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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m a big fan of the word I personally like cumslut.

But as more and more things become branded offensive is the word slut ok nowdsays?

slut definition;

1.

a woman who has many casual sexual partners.

2.

a woman with low standards of cleanliness.

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By *eedsandyMan
over a year ago

Leeds

You forgot (3) in the dictionary definition

(3) a prostitute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In everday usage, most certainly. In intimate play then less so.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

And 4 historically:

'A woman with low standards and little discernment in choosing those casual sexual partners'.

I hate the word and it's use would end any conversation or meet I was part of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the situation you use it in..

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Uh Oh .

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By *acavityMan
over a year ago

Redditch

As with a lot of words, it's about context.

Calling someone a slut in an opening email is not right.

But someone you know, who enjoys degradation, might enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In general conversation or from someone I haven't built that kind of rapport with-yes.

While he's taking me from behind with his hand in my hair and me pushing back for more-no.

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By *arlee72Couple
over a year ago

Ewell

At the right moment with right person. We use it between ourselves.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

If I am playing with someone then it is horny as

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I am playing with someone then it is horny as "

Would you use to be cheeky or in a way to be submissive ?

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By *ky19Man
over a year ago

Plymouth

Naw I don't like people calling me that

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"If I am playing with someone then it is horny as

Would you use to be cheeky or in a way to be submissive ? "

Always sub but feisty

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By *entileschiWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"In everday usage, most certainly. In intimate play then less so. "

I concur

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yes I do find it offensive personally

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By *ailburkeMan
over a year ago

near you

Does every man not secretly wish their wife was a naughty slut

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

If a random called me a slut they'd more than likely be picking their teeth up off the floor.

All depends on the context and who it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a random called me a slut they'd more than likely be picking their teeth up off the floor.

All depends on the context and who it is."

Hey gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol my mother called me a slut for not ever tidying my room. I always had a weird relationship with the word for many years...

Now however I love being a filthy slut in the bedroom and it has nothing to do with tidying!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lol my mother called me a slut for not ever tidying my room. I always had a weird relationship with the word for many years...

Now however I love being a filthy slut in the bedroom and it has nothing to do with tidying!!!"

Parents are great at twisting us : )

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By *ailburkeMan
over a year ago

near you


"If a random called me a slut they'd more than likely be picking their teeth up off the floor.

All depends on the context and who it is."

Context is right

Like if your been taken from behind he is balls deep in you and you have been sucking on his cock the last 10 mins befor hand and he lighty pulls your hair and says your a good little slut then that maybe ok but if you in a coffee shop and the girl at the next table radomly says hey slut pass the sugar i could see where the trouble could start

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes I do find it offensive personally "

Care to explain ?

And what do you prefer ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the context in which it's used

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes depends on the context, in the street or a random calling me a slut would certainly earn them a few harsh words. But in the bedroom on the right circumstances then it’s very hot x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on the context in which it's used "

Well yes on your CV it maybe frowned upon ?

Qualifications

GCSE

First aider

Slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the context in which it's used

Well yes on your CV it maybe frowned upon ?

Qualifications

GCSE

First aider

Slut "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol my mother called me a slut for not ever tidying my room. I always had a weird relationship with the word for many years...

Now however I love being a filthy slut in the bedroom and it has nothing to do with tidying!!!"

I can see you in a sexy French maid's outfit. You could help me put things away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I am playing with someone then it is horny as "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lol my mother called me a slut for not ever tidying my room. I always had a weird relationship with the word for many years...

Now however I love being a filthy slut in the bedroom and it has nothing to do with tidying!!!

I can see you in a sexy French maid's outfit. You could help me put things away. "

Love your thinking

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"If a random called me a slut they'd more than likely be picking their teeth up off the floor.

All depends on the context and who it is.

Hey gorgeous "

Hey PP hahahaa good choice of wording there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's safe to say that this is the most slutiest thread I've ever been on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the word x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Refer to me as a slut and I'm long gone...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate the word x "

Care to explain ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Refer to me as a slut and I'm long gone..."

How about during sex ? As a request

“ will you be a good slut”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Refer to me as a slut and I'm long gone...

How about during sex ? As a request

“ will you be a good slut” "

No. Instant turn off for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Refer to me as a slut and I'm long gone...

How about during sex ? As a request

“ will you be a good slut”

No. Instant turn off for me."

What do you like to be called ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In everday usage, most certainly. In intimate play then less so. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband calls me this daily and has done since we got together. I see it as affection from him, but if a stranger called me that I’d punch them (:

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind if it's during sex with my husband after he has just watched me with another guy.

But if someone was to randomly call me a slut for no reason then yeah it is pretty offensive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Refer to me as a slut and I'm long gone...

How about during sex ? As a request

“ will you be a good slut”

No. Instant turn off for me.

What do you like to be called ? "

Lou...

I dislike whore, bitch, slut...anything that could be derogatory. Doesn't do it for me.

I have a history of sexual abuse and would be called those kinda names regularly, hearing them instantly takes me back to that time and dries me up faster than you can imagine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not a word either of us choose to use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate the word x

Care to explain ? "

Do I need to explain?

