FabSwingers.com forum: Blocked

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So this week I have had one lady block me who I have meet previously and now I have been blocked off a couple I have been chatting too for two weeks trying to arrange a hotel meet and because I can only do Friday this week and not Saturday for family reasons they have blocked me bloody drives you crazy this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So this week I have had one lady block me who I have meet previously and now I have been blocked off a couple I have been chatting too for two weeks trying to arrange a hotel meet and because I can only do Friday this week and not Saturday for family reasons they have blocked me bloody drives you crazy this site

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you obviously don't fit what they are looking for...

don't take it personally

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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you obviously don't fit what they are looking for...

don't take it personally

Of course I fit. if I could of made Saturday we would of meet I just think certain people think single chaps have to drop everything to meet and that always can’t be the case

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

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you obviously don't fit what they are looking for...

don't take it personally

Of course I fit. if I could of made Saturday we would of meet I just think certain people think single chaps have to drop everything to meet and that always can’t be the case

Well they must have been looking for someone to fit Saturday and you couldn't, therefore you don't fit into their plans.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Rant over

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you obviously don't fit what they are looking for...

don't take it personally

Of course I fit. if I could of made Saturday we would of meet I just think certain people think single chaps have to drop everything to meet and that always can’t be the case

Well they must have been looking for someone to fit Saturday and you couldn't, therefore you don't fit into their plans."

I appreciate that but we had been chatting for two weeks why feel the need to block me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rant over

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you obviously don't fit what they are looking for...

don't take it personally

Of course I fit. if I could of made Saturday we would of meet I just think certain people think single chaps have to drop everything to meet and that always can’t be the case

Well they must have been looking for someone to fit Saturday and you couldn't, therefore you don't fit into their plans.

I appreciate that but we had been chatting for two weeks why feel the need to block me.

I am guessing its because you like to have the last word...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get blocked all.the time, don't worry about it, just means you don't fit with what they want and stops you pestering them

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

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you obviously don't fit what they are looking for...

don't take it personally

Of course I fit. if I could of made Saturday we would of meet I just think certain people think single chaps have to drop everything to meet and that always can’t be the case

Well they must have been looking for someone to fit Saturday and you couldn't, therefore you don't fit into their plans.

I appreciate that but we had been chatting for two weeks why feel the need to block me.

Because their plans were for Saturday.

I don't know, I can't read their mind but you're gonna need to grow a thicker skin if you're gonna post a thread every time you get blocked.

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

you have pissed them off, simples

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Rant over

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you obviously don't fit what they are looking for...

don't take it personally

Of course I fit. if I could of made Saturday we would of meet I just think certain people think single chaps have to drop everything to meet and that always can’t be the case

Well they must have been looking for someone to fit Saturday and you couldn't, therefore you don't fit into their plans.

I appreciate that but we had been chatting for two weeks why feel the need to block me.

Because their plans were for Saturday.

I don't know, I can't read their mind but you're gonna need to grow a thicker skin if you're gonna post a thread every time you get blocked."

Lol I am sure I have been blocked numerous times sometimes you just don’t know why I was going to say I am not bothered but obviously I must of been to post it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

suck it up buttercup

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"you have pissed them off, simples "

I must of for what ever reason o well onwards and upwards as they say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rant over

Thanks for listening

you obviously don't fit what they are looking for...

don't take it personally

Of course I fit. if I could of made Saturday we would of meet I just think certain people think single chaps have to drop everything to meet and that always can’t be the case

Well they must have been looking for someone to fit Saturday and you couldn't, therefore you don't fit into their plans.

I appreciate that but we had been chatting for two weeks why feel the need to block me.

I am guessing its because you like to have the last word..."

That shut him up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Rant over

Thanks for listening

you obviously don't fit what they are looking for...

don't take it personally

Of course I fit. if I could of made Saturday we would of meet I just think certain people think single chaps have to drop everything to meet and that always can’t be the case

Well they must have been looking for someone to fit Saturday and you couldn't, therefore you don't fit into their plans.

I appreciate that but we had been chatting for two weeks why feel the need to block me.

I am guessing its because you like to have the last word...

