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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I don't actually want to know so you can forget posting whatever it was you thought of posting when you read the title.

I want to ask about how people use the word 'kinky' and what they mean when they use it.

I don't think I am kinky nor do I consider anything I do to be kinky.

Some will say you are kinky if you have a pair of 6 inch heels, others if you have some pvc... some it is more to do with what you do.

So, when you answer someone asking 'how kinky are you' what do you relate it to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Some will say you are kinky if you have a pair of 6 inch heels, others if you have some pvc... some it is more to do with what you do.

So, when you answer someone asking 'how kinky are you' what do you relate it to?

"

The difference between sexy and kinky, has often been described as the difference between using a feather and a whole chicken. If I use this measure I guess I am flapping around the barnyard

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

So what is kinky?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like you, I think I'm pretty normal in whatever I'm playing at. Then I get amazed by what some people consider 'kinky' or perverted

I played with a guy a few weeks ago who called me a 'kinky fucker' just cos I spat on his cock

But I have friends who play in ways I probably wouldn't....

So maybe it just depends who get's asked and by whom?

...confused now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what is kinky?"

Different to the considered norm?

But that changes constantly

(thankfully)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me kinky is just a loose term which assimilates pandering to wanton desire's of any behaviour out with the normal perimeters associated with un-adventurous sexual practice...

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Fisting, dressed as a pirate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fisting, dressed as a pirate."

ooooh kinky monkey

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Fisting, dressed as a pirate."

I told you I'm not doing that again until I get my watch back.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Fisting, dressed as a pirate.

ooooh kinky monkey "

See!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fisting, dressed as a pirate."

To Kink….!. To Deviate .!.

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Depends on the context and who I am with.

To some spying an ankle is kinky.

As I heard last week, we need to be careful that the puritan ideals of some are not forced defacto on everyone. Because smiling would be considered obscene/kinky.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Fisting, dressed as a pirate.

I told you I'm not doing that again until I get my watch back."

Yes when you said you were interested in time travel. I have to admit passing a watch was the furthest thing from my mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

suppose its more a word for the carry on generations lol...dirty is a better word...unless its a physical description of a manky fucking twat/twatette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what someone considers normal another may consider kinky as they have never consdered this before therefore pushing their own boundaries.

So whats Kinky is relative to the individual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what is kinky?"

Defining Kinky is easy, it's basically any sexual practice that deviates from the 'norm'.

What's much harder to define is the norm, everyone has a view on what the norm or starting point is, but that isn't uniform Its individual and always changing.

Answering your opening question is very difficult because your level of kinkiness probably over time becomes your norm and therefore no longer kinky.

So my answer to 'how kinky are you?' is I don't think I am, but you may beg to differ!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Fisting, dressed as a pirate."

with a hook!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i told you....would have to kill you..

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Fisting, dressed as a pirate.

with a hook! "

Kinky biatch!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Hate the word,like fetish it is totally subjective and differs so much from person to person that it is meaningless.

i for example have found out in the past 24 hours that something i do because i love Sirs cock so much,is considered disgusting by many!i never even considered it kinky

Then there is the fact that many would try something in the heat of the moment that they normally consider to be a step too far.So catch all terms are useless,and why i tend to avoid profiles that use kinky to describe their sexual tastes.Interestingly they tend to be the most nilla of men too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If i told you....would have to kill you.."


"If i told you....would have to kill you.."

by sex?- ok.. i'm game

sorry but a muff-asphyxiation is preferable to a plastic bag.Thanks

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"Hate the word,like fetish .... "

I don't mind the word fetish. I understand what a fetish is... even if most of the people who type it don't.

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I ask the question as I am starting to believe ‘kinky’ is a word used a lot by people who have or are use to fairly dull unimaginative or restricted sex lives.

It's a word which keeps cropping up in messages and it's really starting to put me off the people using it.

A number of times I have found myself replying.... if you think that is kinky then sorry but you are not a potential playmate for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Some people think kinky is just having a profile on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If i told you....would have to kill you..

If i told you....would have to kill you..

by sex?- ok.. i'm game

sorry but a muff-asphyxiation is preferable to a plastic bag.Thanks"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people think what Sassy does with wasabi paste is kinky.

I just like to think she's warming their cockles.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

Oh not at all... Im almost nunlike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh not at all... Im almost nunlike "

mmmMMMm kinky nuns...think i know where i wanna shove my crucifixes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what is kinky?"

Its a 5 letter word that rhymes with lots of other words.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Subjective, one persons kink is another persons norm.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


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I ask the question as I am starting to believe ‘kinky’ is a word used a lot by people who have or are use to fairly dull unimaginative or restricted sex lives.

It's a word which keeps cropping up in messages and it's really starting to put me off the people using it.

A number of times I have found myself replying.... if you think that is kinky then sorry but you are not a potential playmate for me."

i quite agree,there seems to be an inverse correlation between describing yourself as kinky and actually being openminded or wanting to push boundaries.

Re your comment about fetish,it is the fact most people do not use it correctly ,it is not a byword for BDSM or being into pvc .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not kinky enough unfortunately xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any tips lol? Xx

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"Any tips lol? Xx "

I thought being a plumber, you'd know about putting kinks in things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any tips lol? Xx

I thought being a plumber, you'd know about putting kinks in things "

Lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am extremely kinky and love things that push the boundaries. I'll pretty much do anything cept poo stuff.

Bondage is my favourite though, as there is nothing sexier than a woman tied up and at the discretion of my mercy.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i always turn the question on them if they ask me how kinky i am, asking them what they think is kinky.

i mainly do this incase they are the type who thinks me sucking their balls is kinky and i barge in telling them i have a strap on and like fucking mens bums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

positively frizzy and relate it to a need for the novel.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I am extremely kinky and love things that push the boundaries. I'll pretty much do anything cept poo stuff.