If you can't work out that it's a word to say someone has no sexual morals then there's something wrong.

I got called it the other day in the cam rooms.

The only man I've had sex with in the last five years is my bf that I love.so why use the term slut?

Its a gross degrading word and a huge insult x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Refer to me as a slut and I'm long gone...

How about during sex ? As a request

“ will you be a good slut”

No. Instant turn off for me.

What do you like to be called ?

Lou...

I dislike whore, bitch, slut...anything that could be derogatory. Doesn't do it for me.

I have a history of sexual abuse and would be called those kinda names regularly, hearing them instantly takes me back to that time and dries me up faster than you can imagine."

I can’t completely understand if linked with hate then why would you

I shall call you lolly if I ever get the pleasure to meet you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate the word x

Care to explain ?

Do I need to explain?

If you can't work out that it's a word to say someone has no sexual morals then there's something wrong.

I got called it the other day in the cam rooms.

The only man I've had sex with in the last five years is my bf that I love.so why use the term slut?

Its a gross degrading word and a huge insult x "

You don’t have to do anything.

I guess if you link that word with be degrading rather than submissive then I can see how it would insult you.

I’ve been called a good boy whilst giving head

( I’m clearly 40 ) to me wasn’t a insult just indication of my place in that bubble at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw a chap in a club once getting his wife to tell him what a slut she was, a swingers club I mean, not a chess club, she seemed to quite like it.

They were very well spoken in a "more tea Vicar?" kind of way which made it much more memorable.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

It must be like marmite to women because I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's only offensive to sluts,I don't mean sluts that know there sluts I mean the other ones who don't like people thinking they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slut in a general context has never been ok, slut in the bedroom when those rules have been established then of course it's ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do find the word offensive outside the bedroom

And if used to insult someone it really makes me mad

But in the bedroom with someone I'm comfortable with I don't mind them calling me it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind it if my partner uses it in the bedroom - in fact I find it quite a turn on in the moment. Not a fan of absolute strangers calling me it in messages though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It must be like marmite to women because I love it "

Marmite or sluts

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"It must be like marmite to women because I love it

Marmite or sluts "

I don’t like marmite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

SLUT dictionary (MEANING)

noun

derogatory

1.

a woman who has no standards and many casual sexual partners.

unwanted used goods.

synonyms:promiscuous woman; 

prostitute, whore;

slattern; 

euphemisticmodel, escort,masseuse; 

poule; 

informalfloozie, bike,pro, ho; 

informalscrubber, slag, loose tramp, slapper;

informaltramp, hooker, hustler,roundheel, chippy, skank, puta, hoochie;

datedtart, scarlet woman, loose woman,hussy, woman of ill repute, streetwalker,trollop; 

archaicharlot, strumpet, wanton,drab, doxy, trull, sloven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My old Dominant called me cunt-slut once...

Hence the old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My old Dominant called me cunt-slut once...

Hence the old "

Hahahahaha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"SLUT dictionary (MEANING)

noun

derogatory

1.

a woman who has no standards and many casual sexual partners.

unwanted used goods.

synonyms:promiscuous woman; 

prostitute, whore;

slattern; 

euphemisticmodel, escort,masseuse; 

poule; 

informalfloozie, bike,pro, ho; 

informalscrubber, slag, loose tramp, slapper;

informaltramp, hooker, hustler,roundheel, chippy, skank, puta, hoochie;

datedtart, scarlet woman, loose woman,hussy, woman of ill repute, streetwalker,trollop; 

archaicharlot, strumpet, wanton,drab, doxy, trull, sloven

"

I like hoochie call me that!

We all know a strumpet

Call me doxy and I'll be buzzing away in a flash

Peach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being called a Slut as part of bedroom talk but hate the word Slag!

Call me either outside of the bedroom and it's just a no-no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"SLUT dictionary (MEANING)

noun

derogatory

1.

a woman who has no standards and many casual sexual partners.

unwanted used goods.

synonyms:promiscuous woman; 

prostitute, whore;

slattern; 

euphemisticmodel, escort,masseuse; 

poule; 

informalfloozie, bike,pro, ho; 

informalscrubber, slag, loose tramp, slapper;

informaltramp, hooker, hustler,roundheel, chippy, skank, puta, hoochie;

datedtart, scarlet woman, loose woman,hussy, woman of ill repute, streetwalker,trollop; 

archaicharlot, strumpet, wanton,drab, doxy, trull, sloven

I like hoochie call me that!

We all know a strumpet

Call me doxy and I'll be buzzing away in a flash

Peach x"

I've never heard of half of those words.

I mean did the dictonary just make up the words puta sloven and trull x

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"I love being called a Slut as part of bedroom talk but hate the word Slag!

Call me either outside of the bedroom and it's just a no-no!"

I don’t like slag either....it sounds mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love being called a Slut as part of bedroom talk but hate the word Slag!

Call me either outside of the bedroom and it's just a no-no!

