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"So one thing I've noticed from going to swingers clubs is how fucking awesome the women often look at varying ages from 20s through to late 50s and sometimes older. I've certainly upped my beauty regime since swinging!! So what tricks of the trade do you beautiful lot use and swear by?! My long standing things are: Derma roller (looks like torture instrument with needles) has kept lines at bay for years now. Recent find: suction cups for cellulite... AMAZING!!! genuinely works a treat Fake tan. Obvs... And endless scrubbing" Whatever you've been doing it's definitely working   | |||
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"Mines not very complicated but always take my make up off. Invest in a good face moisturiser and smile. Smiling makes anyone look better " Smiling and laughing are great ones!!xx | |||
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"So one thing I've noticed from going to swingers clubs is how fucking awesome the women often look at varying ages from 20s through to late 50s and sometimes older. I've certainly upped my beauty regime since swinging!! So what tricks of the trade do you beautiful lot use and swear by?! My long standing things are: Derma roller (looks like torture instrument with needles) has kept lines at bay for years now. Recent find: suction cups for cellulite... AMAZING!!! genuinely works a treat Fake tan. Obvs... And endless scrubbing Whatever you've been doing it's definitely working "Why thank you!!   | |||
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"I've never really been bothered with expensive or time consuming beautifying rituals. I started using a daycream a couple of years ago and I get my roots and hair dyed by a hairdresser rather than doing it myself every couple of months but that's about it for a beauty regime. Other than daily body lotion on my upper arms because I have keratosis pilaris there. " I use a really good salt scrub for that plus cut of sugar and wheat for a while and its all totally gone. Had it for as long as I can remember xx | |||
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"Eat healthy when you can Exercise Face cleanse at night, Moisturise daily Positivity OP you do look great (am going to check out the derma roller you mention) "You look phenomenal! I've used a derma roller since it was a thing Angelina Jolie apparently used 10 years ago. Really works. I use it prob a couple times a month now. I love finding new beauty tricks. Such as readinh once about strippers using hemorrhoid cream on spots!! Diet and exercise play a big role but genes definitely help. I've got a naturally very round face but I'm careful not to let my weight fluctuate up and down too much. Playa havoc with boobs and jaw lines otherwise!! | |||
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"Sit in a dark corner or wear kinky boots to detract people from your face. That's my tricks " Lol my fella was very disappointed to see me in daylight lol... He thought I was much younger in the club he first saw me at!! Cheeky bastard | |||
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"Good genes, good hairdresser, fresh air, exercise. Moisturiser can be the cheapest as long as you use sunscreen." I've always cut my own hair as have a really fear of hairdressers... But I do get hair envy of those with long glossy tresses! I recently discovered Arbonne products... Only got their eye cream as so expensive but made a big difference. I just stick to olay radience moisturiser though for rest of face as suits my skin xx | |||
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"Take make up off in evening. Fake lashes! Suction cups? Tell me more! " Well... They're bloody amazing. Just a domed rubber cup that looks like something you'd get with your laundry detergent... Cover your thighs in baby oil or moisturiser suction on and then massage in big circles. Hurts like fuck to start with so go gently. You'll see a difference in a couple of days. I just do 5 mins a day if I remember xx | |||
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"No, cum makes the skin super smooth, comment yet   "And there it is!!!!! Don't forget to eat pineapple to taste super sweet... Works for boys and girls | |||
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"Good genes, good hairdresser, fresh air, exercise. Moisturiser can be the cheapest as long as you use sunscreen. I've always cut my own hair as have a really fear of hairdressers... But I do get hair envy of those with long glossy tresses! I recently discovered Arbonne products... Only got their eye cream as so expensive but made a big difference. I just stick to olay radience moisturiser though for rest of face as suits my skin xx" just don't get suckered into their 'business opportunity' shit, quickest way in the world to lose friends and family! | |||
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"I don’t think I have ever particularly invested in myself through good self care (whether consistently committing to a beauty or fitness regime), predominantly due to low self esteem and often thinking there were other things that took priority. No more! Bookmarking this thread for good tips, thanks OP!! "Oh Darling you must indulge. Bring out your goddess vibe. Seriously indulge in your body ... Love it and cherish it. Most of all be the goddess you are xx | |||
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"I don’t think I have ever particularly invested in myself through good self care (whether consistently committing to a beauty or fitness regime), predominantly due to low self esteem and often thinking there were other things that took priority. No more! Bookmarking this thread for good tips, thanks OP!!
