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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There is a serious lack of girls of my age on fab.. do young women don't like exploring their sexual desires?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, young women hate it

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"There is a serious lack of girls of my age on fab.. do young women don't like exploring their sexual desires? "

Do you mean women your age?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sits back and waits for the fallout

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nah, young women hate it "

Lol, I know you are being scarastic!!

Silly way to put it, of course they like it but what I meant was "where are they"??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're busy exploring them with hot people they meet in bars. It's just us oldies who can't hear well in bars that need an online meeting place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i was your age i was getting more than enough sex in the real world.. maybe they are too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There is a serious lack of girls of my age on fab.. do young women don't like exploring their sexual desires?

Do you mean women your age? "

Yes, grammar police " women my age"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nah, young women hate it

Lol, I know you are being scarastic!!

Silly way to put it, of course they like it but what I meant was "where are they"??"

They’re up in Scotland, chilling with me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They're busy exploring them with hot people they meet in bars. It's just us oldies who can't hear well in bars that need an online meeting place."

That can't be right, as you can't arrange a MFM in a bar lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When i was your age i was getting more than enough sex in the real world.. maybe they are too"

Real world? Does such a place exist?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When i was your age i was getting more than enough sex in the real world.. maybe they are too"

I said exploring sexual desires not having plain sex.. you can't explore your fantasies with people in bars.

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull


"They're busy exploring them with hot people they meet in bars. It's just us oldies who can't hear well in bars that need an online meeting place.

That can't be right, as you can't arrange a MFM in a bar lol

"

Depends on what bars you're going to and how good your game is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When i was your age i was getting more than enough sex in the real world.. maybe they are too

Real world? Does such a place exist? "

Well it used to... not too sure how it works nowadays

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"There is a serious lack of girls of my age on fab.. do young women don't like exploring their sexual desires?

Do you mean women your age?

Yes, grammar police " women my age""

That wasn't a grammatical error - it was your choice of vocabulary. Do you often get called a boy?

That aside - maybe women of that age are in meaningful relationships, or haven't considered swinging as they get enough sex by conventional means... who knows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're busy exploring them with hot people they meet in bars. It's just us oldies who can't hear well in bars that need an online meeting place.

That can't be right, as you can't arrange a MFM in a bar lol

"

Well now... that just isn't true...

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When i was your age i was getting more than enough sex in the real world.. maybe they are too

I said exploring sexual desires not having plain sex.. you can't explore your fantasies with people in bars."

Who said anything about plain sex?

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

There are a fair few that come to the club ... don’t look at the ladies, so not really noticed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started going to clubs at around 21/22

Never had an issue meeting with people our age. We used to regularly meet up with a group of around 6-8 people all mind 20s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when I was your age OP ideas busy bringing up 4 kids so sex was the furthest thing from my mind

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By *wansfeetCouple
over a year ago

Guisborough

Younger ladies are everywhere on fab, you just have to seek them out, however as you're aware there are an abundance of single men all looking for them

Mrs S x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There is a serious lack of girls of my age on fab.. do young women don't like exploring their sexual desires?

Do you mean women your age?

Yes, grammar police " women my age"

That wasn't a grammatical error - it was your choice of vocabulary. Do you often get called a boy?

That aside - maybe women of that age are in meaningful relationships, or haven't considered swinging as they get enough sex by conventional means... who knows?"

Plain sex is boring if you get enough.. I was specific about sexual desires i.e: fantasies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When i was your age i was getting more than enough sex in the real world.. maybe they are too

I said exploring sexual desires not having plain sex.. you can't explore your fantasies with people in bars.

Who said anything about plain sex? "

Vanilla = plain

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"There is a serious lack of girls of my age on fab.. do young women don't like exploring their sexual desires? "

They have probably seen the quality of boys on here and thought ‘nah’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When i was your age i was getting more than enough sex in the real world.. maybe they are too

I said exploring sexual desires not having plain sex.. you can't explore your fantasies with people in bars.

Who said anything about plain sex?

Vanilla = plain "

You said plain sex...

I was having bi sex and 3somes at your age ..

Most women prefer to do it than talk about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When i was your age i was getting more than enough sex in the real world.. maybe they are too

I said exploring sexual desires not having plain sex.. you can't explore your fantasies with people in bars.