I don’t like slag either....it sounds mean "

Totally agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a word I would generally use but it's all about context. I used to use 'tart' a lot at work, but it was more often applied to male colleagues. .

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"I like hoochie call me that!

We all know a strumpet

Call me doxy and I'll be buzzing away in a flash

Peach x"

Hoochie sounds a bit American to my ears - I like it

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By *eal_curves_is_backWoman
over a year ago

London


"SLUT dictionary (MEANING)

noun

derogatory

1.

a woman who has no standards and many casual sexual partners.

unwanted used goods.

synonyms:promiscuous woman; 

prostitute, whore;

slattern; 

euphemisticmodel, escort,masseuse; 

poule; 

informalfloozie, bike,pro, ho; 

informalscrubber, slag, loose tramp, slapper;

informaltramp, hooker, hustler,roundheel, chippy, skank, puta, hoochie;

datedtart, scarlet woman, loose woman,hussy, woman of ill repute, streetwalker,trollop; 

archaicharlot, strumpet, wanton,drab, doxy, trull, sloven

I like hoochie call me that!

We all know a strumpet

Call me doxy and I'll be buzzing away in a flash

Peach x

I've never heard of half of those words.

I mean did the dictonary just make up the words puta sloven and trull x "

"Puta" is Spanish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the situation for me. I'm not easily offended so usually I'm alright with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally love to use the word slut, I like the way it trips out of my mouth.

Maid, hates it, so I never use it, she told me early on in our relationship that there are certain words that are triggers for her, so I never use it around her ever, I've been with women in the past that love it, so its been in every other sentence.

I love maid with all my heart, and it's most important to respect your sub and her wishes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I personally love to use the word slut, I like the way it trips out of my mouth.

Maid, hates it, so I never use it, she told me early on in our relationship that there are certain words that are triggers for her, so I never use it around her ever, I've been with women in the past that love it, so its been in every other sentence.

I love maid with all my heart, and it's most important to respect your sub and her wishes.

"

Much respect to you mate

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Detest the word.

Won't allow anyone to call me a slut either in the bedroom, a message or thinking they are being funny. Not by someone I know or some random.

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By *nsatiable Needy BratWoman
over a year ago

Here and There

I don't like the word slut. Feels derogatory to me. Outside or inside of the bedroom. However I love being called a whore during certain play.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't like the word slut. Feels derogatory to me. Outside or inside of the bedroom. However I love being called a whore during certain play. "

No that’s thrown me for a spin ? Is whore worse

Cum whore vs cum slut

Naughry whore vs naughty slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a big fan of the word I personally like cumslut.

But as more and more things become branded offensive is the word slut ok nowdsays?

slut definition;

1.

a woman who has many casual sexual partners.

2.

a woman with low standards of cleanliness."

Depends who says it and in what context.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m a big fan of the word I personally like cumslut.

But as more and more things become branded offensive is the word slut ok nowdsays?

slut definition;

1.

a woman who has many casual sexual partners.

2.

a woman with low standards of cleanliness.

Depends who says it and in what context. "

And what context is acceptable for you ?

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By *nsatiable Needy BratWoman
over a year ago

Here and There


"My old Dominant called me cunt-slut once...

Hence the old "

that wouldn't work for me either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My old Dominant called me cunt-slut once...

Hence the old

that wouldn't work for me either "

Yer combined with your c word that’s not cool

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"

Yer combined with your c word that’s not cool "

I like the ‘c’ word too

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By *nsatiable Needy BratWoman
over a year ago

Here and There


"I don't like the word slut. Feels derogatory to me. Outside or inside of the bedroom. However I love being called a whore during certain play.

No that’s thrown me for a spin ? Is whore worse

Cum whore vs cum slut

Naughry whore vs naughty slut"

Whore for me feels naughty and sexy. Slut feels like an insult. Not sure why the difference to me personally. Often wondered myself. I don't like tart either but LOVE being called woman. Not by random guys though ha. Has to be the right guy and the right time

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By *nsatiable Needy BratWoman
over a year ago

Here and There


"

Yer combined with your c word that’s not cool

I like the ‘c’ word too "

I use the c word often. It's a great word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always find on here that any lady with slut in their profile name rarely adhere to the dictionary definition of slut and actually have a high regard for themselves and who they will sleep with so they're really in breach of the trades description act lol

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Depends....everyday life then no but with the right guy in the right situation i have no problem with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yer combined with your c word that’s not cool

I like the ‘c’ word too

I use the c word often. It's a great word. "

what about in the context of say your a slutty bitch when guy is fucking you and giving u verbal as he does

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"

Yer combined with your c word that’s not cool

I like the ‘c’ word too

I use the c word often. It's a great word. what about in the context of say your a slutty bitch when guy is fucking you and giving u verbal as he does "

Yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Yer combined with your c word that’s not cool

I like the ‘c’ word too

I use the c word often. It's a great word. what about in the context of say your a slutty bitch when guy is fucking you and giving u verbal as he does

Yes please "

u naughty slutty bitch lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And 4 historically:

'A woman with low standards and little discernment in choosing those casual sexual partners'.