Oh Darling you must indulge. Bring out your goddess vibe. Seriously indulge in your body ... Love it and cherish it. Most of all be the goddess you are xx" | |||
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"Good genes, good hairdresser, fresh air, exercise. Moisturiser can be the cheapest as long as you use sunscreen. I've always cut my own hair as have a really fear of hairdressers... But I do get hair envy of those with long glossy tresses! I recently discovered Arbonne products... Only got their eye cream as so expensive but made a big difference. I just stick to olay radience moisturiser though for rest of face as suits my skin xx just don't get suckered into their 'business opportunity' shit, quickest way in the world to lose friends and family!" Oh god no I can't be arsed with any of that (got a die hard rep in the family!!!) | |||
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"Sit in a dark corner or wear kinky boots to detract people from your face. That's my tricks Lol my fella was very disappointed to see me in daylight lol... He thought I was much younger in the club he first saw me at!! Cheeky bastard" The trick is only meet people in club's, then they never see you in daylight | |||
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"Good genes, good hairdresser, fresh air, exercise. Moisturiser can be the cheapest as long as you use sunscreen. I've always cut my own hair as have a really fear of hairdressers... But I do get hair envy of those with long glossy tresses! I recently discovered Arbonne products... Only got their eye cream as so expensive but made a big difference. I just stick to olay radience moisturiser though for rest of face as suits my skin xx" I use Aldi moisturiser on my face and a body lotion on the rest of my body. I avoid using anything on my nose and forehead as it's so greasy. I use a hair mask treatment every time I wash my hair try not to wash it more than once a week, twice if I really have to. My father has always looked about 20 years younger than his age and has never used anything but soap on his face . His mother who also looked very young used glycerine and rose water on her face and when her kids were little would wipe their wet nappy on her face. I saw a therapist recommending using your own urine on telly the other day too. I think I'll pass | |||
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"Good genes, good hairdresser, fresh air, exercise. Moisturiser can be the cheapest as long as you use sunscreen. I've always cut my own hair as have a really fear of hairdressers... But I do get hair envy of those with long glossy tresses! I recently discovered Arbonne products... Only got their eye cream as so expensive but made a big difference. I just stick to olay radience moisturiser though for rest of face as suits my skin xx just don't get suckered into their 'business opportunity' shit, quickest way in the world to lose friends and family! Oh god no I can't be arsed with any of that (got a die hard rep in the family!!!) " ha! yes,got one here too! can't be doing with their almost religious fervour, and spouting of utter bollocks! | |||
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"Take make up off in evening. Fake lashes! Suction cups? Tell me more! Well... They're bloody amazing. Just a domed rubber cup that looks like something you'd get with your laundry detergent... Cover your thighs in baby oil or moisturiser suction on and then massage in big circles. Hurts like fuck to start with so go gently. You'll see a difference in a couple of days. I just do 5 mins a day if I remember xx" | |||
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"Sit in a dark corner or wear kinky boots to detract people from your face. That's my tricks Lol my fella was very disappointed to see me in daylight lol... He thought I was much younger in the club he first saw me at!! Cheeky bastard The trick is only meet people in club's, then they never see you in daylight "and stick to an always -flattering candle light at home! | |||
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"I don't really do much, I wash my face in the shower/bath, use moisteriser if I think I need to. I don't pluck or wax anything but I shave everything from the waist down every day. That is pretty much it for me, I'm no major beauty but think I look ok for almost 46. "You look frigging awesome!! | |||
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"Good genes, good hairdresser, fresh air, exercise. Moisturiser can be the cheapest as long as you use sunscreen. I've always cut my own hair as have a really fear of hairdressers... But I do get hair envy of those with long glossy tresses! I recently discovered Arbonne products... Only got their eye cream as so expensive but made a big difference. I just stick to olay radience moisturiser though for rest of face as suits my skin xx" I cut my own hair too.....and my son is even a hairdresser! Never found a decent stylist for natural curls  | |||
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"Sit in a dark corner or wear kinky boots to detract people from your face. That's my tricks Lol my fella was very disappointed to see me in daylight lol... He thought I was much younger in the club he first saw me at!! Cheeky bastard The trick is only meet people in club's, then they never see you in daylight
and stick to an always -flattering candle light at home!"Yes... Candles only.. And never be seen in daylight!!! Xx | |||
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"Sit in a dark corner or wear kinky boots to detract people from your face. That's my tricks " This for me too. | |||
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"I don't really do much, I wash my face in the shower/bath, use moisteriser if I think I need to. I don't pluck or wax anything but I shave everything from the waist down every day. That is pretty much it for me, I'm no major beauty but think I look ok for almost 46.
