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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey why is it so hard to talk to someone on here? All i seem to get is read messages :/

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Do your messages just say "hey" ?

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Story of most mens lives on here me ol mucka.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

You haven't been here long.

Welcome to the forum. Do a search on this and see what has been said on this subject before.

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe bear in mind most women will usually look at a profile before deciding to read or reply to a message

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden


"Hey why is it so hard to talk to someone on here? All i seem to get is read messages :/"

Hey. Maybe people want to see what you look like ( non face) before replying?

Who chats to a ghost except a clairvoyant?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why not show some photos?..none needs to be anything identifiable.

raise your chances somewhat higher

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I do send a photo along with each message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a look at the forum search thing buddy. There's probably a thread daily going about this very thing. Or bareback.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

Says nothing...

Backs out quietly.....

Whispers *profile*

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Have a look at the forum search thing buddy. There's probably a thread daily going about this very thing. Or bareback. "

what's bareback? is that the one with piss involved?

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By *auren001Woman
over a year ago

birmingham


"Hey why is it so hard to talk to someone on here? All i seem to get is read messages :/"

Joined 5 minutes ago, 2 line profile. Oh, your mates told you this was instashag...yawn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least they're being read

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey why is it so hard to talk to someone on here? All i seem to get is read messages :/

Joined 5 minutes ago, 2 line profile. Oh, your mates told you this was instashag...yawn "

Who said anything about instashag? Whats wrong with having a normal conversation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey why is it so hard to talk to someone on here? All i seem to get is read messages :/

Joined 5 minutes ago, 2 line profile. Oh, your mates told you this was instashag...yawn

Who said anything about instashag? Whats wrong with having a normal conversation?"

Women get lots of messages and don't get time to reply to them all. So they pick the ones that stand out and reply to those. It's nothing personal.

As for Instashag - a lot of people only reply to those they think they might want to fuck. They don't want to waste time chatting to someone they don't fancy.

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

OK, my experience today, 3 guys arranged a meet and none turned up, that's why!!!

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By *auren001Woman
over a year ago

birmingham


"Hey why is it so hard to talk to someone on here? All i seem to get is read messages :/

Joined 5 minutes ago, 2 line profile. Oh, your mates told you this was instashag...yawn

Who said anything about instashag? Whats wrong with having a normal conversation?"

You’d have to define “normal conversation”. That’s another question entirely

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not asking for a shag! Getting to know someone, talking about hobbies/ interests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not asking for a shag! Getting to know someone, talking about hobbies/ interests"

Stick to the forums,you cant shut us up on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As has already been said, women get 100s of messages and day on here. To get a response you need to stand out.

I can only assume either your messages aren't interesting enough or that people are put off by the lack of public pics on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not asking for a shag! Getting to know someone, talking about hobbies/ interests

Stick to the forums,you cant shut us up on here. "

Very true!

The forums are a great way to get to know other fabbers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do send a photo along with each message"

well earlier you didnt even have an avatar pic up lol...so the person would have seen that usual silhouette and probably discarded it.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Have a look at the forum search thing buddy. There's probably a thread daily going about this very thing. Or bareback.

what's bareback? is that the one with piss involved? "

That's squirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a look at the forum search thing buddy. There's probably a thread daily going about this very thing. Or bareback.

what's bareback? is that the one with piss involved?

That's squirting "

Just do bareback squirting, with a beard or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah but i do attach a photo of myself, ive read a view profiles about people stealing photos so i wanted to be safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah but i do attach a photo of myself, ive read a view profiles about people stealing photos so i wanted to be safe"

Perhaps they just don't fancy you?

Or maybe your accompanying message is too bland or simply not of interest...

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden


"Not asking for a shag! Getting to know someone, talking about hobbies/ interests"

You got the wrong web site if that’s want you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

anyway..you have some fantastic nearby clubs(I've attended,great to mingle if you arent too shy

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3


"Yeah but i do attach a photo of myself, ive read a view profiles about people stealing photos so i wanted to be safe"

Your profile is your shop window. I look at the profile before I even open the message..if its bare and no effort made then I probably wouldn't even open the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not asking for a shag! Getting to know someone, talking about hobbies/ interests

You got the wrong web site if that’s want you want "

I'd have to disagree...I've made some great purely platonic friends through fab. Not what I'm here for but has happened none the less

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just thought it may be polite to get to know someone first . . Instead of just saying aye fancy a shag aha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just thought it may be polite to get to know someone first . . Instead of just saying aye fancy a shag aha"

Typically, what do you say in a first message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe everyone is sleeping

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By *ig9incherforuMan
over a year ago

Welwyn


"OK, my experience today, 3 guys arranged a meet and none turned up, that's why!!!"

That's pretty shocking

I read alot of that

Why??

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By *ANDA2Couple
over a year ago

Henley Arden


"Not asking for a shag! Getting to know someone, talking about hobbies/ interests

You got the wrong web site if that’s want you want

I'd have to disagree...I've made some great purely platonic friends through fab. Not what I'm here for but has happened none the less "

We too have made excellent friends.

But as you say it’s not what Fab is for. Friends are a consequence or bi product of meeting in Fab. It’s not the prime motivation

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By *auren001Woman
over a year ago

birmingham


"Not asking for a shag! Getting to know someone, talking about hobbies/ interests

You got the wrong web site if that’s want you want

I'd have to disagree...I've made some great purely platonic friends through fab. Not what I'm here for but has happened none the less

We too have made excellent friends.

But as you say it’s not what Fab is for. Friends are a consequence or bi product of meeting in Fab. It’s not the prime motivation "

Exactly, I have made some great friends, a select few that I speak to regularly outside of here, I’ve met their kids and all sorts but that has been a bi product. Not what fab was the prime motivation for.

Back to the OP, it ain’t Oprah honey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just thought it may be polite to get to know someone first . . Instead of just saying aye fancy a shag aha"

It's a brilliant question. Wish I knew the answer.

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