I hate the word and it's use would end any conversation or meet I was part of."

Likewise. A hateful disrespectful word for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And 4 historically:

'A woman with low standards and little discernment in choosing those casual sexual partners'.

I hate the word and it's use would end any conversation or meet I was part of.

Likewise. A hateful disrespectful word for me. "

I personally think it's about the context it's being used in if u use it as an insult then yes it's disgusting but if in role play or sex it can be a turn on for some

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And 4 historically:

'A woman with low standards and little discernment in choosing those casual sexual partners'.

I hate the word and it's use would end any conversation or meet I was part of.

Likewise. A hateful disrespectful word for me. "

And exceptable words for you are ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Yes.

As I haven't read one single reply please let me know if im in the min or the maj. Ta x

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I don't like slut, or any terminology that is generally speaking considered derogatory.

To me it suggests I'm a lesser person and I expect to be treated with respect.

Anyone who thinks such terms are appropriate, is not someone I would be interested in.

Some women are happy with the word and it seems to be more so if they're sub.

Nita

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean


"I don't like slut, or any terminology that is generally speaking considered derogatory.

To me it suggests I'm a lesser person and I expect to be treated with respect.

Anyone who thinks such terms are appropriate, is not someone I would be interested in.

Some women are happy with the word and it seems to be more so if they're sub.

Nita"

Hmmmmmmmmm also if they are desperate for male attention no matter how poorly treated.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

No! I meant it's only used by the most powerful women in sexual circles.....

There i've offended no one.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"No! I meant it's only used by the most powerful women in sexual circles.....

There i've offended no one. "

nicely dodged Granny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally prefer you are my little fuck toy and I'm going to make you scream in pleasure ,it's a lot nicer what do u think ladies lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lol my mother called me a slut for not ever tidying my room. I always had a weird relationship with the word for many years...

Now however I love being a filthy slut in the bedroom and it has nothing to do with tidying!!!

I can see you in a sexy French maid's outfit. You could help me put things away. "

I have a couple of hidy holes you can use

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I personally prefer you are my little fuck toy and I'm going to make you scream in pleasure ,it's a lot nicer what do u think ladies lol"

Fuck toy is great !

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Totally depends on individuals and context.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Yes imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, it’s all about context; there’s a difference between someone saying ‘you’re a dirty slut’ to saying ‘you’re my dirty slut’.

I’d be less inclined to kick someone in the shin for saying the latter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I go back to my partner with naughty stories and pics from meets I've had while he's away then we both use the word and I'll refer to myself as a slut

In some dominant play with someone respectful then I think it can be used as part of role play

But I would be super offended if a stranger referred to me as one

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me, it’s all about context; there’s a difference between someone saying ‘you’re a dirty slut’ to saying ‘you’re my dirty slut’.

I’d be less inclined to kick someone in the shin for saying the latter!"

awee i like that its very sweet "your my slut" very cute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In specific play it might have a place but as a term in conversation definitely no, I’ve had a number of guys use it in ‘break the ice’ messages... they’ve found the ice broken and shoved hard into their ass!

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By *acey_smWoman
over a year ago

westmeath

I love being called it. Like it's been said here before being called someone's slut is a big turn on for me.

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!


"In everday usage, most certainly. In intimate play then less so. "

When I'm in the mood i can be a filthy slut and love to be told that I am!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love being called it. Like it's been said here before being called someone's slut is a big turn on for me. "

love it

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By *rabness92Man
over a year ago

Netherlands


"I love being called it. Like it's been said here before being called someone's slut is a big turn on for me.

love it"

It all depends on what she is Comfortable to be honest...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In specific play it might have a place but as a term in conversation definitely no, I’ve had a number of guys use it in ‘break the ice’ messages... they’ve found the ice broken and shoved hard into their ass!

"

LOL some guys would pay for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And 4 historically:

'A woman with low standards and little discernment in choosing those casual sexual partners'.

I hate the word and it's use would end any conversation or meet I was part of.

Likewise. A hateful disrespectful word for me.

And exceptable words for you are ? "

The most acceptable word is woman, because that's what I am

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And 4 historically:

'A woman with low standards and little discernment in choosing those casual sexual partners'.

I hate the word and it's use would end any conversation or meet I was part of.

Likewise. A hateful disrespectful word for me.

And exceptable words for you are ?

The most acceptable word is woman, because that's what I am"

Yes you are , a beautiful women

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I go back to my partner with naughty stories and pics from meets I've had while he's away then we both use the word and I'll refer to myself as a slut

In some dominant play with someone respectful then I think it can be used as part of role play

But I would be super offended if a stranger referred to me as one "

I wonder why someone would just call a stranger a slut?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In the heat of the moment it's perfect, in every day dealings it's a no from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a random called me a slut they'd more than likely be picking their teeth up off the floor.

All depends on the context and who it is.

Context is right

Like if your been taken from behind he is balls deep in you and you have been sucking on his cock the last 10 mins befor hand and he lighty pulls your hair and says your a good little slut then that maybe ok but if you in a coffee shop and the girl at the next table radomly says hey slut pass the sugar i could see where the trouble could start "

haaaahaaha love it! ... the quote above I mean ... although I like if H says my little slut too ... its all about the myyyyy

Kx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends on the context in which it's used

Well yes on your CV it maybe frowned upon ?

