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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am usually polite and turn ppl down rather than ignore. but lately I'm finding more guys that demand to know why. one even said he was entitled to know.

such a shame some guys are so rude

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By *uicybum62Woman
over a year ago

leeds

yea there his sone very rude guys on here call us girls names

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree. i say no than you but good luck..then get questioned for it then get called names...i know the guy's say they have a hard time but it's very frustrating a lot of the times..polite block or fuck off....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very sad that men resort to that behaviour. It must really piss yous off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am usually polite and turn ppl down rather than ignore. but lately I'm finding more guys that demand to know why. one even said he was entitled to know.

such a shame some guys are so rude"

What do you say when you turn them down?

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Been here since about 2005/06 as a single female til 4 years ago, have always replied to ALL messages, have no filters applied and have never had this problem... Im going to whinge about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easily sorted

If they're rude after you've said no thank you. Block them

I would say 98% of the men I've said no thank you to have been very polite and mostly astonished that they even got a response x

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By *ucy83SOWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I don’t even bother replying now, if I’m nit interested I just block abs delete.

I realise this could be seen as rude and when I was here previously I replied to every message I got however the constant abuse & questions as to my decision was one if the things that drove me off the site last time.

So I made the decision to use the site this way and it’s so much more relaxing.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a rude response to one of my 'thanks but not for me' replies earlier

I just blocked him but the majority just say thanks for the reply

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"i agree. i say no than you but good luck..then get questioned for it then get called names...i know the guy's say they have a hard time but it's very frustrating a lot of the times..polite block or fuck off...."

You do not need to explain yourself to them, you said no so why explain. Say no then block them so no chance to challenge your decision.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I had a rude response to one of my 'thanks but not for me' replies earlier

I just blocked him but the majority just say thanks for the reply "

Then they try to get you to change your mind by being kind....numpties!

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"Easily sorted

If they're rude after you've said no thank you. Block them

I would say 98% of the men I've said no thank you to have been very polite and mostly astonished that they even got a response x"

Exactly what I’m like. Always send a nice polite message and rarely get responses. If someone sends a polite response saying thanks and wishing me the best I’ll normally reply again to thank them and wish them the best. If I just get a “no thanks” then I’ll just carry on. Have at times had the “fuck off” and “ugly twat” etc responses. More than likely the fake women doing that though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Respect and politeness costs nothing, in any walk of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Easily sorted

If they're rude after you've said no thank you. Block them

I would say 98% of the men I've said no thank you to have been very polite and mostly astonished that they even got a response x"

I can vouch for that, you turned me down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a rude response to one of my 'thanks but not for me' replies earlier

I just blocked him but the majority just say thanks for the reply

Then they try to get you to change your mind by being kind....numpties! "

There's no pleasing you is there?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am usually polite and turn ppl down rather than ignore. but lately I'm finding more guys that demand to know why. one even said he was entitled to know.

such a shame some guys are so rude

What do you say when you turn them down? "

thanks but not my type.

it's polite and honest

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I always reply with politeness and respect - I really don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. We haven't (as yet) received a butt hurt response.

I've probably jinxed us now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a no problem and thanks for getting back to me all the same auto response lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only offers iv had are the ones I received before I found the " block single guys button" the begging got quite desperate so I ended up blocking him, apart from that I've had a couple who wanted me to host but I was Abit dubious due to crazy shit happening in the past, and an unverified and not even photo verified couples profile which I suspect was probably just a bloke trying his luck, so not much experience in the matter to be fair

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere

Actually had one the other week riley saying she didn’t fancy me, so did tbe normal ‘thanks for reply and good luck” reply and thought nothing of it. Few days later she started messaging again and got chatting and may well end up meeting. Funny old world lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am usually polite and turn ppl down rather than ignore. but lately I'm finding more guys that demand to know why. one even said he was entitled to know.

such a shame some guys are so rude

What do you say when you turn them down?

thanks but not my type.

it's polite and honest "

Yes it's polite and clear.

If they ask why I usually don't reply again. Sometimes if they keep asking I say sorry I already said no and there's no way I'd ever meet a man that can't take "no" for an answer.

If they are abusive report them.

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By *airyfatmanMan
over a year ago

by 'ere


"I am usually polite and turn ppl down rather than ignore. but lately I'm finding more guys that demand to know why. one even said he was entitled to know.

such a shame some guys are so rude

What do you say when you turn them down?

thanks but not my type.

it's polite and honest

Yes it's polite and clear.

If they ask why I usually don't reply again. Sometimes if they keep asking I say sorry I already said no and there's no way I'd ever meet a man that can't take "no" for an answer.

If they are abusive report them. "

Makes you wander how up themselves they are that they really have to ask why and can’t take no for an answer.

Before parting ways with my FB the profile showed no single guys unless bi. Had a mesage from a straight guy trying to get her to meet alone (standard) and didn’t know who was replying. When said unless bi it was a no he replied with something like “but I’m a fireman and vwe and be much better than your current fuck” not knowing it was me obviously. He wouldn’t take no for an answer and seemed genuinely shocked we had said no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys, women, couples... There's not many folk that take a knock back well.

It just happens that there are a helluvva lot more men than anyone else on here!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I had a rude response to one of my 'thanks but not for me' replies earlier

I just blocked him but the majority just say thanks for the reply

Then they try to get you to change your mind by being kind....numpties!

There's no pleasing you is there? "

What moi? What you saying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a rude response to one of my 'thanks but not for me' replies earlier

I just blocked him but the majority just say thanks for the reply

Then they try to get you to change your mind by being kind....numpties!

There's no pleasing you is there?

What moi? What you saying? "

You know what I'm saying you. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am usually polite and turn ppl down rather than ignore. but lately I'm finding more guys that demand to know why. one even said he was entitled to know.

such a shame some guys are so rude

What do you say when you turn them down?

thanks but not my type.

it's polite and honest

Yes it's polite and clear.

If they ask why I usually don't reply again. Sometimes if they keep asking I say sorry I already said no and there's no way I'd ever meet a man that can't take "no" for an answer.

If they are abusive report them.

Makes you wander how up themselves they are that they really have to ask why and can’t take no for an answer.

Before parting ways with my FB the profile showed no single guys unless bi. Had a mesage from a straight guy trying to get her to meet alone (standard) and didn’t know who was replying. When said unless bi it was a no he replied with something like “but I’m a fireman and vwe and be much better than your current fuck” not knowing it was me obviously. He wouldn’t take no for an answer and seemed genuinely shocked we had said no"

I don't think they're up themselves. I think many genuinely believe that it's a fuck site. They can't understand why someone would say no when they're offering to fuck them. Others are just so pleased they got a reply they're desperate to try and be nice and find a way to change the person's mind.

I don't think it's always intended in a bad way. If I sent loads of messages and most got no response I'd possibly try and 'negotiate' when I did get a reply.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I had a rude response to one of my 'thanks but not for me' replies earlier

I just blocked him but the majority just say thanks for the reply

Then they try to get you to change your mind by being kind....numpties!

There's no pleasing you is there?

What moi? What you saying?

You know what I'm saying you. X "

I don’t know.....she says fluttering thick dark eyelashes at him

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Tell them to piss off.

Not really mods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys, women, couples... There's not many folk that take a knock back well.

It just happens that there are a helluvva lot more men than anyone else on here! "

I’m an expert at taking knock backs

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