FabSwingers.com forum: Six pack

By *r Username OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere in cornwall

Quick question guys, does an athletic body really put ladies off nowadays? I put a lot of effort in to keep myself in shape but even if I didn't, my job requires me to be in shape....

Is it just the era of 'dad bod'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has somebody told you it puts them off?

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By *ensual-dominant-passionMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.. what you find attractive others may not, we have to respect attraction and not let rejection put down our confidence.

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By *r Username OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere in cornwall

A couple women have said it makes them self conscious if the guy is in good shape, I know this isn't the same for everyone but it did get me thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quick question guys, does an athletic body really put ladies off nowadays? I put a lot of effort in to keep myself in shape but even if I didn't, my job requires me to be in shape....

Is it just the era of 'dad bod'?"

It absolutely doesn't put me off! But I think having an athletic body may put some people off, especially those with body confidence issues, rationale being that some may think you're unobtainable or wouldn't find an average or curvier body attractive. Just a thought x

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By *ensual-dominant-passionMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"A couple women have said it makes them self conscious if the guy is in good shape, I know this isn't the same for everyone but it did get me thinking "

Let you're personality come through rather than you're pics.. a lot of women may think a guy who is in shape may think he's too good for me and therefore makes a woman look easy..

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By *r Username OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere in cornwall

Thanks for the feedback from a female perspective, very helpful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quick question guys, does an athletic body really put ladies off nowadays? I put a lot of effort in to keep myself in shape but even if I didn't, my job requires me to be in shape....

Is it just the era of 'dad bod'?"

Six packs belong in the fridge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't put me off at all!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Quick question guys, does an athletic body really put ladies off nowadays? I put a lot of effort in to keep myself in shape but even if I didn't, my job requires me to be in shape....

Is it just the era of 'dad bod'?

Six packs belong in the fridge.

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^ This

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Doesn't put me off at all!

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That's me fucked then

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By *_Yeah19Couple
over a year ago

Lincoln

God no, it’s a major turn on for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quick question guys, does an athletic body really put ladies off nowadays? I put a lot of effort in to keep myself in shape but even if I didn't, my job requires me to be in shape....

Is it just the era of 'dad bod'?"

Obviously a six pack looks very good,but as someone's already said..meeting someone that fit would make me feel sooooo self-conscious about my wobbly bits! so I wouldn't do it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.. what you find attractive others may not, we have to respect attraction and not let rejection put down our confidence. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Doesn't put me off at all!

That's me fucked then

I like many different body types slim...Squiffy doesn't have a six pack...his body is monumental

I like variety

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Its an added bonus but if the face is ugly or u smell it will be a "no thanks"

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Haven't I just answered this or am I going daft!

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By *kbloke_11Man
over a year ago

Hockley

Six pack! I have more of a Party 7

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd not kick any of you out of bed for eating hobnobs.

I would however presume that you would prefer slimmer ladies than myself.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"Quick question guys, does an athletic body really put ladies off nowadays? I put a lot of effort in to keep myself in shape but even if I didn't, my job requires me to be in shape....

Is it just the era of 'dad bod'?

Obviously a six pack looks very good,but as someone's already said..meeting someone that fit would make me feel sooooo self-conscious about my wobbly bits! so I wouldn't do it x"

^^^ This for me too

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By *wesomeSauce!Man
over a year ago

Brighton

I have a six pack - I just haven't seen it in a long time.

I wish I had the time to look for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quick question guys, does an athletic body really put ladies off nowadays? I put a lot of effort in to keep myself in shape but even if I didn't, my job requires me to be in shape....

Is it just the era of 'dad bod'?

Obviously a six pack looks very good,but as someone's already said..meeting someone that fit would make me feel sooooo self-conscious about my wobbly bits! so I wouldn't do it x

^^^ This for me too

Really? Never though of it that way.. but why would you compare yourself to the other person esspecially in a hetro meet? Thwy obviously want to meet because they fomd you attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is 6 pack time

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Doesn't put me off at all!

That's me fucked then

I like many different body types slim...Squiffy doesn't have a six pack...his body is monumental

I like variety

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Good job lol . If I keep this job up I'll have to change my username to 41mnotquiteasslimasiwas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not gone one and had messages saying you probably prefer better bodies, women who are slimmer etc .. I don't get it .. it's a body.. no good having a good body if you've got the personality of a wet fish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've not gone one and had messages saying you probably prefer better bodies, women who are slimmer etc .. I don't get it .. it's a body.. no good having a good body if you've got the personality of a wet fish

Yes!

And a slimmer body isn't necessarily a better body...weight doesnt define beauty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!

And a slimmer body isn't necessarily a better body...weight doesnt define beauty

exactly

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Quick question guys, does an athletic body really put ladies off nowadays? I put a lot of effort in to keep myself in shape but even if I didn't, my job requires me to be in shape....