Qualifications

GCSE

First aider

Slut "

I was tempted to say you might get the job that way though ... but that would be a really baaaaad thing to say so I wont

Made me think of the Bridgette Jones film where shes at the job interview ...

Boss: So, why do you want to work in television? Bridget: I've got to leave my current job because I've shagged my boss. Boss: Fair enough. Start Monday. We'll see how we go. And, incidentally, at 'Sit Up, Britain', no one ever gets sacked for shaggin' the boss

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By *aggie and DanCouple
over a year ago

Swansea


"I’m a big fan of the word I personally like cumslut.

But as more and more things become branded offensive is the word slut ok nowdsays?

slut definition;

1.

a woman who has many casual sexual partners.

2.

a woman with low standards of cleanliness."

A "slut" is someone who is fucking everyone else except you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a big fan of the word I personally like cumslut.

But as more and more things become branded offensive is the word slut ok nowdsays?

slut definition;

1.

a woman who has many casual sexual partners.

2.

a woman with low standards of cleanliness.

A "slut" is someone who is fucking everyone else except you."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’m a big fan of the word I personally like cumslut.

But as more and more things become branded offensive is the word slut ok nowdsays?

slut definition;

1.

a woman who has many casual sexual partners.

2.

a woman with low standards of cleanliness.

A "slut" is someone who is fucking everyone else except you."

Best answer yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a big fan of the word I personally like cumslut.

But as more and more things become branded offensive is the word slut ok nowdsays?

slut definition;

1.

a woman who has many casual sexual partners.

2.

a woman with low standards of cleanliness.

A "slut" is someone who is fucking everyone else except you.

Best answer yet "

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

If someone called me one,I wouldnt be v happy about it ...

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If someone called me one,I wouldnt be v happy about it ...

Miss"

Not even during a good session ?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"If someone called me one,I wouldnt be v happy about it ...

Miss

Not even during a good session ? "

Nope just not my thing ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone called me one,I wouldnt be v happy about it ...

Miss

Not even during a good session ? "

To me there is never any excuse. I know I am (as usual) probably in a minority in finding it an offensive word, but I once pushed a guy off when he called me a "bitch" at a crucial moment. Zero tolerance for these two terms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it, especially from someone I don't know. Had one fwb that was allowed to call me it and I loved it from him, nobody else has been allowed since.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate it, especially from someone I don't know. Had one fwb that was allowed to call me it and I loved it from him, nobody else has been allowed since. "

That’s sweet , like a connection word for a good fwb.

I wonder if you will be anyone’s slut again ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate it, especially from someone I don't know. Had one fwb that was allowed to call me it and I loved it from him, nobody else has been allowed since.

That’s sweet , like a connection word for a good fwb.

I wonder if you will be anyone’s slut again ? "

Probably not...most guys assume a slut is sub...he knew I was never gonna be that lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I hate it, especially from someone I don't know. Had one fwb that was allowed to call me it and I loved it from him, nobody else has been allowed since.

That’s sweet , like a connection word for a good fwb.

I wonder if you will be anyone’s slut again ?

Probably not...most guys assume a slut is sub...he knew I was never gonna be that lol"

Maybe a non sub can act slutty to get attention from a sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate it, especially from someone I don't know. Had one fwb that was allowed to call me it and I loved it from him, nobody else has been allowed since.

That’s sweet , like a connection word for a good fwb.

I wonder if you will be anyone’s slut again ?

Probably not...most guys assume a slut is sub...he knew I was never gonna be that lol

Maybe a non sub can act slutty to get attention from a sub "

Can't say as I would want that either tbh

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Nah, major turn off for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nah, major turn off for me."

What do you like ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If someone called me one,I wouldnt be v happy about it ...

Miss

Not even during a good session ?

To me there is never any excuse. I know I am (as usual) probably in a minority in finding it an offensive word, but I once pushed a guy off when he called me a "bitch" at a crucial moment. Zero tolerance for these two terms. "

A bitch .....ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone called me one,I wouldnt be v happy about it ...

Miss

Not even during a good session ?

To me there is never any excuse. I know I am (as usual) probably in a minority in finding it an offensive word, but I once pushed a guy off when he called me a "bitch" at a crucial moment. Zero tolerance for these two terms.

A bitch .....ouch "

Bitch and slut are equally offensive terms in my view

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"And 4 historically:

'A woman with low standards and little discernment in choosing those casual sexual partners'.

I hate the word and it's use would end any conversation or meet I was part of."

This!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And 4 historically:

'A woman with low standards and little discernment in choosing those casual sexual partners'.

I hate the word and it's use would end any conversation or meet I was part of.

This! "

Wow ??

So one slip of the word and the meets over ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like being called a slut in the bedroom if it's the right kind of moment but outside of that, it's a big no.

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I wouldn't go saying it to the girl in the coffee shop

Depends on the context I guess. Some words will offend some but not others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As with a lot of words, it's about context.

Calling someone a slut in an opening email is not right.

But someone you know, who enjoys degradation, might enjoy it. "

Hollie likes humiliation private and public, but it all personal choice, agree depends on when and where, but if in "pla mode" all words help!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like being called a slut in the bedroom if it's the right kind of moment but outside of that, it's a big no."

Because of the submission or because of just the word ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like being called a slut in the bedroom if it's the right kind of moment but outside of that, it's a big no.

Because of the submission or because of just the word ? "

I'm quite submissive so I assume it's because of that but the word makes me feel naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how it's being used and who you are saying it to.

~Mia

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Slut, whore, slag, bitch. Not very nice in any normal context really. Unless she was asking / demanding to be called this during the throes of fucking.

What’s the male equiv? ‘You Old goat’, dog, player, dirty old fucker.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

Its not the best of words

Some females like it being used some not .each to their own I suppose

Guys it doesn't mean it gives you the right to call anyone that just because you like using it though everyone is different

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"Slut, whore, slag, bitch. Not very nice in any normal context really. Unless she was asking / demanding to be called this during the throes of fucking.

What’s the male equiv? ‘You Old goat’, dog, player, dirty old fucker. "

knob comes to mind

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

If someone used it in a message looking to meet us, it would result in an immediate block.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its not the best of words

Some females like it being used some not .each to their own I suppose

Guys it doesn't mean it gives you the right to call anyone that just because you like using it though everyone is different "

What about it ifwas requested ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not the best of words

Some females like it being used some not .each to their own I suppose

Guys it doesn't mean it gives you the right to call anyone that just because you like using it though everyone is different

What about it ifwas requested ? "

If it's requested then that obviously means the woman in question likes it so no problem. The important thing to remember is that not all women like the same thing so best to check first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the context the word is used in, generally.

Alot of words to describe ladies sexual adventures are derogatory. But for men it is prowess.

That is unfortunately historical in nature.

Women will always have to fight the barriers of male stereotype for many generations to come.

Mistress Amelia x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

As with anything in life, meaning is derived from the context. I'd say it was generally a word to avoid using, unless you know the people you're with well enough.

It's in my username and I've queried its appropriateness but after being here so long I've chosen to remain with it. I don't like the senders of occasional messages 'Hi slut', but I've stimulated it.

It's wise to deserve use of potentially offensive terms to people who consent. It's moved in a similar way to the word porn, now used for things like property porn, or pimp as in pimp my ride. Slut carries a higher level of risk, beware.

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By *atdancerCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Words change meanings over time. Someone mentioned one historical meaning of "slut".

Apparently the earliest written record of the word is from the Canterbury Tales. At that time it meant a dirty (not in a sexual way) *man*, probably a homeless one.

Somewhat later (1700s IIRC), it meant a kind of rag and fat/tallow candle.

Somewhere in the 1800s it was pretty firmly affixed to a woman of low cleanliness standards and then, later and more specifically, a woman who was lazy about the housework (so partly a reflection upon the state of the house, I guess).

Later it picked up the sexual connotations and meanings we know today.

On the insult or not front, I think problem we have is that the *concept* of women who like a lot of sex is distasteful to many. That means that any word we use to describe such women will eventually pick up insulting connotations. I think that's wrong: anyone should be allowed to like lots of sex without judgement from others.

Hat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on the context the word is used in, generally.

Alot of words to describe ladies sexual adventures are derogatory. But for men it is prowess.

That is unfortunately historical in nature.

Women will always have to fight the barriers of male stereotype for many generations to come.

Mistress Amelia x "

That’s what’s great about English it’s constantly evolving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lady in the boardroom, a slut In the bedroom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like many of the above, for me it’s all about context.

Message me with it as an opening gambit, I see it as rude - call me it after we have sounded out our preferences and it has a very different effect!

My sub tendencies mean I love being name called when it gets heated - cumslut, dirty fucking slut, filthy whore - tell me how you want to use my cunt - although I struggle to find men who can do it with conviction. Not quite the same effect if you want to laugh when they are saying it!

I also can’t find a lot of porn with men talking dirty to women as they fuck. It really turns me on but just doesn’t seem to be an established search term.

Any suggestions gratefully received...

(Porn search related or otherwise )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like many of the above, for me it’s all about context.

Message me with it as an opening gambit, I see it as rude - call me it after we have sounded out our preferences and it has a very different effect!

My sub tendencies mean I love being name called when it gets heated - cumslut, dirty fucking slut, filthy whore - tell me how you want to use my cunt - although I struggle to find men who can do it with conviction. Not quite the same effect if you want to laugh when they are saying it!

I also can’t find a lot of porn with men talking dirty to women as they fuck. It really turns me on but just doesn’t seem to be an established search term.

Any suggestions gratefully received...

(Porn search related or otherwise )"

wouldn't it be great if we all had trigger words to allow the slut word come out.

My Fb and have a unwritten one if she types "sir " i have been bad etc then i will normalay break out the slut before that it doesn't fit in place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like many of the above, for me it’s all about context.

Message me with it as an opening gambit, I see it as rude - call me it after we have sounded out our preferences and it has a very different effect!

My sub tendencies mean I love being name called when it gets heated - cumslut, dirty fucking slut, filthy whore - tell me how you want to use my cunt - although I struggle to find men who can do it with conviction. Not quite the same effect if you want to laugh when they are saying it!

I also can’t find a lot of porn with men talking dirty to women as they fuck. It really turns me on but just doesn’t seem to be an established search term.

Any suggestions gratefully received...

(Porn search related or otherwise )

wouldn't it be great if we all had trigger words to allow the slut word come out.

My Fb and have a unwritten one if she types "sir " i have been bad etc then i will normalay break out the slut before that it doesn't fit in place"

Oh I like the idea of having an agreed trigger word..... although the ideal would be a partner who just magically knows when the correct ‘slut level’ has been reached!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s all about context innit

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like many of the above, for me it’s all about context.

Message me with it as an opening gambit, I see it as rude - call me it after we have sounded out our preferences and it has a very different effect!

My sub tendencies mean I love being name called when it gets heated - cumslut, dirty fucking slut, filthy whore - tell me how you want to use my cunt - although I struggle to find men who can do it with conviction. Not quite the same effect if you want to laugh when they are saying it!

I also can’t find a lot of porn with men talking dirty to women as they fuck. It really turns me on but just doesn’t seem to be an established search term.

Any suggestions gratefully received...

(Porn search related or otherwise )

wouldn't it be great if we all had trigger words to allow the slut word come out.

My Fb and have a unwritten one if she types "sir " i have been bad etc then i will normalay break out the slut before that it doesn't fit in place

Oh I like the idea of having an agreed trigger word..... although the ideal would be a partner who just magically knows when the correct ‘slut level’ has been reached!!"

With alexa and google i doubt we are from "slut mode activate"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like many of the above, for me it’s all about context.

Message me with it as an opening gambit, I see it as rude - call me it after we have sounded out our preferences and it has a very different effect!

My sub tendencies mean I love being name called when it gets heated - cumslut, dirty fucking slut, filthy whore - tell me how you want to use my cunt - although I struggle to find men who can do it with conviction. Not quite the same effect if you want to laugh when they are saying it!

I also can’t find a lot of porn with men talking dirty to women as they fuck. It really turns me on but just doesn’t seem to be an established search term.

Any suggestions gratefully received...

(Porn search related or otherwise )

wouldn't it be great if we all had trigger words to allow the slut word come out.

My Fb and have a unwritten one if she types "sir " i have been bad etc then i will normalay break out the slut before that it doesn't fit in place

Oh I like the idea of having an agreed trigger word..... although the ideal would be a partner who just magically knows when the correct ‘slut level’ has been reached!!

With alexa and google i doubt we are from "slut mode activate""

Hee hee. I think you may be on to something!! I love it when I get my slut mode activated....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a woman call herself that during sex

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"And 4 historically:

'A woman with low standards and little discernment in choosing those casual sexual partners'.

I hate the word and it's use would end any conversation or meet I was part of.

This!

Wow ??

So one slip of the word and the meets over ? "

The men I meet wouldn't refer to me as Miss. To call me slut wouldn't be in the dynamic of play for me, so yes.

I meet socially first: I've managed to sift the wheat from the chaff.

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over a year ago


"Like many of the above, for me it’s all about context.

Message me with it as an opening gambit, I see it as rude - call me it after we have sounded out our preferences and it has a very different effect!

My sub tendencies mean I love being name called when it gets heated - cumslut, dirty fucking slut, filthy whore - tell me how you want to use my cunt - although I struggle to find men who can do it with conviction. Not quite the same effect if you want to laugh when they are saying it!

I also can’t find a lot of porn with men talking dirty to women as they fuck. It really turns me on but just doesn’t seem to be an established search term.

Any suggestions gratefully received...

(Porn search related or otherwise )

wouldn't it be great if we all had trigger words to allow the slut word come out.

My Fb and have a unwritten one if she types "sir " i have been bad etc then i will normalay break out the slut before that it doesn't fit in place

Oh I like the idea of having an agreed trigger word..... although the ideal would be a partner who just magically knows when the correct ‘slut level’ has been reached!!

With alexa and google i doubt we are from "slut mode activate"

Hee hee. I think you may be on to something!! I love it when I get my slut mode activated...."

Is it voice activated or are there’s buttons to press : )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like many of the above, for me it’s all about context.

Message me with it as an opening gambit, I see it as rude - call me it after we have sounded out our preferences and it has a very different effect!

My sub tendencies mean I love being name called when it gets heated - cumslut, dirty fucking slut, filthy whore - tell me how you want to use my cunt - although I struggle to find men who can do it with conviction. Not quite the same effect if you want to laugh when they are saying it!

I also can’t find a lot of porn with men talking dirty to women as they fuck. It really turns me on but just doesn’t seem to be an established search term.

Any suggestions gratefully received...

