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"Inviting my husbands family to our wedding and trying to make peace. Was a waste of time, they didn’t enjoy themselves and moaned all day, and it made our wedding day miserable. " that not nice on your most memorable day for you guys. ![]() | |||
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"Inviting my husbands family to our wedding and trying to make peace. Was a waste of time, they didn’t enjoy themselves and moaned all day, and it made our wedding day miserable. that not nice on your most memorable day for you guys. ![]() No, it’s not. Was awful. Wish we could do it all over again ![]() | |||
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"Inviting my husbands family to our wedding and trying to make peace. Was a waste of time, they didn’t enjoy themselves and moaned all day, and it made our wedding day miserable. that not nice on your most memorable day for you guys. ![]() ![]() get divorced and re marry ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Not travelling more when I was younger and child free!! " Definitely this. My youngest has visited more countries in 2 years than I have in my lifetime...... | |||
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"Not staying in education. Biggest regret by far! " Never too late!! | |||
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"Inviting my husbands family to our wedding and trying to make peace. Was a waste of time, they didn’t enjoy themselves and moaned all day, and it made our wedding day miserable. that not nice on your most memorable day for you guys. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() . I'm thinking about it ![]() | |||
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"Inviting my husbands family to our wedding and trying to make peace. Was a waste of time, they didn’t enjoy themselves and moaned all day, and it made our wedding day miserable. that not nice on your most memorable day for you guys. ![]() ![]() You can, renew your vows and throw a party and only invite those you want there. ![]() | |||
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"Not going travelling with a guy I was seeing. I was going through a seperation with my husband and the guy offered to pay for everything and show me the world and take me way from a really shit part of my life... regret it to this day. ![]() sorry to hear that hope you have fun now days ![]() | |||
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"Honestly cannot say. I've made mistakes but always found that the outcomes afterwards have always made them worth going through. If I were to change them I wouldn't be the person I am today and that's not worth giving up as I could be very diferent and unhappy about it. I regret not following a true love to America. She got a semi permanent job there with the National Geographic Magazine in Yellows tone National Park area. I made the choice not to go and it's hurt ever since especially when I got an email about 6 months after saying how much her heart had been broken but she understood the difficulties I faced with having young daughters here. Still hurts today. But as I said I'd not be who I am now and my daughters nay have suffered more if I'd gone. So a right choice." Maybe you should send her an email and see about going to visit. Who knows the flame can be rekindled. | |||
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"Not going travelling with a guy I was seeing. I was going through a seperation with my husband and the guy offered to pay for everything and show me the world and take me way from a really shit part of my life... regret it to this day. ![]() ![]() nope ended up back with the husband (we got married after the guy left) and had a son, even though I love my son I do regret being tied down. | |||
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"Not going travelling with a guy I was seeing. I was going through a seperation with my husband and the guy offered to pay for everything and show me the world and take me way from a really shit part of my life... regret it to this day. ![]() i could be arriving right now in NZ ,and i mean right now , plane arrived 5.10am NZ time...hope this doesnt turn out to be my next biggie !! | |||
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"I washed my bollocks with mint and tea tree oil shower gel earlier ![]() Ooooh that stuff tingles ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Not travelling more when I was younger and child free!! " Probably this for me too. I get excited now about going to Cornwall instead of Wales. ![]() | |||
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"Honestly cannot say. I've made mistakes but always found that the outcomes afterwards have always made them worth going through. If I were to change them I wouldn't be the person I am today and that's not worth giving up as I could be very diferent and unhappy about it. I regret not following a true love to America. She got a semi permanent job there with the National Geographic Magazine in Yellows tone National Park area. I made the choice not to go and it's hurt ever since especially when I got an email about 6 months after saying how much her heart had been broken but she understood the difficulties I faced with having young daughters here. Still hurts today. But as I said I'd not be who I am now and my daughters nay have suffered more if I'd gone. So a right choice." I’d say you made the right choice. Leaving your kids behind would have eaten away at you and you’d never be happy. Kids come first mate but I feel your pain. I lost the love of my life for similar reasons. | |||
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"I washed my bollocks with mint and tea tree oil shower gel earlier ![]() ![]() ![]() Feel for you. I’ve done that | |||
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"Not staying in education. Biggest regret by far! " There's no age limit. I left uni two years ago. During my college days, there was a 75 yr old man studying for his diploma and City and Guilds in plumbing. On my carpentery course there was a mid 40s guy. You're never too old to learn new qualifications! Sign up. You won't regret it. ![]() | |||
