FabSwingers.com forum: Advice please

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it illegal for another fab user to tell me that he will tell my daughter about us having sex unless I have sex with him again?

He text me at 7am (tried calling me at 1.30am) asking if I knew anyone that could deliver him this morning - err no I don't.

He knows of my daughter but they're not friends as such. He has messaged me on my phone with the threats, not on here. Feeling rather sick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re being b**ck mailed. Confront him and tell him you won’t put up with it and you won’t allow him to have this power over you. Screenshot any threats. Visit your local police station and get advice. If you can advise your daughter not to have any contact with him all the better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report him to admin too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above, definately the Police.

If you want to counter balance any damage could you not tell daughter you’re on dating site and a man has gotten a bit weird and is threatening to tell folk you’re on a swingers site?

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By *essandpatCouple
over a year ago

chester

Report him, and threaten him with the police, he is in some way controlling you and storking you x

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

What the actual fuck?! You cannot allow him to bl*ckmail you... save the texts and report his profile with a copy of the texts to admin.

What a worry for you... do you have the kind of relationship with your daughter that you can prewarn her? Could you convincingly deny anything he tells her?

Perhaps a few strong words to him are needed, just dont get drawn in and definitely dont sleep with him again.

Bloody fruitcake

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Is it illegal for another fab user to tell me that he will tell my daughter about us having sex unless I have sex with him again?

He text me at 7am (tried calling me at 1.30am) asking if I knew anyone that could deliver him this morning - err no I don't.

He knows of my daughter but they're not friends as such. He has messaged me on my phone with the threats, not on here. Feeling rather sick!"

Block his number on your phone for starters,

I'm sure your daughter knows you have sex so it's no big threat but I'd tell him you have kept screen shots and will go to the police if he contacts you again.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Omg.....all of the above! What a bastard.

Screenshot everything, just in case you need it. I would tell him you've no problem going to the police. Sometimes just the threat of that is enough to make them back off x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's pure extortion for sex, I suggest that you report him to the police - show them screenshots etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's threatening behavior not legal at all. Sever all contact, tell admins and keep all evidence if threats.Also don't worry, use the forum for support.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

As has been said go to the police and if you have any messages from him of this kind on fab report to admin.

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