FabSwingers.com forum: Women how many messages do you receive a day?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Must be a lot!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I average about 3 a week. So about 0.43 a day (I rounded up).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40 50 ish

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Depends on the day but it can be a lot....yes we are a couple but 99% of the messages are directed at me only. Flik.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

10 ish mayve if I'm in middle of a conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40-50. More if I add a photo or I’ve been gobby on the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies some days it can be as low as 10 the most I’ve ever had in a day was just over 300. But that was because of new pics being posted. Usually it’s somewhere around 60-70.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on if i am chatting to anyone but usually between 20-30

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does faf? count as a message though?

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

10 but most from one person lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few from friends and a few more from randomers. Some I just delete unread so its probably more than I think.

Very few of any quality either way..

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I average about 5 to 10, but they really slow down during the evening for some reason (need an eyebrow raised emoji!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm chatting , about 100-150.Had 64 ( I counted them) different people message me today, a few I conversed with , most are so far unanswered or deleted x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely get messages. I had 3 today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

49 at present

But that's not just from today there are messages from 7 days ago that I've not replied to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 50 daily but new pics up and can be 500+. I've had 1,000 or more in 24hrs a few times. I have filters up but all the mail can actually be overwhelming.

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

No more than 10

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

" Rarely get messages. I had 3 today"

With a hidden profile?

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Wow 10 is good. Get loads of looks at my profile. Think the most i had in one day is 7. And 3 of them were from men

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"I average about 5 to 10, but they really slow down during the evening for some reason (need an eyebrow raised emoji!)

Yep all those "single" men

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By *cutebum9Couple
over a year ago

wallsend

9 million 3 hundred thousand 1 hundred and 99 . Naah only joking . Normally about 20 of witch 17 time wasters 2 won’t turn up and the one I want but won’t satisfy my needs lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I average about 5 to 10, but they really slow down during the evening for some reason (need an eyebrow raised emoji!)

Yep all those "single" men "

Whatever are you implying?

Mine mainly come between 7am and 5pm lol I'm saying nothing

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"I average about 5 to 10, but they really slow down during the evening for some reason (need an eyebrow raised emoji!)

Yep all those "single" men

Whatever are you implying?

Mine mainly come between 7am and 5pm lol I'm saying nothing

Moi?? Imply.... would I?

Yeah I have found that too or the "I had a weekend away with the boys...didnt check my phone".... how was Ikea shopping with the Mrs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Rarely get messages. I had 3 today

With a hidden profile?"

Oddly one since hidden. Takes all sorts I guess.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

If I am organising a social, put a status update and open up filters, I can get 200 hundred. As a rule with filters up it's probably 50. About 20 would be chatting to people I have spoken to, a handful of reasonable first messages and around 25 one word / one line nonsense.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

i dont get new ones. my filters are in force. its fort knox here.

i get one or two a day from friends i know

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I average about 5 to 10, but they really slow down during the evening for some reason (need an eyebrow raised emoji!)

Yep all those "single" men

Whatever are you implying?

Mine mainly come between 7am and 5pm lol I'm saying nothing

Moi?? Imply.... would I?

Yeah I have found that too or the "I had a weekend away with the boys...didn't check my phone".... how was Ikea shopping with the Mrs? "

Oh, that old chestnut! On Mon-Fri constantly but only sporadic at weekends for less than 5 mins each time

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By *an42Woman
over a year ago

Sunderland

Before my hubby put filters on for me , I use to receive around 150/200 a day ,

it was ridiculous .

If I put pics on around 500

As you can imagine delete button got used ,

I must just attract dodge pots and the north east must just be full of perverts xx

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

None

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

About 20 I think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if I'm online, if I've been posting in forums or hanging out in chat.

Posting a new pic or having a status up too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None. "

Why not? You're gorgeous!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Depends, 30 on average.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None.

Why not? You're gorgeous!"

She might have her age filter turned on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depending on the day, if my filters are on.

A few today from friends here and there

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I could genuinely not be arsed with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"42

Who sent the other 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how long I’ve been online for, I’d say 10/20 daily unless I upload a photo and then it can increase rapido.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

"42

Who sent the other 1

admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"42

Who sent the other 1

admin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None. "
thats because your age range is 99-99 lol. Very slim age range there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I have a proper profile, 20-30 a day. Currently 3 or 4 a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I have a proper profile, 20-30 a day. Currently 3 or 4 a day."

I like the one you have at present

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

None I feel rejected and unwanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None I feel rejected and unwanted

I got an out of the blue one yesterday!

*cartwheels

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

None, I am all filtered up

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

We're a couple but...

On a normal day 10-15. We had a meet up on Sat and got about 60 then.

Around 95% are from men, 5% from couples, none from women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm online or don't log off I'll easily get over 100 a day and then loads more if I post pics up. If I have a quiet spell it drops right back down to between 30 - 50

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

If you use filters it's manageable

I block Newbies, certain ages and profiles without pics.

I notice on my single profile I get more at certain times ie late night weekends or Monday mornings.

Miss

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Uploading pics or posting a status doesn't really affect the number of messages I get... its nearly always the same few friends who mail me anyway

There are 2 occurrences that increase my amount of mail:

1. Taking part in a thread that requires people to pm me.

2. When I publish a new veri. For some reason this seems to attract men like sharks to blood

I honestly don't understand that as I won't even reply to a guy who mails me and has had a meet in the past week.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Wow 10 is good. Get loads of looks at my profile. Think the most i had in one day is 7. And 3 of them were from men

I've only ever been messaged by men and crossdressers which ain't what I'm looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually around 30-50. If I have put a new picture or a new status then is can be in the 100s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're a couple but...

On a normal day 10-15. We had a meet up on Sat and got about 60 then.

Around 95% are from men, 5% from couples, none from women. "

I messaged you the other day

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