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Head or Heart?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How do make decisions? Both head and heart have a good argument as to why you should listen to them, but the outcomes are the polar opposite.

What do you do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Screw my head up and end up tossing a coin

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

My head my heart leads me too much astray

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heart and regretted it over and over again. Trying to go with my head this time, besides my heart is too bruised to make decisions with it for a long time.

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

1st I give my heart a good thump it's be way off the mark way to many times and just can't be trusted. Then my head takes over and swiftly drops the hot potato straight back on my hearts lap. Everything turns to shit and I swear it won't happen again at least not till the next short skirt walks on by.... it's a tough old life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"1st I give my heart a good thump it's be way off the mark way to many times and just can't be trusted. Then my head takes over and swiftly drops the hot potato straight back on my hearts lap. Everything turns to shit and I swear it won't happen again at least not till the next short skirt walks on by.... it's a tough old life "

Very true, it's a massive conflict sometimes, isn't it

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Head - heart makes for potentially irrational and rushed decisions, head leads to measured steps.

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Neither... I use my gut instincts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My head mostly

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"1st I give my heart a good thump it's be way off the mark way to many times and just can't be trusted. Then my head takes over and swiftly drops the hot potato straight back on my hearts lap. Everything turns to shit and I swear it won't happen again at least not till the next short skirt walks on by.... it's a tough old life

Very true, it's a massive conflict sometimes, isn't it "

You said it. I consider myself at least reasonably intelligent but on this I just don't ever learn and just end up waiting for the head fuckery I know is comeing. Quite sad really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your heart will never lie to you. Whether that's good or bad is another matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

use my head the heart decisions has cause me some pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My head mostly "
thinking with it not giving it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My head mostly thinking with it not giving it "

Well as much as I love giving head what I actually meant is when it's comes to discussions I use my head as the heart leads to trouble.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My head mostly thinking with it not giving it

Well as much as I love giving head what I actually meant is when it's comes to discussions I use my head as the heart leads to trouble."
amen been there sadly got the medal

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By *unkym34Man
over a year ago

London


"How do make decisions? Both head and heart have a good argument as to why you should listen to them, but the outcomes are the polar opposite.

What do you do? "
over the years I've gone with both at different stages of life

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

From now on neither follow my gut instinct

seems to always be right when Im making the wrong chooses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which ever looks like it has the potential for most fun..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"From now on neither follow my gut instinct

seems to always be right when Im making the wrong chooses. "

So much to be said for gut instinct actually!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heart is just muscle, decisions can only be made with your head (brain).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My head, and the objections of my heart remain duly noted.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

My head but sometimes my heart wins, I'm a big softy

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By *ineMan
over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

Follow your

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always my heart

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By *aenMan
over a year ago

Here and There

Pure gut instinct for me. Can’t be doing with lots of analysis.

The company I work for actually trains their staff to understand their personality style and I know it’s just not my style.

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By *asilForty77Man
over a year ago

a hundred and sixty of us living in a small shoebox in the middle of the road

Gut instinct everytime as my heart and mind have both proved me wrong numerous times

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro


"Follow your "

You big softie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My head mostly "

Give me some head.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Follow my gut first then head... this place is no place for hearts

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Follow my gut first then head... this place is no place for hearts"

I didn't mean on here, I meant decision making in general. This place is definitely no place to get a heart involved!

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Jeez..I'd never use my heart in this joint!

It's either my head or my gut...or my fanny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with the peen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've built a brick wall and set levels to height to reach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to go with my head but in certain matters my heart takes over

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Genuinely I go with both some times one takes over the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going with gut instinct from now on. Head and heart has recently left me in a difficult position to say the least, when I should have followed my gut in the first place!

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

I always go with the heart which has led me to some amazing adventures but also heartache and grief. Eventually of course the head or rather ‘real life’ kicks in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do make decisions? Both head and heart have a good argument as to why you should listen to them, but the outcomes are the polar opposite.

What do you do? "

today. I’ll probably end up crying but I’ll have had a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how involved you are....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Depends how involved you are.... "

Not a fab thing. A work decision. I leave my heart in it's cast iron locked box when it comes to fab I'm afraid.

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