Bondage is my favourite though, as there is nothing sexier than a woman tied up and at the discretion of my mercy."

You see i dont think bondage is kinky at all,which is why it is a meaningless word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ime very kinky in as many ways as i can be shurley you must have all played dont move sex where you lie blindfolded on the bed either face up or face down and then the other person or persons can do with you what they wish but you mustn't move or your turn is over good party game and hours of fun

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

if your fetish,is not my fetish,your kinky.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Its never kinky if you like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its never kinky if you like it

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I reckons you are kinky xx

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Its never kinky if you like it

I reckons you are kinky xx"

I reckons you like it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its never kinky if you like it

I reckons you are kinky xx

I reckons you like it xx"

How very dare you !!!!!!!!!! im a good christian boy I am

Its only rumour that i like to stand naked in a field in the pouring rain with pegs on me nipples and a broom handle up me ass singing yankee doodle dandy xx

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By *he_original_polo OP   Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Just checking my baby is OK. Surprised to see it on the front page.... I thought it would have been taken into care by now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just checking my baby is OK. Surprised to see it on the front page.... I thought it would have been taken into care by now."

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Just checking my baby is OK. Surprised to see it on the front page.... I thought it would have been taken into care by now."

Bloody social workers....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has already been said what my kinky is may be normal to someone else.

I am a HUGE fan of a website called kink.com now my friends who really "know" me would considered that website to be very kinky but for me some of the stuff on there is the norm to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was recently chatting with a chap i've known for a while now when he asked "whats the kinkiest thing you've done? i bet your really kinky" well i'm not a fan of the term as has been said previously one persons kink is another persons norm and i would normally brush off such a question but as i know him quite well i thought what the hell an wracked my brain for something i thought he might think rather kinky that i had actually done, as i rattled off my tale of kinkieness i watched him go quite pale so as i finished i decided to ask what was the kinkiest thing he had done he replied "i just like dirty talk really"

poor fella don't think he wants to play no more

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"i was recently chatting with a chap i've known for a while now when he asked "whats the kinkiest thing you've done? i bet your really kinky" well i'm not a fan of the term as has been said previously one persons kink is another persons norm and i would normally brush off such a question but as i know him quite well i thought what the hell an wracked my brain for something i thought he might think rather kinky that i had actually done, as i rattled off my tale of kinkieness i watched him go quite pale so as i finished i decided to ask what was the kinkiest thing he had done he replied "i just like dirty talk really"

poor fella don't think he wants to play no more "

this is why its best to find out what they think is kinky before you say a word

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"i was recently chatting with a chap i've known for a while now when he asked "whats the kinkiest thing you've done? i bet your really kinky" well i'm not a fan of the term as has been said previously one persons kink is another persons norm and i would normally brush off such a question but as i know him quite well i thought what the hell an wracked my brain for something i thought he might think rather kinky that i had actually done, as i rattled off my tale of kinkieness i watched him go quite pale so as i finished i decided to ask what was the kinkiest thing he had done he replied "i just like dirty talk really"

poor fella don't think he wants to play no more "

That is fab...you have made my morning!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i was recently chatting with a chap i've known for a while now when he asked "whats the kinkiest thing you've done? i bet your really kinky" well i'm not a fan of the term as has been said previously one persons kink is another persons norm and i would normally brush off such a question but as i know him quite well i thought what the hell an wracked my brain for something i thought he might think rather kinky that i had actually done, as i rattled off my tale of kinkieness i watched him go quite pale so as i finished i decided to ask what was the kinkiest thing he had done he replied "i just like dirty talk really"

poor fella don't think he wants to play no more

this is why its best to find out what they think is kinky before you say a word"

yep this is why i always used to brush aside such a question and will again in the future, although it was quite funnt watching his reaction i'm sure i saw a cold sweat break out on his brow

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By *ickens CiderMan
over a year ago

taunton

Some might say a group of guys stood round the action in a club wanking under their towels is kinky is the scene kinky the individuals kinky or each kinky for being there in the first place... are the ones being watched kinky for having sex in front of a group of guys all wanking? And if all involved go to the club on a regular or semi regular basis are they then into a fetish? To some posting in the forums could be deemed kinky too?

I think I like kinky as a term for a style as in kinky boots for example and not relating to a persons sense of fun or interest in a certain forme of activity... a regular enjoyment of such an activity might just be better refered to as a fetish and in that context a fetish need not be kinky in style... a love of pizza for supper ever night is equally a fetish as is say having sex each and every time while usinga condom? is the use a fetish or the wearing of said condom kinky? who knows... who cares... each to their own liking... I think both words are for those that don't understand or are baffled by other peoples sense of fun and passion to live life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if anyone read any of my BDSM stories they'd def think I was kinky lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all subjective isn't it?

my username comes from my nickname in work,an eastern european friend was trying to call me a milf but called me a minky.... mum + kinky and it stuck.

the reason? because I mentioned that I love anal sex.

god help em if they found out what I am really into!

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By *illow_femaleWoman
over a year ago

Thetford

My friend has decided that the new Aldi add – the washing up liquid one – is kinky!

Well the guy portrayed in it is she says!

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Whips and chains

Cucumber

and Camembert

in that order

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

'Kinky' is in the eyes of the individual I think...I see it as what a person or couple feels is the ultimate or near ultimate what they will do..

Some may view giving or receiving a golden shower kinky...some may view drinking the golden shower kinky..

So may think fetish wear is kinky..

Some may view sex with the lights on is kinky..

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