Is it just the era of 'dad bod'?"

I have received messages from women along the lines of 'I'm not as toned as you'

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

"Quick question guys, does an athletic body really put ladies off nowadays? I put a lot of effort in to keep myself in shape but even if I didn't, my job requires me to be in shape....

Is it just the era of 'dad bod'?

Obviously a six pack looks very good,but as someone's already said..meeting someone that fit would make me feel sooooo self-conscious about my wobbly bits! so I wouldn't do it x

^^^ This for me too

Really? Never though of it that way.. but why would you compare yourself to the other person esspecially in a hetro meet? Thwy obviously want to meet because they fomd you attractive"

It's not obvious at all - we're frequently reminded that if some men are having a 'dry period' they'll shag 'anything'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quick question guys, does an athletic body really put ladies off nowadays? I put a lot of effort in to keep myself in shape but even if I didn't, my job requires me to be in shape....

Is it just the era of 'dad bod'?

Obviously a six pack looks very good,but as someone's already said..meeting someone that fit would make me feel sooooo self-conscious about my wobbly bits! so I wouldn't do it x

^^^ This for me too

Really? Never though of it that way.. but why would you compare yourself to the other person esspecially in a hetro meet? Thwy obviously want to meet because they fomd you attractive

It's not obvious at all - we're frequently reminded that if some men are having a 'dry period' they'll shag 'anything'.

Ok well hopefully you can them out before a meet.. dont think that attitude is the 6pack talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes!

And a slimmer body isn't necessarily a better body...weight doesnt define beauty

Equating slimness with beauty is very much a modern phenomenon and a result of the brainwashing we've had to endure over the last few generations. We've been told this is how it should be for so long we actually believe to be true.

If you delve deep into ancient history you will see that all the depictions of the Goddess (the ultimate woman) show her as having a belly and curves, even to the point of being 'fat'. This is true across all ancient religions the world over, Egyptian excepted.

This has been the case throughout history, in Medieval and Renaissance art (the Roman Goddess Juno used to describe these figures) up to quite recently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say I've had any problems but everyone has a type. I've seen plenty of profiles that state they don't want gym-fit bodies, each to their own

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Bring on the six pack it wouldn't put me off at all as long as you also have the personally to match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all different and like different things.

What one person likes another doesn't.

Personality is more important.

Pointless having a amazing body if the owner has a attitude of a dying pig.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quick question guys, does an athletic body really put ladies off nowadays? I put a lot of effort in to keep myself in shape but even if I didn't, my job requires me to be in shape....

Is it just the era of 'dad bod'?

Obviously a six pack looks very good,but as someone's already said..meeting someone that fit would make me feel sooooo self-conscious about my wobbly bits! so I wouldn't do it x

^^^ This for me too

Really? Never though of it that way.. but why would you compare yourself to the other person esspecially in a hetro meet? Thwy obviously want to meet because they fomd you attractive"

Or...they can't get anyone else to meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quick question guys, does an athletic body really put ladies off nowadays? I put a lot of effort in to keep myself in shape but even if I didn't, my job requires me to be in shape....

Is it just the era of 'dad bod'?

Six packs belong in the fridge.

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dont listen. Do you and forget what others think the right person will come along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fortunate that I don't have a confidence or an ego problem.

I don't need to fuck fit men to swell my head, nor do I shy away from stripping off in front of them. They are men to me, the same as all the other men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my first regular partners, many moons back, was a 23 yr old, rugby playing ex Royal Marine.

Although I was in slightly better shape than I am now, and he was lean with a 6 pack,the idea that he was too hot for me never crossed my mind. We chatted for months before I met him and it was his character and personality that won me over. I didn't see him naked until the first time we met. I was enjoying myself too much to care about what either of us looked like.

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

No it doesn't put me off.

It's not the body that attracts me to someone it's always personality if I'm hot for that then I find his body hot regardless of what shape it's in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One of my first regular partners, many moons back, was a 23 yr old, rugby playing ex Royal Marine.

This! Encapsulates perfectly the essay comment I was writing but says it much better!

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

My 'lurpak' is doing great

If I wanted a 6 pack I would do it because I wanted one and no to pull the ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ABSolutely

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By *r Username OP Man
over a year ago

Somewhere in cornwall

Thanks for the responses, the body just comes with the job and I am comfortable in my own skin, but I think it's always good to get another person's views on things. I understand of course that the mind is far more potent than the body. We are all susceptible to our flaws at times and not everyone sees you the way that you do

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"My 'lurpak' is doing great

If I wanted a 6 pack I would do it because I wanted one and no to pull the ladies

This absolutely. Always do it for you thats far more important than anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do it for yourself and if the lady likes it then that's a bonus.

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