FabSwingers.com forum: What do you look for in a partner?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not a meet but dating situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Assuming the reader is a single looking for dates...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rich with a bad cough?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Assuming the reader is a single looking for dates..."

Nah, no time for that.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Not a meet but dating situation

Damn near perfection!

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Funny, intelligent and imaginative

Oh and loves oral

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By *eesideMan
over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

personally and compatibility.

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

A pulse

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Oh God where to start...

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I don't.

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Reliable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny, intelligent and imaginative

Oh and loves oral

I love oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a sign of life

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

90....lots of money and a dodgy ticker

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

What is this thing you told of...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ideally, my penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pulse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for a partner??

Unless it's for sex only... No thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Let's take pulse for granted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honesty, emotional intelligence, spirit, a good heart, ambition and a sense of humour.

Also over 6 foot, well built with a sexy smile.

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

A sense of humour and a sense of adventure.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Honesty, emotional intelligence, spirit, a good heart, ambition and a sense of humour with a sexy smile. Understanding my quirks.

Luckily I'm not looking for one

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

My dating selective is actually the same as my meet selective, attracted to them & them to me, plus on the same wave length, unless you are a couple I don't really understand how they would differ tbh but after all the other threads I think I must be on a weird thought process compared to everyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone with a zest for living and no regrets.... someone who adores fun and adventure...... respect and a kind heart

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Someone who turns up, preferably with hair!

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

6ft or more with a great smile and eyes. Someone I look at and just want to rip there clothes off, needs to be that physical attraction.

Athelic muscular fit confident outgoing fun doesnt take things to seriously. Someone who we would enhance each others lives not take them over. Honest with integrity.

If hes into cycling then he gets bonuse points! x

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Someone normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"6ft or more with a great smile and eyes. Someone I look at and just want to rip there clothes off, needs to be that physical attraction.

Athelic muscular fit confident outgoing fun doesnt take things to seriously. Someone who we would enhance each others lives not take them over. Honest with integrity.

If hes into cycling then he gets bonuse points! x"

Getting bike out of shed right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone who turns up, preferably with hair!"

Having been stood up by a bald guy tonight this really made me giggle

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"6ft or more with a great smile and eyes. Someone I look at and just want to rip there clothes off, needs to be that physical attraction.

Athelic muscular fit confident outgoing fun doesnt take things to seriously. Someone who we would enhance each others lives not take them over. Honest with integrity.

If hes into cycling then he gets bonuse points! x"

I know just the man for you but alas he is in my normal world but he is what you described to a T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh, I haven't really thought about that. I've only had one long term relationship and that wasn't plain sailing.

He would have to have a strong character to be able to withstand my huge family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must like dogs, gardening and decorating.

Must be able to leave me alone, when I need my own time.

Must love sex and kissing.

Must be calm and peaceful.

Must love me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who knows how to ride, without even falling off.

Gotta be compatible, takes me to my limits.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yup 6ft+ really seems to be very important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone non judgmental, someone who is open minded, doesn't stereotype people, kind and caring but won't allow people to walk over him, someone ambitious but not so much that it becomes detrimental to the relationship and most importantly someone who gives me there attention if we are conversing. Hate it when guys are distracted when you are talking to them as it just makes you think that you are not worth their time.

Physically- tall, well built, strong arms, nice eyes and smile and thick thighs are a bonus but above all in a relationship the other stuff is more important than the looks

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"6ft or more with a great smile and eyes. Someone I look at and just want to rip there clothes off, needs to be that physical attraction.

Athelic muscular fit confident outgoing fun doesnt take things to seriously. Someone who we would enhance each others lives not take them over. Honest with integrity.

If hes into cycling then he gets bonuse points! x

I know just the man for you but alas he is in my normal world but he is what you described to a T "

If only......that place we call real life.

Really wow, maybe I could just happen to be in the same place at the same time if you know what I mean

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would have to be someone who made me laugh, and me them, could tell me interesting stories of their life. Share things, without being needy. Attractive to me, a little bit kinky and adventurous but also happy to be lazy. A bit of a gentleman and outdoorsy. Intelligent without being arrogant...

...Good job im not looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone who knows how to ride, without even falling off.

Gotta be compatible, takes me to my limits. "

Just once if I had the chance, the things I would do to you

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"6ft or more with a great smile and eyes. Someone I look at and just want to rip there clothes off, needs to be that physical attraction.

Athelic muscular fit confident outgoing fun doesnt take things to seriously. Someone who we would enhance each others lives not take them over. Honest with integrity.

If hes into cycling then he gets bonuse points! x

I know just the man for you but alas he is in my normal world but he is what you described to a T

If only......that place we call real life.

Really wow, maybe I could just happen to be in the same place at the same time if you know what I mean

He would love you

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"6ft or more with a great smile and eyes. Someone I look at and just want to rip there clothes off, needs to be that physical attraction.

Athelic muscular fit confident outgoing fun doesnt take things to seriously. Someone who we would enhance each others lives not take them over. Honest with integrity.

If hes into cycling then he gets bonuse points! x

I know just the man for you but alas he is in my normal world but he is what you described to a T

If only......that place we call real life.

