FabSwingers.com forum: Spell it out

By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Ok so how many of you just say "I want to fuck you" ?

Do you flirt a little... invite round for coffee? Maybe a little suggestive texting or do you just jugular and say it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a shithouse and don't say them things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are people I'd like to say it too but I'm actually nervous they might take me up on it or that they are horrified!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too nice say those thing

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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"I'm a shithouse and don't say them things

A shit house haha... never heard that expression for shy

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Can't beat a bit of flirting beforehand

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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"There are people I'd like to say it too but I'm actually nervous they might take me up on it or that they are horrified!"

You're lovely I can't see them saying no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most interactions haven't lead to a meet but the flirting is fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be rather direct in my flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I flirt, but get a bit shy about saying what I actually want unless he says it first. X

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We flirt and talk perhaps a bit too much, have been told by some we should be a bit more direct.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me being me would never come out and say it! .. too shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a shithouse and don't say them things

A shit house haha... never heard that expression for shy "

I'm so shit at messaging and don't know what to say so I gave up and just enjoy chatting on forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would just say it, if I really thought it would happen

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Tbh i just say it once its established they are/have what i want

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I wouldn't just say it however if we meet its often in the unspoken words x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't said it straight out, but before and at a meet it was implied by each of us.

It would be nice for ladies to be so direct. After all, this is a open lifestyle swingers sex site! Right..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flirt a little. Chat and then hit him with it

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Flirt a little. Chat and then hit him with it

That bloody whip again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of flirting gets the juices flowing...

If you are both of the same mind the intention should be obvious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect them to be telepathic. It doesn’t work.

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By *hinypants77Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I’d never say that straight away.

However if out for drinks and there’s attraction, when queuing at the bar then I might text her that and watch her face turn red when I return with drinks.

Then say sorry I’d accidentally text the wrong person and watch her face change!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been a while into having a drink with someone and said I want you to fuck me.

He said drink up, we're going back to mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't social meet so I'm pretty direct with what I want. I haven't got time to second guess others either. Direct flirting is my style when I'm in meeting mode.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

If it's in terms of suggesting a meet in the first place then I'm hopeless - go round in circles, prevaricate and drop hints and just hope the person concerned gets the right idea.

Once on said meet though I tend to just let things happen naturally, although can sometimes be a little awkward - was once told I was a little like a schoolboy waiting for his first snog

Although once over that initial hurdle I tend to relax and get on with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to beg for meets it seems

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By *appy headCouple
over a year ago

leicester

I would like to come straight out with it . If they say yes ,then flirt , but haven’t got the bottle lol

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

I'm definitely far too shy (and been called a prude) to come out with 'I want to fuck you' and it's not a term I would use really either.

Wish I was more aware if I was being flirted with.

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By *atindollTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

I want to fuck you is almost a novel compared to my usual messages-hey!...hows you...sometimes just how's u.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i meet some one new and we are out having some food or somthing. Im sitting there thinkin Your sexy i would love to fuck you hard. But alot of girl's dont like that.i find once you have meet a few time's it's easier to just say. After work im gunna come and fuck the shit out of you?? Am i wrong

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By *arlo82 OP Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

I think if youve flirted and met up and done nothing and they've not taken the massive hints then maybe you have to be direct. Who knows . ... that's why I asked the question

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Only 1 way to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found there's real chemistry then everything should flow naturally without the need to be direct or coarse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I found there's real chemistry then everything should flow naturally without the need to be direct or coarse. "

"If!" damn autocorrect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think if youve flirted and met up and done nothing and they've not taken the massive hints then maybe you have to be direct. Who knows . ... that's why I asked the question

Did it work?

I do the same if nothing is happening. It worked.

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By *aggie and DanCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Prefer the flirting before I say 'Let's fuck!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally add 'please'. It's only polite...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Flirt a little. Chat and then hit him with it

That bloody whip again

They love it

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

I’ve always preferred to be thought a little slow on the uptake rather than rude or crude. In today’s post Weinstein climate, maybe not a bad thing. I know some guys that just have the knack and can say anything and get a good response, other guys that do come over as crude.

I’m good at responding though so I like the flirty banter and I love it when it quickly turns horny, especially when unexpected. When you hear the words “I want you to fuck me”, from say a very prim looking headmistress.

One that sticks in my mind after a first date & dinner with a lovely Italian girl. In the taxi she said “Mal, any Italian man would have made a move by now”. Told you I was slow - after that we were all over each other, no words needed and mouths otherwise engaged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the person and situation. I can sometimes be a bit slow in picking up their interest but once I know it's there I can be quite forward.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

If only you were 30 years older we would be a perfect match!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I would say on the whole this method would have differing success results depending if it were man to woman v woman to man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woo hoo I spelt it out this morning and I'm now enjoying post sex chocolate pudding!

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

You girls have to bear in mind that god played a terrible trick on men.

He gave us a brain and a dick but only enough blood to operate one at a time.

Help us out - laugh uncontrollably at our jokes, strip naked and jump on us from our chat up lines or innuendo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I.... T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You girls have to bear in mind that god played a terrible trick on men.

He gave us a brain and a dick but only enough blood to operate one at a time.

Help us out - laugh uncontrollably at our jokes, strip naked and jump on us from our chat up lines or innuendo "

Oh dear!

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

Is that an understanding and sympathetic ‘oh dear’ because of this cruel trick on men. Or an eyes rolling WTF ‘oh dear’?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is that an understanding and sympathetic ‘oh dear’ because of this cruel trick on men. Or an eyes rolling WTF ