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"Inviting my husbands family to our wedding and trying to make peace. Was a waste of time, they didn’t enjoy themselves and moaned all day, and it made our wedding day miserable. " that not nice on your most memorable day for you guys. | |||
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"Inviting my husbands family to our wedding and trying to make peace. Was a waste of time, they didn’t enjoy themselves and moaned all day, and it made our wedding day miserable. that not nice on your most memorable day for you guys. " No, it’s not. Was awful. Wish we could do it all over again | |||
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"Inviting my husbands family to our wedding and trying to make peace. Was a waste of time, they didn’t enjoy themselves and moaned all day, and it made our wedding day miserable. that not nice on your most memorable day for you guys. No, it’s not. Was awful. Wish we could do it all over again " get divorced and re marry | |||
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"Not travelling more when I was younger and child free!! " Definitely this. My youngest has visited more countries in 2 years than I have in my lifetime...... | |||
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"Not staying in education. Biggest regret by far! " Never too late!! | |||
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"Inviting my husbands family to our wedding and trying to make peace. Was a waste of time, they didn’t enjoy themselves and moaned all day, and it made our wedding day miserable. that not nice on your most memorable day for you guys. No, it’s not. Was awful. Wish we could do it all over again get divorced and re marry " . I'm thinking about it | |||
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"Inviting my husbands family to our wedding and trying to make peace. Was a waste of time, they didn’t enjoy themselves and moaned all day, and it made our wedding day miserable. that not nice on your most memorable day for you guys. No, it’s not. Was awful. Wish we could do it all over again " You can, renew your vows and throw a party and only invite those you want there. | |||
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"Not going travelling with a guy I was seeing. I was going through a seperation with my husband and the guy offered to pay for everything and show me the world and take me way from a really shit part of my life... regret it to this day. " sorry to hear that hope you have fun now days | |||
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"Honestly cannot say. I've made mistakes but always found that the outcomes afterwards have always made them worth going through. If I were to change them I wouldn't be the person I am today and that's not worth giving up as I could be very diferent and unhappy about it. I regret not following a true love to America. She got a semi permanent job there with the National Geographic Magazine in Yellows tone National Park area. I made the choice not to go and it's hurt ever since especially when I got an email about 6 months after saying how much her heart had been broken but she understood the difficulties I faced with having young daughters here. Still hurts today. But as I said I'd not be who I am now and my daughters nay have suffered more if I'd gone. So a right choice." Maybe you should send her an email and see about going to visit. Who knows the flame can be rekindled. | |||
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"Not going travelling with a guy I was seeing. I was going through a seperation with my husband and the guy offered to pay for everything and show me the world and take me way from a really shit part of my life... regret it to this day. sorry to hear that hope you have fun now days " nope ended up back with the husband (we got married after the guy left) and had a son, even though I love my son I do regret being tied down. | |||
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"Not going travelling with a guy I was seeing. I was going through a seperation with my husband and the guy offered to pay for everything and show me the world and take me way from a really shit part of my life... regret it to this day. " i could be arriving right now in NZ ,and i mean right now , plane arrived 5.10am NZ time...hope this doesnt turn out to be my next biggie !! | |||
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"I washed my bollocks with mint and tea tree oil shower gel earlier " Ooooh that stuff tingles | |||
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"Not travelling more when I was younger and child free!! " Probably this for me too. I get excited now about going to Cornwall instead of Wales. | |||
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"Honestly cannot say. I've made mistakes but always found that the outcomes afterwards have always made them worth going through. If I were to change them I wouldn't be the person I am today and that's not worth giving up as I could be very diferent and unhappy about it. I regret not following a true love to America. She got a semi permanent job there with the National Geographic Magazine in Yellows tone National Park area. I made the choice not to go and it's hurt ever since especially when I got an email about 6 months after saying how much her heart had been broken but she understood the difficulties I faced with having young daughters here. Still hurts today. But as I said I'd not be who I am now and my daughters nay have suffered more if I'd gone. So a right choice." I’d say you made the right choice. Leaving your kids behind would have eaten away at you and you’d never be happy. Kids come first mate but I feel your pain. I lost the love of my life for similar reasons. | |||
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"I washed my bollocks with mint and tea tree oil shower gel earlier Ooooh that stuff tingles " Feel for you. I’ve done that | |||
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"Not staying in education. Biggest regret by far! " There's no age limit. I left uni two years ago. During my college days, there was a 75 yr old man studying for his diploma and City and Guilds in plumbing. On my carpentery course there was a mid 40s guy. You're never too old to learn new qualifications! Sign up. You won't regret it. | |||
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"Not staying in education. Biggest regret by far! There's no age limit. I left uni two years ago. During my college days, there was a 75 yr old man studying for his diploma and City and Guilds in plumbing. On my carpentery course there was a mid 40s guy. You're never too old to learn new qualifications! Sign up. You won't regret it. " The only thing preventing me is lack of finances.! Think I’ve done just about every free qualification I can! | |||
