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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Surely I can't be the only guy or female for that matter that is put off big time by people's negative status's, I can't imagine that a woman would ever send me a message if I had a negative status up, however I suspect that women with really negative status's still get plenty of messages from men that have no self respect,, thoughts please, also ,how cheeky and sad would I sound as a man if I was asking for a site pass in my status???? Just leaving work, will check people's comments when I get home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what do you mean by negative.

If it's like "I had a shite day!"

I'll still message if I'm interested.

If it's like "Can **** just f*** off!" then no, I won't message.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I find negative statuses rather off-putting. I logon to be cheered up and entertained; not depressed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Let me go find one as an example, brb

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends on what do you mean by negative.

If it's like "I had a shite day!"

I'll still message if I'm interested.

If it's like "Can **** just f*** off!" then no, I won't message."

" Been back on here 1 day and already being reminded about the freaks, I will not and do not meet right now for a fuck"! This is an example, I have changed the wording slightly, for two reasons, 1 I can't remember the exact wording, and 2 , to protect identities this is probably not the best example but you get the idea, alsorts bugs me to be fair

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

The bitter status...It's quite often borne out of not getting a shag...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The bitter status...It's quite often borne out of not getting a shag..."

Maybe, but ranting won't help, self-inflicted catch 22 situation

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"The bitter status...It's quite often borne out of not getting a shag...

Maybe, but ranting won't help, self-inflicted catch 22 situation "

They can't see that though...

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

Goes and checks my status

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The bitter status...It's quite often borne out of not getting a shag...

Maybe, but ranting won't help, self-inflicted catch 22 situation

They can't see that though..."

Because of the red mist brought on by bursting labido

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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester

People can post whatever status they want surely !

Pass by if you think it’s negative

I much prefer positivity

But some thrive on negativity!

Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind negative as in shit day or crap weather but it really puts me off it it's sex / fab related for example moaning about not getting enough attention or replies or meets etc. It just makes me feel like they're on here thinking everyone is easy and when people aren't falling all over them they aren't happy. It also indicated they could be a downer and personally I'm on here for some stress free time. Having said that it's their profile so they can do as they wish.

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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester


"Surely I can't be the only guy or female for that matter that is put off big time by people's negative status's, I can't imagine that a woman would ever send me a message if I had a negative status up, however I suspect that women with really negative status's still get plenty of messages from men that have no self respect,, thoughts please, also ,how cheeky and sad would I sound as a man if I was asking for a site pass in my status???? Just leaving work, will check people's comments when I get home "

A lot of Negativity in this post

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely I can't be the only guy or female for that matter that is put off big time by people's negative status's, I can't imagine that a woman would ever send me a message if I had a negative status up, however I suspect that women with really negative status's still get plenty of messages from men that have no self respect,, thoughts please, also ,how cheeky and sad would I sound as a man if I was asking for a site pass in my status???? Just leaving work, will check people's comments when I get home

A lot of Negativity in this post "

Ahhh but it's not my status

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By *onkeymagic50Man
over a year ago

Near the harbour

Positive and negative one all in one for you

Come sit on my face and glaze me like a doughnut. ..but no jam thanks

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Positive and negative one all in one for you

Come sit on my face and glaze me like a doughnut. ..but no jam thanks "

Gross!!!

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

We are positive people are do our best to avoid negativity, so yes, negative status updates would put us off.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I see a lot of really unpleasant statuses aimed at people - sometimes specifics, sometimes a general moan about women/people who won’t meet or how ‘crap’ the site is. Those I walk on by...

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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester


"Positive and negative one all in one for you

Come sit on my face and glaze me like a doughnut. ..but no jam thanks "

Funny

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

It depends.... If I see a friend post something that seems like they're feeling a bit down or frustrated by things I'll usually send them a 'what's up buttercup?' and talk to them...

If its a random moaning myrtle in my local updates I'll probably just ignore it though... or block them so I don't see their updates anymore if they're a serial moaner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine tend to change daily.

Always a quote from a favourite author.

Generally I just let the ones who waffle on with vulger comments waft over my head.

But if it's a friend's status, perhaps a low point, I'll message to see if they're ok.

You never know , you might just give them that smile that they've been needing.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

Some come across as plain desperate, they are offputting also.

ie "It's there on a plate for you and you don't show, what more can I do?"

Which reads to me that its targeted at a person, so why not message them? Ok so they've been blocked I hear you all say, then why bother saying anything? Comes across to me (mr) as an easy shag guaranteed, you don't need to work for it... For us the chase is a big part of fun

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"Mine tend to change daily.

Always a quote from a favourite author.

Generally I just let the ones who waffle on with vulger comments waft over my head.

But if it's a friend's status, perhaps a low point, I'll message to see if they're ok.

You never know , you might just give them that smile that they've been needing.

"
Us too... Nice to know others think likewise

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Mines a bit negative at Mo but I know what you’re saying. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

obviously its totally up to the individual as to what they put on their status...but naming and shaming, saying 'thanks for a great nite, u no who u r' and people saying how shite the site is certainly put me off...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the 'bored','this place is shit' ones that make me

Cryptic ones always make me wonder what its about (for about 3 seconds)

I like quotes and song lyrics

To be honest i dont really notice them unless it comes up on a friends update, and my friends are always cheerful

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Negative status are very off putting I keep away

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

We block the repeat ranty status updates or the ones who are always leaving and never do

Miss

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

People calling others ‘fakes’ or more annoyingly ‘dreamers’ just cos they don’t want to meet them.

Goodbye...

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

We all have bad days sometimes

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"The bitter status...It's quite often borne out of not getting a shag...

Maybe, but ranting won't help, self-inflicted catch 22 situation

They can't see that though..."

They're going for the sympathy replies...

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I was shown one the other day where the guy was kicking off that even fat women won't reply to him because they have an inflated veiw of them self on fab but in everyday life fat women would be desperate for him (or words to that effect).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Positive is always a good sign!

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By *uicy72Woman
over a year ago

North Colchester


"Positive is always a good sign! "

Absolutely

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