That shut him up

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

or maybe all those threats at the end of your profile scared them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people who come in the lounge have blocked me,but still converse in here with me,its a funny world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems harsh but I guess they hold all cards

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"or maybe all those threats at the end of your profile scared them off

Lol someone suggested I put them do you not think it’s necessary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"or maybe all those threats at the end of your profile scared them off

Lol someone suggested I put them do you not think it’s necessary

they aren't worth even copy and pasting

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

"or maybe all those threats at the end of your profile scared them off

Lol someone suggested I put them do you not think it’s necessary

they just make me shake my head and wonder at people's stupidity to think it carries any clout

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people who come in the lounge have blocked me,but still converse in here with me,its a funny world"

Well it's not me

...yet

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"or maybe all those threats at the end of your profile scared them off

Lol someone suggested I put them do you not think it’s necessary

Keep them.....they will keep the dementors away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people who come in the lounge have blocked me,but still converse in here with me,its a funny world

Well it's not me

...yet

If you blocked me i would cry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people who come in the lounge have blocked me,but still converse in here with me,its a funny world

Well it's not me

...yet

If you blocked me i would cry

Feck I better hide some pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people who come in the lounge have blocked me,but still converse in here with me,its a funny world

Well it's not me

...yet

If you blocked me i would cry

Feck I better hide some pictures

Seen them mate,too late

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people who come in the lounge have blocked me,but still converse in here with me,its a funny world

Well it's not me

...yet

If you blocked me i would cry

Feck I better hide some pictures

Seen them mate,too late"

Aw feck..

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

"or maybe all those threats at the end of your profile scared them off

Lol someone suggested I put them do you not think it’s necessary

they just make me shake my head and wonder at people's stupidity to think it carries any clout"

Just screams naivity to us... we dont want to meet naive people

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Perhaps you did not fit the criteria it happens op

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"or maybe all those threats at the end of your profile scared them off

Lol someone suggested I put them do you not think it’s necessary

Have you checked the articles even exist in the human convention whatever. Either way id bin it

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

They spent two weeks getting to know you and as soon as they offer you the chance to meet you cant make it... they are pissed off as the last two weeks has been a waste of time. So they blocked you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people want it all their way. I'd rather someone blocked me than kept trying to pressure me into meeting on days I'm not free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"or maybe all those threats at the end of your profile scared them off

Lol someone suggested I put them do you not think it’s necessary

they just make me shake my head and wonder at people's stupidity to think it carries any clout

Just screams naivity to us... we dont want to meet naive people

It says cautious to me. I like caution

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They spent two weeks getting to know you and as soon as they offer you the chance to meet you cant make it... they are pissed off as the last two weeks has been a waste of time. So they blocked you.

I didn’t block them the week before when I could make and they couldn’t just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we build up a relationship be it even tentative and for two weeks - we start to create expectations of mutual desire and some level of respect.

To have no seen / understood indication that was going to be cut off and no recourse as to an explanation goes into our UNFAIR and QUESTION BASKET with a touch of rejection.

If you put your own values on play as to why it still will not explain it.

Just perhaps as previously stated you did not fit requirements of Saturday and blocking is used as a housekerping tool for some.

I hope your next meet Is spectacular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rant over

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we all get blocked OP though I think the people concerned could have just told you they wernt interested anymore or whatever

chin up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When we build up a relationship be it even tentative and for two weeks - we start to create expectations of mutual desire and some level of respect.

To have no seen / understood indication that was going to be cut off and no recourse as to an explanation goes into our UNFAIR and QUESTION BASKET with a touch of rejection.

If you put your own values on play as to why it still will not explain it.

Just perhaps as previously stated you did not fit requirements of Saturday and blocking is used as a housekerping tool for some.

I hope your next meet Is spectacular

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

We had to block a guy we'd previously met. He was too needy. Too much "when can we meet again". Bore off!

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"or maybe all those threats at the end of your profile scared them off

Lol someone suggested I put them do you not think it’s necessary

Just shows how gullible people are

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Don’t bother worrying about it. Some people just can’t be arsed to politely inform you that they’ve changed their minds and use the block button instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forget and move on......wasn’t meant to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forget and move on......wasn’t meant to be

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he did 34 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the ones that send rude, silly or sarky comments but block you to avoid witty repartee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Forget and move on......wasn’t meant to be

he did 34 weeks ago"

Well that’s good then!

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