Really wow, maybe I could just happen to be in the same place at the same time if you know what I mean

He would love you

Blind date

come on Cilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Connection and sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone who knows how to ride, without even falling off.

Gotta be compatible, takes me to my limits.

Just once if I had the chance, the things I would do to you "

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

A regular meet would do it for me!

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By *ildflower.xWoman
over a year ago

Grimsby

Humour and excitement

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By *entenTeaCouple
over a year ago

Buckley North Wales

This sounds weird but I have a thing for women with a chemistry qualification even if its just an HND.

Appart from that I love well educated women with crisp english accent. Economists and social scientists are just hot. Age 40+ the rest is less important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a pulse...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is my dick an acceptable answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who gives Loyalty, laughs, and who doesn’t cheat.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

There’s too many to list everything but - Intelligent, independent, non-needy, thoughtful, passionate, loyal, decisive. Someone who would push me to be the best I can be and who wants to share new experiences. Someone who makes me laugh and I feel like I can be myself (i.e. a lil bit crazy) around!

Not asking for much am I

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So intelligence, humor, loyal, confident are the most common factors.

2 and 3/4 out of 4

Maybe I'm not lost hope yet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny, intelligent and imaginative

Oh and loves oral

I love oral"

I like audiobooks too.

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By *ig rig hullMan
over a year ago

Hull

"Funny, intelligent and imaginative

Oh and loves oral

I love oral

I like audiobooks too."

Can always rely on jim this time of night haha never fails to make me chuckle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When in company they are a good laugh...likeable and can take a bit of cheek. When I met Mr I knew within 5 mins that we were very compatable x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who will treat me as a whore in the bedroom and a princess everywhere else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way she sees and treat others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hairy four legs and loves to wander the Welsh hills . Ha ha I guess that's pooch

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"The way she sees and treat others. "

That's so important I think you really get to know what a person is like from how they are around others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No difference in what I look for either here or in a "dating" situation - good-looking, intelligent, witty, charming and an intuitive lover...same high standards anywhere

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Someone who makes me feel important in their life,who doesn't ridicule me and makes me feel second best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a meet but dating situation

So you wouldn't date someone you meet.

What do you look for then OP if the ladies you meet aren't dating potential.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Not a meet but dating situation

So you wouldn't date someone you meet.

What do you look for then OP if the ladies you meet aren't dating potential. "

I wouldn't date a 40 year old gym bunny, but he might make a fine FB - why does everyone assume there is some kind of denigration when someone differentiates between the two types of relationship?

Sure, sometimes there will be - but to assume it suggest to me people may have a chip on their shoulder they need to attend to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly the same things, though a reasonable amount of intelligence helps in the long term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually a pulse

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By *UCKY 69Man
over a year ago

norwich

"Rich with a bad cough?"

That’s the best one ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Funny, intelligent and imaginative

Oh and loves oral

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That's me except for the imagination... And intelligence... And funny!.

But I do like having my knob sucked

Back of the net

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ambitious, self assertive, kind.

Oh and sexy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ambitious, self assertive, kind.

Oh and sexy!"
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That's me... Except for the ambitious... And self assertive and sexy..

Wait no kinds out as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ambitious, self assertive, kind.

Oh and sexy!.

That's me... Except for the ambitious... And self assertive and sexy..

Wait no kinds out as well.

Funny too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ambitious, self assertive, kind.

Oh and sexy!.

That's me... Except for the ambitious... And self assertive and sexy..

Wait no kinds out as well.

Funny too!

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I could be here all day waiting for somebody to say

Grumpy, lanky and wanky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a meet but dating situation

So you wouldn't date someone you meet.

What do you look for then OP if the ladies you meet aren't dating potential.

I wouldn't date a 40 year old gym bunny, but he might make a fine FB - why does everyone assume there is some kind of denigration when someone differentiates between the two types of relationship?

Sure, sometimes there will be - but to assume it suggest to me people may have a chip on their shoulder they need to attend to?"

Hahahahaha maybe in others but none here. I'm very happily married so definitely not looking for dating material. But I find the people I meet are similar to the type of guy I'd go for if I wasn't married, not fantasy guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not a meet but dating situation

So you wouldn't date someone you meet.

What do you look for then OP if the ladies you meet aren't dating potential.

I wouldn't date a 40 year old gym bunny, but he might make a fine FB - why does everyone assume there is some kind of denigration when someone differentiates between the two types of relationship?

Sure, sometimes there will be - but to assume it suggest to me people may have a chip on their shoulder they need to attend to?

For example, I find ladies in their 30's+ very attractive but I wouldn't consider setting up a family with anyone who's either 4+ years older or younger than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rich with a bad cough?"

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

Fat Cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before anything else. Someone who makes me laugh to the point of needing to pee.

Loyalty, respect and trust. Medium build, taller, and happy to stay in as much as go out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a meet but dating situation

So you wouldn't date someone you meet.

What do you look for then OP if the ladies you meet aren't dating potential.

I wouldn't date a 40 year old gym bunny, but he might make a fine FB - why does everyone assume there is some kind of denigration when someone differentiates between the two types of relationship?