Who said anything about plain sex?

Vanilla = plain

You said plain sex...

I was having bi sex and 3somes at your age ..

Most women prefer to do it than talk about it "

Imgaine if a guy mentioned a FFM in a bar lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm....I'm your age and have been on the scene 10 years.

I know loads of others of a similar age too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Erm....I'm your age and have been on the scene 10 years.

I know loads of others of a similar age too."

Yay, finally 1 after 20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm....I'm your age and have been on the scene 10 years.

I know loads of others of a similar age too.

Yay, finally 1 after 20 "

There's are plenty of us around! Most of the women I've met have been around my age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Erm?

Though meeting via fab doesn't spark my interest at the minute.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I was 25 when I joined the scene, going to clubs and parties, so if you're classing that as young, then yes they do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Erm?

Though meeting via fab doesn't spark my interest at the minute. "

Why not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm?

Though meeting via fab doesn't spark my interest at the minute.

Why not "

Cos no one sparks my interest anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, looking through my friend list there's a lady who's 28 and a couple where the lady's 29, and on my hot list there's a lady who's also 28. They all use the forums so there's definitely some around.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Erm?

Though meeting via fab doesn't spark my interest at the minute.

Why not

Cos no one sparks my interest anymore. "

Are they niche interests? There's plenty of choice available

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

are all young guys rude to ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm?

Though meeting via fab doesn't spark my interest at the minute.

Why not

Cos no one sparks my interest anymore.

Are they niche interests? There's plenty of choice available"

People that I find attractive and interesting enough to meet,and I just don't really find myself attracted to many people. So yes, it is a niche interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"are all young guys rude to ???"

Nope?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"are all young guys rude to ???"

What?!

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Also, looking through my friend list there's a lady who's 28 and a couple where the lady's 29, and on my hot list there's a lady who's also 28. They all use the forums so there's definitely some around. "

He’ll be asking for their usernames soon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm?

Though meeting via fab doesn't spark my interest at the minute.

Why not

Cos no one sparks my interest anymore. "

Like a knife being plunged into the heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also, looking through my friend list there's a lady who's 28 and a couple where the lady's 29, and on my hot list there's a lady who's also 28. They all use the forums so there's definitely some around.

He’ll be asking for their usernames soon "

I keep my cards close to my chest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm?

Though meeting via fab doesn't spark my interest at the minute.

Why not

Cos no one sparks my interest anymore.

Like a knife being plunged into the heart

"

.... aside from DPTs. Obvs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You ask for girls your age and get attacked by the other side sigh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You ask for girls your age and get attacked by the other side sigh! "

Bet if a woman put this post up there would be different responses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt call 28 that young tbh..

But perhaps most ladies that age are looking for older men .. just a thought

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"You ask for girls your age and get attacked by the other side sigh! "

OP don’t think there are any ‘girls’ on this site! Hope not anyway

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

When I was your age op (and Noah was at the helm of the ark) women who were actively exploring their sexuality were frowned upon. I don't know if it's the same now but from talking to our kids I get the feeling that it is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You ask for girls your age and get attacked by the other side sigh!

Bet if a woman put this post up there would be different responses "

Precisely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldnt call 28 that young tbh..

But perhaps most ladies that age are looking for older men .. just a thought"

Shh! I'm young!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldnt call 28 that young tbh..

But perhaps most ladies that age are looking for older men .. just a thought"

Ermmmm when I said my age I didn't mean 28 exact!

How do you manage to get by your day? Lol

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"You ask for girls your age and get attacked by the other side sigh!

Bet if a woman put this post up there would be different responses "

Not sure a woman of 28 would post a thread asking for 'boys' her age. Having said that. if a single, 28 year old woman put out an appeal for men her age, I agree she'd probably be swamped with responses - it's a numbers game though isn't it? There are far more single men on here than there are single women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You ask for girls your age and get attacked by the other side sigh!

Bet if a woman put this post up there would be different responses

Not sure a woman of 28 would post a thread asking for 'boys' her age. Having said that. if a single, 28 year old woman put out an appeal for men her age, I agree she'd probably be swamped with responses - it's a numbers game though isn't it? There are far more single men on here than there are single women."

Doesn't justify that single men can be attacked and called names..

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.


"I wouldnt call 28 that young tbh..

But perhaps most ladies that age are looking for older men .. just a thought"

Yeah, sorry OP. The women I know who are around my age and on this site tend to be looking for older men and women.

(Yvaine, you've broken my heart).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When i was your age i was getting more than enough sex in the real world.. maybe they are too

I said exploring sexual desires not having plain sex.. you can't explore your fantasies with people in bars."

You have to take them home usually , if the bars wont allow it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When i was your age i was getting more than enough sex in the real world.. maybe they are too

I said exploring sexual desires not having plain sex.. you can't explore your fantasies with people in bars.

You have to take them home usually , if the bars wont allow it "

Hi, we have just met and this is crazy.. are you into anal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When i was your age i was getting more than enough sex in the real world.. maybe they are too

I said exploring sexual desires not having plain sex.. you can't explore your fantasies with people in bars.

You have to take them home usually , if the bars wont allow it

Hi, we have just met and this is crazy.. are you into anal? "

Heres my number, so call me maybe...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When i was your age i was getting more than enough sex in the real world.. maybe they are too

I said exploring sexual desires not having plain sex.. you can't explore your fantasies with people in bars.

You have to take them home usually , if the bars wont allow it

Hi, we have just met and this is crazy.. are you into anal?

Heres my number, so call me maybe... "

Exactly, do you see the problem and why fab is an escape from the real world to explore your fantasies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm young!!! Oh shit no... I just feel young. That always confuses me.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"You ask for girls your age and get attacked by the other side sigh!

Bet if a woman put this post up there would be different responses

Not sure a woman of 28 would post a thread asking for 'boys' her age. Having said that. if a single, 28 year old woman put out an appeal for men her age, I agree she'd probably be swamped with responses - it's a numbers game though isn't it? There are far more single men on here than there are single women.

Doesn't justify that single men can be attacked and called names.. "

Absolutely right! Not sure I read anything abusive on here but nobody should be called names.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You ask for girls your age and get attacked by the other side sigh!

Bet if a woman put this post up there would be different responses

Not sure a woman of 28 would post a thread asking for 'boys' her age. Having said that. if a single, 28 year old woman put out an appeal for men her age, I agree she'd probably be swamped with responses - it's a numbers game though isn't it? There are far more single men on here than there are single women.

Doesn't justify that single men can be attacked and called names..

Absolutely right! Not sure I read anything abusive on here but nobody should be called names. "

Theres alot of indirect name calling on threads..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When i was your age i was getting more than enough sex in the real world.. maybe they are too

I said exploring sexual desires not having plain sex.. you can't explore your fantasies with people in bars.

You have to take them home usually , if the bars wont allow it

Hi, we have just met and this is crazy.. are you into anal?

Heres my number, so call me maybe...

Exactly, do you see the problem and why fab is an escape from the real world to explore your fantasies? "

I do yes,but we did all manage to explore our fantasies pre fab days too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried doing an advance search OP? Or was it a sweeping generalisation

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"You ask for girls your age and get attacked by the other side sigh!

Bet if a woman put this post up there would be different responses

Not sure a woman of 28 would post a thread asking for 'boys' her age. Having said that. if a single, 28 year old woman put out an appeal for men her age, I agree she'd probably be swamped with responses - it's a numbers game though isn't it? There are far more single men on here than there are single women.

Doesn't justify that single men can be attacked and called names..

Absolutely right! Not sure I read anything abusive on here but nobody should be called names.

Theres alot of indirect name calling on threads.."

That doesn't just apply to single guys you know. 'Indirect name calling'? You need a thicker skin bud

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You ask for girls your age and get attacked by the other side sigh!

Bet if a woman put this post up there would be different responses

Not sure a woman of 28 would post a thread asking for 'boys' her age. Having said that. if a single, 28 year old woman put out an appeal for men her age, I agree she'd probably be swamped with responses - it's a numbers game though isn't it? There are far more single men on here than there are single women.

Doesn't justify that single men can be attacked and called names..

Absolutely right! Not sure I read anything abusive on here but nobody should be called names.

Theres alot of indirect name calling on threads..

That doesn't just apply to single guys you know. 'Indirect name calling'? You need a thicker skin bud

"

I do have a thicker skin hence I'm opposing it on behalf of everyone

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham


"You ask for girls your age and get attacked by the other side sigh!