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"Buying an air pistol, that would eventually partially blind me due to a mate messing about with it." Oh this happened to friend of mine, when I was a teenager living in Pirbright! He lost an eye | |||
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"Peeing on a wasps nest!! That really was a bad idea, and a rather embarrassing hospital visit to follow" What on earth made you do that?!!! | |||
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"I was only a kid me and my friends had made a den in some trees at the back of my house,I needed the loo so just let loose before I knew it I had what I remember thinking was just flys everywhere until the pain kicked in & I froze to the spot,some bloke ran in and grabbed me! I had then in my ears pants nose everywhere lol" How awful. I know someone who fell onto a wasps nest. Horrible! | |||
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"I was only a kid me and my friends had made a den in some trees at the back of my house,I needed the loo so just let loose before I knew it I had what I remember thinking was just flys everywhere until the pain kicked in & I froze to the spot,some bloke ran in and grabbed me! I had then in my ears pants nose everywhere lol How awful. I know someone who fell onto a wasps nest. Horrible!" Yeah is really wasn't a nice feeling! I still get ribbed about it to this day though & looking back it was pretty funny really | |||
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"Buying an air pistol, that would eventually partially blind me due to a mate messing about with it." i see that not good well when i was living abroad i carried a real pistol for self defence. | |||
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"Smoking.... nothing good came from that . Started when I was a teenager , and stopped 7 weeks ago when I had a massive heart attack. So when anyone says what a stupid habit it is , it's true . " Sorry to hear that and hope you are feeling much better! But well done on stopping as I am a fellow smoker and I know I should stop | |||
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"Not staying in education. Biggest regret by far! There's no age limit. I left uni two years ago. During my college days, there was a 75 yr old man studying for his diploma and City and Guilds in plumbing. On my carpentery course there was a mid 40s guy. You're never too old to learn new qualifications! Sign up. You won't regret it. The only thing preventing me is lack of finances.! Think I’ve done just about every free qualification I can! " get a student loan …. I left school at 16, never regretted it as such but always wondered if I had the brains for further education...now im 3 months off the end of studying for a degree with the OU | |||
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"Smoking.... nothing good came from that . Started when I was a teenager , and stopped 7 weeks ago when I had a massive heart attack. So when anyone says what a stupid habit it is , it's true . Sorry to hear that and hope you are feeling much better! But well done on stopping as I am a fellow smoker and I know I should stop " Thank you , and I am feeling much better thanks . Guess I’ll be on these meds for good now , but worth it . My wife still smokes , but much less than she did . She will stop when she’s ready . I really don’t want to become one of those ex smokers that has a go at everyone that smokes though | |||
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"I washed my bollocks with mint and tea tree oil shower gel earlier " why? Are you stupid? | |||
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"Despite recognisin the relatuonship was toxic and they were a pair of controlling manipulative abusers in my teens, I really regret constantly seeking their approval and not cutting my parents out of my life till my late 30s Oh and I wish I'd upped sticks for London at a similarly early stage of my life" This is close to home for me- | |||
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"Not walking away from bad relationships and jobs sooner." Here, Here! | |||
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"I should have dated more in my 20s but I had a 10 yr long term relationship all through my 20s. Now mid 30s and living the life I should have done in my 20s! Although I have more confidence in myself now and love the single life. But still feel I should have explored more the type of guy I want. Although my ex and I bought a house. I remortgaged and bought him out. Then sold house a few years later. Got shed loads of equity from it. Haha. Every cloud has a silver lining I guess! Haha." You are more confident because what you have dealt with, as Frank Sinatra Said ‘that’s life’ | |||
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"Smoking.... nothing good came from that . Started when I was a teenager , and stopped 7 weeks ago when I had a massive heart attack. So when anyone says what a stupid habit it is , it's true . Sorry to hear that and hope you are feeling much better! But well done on stopping as I am a fellow smoker and I know I should stop Thank you , and I am feeling much better thanks . Guess I’ll be on these meds for good now , but worth it . My wife still smokes , but much less than she did . She will stop when she’s ready . I really don’t want to become one of those ex smokers that has a go at everyone that smokes though " | |||
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"Staying freinds with my ex-wife after we separated. Six years after we divorced I got serious with another woman, that resulted in 3 months not seeing my son, an investigation by social services and two police visits. I ended up with full custody of my son, he's lived with me for the past 10 years." pleased it worked out and you have your son although you had to go through shit (& your son probably did) for it to happen | |||
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"Surely no one is still looking for Shergar slim " Haha | |||
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"Staying freinds with my ex-wife after we separated. Six years after we divorced I got serious with another woman, that resulted in 3 months not seeing my son, an investigation by social services and two police visits. I ended up with full custody of my son, he's lived with me for the past 10 years. pleased it worked out and you have your son although you had to go through shit (& your son probably did) for it to happen" Thanks, it was the hardest part of my life but you're right about it working out x | |||
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