(Porn search related or otherwise )

wouldn't it be great if we all had trigger words to allow the slut word come out.

My Fb and have a unwritten one if she types "sir " i have been bad etc then i will normalay break out the slut before that it doesn't fit in place

Oh I like the idea of having an agreed trigger word..... although the ideal would be a partner who just magically knows when the correct ‘slut level’ has been reached!!

With alexa and google i doubt we are from "slut mode activate"

Hee hee. I think you may be on to something!! I love it when I get my slut mode activated....

Is it voice activated or are there’s buttons to press : ) "

Oh I would suggest a delightful combination of the two.......

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like many of the above, for me it’s all about context.

Message me with it as an opening gambit, I see it as rude - call me it after we have sounded out our preferences and it has a very different effect!

My sub tendencies mean I love being name called when it gets heated - cumslut, dirty fucking slut, filthy whore - tell me how you want to use my cunt - although I struggle to find men who can do it with conviction. Not quite the same effect if you want to laugh when they are saying it!

I also can’t find a lot of porn with men talking dirty to women as they fuck. It really turns me on but just doesn’t seem to be an established search term.

Any suggestions gratefully received...

(Porn search related or otherwise )

wouldn't it be great if we all had trigger words to allow the slut word come out.

My Fb and have a unwritten one if she types "sir " i have been bad etc then i will normalay break out the slut before that it doesn't fit in place

Oh I like the idea of having an agreed trigger word..... although the ideal would be a partner who just magically knows when the correct ‘slut level’ has been reached!!

With alexa and google i doubt we are from "slut mode activate"

Hee hee. I think you may be on to something!! I love it when I get my slut mode activated....

Is it voice activated or are there’s buttons to press : )

Oh I would suggest a delightful combination of the two......."

I’ll keep that in mind when I’m ipswitch next ; )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And 4 historically:

'A woman with low standards and little discernment in choosing those casual sexual partners'.

I hate the word and it's use would end any conversation or meet I was part of.

This!

Wow ??

So one slip of the word and the meets over ?

The men I meet wouldn't refer to me as Miss. To call me slut wouldn't be in the dynamic of play for me, so yes.

I meet socially first: I've managed to sift the wheat from the chaff."

I like miss it has sexy tone to it ......

Miss Slut .....that’s even better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it in play. In everyday life I would slap someone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the said slut I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And 4 historically:

'A woman with low standards and little discernment in choosing those casual sexual partners'.

I hate the word and it's use would end any conversation or meet I was part of."

Same

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By *inkvaderMan
over a year ago

london/manchester/ringwood


"Lol my mother called me a slut for not ever tidying my room. I always had a weird relationship with the word for many years...

Now however I love being a filthy slut in the bedroom and it has nothing to do with tidying!!!"

Sliding in and out forums!! Hmm I'd love to be a fly on your wall when you're being slutty .. most definitely sound like my kinda word ;x

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By *inkvaderMan
over a year ago

london/manchester/ringwood


"I hate it, especially from someone I don't know. Had one fwb that was allowed to call me it and I loved it from him, nobody else has been allowed since. "

Isn't it time you let someone else have a go!! Share please

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By *hocolate_HeavenMan
over a year ago

Birmingham and Dubai


"If a random called me a slut they'd more than likely be picking their teeth up off the floor.

All depends on the context and who it is."

(L) xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lol my mother called me a slut for not ever tidying my room. I always had a weird relationship with the word for many years...

Now however I love being a filthy slut in the bedroom and it has nothing to do with tidying!!!

Sliding in and out forums!! Hmm I'd love to be a fly on your wall when you're being slutty .. most definitely sound like my kinda word ;x "

How did you make a reply sound so sexual?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont like the word or words like it, i find them offensive.

If i recieved a messege from a guy here and he used those words i would block him asap. If it was used during play i would stop straight away and leave.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

It's all in the timing.

The right place with the right woman and he'll yes it can be a turn on

If I visit the office and call the receptionist a slut then it's offensive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont like the word or words like it, i find them offensive.

If i recieved a messege from a guy here and he used those words i would block him asap. If it was used during play i would stop straight away and leave. "

Wow that’s pretty definite

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's all in the timing.

The right place with the right woman and he'll yes it can be a turn on

If I visit the office and call the receptionist a slut then it's offensive"

Unless that’s her name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's all in the timing.

The right place with the right woman and he'll yes it can be a turn on

If I visit the office and call the receptionist a slut then it's offensive

Unless that’s her name "

I don't know many call like that

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

It is all about context.

The right setting adds to the moment, wrong setting can get you a drink poured over you or much worse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It is all about context.

The right setting adds to the moment, wrong setting can get you a drink poured over you or much worse."

Waste of a drink for a word ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont like the word or words like it, i find them offensive.

If i recieved a messege from a guy here and he used those words i would block him asap. If it was used during play i would stop straight away and leave.

Wow that’s pretty definite

"

Yes. I know what i like and don't like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Priya loves being called a slut and cock slut. She hates being called a whore.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Priya loves being called a slut and cock slut. She hates being called a whore."

What is the difference ?

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