You look frigging awesome!!"Blimey! As do you lady!! | |||
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"Moisturiser Tinted BB cream Eyeshadow Blusher Lip salve Mascara (rarely - it always runs on me!!!) Perfume That’s as glam as i get these days. " Bourjois clubbing mascara or waterproof miss baby roll by l'oreal both stick like glue and max out my fine pale lashes. Also Revlon colourstay eyeliner is the only one I've found stays put all night (once a raver always a raver) | |||
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"Not sure its a secret but exercise and food are my leapon of chose. I use natural oils on my face and baby oil on my body. Drink upto 7 pints of water per day "I need to drink more water! I notice a huge difference in my skin when I do. I too love natural oils for face and hair! Xx | |||
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"I wish I had the time money and energy to invest in beautifying myself beyond moisturizing. " Sea salt scrub in baby oil is mega and ultra cheap. I promise you I understand being completely skint... Single parent for nearly 18 years and in low paid sector for many of those xx | |||
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"Good genes, good hairdresser, fresh air, exercise. Moisturiser can be the cheapest as long as you use sunscreen. I've always cut my own hair as have a really fear of hairdressers... But I do get hair envy of those with long glossy tresses! I recently discovered Arbonne products... Only got their eye cream as so expensive but made a big difference. I just stick to olay radience moisturiser though for rest of face as suits my skin xx just don't get suckered into their 'business opportunity' shit, quickest way in the world to lose friends and family! Oh god no I can't be arsed with any of that (got a die hard rep in the family!!!) ha! yes,got one here too! can't be doing with their almost religious fervour, and spouting of utter bollocks!" I'm avoiding their diet regime for those reasons. Its pretty hardcore!!xx | |||
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"So one thing I've noticed from going to swingers clubs is how fucking awesome the women often look at varying ages from 20s through to late 50s and sometimes older. I've certainly upped my beauty regime since swinging!! So what tricks of the trade do you beautiful lot use and swear by?! My long standing things are: Derma roller (looks like torture instrument with needles) has kept lines at bay for years now. Recent find: suction cups for cellulite... AMAZING!!! genuinely works a treat Fake tan. Obvs... And endless scrubbing" I’d never even heard of a derma roller! Are they any good? Do they actually reduce wrinkles?
I’ve always looked after my skin so It’s in reasonable shape for my age - but it’s very sensitive so every (often expensive) anti-wrinkle product I’ve tried has made my skin dry and patchy!
Can anyone who knows about them recommend a good (but not too expensive) one suitable for a middle aged woman?
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"So one thing I've noticed from going to swingers clubs is how fucking awesome the women often look at varying ages from 20s through to late 50s and sometimes older. I've certainly upped my beauty regime since swinging!! So what tricks of the trade do you beautiful lot use and swear by?! My long standing things are: Derma roller (looks like torture instrument with needles) has kept lines at bay for years now. Recent find: suction cups for cellulite... AMAZING!!! genuinely works a treat Fake tan. Obvs... And endless scrubbing I’d never even heard of a derma roller! Are they any good? Do they actually reduce wrinkles?
I’ve always looked after my skin so It’s in reasonable shape for my age - but it’s very sensitive so every (often expensive) anti-wrinkle product I’ve tried has made my skin dry and patchy!
Can anyone who knows about them recommend a good (but not too expensive) one suitable for a middle aged woman?
I’d be most grateful! "Yes they reduce wrinkles! I literally have only the faintest lines and my skin tone really good. The tiny needles cause minute pin pricks to the skin which boosts collagen production as the skin heals. You won't see any damage although I always do mid week especially on my neck in case it looks red afterwards. You only need to gently roll it across skin a few times. I use round edges of my eyes, forehead plus neck and décolletage. Good for scarred areas too such as stretch marks. Try a rosehip oil by Neal's yard for your skin. Super boosted with antioxidants and ultra gentle. They work a treat for sensitive skin... I used to get ultra flushed and still have to be really careful sometimes xx | |||
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"So one thing I've noticed from going to swingers clubs is how fucking awesome the women often look at varying ages from 20s through to late 50s and sometimes older. I've certainly upped my beauty regime since swinging!! So what tricks of the trade do you beautiful lot use and swear by?! My long standing things are: Derma roller (looks like torture instrument with needles) has kept lines at bay for years now. Recent find: suction cups for cellulite... AMAZING!!! genuinely works a treat Fake tan. Obvs... And endless scrubbing I’d never even heard of a derma roller! Are they any good? Do they actually reduce wrinkles?
I’ve always looked after my skin so It’s in reasonable shape for my age - but it’s very sensitive so every (often expensive) anti-wrinkle product I’ve tried has made my skin dry and patchy!
Can anyone who knows about them recommend a good (but not too expensive) one suitable for a middle aged woman?
I’d be most grateful!
Yes they reduce wrinkles! I literally have only the faintest lines and my skin tone really good. The tiny needles cause minute pin pricks to the skin which boosts collagen production as the skin heals. You won't see any damage although I always do mid week especially on my neck in case it looks red afterwards. You only need to gently roll it across skin a few times. I use round edges of my eyes, forehead plus neck and décolletage. Good for scarred areas too such as stretch marks.
