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"When we joined fab the one thing that struck us and made us smile was the acceptance that people of all shapes,sizes,race,religion etc are sexy and beautiful in their own ways. Attraction is many things to many people and generally the fab community is all encompassing. More recently though the body comparison threads, the shaming of certain groups by individuals has started to put me off posting on here. Can we all just be accepting and spread the love please? Mindfulness before submitting a post goes a long way people
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Peach x"Thank you Peach well said x | |||
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"Great sentiments. This place should be totally inclusive. Erm except to Water Voles. I prefer regular Voles." Oh dear.... you've just pissed off the whole water vole community! Fuzz | |||
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"Agreed. However some people (present company excepted) take it as a personal insult if someone quite innocently expresses a preference for a body shape other than theirs. " Of course. There are ways and means of expressing preference without making sweeping ill-informed statements. Peach x | |||
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"I must concur. My confidence has nose dived recently. I'm far from perfect but I'm perfectly me." And a beautiful little bundle of peachiness you are
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"When we joined fab the one thing that struck us and made us smile was the acceptance that people of all shapes,sizes,race,religion etc are sexy and beautiful in their own ways. Attraction is many things to many people and generally the fab community is all encompassing. More recently though the body comparison threads, the shaming of certain groups by individuals has started to put me off posting on here. Can we all just be accepting and spread the love please? Mindfulness before submitting a post goes a long way people
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Peach x"I agree, it’s like a competition and I barely post now. | |||
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"I see no issue with threads celebrating different body shapes. But there are a lot of “vs” threads lately which brings out the worst in people. I don’t see why it should be a competition. " | |||
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"When we joined fab the one thing that struck us and made us smile was the acceptance that people of all shapes,sizes,race,religion etc are sexy and beautiful in their own ways. Attraction is many things to many people and generally the fab community is all encompassing. More recently though the body comparison threads, the shaming of certain groups by individuals has started to put me off posting on here. Can we all just be accepting and spread the love please? Mindfulness before submitting a post goes a long way people
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Peach x"Couldn't agree more. Those starting negative, shaming threads tend not to be swingers though. True lifestyle swingers are accepting and tolerant of others, preferences can be expressed without offence and the few that take offence again are generally not true swingers. | |||
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"I must concur. My confidence has nose dived recently. I'm far from perfect but I'm perfectly me." You are perfect PP, you just keep looking up the wrong definition..  | |||
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"When we joined fab the one thing that struck us and made us smile was the acceptance that people of all shapes,sizes,race,religion etc are sexy and beautiful in their own ways. Attraction is many things to many people and generally the fab community is all encompassing. More recently though the body comparison threads, the shaming of certain groups by individuals has started to put me off posting on here. Can we all just be accepting and spread the love please? Mindfulness before submitting a post goes a long way people
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Peach x"Hear hear, I’ve been a bit at a loss just lately on here because of threads saying all that. It’s fine having a preference, but no need to put others down who don’t fit into your wants. We’re all attractive to someone. Being considerate of others is a more attractive commodity than a cock pic. X | |||
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"I must concur. My confidence has nose dived recently. I'm far from perfect but I'm perfectly me. And a beautiful little bundle of peachiness you are
Peach x"Love ya I do | |||
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"I must concur. My confidence has nose dived recently. I'm far from perfect but I'm perfectly me. You are perfect PP, you just keep looking up the wrong definition.. "Thank you. I have broken out in eczema in various places. But you know what... I'm gonna show it in the pics I take later. I'm me, I have many imperfections, and I'm sure there are many many people with skin issues. I'm gonna stand up for all of us. Fuck you all who hate based on shit beyond our control. FREEEEEDOOOOOOOOM | |||
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"When we joined fab the one thing that struck us and made us smile was the acceptance that people of all shapes,sizes,race,religion etc are sexy and beautiful in their own ways. Attraction is many things to many people and generally the fab community is all encompassing. More recently though the body comparison threads, the shaming of certain groups by individuals has started to put me off posting on here. Can we all just be accepting and spread the love please? Mindfulness before submitting a post goes a long way people
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Peach x"Well said  | |||
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"I must concur. My confidence has nose dived recently. I'm far from perfect but I'm perfectly me. You are perfect PP, you just keep looking up the wrong definition..
Thank you. I have broken out in eczema in various places. But you know what... I'm gonna show it in the pics I take later.
I'm me, I have many imperfections, and I'm sure there are many many people with skin issues. I'm gonna stand up for all of us.
Fuck you all who hate based on shit beyond our control.