Sure, sometimes there will be - but to assume it suggest to me people may have a chip on their shoulder they need to attend to?

For example, I find ladies in their 30's+ very attractive but I wouldn't consider setting up a family with anyone who's either 4+ years older or younger than me. "

But, I want to have your babies

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

First of all honest .

Caring , funny , protective, a team played who would make me laugh and who would stimulate my mind .

An old school gentleman .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not a meet but dating situation

So you wouldn't date someone you meet.

What do you look for then OP if the ladies you meet aren't dating potential.

I wouldn't date a 40 year old gym bunny, but he might make a fine FB - why does everyone assume there is some kind of denigration when someone differentiates between the two types of relationship?

Sure, sometimes there will be - but to assume it suggest to me people may have a chip on their shoulder they need to attend to?

For example, I find ladies in their 30's+ very attractive but I wouldn't consider setting up a family with anyone who's either 4+ years older or younger than me.

But, I want to have your babies

Who doesn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a meet but dating situation

So you wouldn't date someone you meet.

What do you look for then OP if the ladies you meet aren't dating potential.

I wouldn't date a 40 year old gym bunny, but he might make a fine FB - why does everyone assume there is some kind of denigration when someone differentiates between the two types of relationship?

Sure, sometimes there will be - but to assume it suggest to me people may have a chip on their shoulder they need to attend to?

For example, I find ladies in their 30's+ very attractive but I wouldn't consider setting up a family with anyone who's either 4+ years older or younger than me.

But, I want to have your babies

Who doesn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a meet but dating situation

So you wouldn't date someone you meet.

What do you look for then OP if the ladies you meet aren't dating potential.

I wouldn't date a 40 year old gym bunny, but he might make a fine FB - why does everyone assume there is some kind of denigration when someone differentiates between the two types of relationship?

Sure, sometimes there will be - but to assume it suggest to me people may have a chip on their shoulder they need to attend to?

For example, I find ladies in their 30's+ very attractive but I wouldn't consider setting up a family with anyone who's either 4+ years older or younger than me.

But, I want to have your babies

Who doesn't

Lmfao, and so modest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not a meet but dating situation

So you wouldn't date someone you meet.

What do you look for then OP if the ladies you meet aren't dating potential.

I wouldn't date a 40 year old gym bunny, but he might make a fine FB - why does everyone assume there is some kind of denigration when someone differentiates between the two types of relationship?

Sure, sometimes there will be - but to assume it suggest to me people may have a chip on their shoulder they need to attend to?

For example, I find ladies in their 30's+ very attractive but I wouldn't consider setting up a family with anyone who's either 4+ years older or younger than me.

But, I want to have your babies

Who doesn't

Lmfao, and so modest

Well they will have my genes so I expect them to be lawyers, doctors, engineers or athletes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a meet but dating situation

So you wouldn't date someone you meet.

What do you look for then OP if the ladies you meet aren't dating potential.

I wouldn't date a 40 year old gym bunny, but he might make a fine FB - why does everyone assume there is some kind of denigration when someone differentiates between the two types of relationship?

Sure, sometimes there will be - but to assume it suggest to me people may have a chip on their shoulder they need to attend to?

For example, I find ladies in their 30's+ very attractive but I wouldn't consider setting up a family with anyone who's either 4+ years older or younger than me.

But, I want to have your babies

Who doesn't

Lmfao, and so modest

Well they will have my genes so I expect them to be lawyers, doctors, engineers or athletes

That's it lad, dream big

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

A sense of fun that we make each other laugh, think, dream, and can be as content talking throughout the night as just sitting somewhere and feeling peace in each other...

Creative with a love of the outdoors enough of a spirit of adventure to just go and chase their dreams a wild spirit wrapped in a gentle heart eyes alive with hope fire and that mutual need to make each other happy every minute of every day.

Able to stand up and argue their own corner resilient but still a dreamer as happy in jeans and boots as a ball gown...

And they must love animals dogs and maybe even collect waifs and strays..

Oh and every breath they take is more important than mine...

Wonder if I'm just aiming too high for a man in a cave who can barely communicate by grunts...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hard to describe but you know when you find it, it's so hard to match and mutually match.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is an interesting thread... it’s funny cause when actually confronted with this question most people would flounder... I would have before I knew it too...

It’s actually quite easy. To meet someone who you connect with on every level. Not agree with because that’s devoid of personality - but really ‘connect.’

To have someone who looks at you with ‘those’ eyes and when you touch, however insigignificantly, it feels like electricity running across you.

That one person who makes you feel alive just by being there... and not necessarily physically together or even in the same room but just knowing they are there. That person who allows... no NOT allows, but encourages and desires you to be who you are... And loves you for who you are even when you fuck up. But most importantly make you feel like the person YOU always dreamt of being... that’s who.

#justsaying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take a lover who looks at you like maybe you are magic."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Take a lover who looks at you like maybe you are magic mike.""

Really ?

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By *annyboy123Man
over a year ago

Norwich.

I look for hovis laugh and fuck best of both worlds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A funny , slightly naughty sense of humour. Works for me every time. X

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