Bet if a woman put this post up there would be different responses

Not sure a woman of 28 would post a thread asking for 'boys' her age. Having said that. if a single, 28 year old woman put out an appeal for men her age, I agree she'd probably be swamped with responses - it's a numbers game though isn't it? There are far more single men on here than there are single women.

Doesn't justify that single men can be attacked and called names..

Absolutely right! Not sure I read anything abusive on here but nobody should be called names.

Theres alot of indirect name calling on threads..

That doesn't just apply to single guys you know. 'Indirect name calling'? You need a thicker skin bud

I do have a thicker skin hence I'm opposing it on behalf of everyone "

Wave that banner banana!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're all hiding from the torrent of thirst on here.

And asking that question or any other question in the forum is a bad move lol.They would argue and try to out who each other in here even if you asked if a window was see through or clear.

Im sure you will get a better result if you just use your age filters.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

According to the media (which is always right of course) millenials are far more sexual open minded yet far less promiscuous and having less sex than previous generations. Still I suppose the reduction in teen pregnancy is a positive.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We're all hiding from the torrent of thirst on here.

And asking that question or any other question in the forum is a bad move lol.They would argue and try to out who each other in here even if you asked if a window was see through or clear.

Im sure you will get a better result if you just use your age filters."

I learnt the hard way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When i was your age i was getting more than enough sex in the real world.. maybe they are too

I said exploring sexual desires not having plain sex.. you can't explore your fantasies with people in bars."

Who says?? That's how I ended up on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldnt call 28 that young tbh..

But perhaps most ladies that age are looking for older men .. just a thought

Yeah, sorry OP. The women I know who are around my age and on this site tend to be looking for older men and women.

(Yvaine, you've broken my heart)."

You know I you and will forever want to drag you into a certain ffm.

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"When i was your age i was getting more than enough sex in the real world.. maybe they are too"

are you suggesting Fab and swinging are for women who CAN'T get enough in the real world ? I think if you read enough fab forum opinion , fab is not for those who struggle in the the real world ?

The op asked a perfectly valid question ?

The men on fab seem to be spread pretty even age wise from let's say 25 up

however women are different . the op isn't saying there NO younger women , and thus the rare young girl pointing out she is on here adds nothing to the debate other than how she is an exception?

I would say op, you are perfectly correct that women reduce exponentially as their age drops below 35 ie

20000 at 40

10000 at 35

5000 at 30

2500 at 25 (arbitrary numbers for illustrating purpose)

as for the reason there are many and varied I'm sure x

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Nah, young women hate it

Lol, I know you are being scarastic!!

Silly way to put it, of course they like it but what I meant was "where are they"??"

They're after the older men!

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"They're busy exploring them with hot people they meet in bars. It's just us oldies who can't hear well in bars that need an online meeting place.

That can't be right, as you can't arrange a MFM in a bar lol

"

Can't you?

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By *09309309Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"There is a serious lack of girls of my age on fab.. do young women don't like exploring their sexual desires? "

I have to say that I definitely explored sexually when I was your age. Lots, lol. But I just met people in my regular life and had quite a few fwb types. It's only now that I'm older and have a different day to day life that I've found something like Fab useful. Maybe the girls you're looking for are looking for you somewhere else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When i was your age i was getting more than enough sex in the real world.. maybe they are too

I said exploring sexual desires not having plain sex.. you can't explore your fantasies with people in bars.

You have to take them home usually , if the bars wont allow it

Hi, we have just met and this is crazy.. are you into anal?

Heres my number, so call me maybe...

Exactly, do you see the problem and why fab is an escape from the real world to explore your fantasies?

I do yes,but we did all manage to explore our fantasies pre fab days too "

And...shock horror.....with real people in real life!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When i was your age i was getting more than enough sex in the real world.. maybe they are too

I said exploring sexual desires not having plain sex.. you can't explore your fantasies with people in bars.

You have to take them home usually , if the bars wont allow it

Hi, we have just met and this is crazy.. are you into anal?

Heres my number, so call me maybe...

Exactly, do you see the problem and why fab is an escape from the real world to explore your fantasies?

I do yes,but we did all manage to explore our fantasies pre fab days too

And...shock horror.....with real people in real life!"

How did you do that? What is real life?

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