FREEEEEDOOOOOOOOM"Just be thankful you don’t look like me AND have eczema lol (admittedly I don’t have it very bad but this time of year I always get flare ups) I get a lot of knockbacks and messages read and deleted - I know I’m an acquired taste lol. Have had the outright rude ones tho (the polish couple who started calling me “ugly c**t” or something along those lines in polish - google translate is amazing lol) but that’s what the block and report buttons are for | |||
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"When we joined fab the one thing that struck us and made us smile was the acceptance that people of all shapes,sizes,race,religion etc are sexy and beautiful in their own ways. Attraction is many things to many people and generally the fab community is all encompassing. More recently though the body comparison threads, the shaming of certain groups by individuals has started to put me off posting on here. Can we all just be accepting and spread the love please? Mindfulness before submitting a post goes a long way people
Come join us in spreading positivity and love
Peach x"There are a great number of ego driven Adonis' and Aphrodities on here who revel in asserting their self proclaimed superiority above anyone who they feel is not worthy of them. Too fat, too thin, hairy pussy, non hairy pussy, penis too small, penis too big... For us the only thing these posts belittling sight users achieve is to completely remove all interest in the OP. We're much happier with the people who have faults and not with Mr & Mrs "I'm so perfect and you're not". Rant over. | |||
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"When we joined fab the one thing that struck us and made us smile was the acceptance that people of all shapes,sizes,race,religion etc are sexy and beautiful in their own ways. Attraction is many things to many people and generally the fab community is all encompassing. More recently though the body comparison threads, the shaming of certain groups by individuals has started to put me off posting on here. Can we all just be accepting and spread the love please? Mindfulness before submitting a post goes a long way people
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Peach x"I totally agree you pair of skinny buggers | |||
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"When we joined fab the one thing that struck us and made us smile was the acceptance that people of all shapes,sizes,race,religion etc are sexy and beautiful in their own ways. Attraction is many things to many people and generally the fab community is all encompassing. More recently though the body comparison threads, the shaming of certain groups by individuals has started to put me off posting on here. Can we all just be accepting and spread the love please? Mindfulness before submitting a post goes a long way people
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Peach x
I totally agree you pair of skinny buggers "Two for the price of one 
We're like the economy version 
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"It's a lovely sentiment Peach, but will fall upon deaf ears. At the beginning of the year I asked people to stop being cunts, and they couldn't. I don't even think some of them tried. " No. I didn't  | |||
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"Great sentiments. This place should be totally inclusive. Erm except to Water Voles. I prefer regular Voles." Oh Funky....I never took you as vole-ist. That has put me right off of your peachy arse  | |||
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"When we joined fab the one thing that struck us and made us smile was the acceptance that people of all shapes,sizes,race,religion etc are sexy and beautiful in their own ways. " What a load of nonsense,been a fab member 8 years and nothing has changed in that respect. You may wish it different, but the issues you talk of were just as relevant 8 years ago as they are now. | |||
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"When we joined fab the one thing that struck us and made us smile was the acceptance that people of all shapes,sizes,race,religion etc are sexy and beautiful in their own ways. Attraction is many things to many people and generally the fab community is all encompassing. More recently though the body comparison threads, the shaming of certain groups by individuals has started to put me off posting on here. Can we all just be accepting and spread the love please? Mindfulness before submitting a post goes a long way people
Come join us in spreading positivity and love
Peach x
There are a great number of ego driven Adonis' and Aphrodities on here who revel in asserting their self proclaimed superiority above anyone who they feel is not worthy of them.
Too fat, too thin, hairy pussy, non hairy pussy, penis too small, penis too big...
For us the only thing these posts belittling sight users achieve is to completely remove all interest in the OP.
We're much happier with the people who have faults and not with Mr & Mrs "I'm so perfect and you're not".
Rant over."+1 then chuck in the porn-talk crap too, and it makes a horrid combination IMHO, its not that we are prudish, but show some class. It's no wonder that some people don't get meets, when their personna reeks of bullish and disrespectful traits that are to be blunt, just a turn off. Manners and respect, for most are a currency, so please peeps, do yourselves a favour and speak nicely... | |||
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"When we joined fab the one thing that struck us and made us smile was the acceptance that people of all shapes,sizes,race,religion etc are sexy and beautiful in their own ways. Attraction is many things to many people and generally the fab community is all encompassing. More recently though the body comparison threads, the shaming of certain groups by individuals has started to put me off posting on here. Can we all just be accepting and spread the love please? Mindfulness before submitting a post goes a long way people
Come join us in spreading positivity and love
Peach x
I totally agree you pair of skinny buggers
Two for the price of one
We're like the economy version
Peach x"If you two are the bogof version of economy I'm in 
Lots of haters and naysayers on here. If they are it's their problem xx | |||
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"When we joined fab the one thing that struck us and made us smile was the acceptance that people of all shapes,sizes,race,religion etc are sexy and beautiful in their own ways. Attraction is many things to many people and generally the fab community is all encompassing. More recently though the body comparison threads, the shaming of certain groups by individuals has started to put me off posting on here. Can we all just be accepting and spread the love please? Mindfulness before submitting a post goes a long way people
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Peach x"Agreed
Like people for hoo thay are not wot thay are. | |||
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"When we joined fab the one thing that struck us and made us smile was the acceptance that people of all shapes,sizes,race,religion etc are sexy and beautiful in their own ways. What a load of nonsense,been a fab member 8 years and nothing has changed in that respect. You may wish it different, but the issues you talk of were just as relevant 8 years ago as they are now." I think it was even worse 8 years ago.
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"It's a lovely sentiment Peach, but will fall upon deaf ears. At the beginning of the year I asked people to stop being cunts, and they couldn't. I don't even think some of them tried. " I get asked this daily | |||
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"Agreed. However some people (present company excepted) take it as a personal insult if someone quite innocently expresses a preference for a body shape other than theirs. " 
The people that get excluded are a joy to behold. | |||
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"A great sentiment, shame but will probably be lost on the elitist bunch of arse,s and the superior than though brigade." That's not really in the spirit of the op  | |||
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"It's a lovely sentiment Peach, but will fall upon deaf ears. At the beginning of the year I asked people to stop being cunts, and they couldn't. I don't even think some of them tried. No. I didn't "It's hard isn't it | |||
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"A great sentiment, shame but will probably be lost on the elitist bunch of arse,s and the superior than though brigade. That's not really in the spirit of the op "I know, but just facing reality unfortunately. | |||
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"When we joined fab the one thing that struck us and made us smile was the acceptance that people of all shapes,sizes,race,religion etc are sexy and beautiful in their own ways. What a load of nonsense,been a fab member 8 years and nothing has changed in that respect. You may wish it different, but the issues you talk of were just as relevant 8 years ago as they are now." Obviously I'd disagree that it's nonsense, though I have been known to spout it on occasion. Your statement just confirms that ignorant people are here to stay, which is fine, we're all living under the same sun, I'm asking for people to be mindful before making sweeping statements that cause offence and bad feeling to others. Peach x | |||
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"When we joined fab the one thing that struck us and made us smile was the acceptance that people of all shapes,sizes,race,religion etc are sexy and beautiful in their own ways. Attraction is many things to many people and generally the fab community is all encompassing. More recently though the body comparison threads, the shaming of certain groups by individuals has started to put me off posting on here. Can we all just be accepting and spread the love please? Mindfulness before submitting a post goes a long way people
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Peach x"Couldn't agree more. I find FS to now be the most judgemental site I belong to. | |||
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"When we joined fab the one thing that struck us and made us smile was the acceptance that people of all shapes,sizes,race,religion etc are sexy and beautiful in their own ways. What a load of nonsense,been a fab member 8 years and nothing has changed in that respect. You may wish it different, but the issues you talk of were just as relevant 8 years ago as they are now. Obviously I'd disagree that it's nonsense, though I have been known to spout it on occasion. Your statement just confirms that ignorant people are here to stay, which is fine, we're all living under the same sun, I'm asking for people to be mindful before making sweeping statements that cause offence and bad feeling to others. Peach x" What about people that get annoyed when someone mentions preferences? The type that infers the person is in some way being rude when they are just asking a question? They incite bad feeling when none was intended. | |||
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"When we joined fab the one thing that struck us and made us smile was the acceptance that people of all shapes,sizes,race,religion etc are sexy and beautiful in their own ways. What a load of nonsense,been a fab member 8 years and nothing has changed in that respect. You may wish it different, but the issues you talk of were just as relevant 8 years ago as they are now. Obviously I'd disagree that it's nonsense, though I have been known to spout it on occasion. Your statement just confirms that ignorant people are here to stay, which is fine, we're all living under the same sun, I'm asking for people to be mindful before making sweeping statements that cause offence and bad feeling to others. Peach x" No your not,you are saying it was somehow better in the past,which it clearly wasnt Now you're making it personal by insinuating I'm ignorant? Unbelievable  | |||
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"When we joined fab the one thing that struck us and made us smile was the acceptance that people of all shapes,sizes,race,religion etc are sexy and beautiful in their own ways. What a load of nonsense,been a fab member 8 years and nothing has changed in that respect. You may wish it different, but the issues you talk of were just as relevant 8 years ago as they are now. Obviously I'd disagree that it's nonsense, though I have been known to spout it on occasion. Your statement just confirms that ignorant people are here to stay, which is fine, we're all living under the same sun, I'm asking for people to be mindful before making sweeping statements that cause offence and bad feeling to others. Peach x What about people that get annoyed when someone mentions preferences? The type that infers the person is in some way being rude when they are just asking a question? They incite bad feeling when none was intended. " I was just discussing this with fuzz actually and I think I'm with a train of thought that preference is fluid, they change as we age and experience more. So completely personal that shouldn't we just accept? Is it really relevant to anyone what our preferences are? Saying that if someone asked me my 'preference' now, I'd be a bit stuck to come up with any but if I did, what would it matter to the person asking? Peach x | |||