Try a rosehip oil by Neal's yard for your skin. Super boosted with antioxidants and ultra gentle. They work a treat for sensitive skin... I used to get ultra flushed and still have to be really careful sometimes xx
"Thanks - other than early stage wrinkles I have really good skin. I’ve googled derma rollers and I think one would be ideal for me! I’d be most grateful if you could pm me with details of where you got yours and how much you paid for it? Or post it on here of course! At the moment my wrinkles are just round my eye and mouth area - but - if they work as well as the reviews claim - I love the idea of firming up my whole facial area! | |||
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"So one thing I've noticed from going to swingers clubs is how fucking awesome the women often look at varying ages from 20s through to late 50s and sometimes older. I've certainly upped my beauty regime since swinging!! So what tricks of the trade do you beautiful lot use and swear by?! My long standing things are: Derma roller (looks like torture instrument with needles) has kept lines at bay for years now. Recent find: suction cups for cellulite... AMAZING!!! genuinely works a treat Fake tan. Obvs... And endless scrubbing I’d never even heard of a derma roller! Are they any good? Do they actually reduce wrinkles?
I’ve always looked after my skin so It’s in reasonable shape for my age - but it’s very sensitive so every (often expensive) anti-wrinkle product I’ve tried has made my skin dry and patchy!
Can anyone who knows about them recommend a good (but not too expensive) one suitable for a middle aged woman?
I’d be most grateful!
Yes they reduce wrinkles! I literally have only the faintest lines and my skin tone really good. The tiny needles cause minute pin pricks to the skin which boosts collagen production as the skin heals. You won't see any damage although I always do mid week especially on my neck in case it looks red afterwards. You only need to gently roll it across skin a few times. I use round edges of my eyes, forehead plus neck and décolletage. Good for scarred areas too such as stretch marks.
Try a rosehip oil by Neal's yard for your skin. Super boosted with antioxidants and ultra gentle. They work a treat for sensitive skin... I used to get ultra flushed and still have to be really careful sometimes xx
Thanks - other than early stage wrinkles I have really good skin. I’ve googled derma rollers and I think one would be ideal for me!
I’d be most grateful if you could pm me with details of where you got yours and how much you paid for it? Or post it on here of course!
At the moment my wrinkles are just round my eye and mouth area - but - if they work as well as the reviews claim - I love the idea of firming up my whole facial area! "Mines an unbranded one off eBay... Two different heads with 1mm and 1.5mm needles... I'm on my third one as I feel after a while the needles not as sharp (They're teeny surgical ones) but that's in 10 years! Definitely helps with skin tone... You can use them all over and get wide heads for using on the body xx | |||
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"Not sure its a secret but exercise and food are my leapon of chose. I use natural oils on my face and baby oil on my body. Drink upto 7 pints of water per day
I need to drink more water! I notice a huge difference in my skin when I do. I too love natural oils for face and hair! Xx"Yes and water is free. I forgot to mention sunscreen every morning everyday factor 50. | |||
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"Hello ladies...and some gents on this post. My first time posting! Huge fan of coconut oil here for everything I have to say. Definitely going to look into the dermaroller now. Any brand recommendations? " Do you use coconut oil on your face? | |||
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"Hello ladies...and some gents on this post. My first time posting! Huge fan of coconut oil here for everything I have to say. Definitely going to look into the dermaroller now. Any brand recommendations? " Mines always just been an unbranded one off eBay! Happy forum posting! Xx | |||
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"So one thing I've noticed from going to swingers clubs is how fucking awesome the women often look at varying ages from 20s through to late 50s and sometimes older. I've certainly upped my beauty regime since swinging!! So what tricks of the trade do you beautiful lot use and swear by?! My long standing things are: Derma roller (looks like torture instrument with needles) has kept lines at bay for years now. Recent find: suction cups for cellulite... AMAZING!!! genuinely works a treat Fake tan. Obvs... And endless scrubbing" Derma roller is fab Microdermabrasion I couldn't live without now. Microblading I haven't tried but can take 5 years off. Tan I have to give first place to tho. Can change an outfit and a smile instantly x | |||
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Made me chuckle as I know it only too well
Even as a bloke I’ve found since being active on fab I’ve become a lot more conscious about exercising and diet. Though I still probably drink too much wine. | |||
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"Thanks..do you use them with any product? " I tend not too.. Although will use a face oil afterwards as more gentle on my skin. | |||
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"Just ordered one...can’t wait to try! Thanks all x" Yay! Go gently to start with. Just a few backwards forwards sweeps in problem areas | |||
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"Just ordered one...can’t wait to try! Thanks all x Yay! Go gently to start with. Just a few backwards forwards sweeps in problem areas "
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