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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello ladies,

I'm just curious to see what the general consensus is about the axiom, "Treat them mean, keep them keen"... Or in other words be disrespectful, rude, or otherwise mean to maintain your interest. I am hoping that in a honest forum such as this we might get some God responses..

Anyway over to you..

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By *vilgasamWoman
over a year ago

The dot in the i

Put the shoe on the other foot, how would you enjoy it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I personally wouldn't, but there are all sorts of people out there

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Nope... not for me... first sign of cuntishness and I'm gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks. I'd just lose interest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's cool and what I would like to think is the norm, but recently I have had reason to think otherwise..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, never worked for me

...... I suffered it though Ö

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an attitude that is possibly best countered by the firm application of a hob-nailed boot to the balls....

(She said sweetly, with a slightly frightening smile...)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I could not bring myself to be that way, but I knew lots of guys that could (8 yrs in the Navy, you see everything)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a cheeky guy who can be a bit teasing and keep me on my toes but any hint of disrespect and I'm off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t beat being cheeky,the ladies love it chuck in loads of banter aswell

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Cheeky is good, twattishness isn't.

Ive only got room for one twat in my knickers and that's my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like it when guys try too hard and seem to keen to please me. I don't want a yes man. I prefer a guy with his own mind but isn't a dick or arrogant in the way he presents himself. I'm not convinced that treat em mean keep em keen applies really but I don't like a puppy dog either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would not like that at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s an over used, immature and inaccurate comment, oft used by people to justify acting like an utter twunt.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

It’s the same as saying all the girls love a bad boy, no they don’t, all the girls like a decent bloke with a sense of respect about them, bad boys and twattish bores can fuck right off

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There are people, a minority I think, who genuinely believe that men behave really badly in relationships, staying out when they've promised to be home, lying, cheating and generally being awful and women behave like neurotic, obsessed harpies. Usually they believe that men and women are different species destined never to understand each other.

I don't agree with them and I really don't believe that treat em mean to keep em keen is anything but an outdated and untrue saying.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Nothing would lose my interest faster than that sort of cock attitude.Respect goes a long way with me.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too nice on here and it backfires big time usually so maybe I should start being mean

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What most women want is character, respect and mutual admiration.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Guys with that sort of attitude tend to be game players....who has time for that shit???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cave man's perspective for what it's worth.

Treat people as you would like to be treated.

It doesn't seem to happen much on here but wouldn't it make this a better place to be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Disrespectful

Degrading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No id be off like a shot, I spent 22 years married to one of those type of men and never again x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give me a decent, kind, loyal, thoughtful, attentive, fun and sexy guy than a “bad boy” anyday.

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land


"No thanks. I'd just lose interest. "

Yep, this is me too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt want a nodding dog but 'treat them mean' etc is just a nasty way of treating people

Says alot about the person doing it

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

They would be instantly self filtered out of my life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What most women want is character, respect and mutual admiration."

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does every nice girl love a sailor?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're thinking you're being ignored on here because you're too nice, think again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a fan of this attitude. On Fab and in life, I try to treat people the way I want to be treated. Not always possible but if you try to stick to this rule as much as possible you shouldn't go far wrong.

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