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"Not staying in education. Biggest regret by far! There's no age limit. I left uni two years ago. During my college days, there was a 75 yr old man studying for his diploma and City and Guilds in plumbing. On my carpentery course there was a mid 40s guy. You're never too old to learn new qualifications! Sign up. You won't regret it. ![]() The only thing preventing me is lack of finances.! Think I’ve done just about every free qualification I can! ![]() | |||
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"Buying an air pistol, that would eventually partially blind me due to a mate messing about with it." Oh this happened to friend of mine, when I was a teenager living in Pirbright! He lost an eye ![]() | |||
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"Peeing on a wasps nest!! That really was a bad idea, and a rather embarrassing hospital visit to follow" What on earth made you do that?!!! | |||
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"I was only a kid me and my friends had made a den in some trees at the back of my house,I needed the loo so just let loose before I knew it I had what I remember thinking was just flys everywhere until the pain kicked in & I froze to the spot,some bloke ran in and grabbed me! I had then in my ears pants nose everywhere lol" How awful. I know someone who fell onto a wasps nest. Horrible! | |||
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"I was only a kid me and my friends had made a den in some trees at the back of my house,I needed the loo so just let loose before I knew it I had what I remember thinking was just flys everywhere until the pain kicked in & I froze to the spot,some bloke ran in and grabbed me! I had then in my ears pants nose everywhere lol How awful. I know someone who fell onto a wasps nest. Horrible!" Yeah is really wasn't a nice feeling! I still get ribbed about it to this day though & looking back it was pretty funny really | |||
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"Buying an air pistol, that would eventually partially blind me due to a mate messing about with it." i see that not good well when i was living abroad i carried a real pistol for self defence. | |||
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"Smoking.... nothing good came from that . Started when I was a teenager , and stopped 7 weeks ago when I had a massive heart attack. So when anyone says what a stupid habit it is , it's true . " Sorry to hear that and hope you are feeling much better! But well done on stopping as I am a fellow smoker and I know I should stop ![]() | |||
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"Not staying in education. Biggest regret by far! There's no age limit. I left uni two years ago. During my college days, there was a 75 yr old man studying for his diploma and City and Guilds in plumbing. On my carpentery course there was a mid 40s guy. You're never too old to learn new qualifications! Sign up. You won't regret it. ![]() ![]() get a student loan …. I left school at 16, never regretted it as such but always wondered if I had the brains for further education...now im 3 months off the end of studying for a degree with the OU ![]() | |||
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"Smoking.... nothing good came from that . Started when I was a teenager , and stopped 7 weeks ago when I had a massive heart attack. So when anyone says what a stupid habit it is , it's true . Sorry to hear that and hope you are feeling much better! But well done on stopping as I am a fellow smoker and I know I should stop ![]() Thank you , and I am feeling much better thanks . Guess I’ll be on these meds for good now , but worth it . My wife still smokes , but much less than she did . She will stop when she’s ready . I really don’t want to become one of those ex smokers that has a go at everyone that smokes though ![]() | |||
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"I washed my bollocks with mint and tea tree oil shower gel earlier ![]() why? Are you stupid? | |||
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"Despite recognisin the relatuonship was toxic and they were a pair of controlling manipulative abusers in my teens, I really regret constantly seeking their approval and not cutting my parents out of my life till my late 30s Oh and I wish I'd upped sticks for London at a similarly early stage of my life" This is close to home for me- | |||
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"Not walking away from bad relationships and jobs sooner." Here, Here! | |||
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"I should have dated more in my 20s but I had a 10 yr long term relationship all through my 20s. Now mid 30s and living the life I should have done in my 20s! Although I have more confidence in myself now and love the single life. But still feel I should have explored more the type of guy I want. Although my ex and I bought a house. I remortgaged and bought him out. Then sold house a few years later. Got shed loads of equity from it. Haha. Every cloud has a silver lining I guess! Haha." You are more confident because what you have dealt with, as Frank Sinatra Said ‘that’s life’ | |||
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"Smoking.... nothing good came from that . Started when I was a teenager , and stopped 7 weeks ago when I had a massive heart attack. So when anyone says what a stupid habit it is , it's true . Sorry to hear that and hope you are feeling much better! But well done on stopping as I am a fellow smoker and I know I should stop ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Staying freinds with my ex-wife after we separated. Six years after we divorced I got serious with another woman, that resulted in 3 months not seeing my son, an investigation by social services and two police visits. I ended up with full custody of my son, he's lived with me for the past 10 years." ![]() | |||
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"Surely no one is still looking for Shergar slim ![]() ![]() Haha ![]() | |||
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"Staying freinds with my ex-wife after we separated. Six years after we divorced I got serious with another woman, that resulted in 3 months not seeing my son, an investigation by social services and two police visits. I ended up with full custody of my son, he's lived with me for the past 10 years. ![]() Thanks, it was the hardest part of my life but you're right about it working out x | |||
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