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"When we joined fab the one thing that struck us and made us smile was the acceptance that people of all shapes,sizes,race,religion etc are sexy and beautiful in their own ways. What a load of nonsense,been a fab member 8 years and nothing has changed in that respect. You may wish it different, but the issues you talk of were just as relevant 8 years ago as they are now. Obviously I'd disagree that it's nonsense, though I have been known to spout it on occasion. Your statement just confirms that ignorant people are here to stay, which is fine, we're all living under the same sun, I'm asking for people to be mindful before making sweeping statements that cause offence and bad feeling to others. Peach x No your not,you are saying it was somehow better in the past,which it clearly wasnt Now you're making it personal by insinuating I'm ignorant? Unbelievable "Huh?
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"When we joined fab the one thing that struck us and made us smile was the acceptance that people of all shapes,sizes,race,religion etc are sexy and beautiful in their own ways. Attraction is many things to many people and generally the fab community is all encompassing. More recently though the body comparison threads, the shaming of certain groups by individuals has started to put me off posting on here. Can we all just be accepting and spread the love please? Mindfulness before submitting a post goes a long way people
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Peach x"Agreed and kudos to you both for such a lovely post | |||
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"When we joined fab the one thing that struck us and made us smile was the acceptance that people of all shapes,sizes,race,religion etc are sexy and beautiful in their own ways. What a load of nonsense,been a fab member 8 years and nothing has changed in that respect. You may wish it different, but the issues you talk of were just as relevant 8 years ago as they are now. Obviously I'd disagree that it's nonsense, though I have been known to spout it on occasion. Your statement just confirms that ignorant people are here to stay, which is fine, we're all living under the same sun, I'm asking for people to be mindful before making sweeping statements that cause offence and bad feeling to others. Peach x" I’ve only been on Fab a year, I’ve seen a huge change in that time, I have no idea how it was like prior to that | |||
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"When we joined fab the one thing that struck us and made us smile was the acceptance that people of all shapes,sizes,race,religion etc are sexy and beautiful in their own ways. What a load of nonsense,been a fab member 8 years and nothing has changed in that respect. You may wish it different, but the issues you talk of were just as relevant 8 years ago as they are now. Obviously I'd disagree that it's nonsense, though I have been known to spout it on occasion. Your statement just confirms that ignorant people are here to stay, which is fine, we're all living under the same sun, I'm asking for people to be mindful before making sweeping statements that cause offence and bad feeling to others. Peach x What about people that get annoyed when someone mentions preferences? The type that infers the person is in some way being rude when they are just asking a question? They incite bad feeling when none was intended. " Or the repeated insinuations of racism because your personal preferences exclude them from meeting you. | |||
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but I'm happy in myself, I never judge a book by its cover, after all we're all here to have a laugh some fun yea I get attraction plays a big part no matter what ppl say but it comes in more ways that 1 | |||
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). Like I said things weren't necessarily better before, and there was always a certain level of negativity but these days the forums do seem to be full of sniping, moaning and worse.
The sooner that changes the better | |||
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"Well said OP. A litte kindness towards others and even ourselves would make a world of difference, it's the classic domino effect. " totally agree | |||
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"I actually thought the forums weren’t as bitchy and dare I say the C-word as they had been say 12-18 months ago. Mind you they are also not as much fun which is why I frequently come & go, maybe I missed the threads you were talking about." I thought the same. | |||
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"It's a lovely sentiment Peach, but will fall upon deaf ears. At the beginning of the year I asked people to stop being cunts, and they couldn't. I don't even think some of them tried. I get asked this daily " What you can't stop either?...
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"Great sentiments. This place should be totally inclusive. Erm except to Water Voles. I prefer regular Voles. Oh Funky....I never took you as vole-ist. That has put me right off of your peachy arse "I knew such a contentious view would be devisive and possibly threaten my chances with you, I know how much you admire the water vole. I'd still like to drill you if you can see past my extreme views please. | |||
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