly 38 years later turns out he is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows but it's worth a shot and heck if you crash and burn at least you tried "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who knows but it's worth a shot and heck if you crash and burn at least you tried

I agree "
it's good to agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. You don't know enough about the person at that point for it to last forever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not happened for me but we’re all very different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far so good

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

It has so far.

I fell in love with the sight of a Ducati 888, I still love the Ducati Panigale.

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

Yes. My husband and I dropped the L word after our first date, neither of us were inexperienced or young....we just knew it was right.

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

Didnt last for 3 months let alone a lifetime!

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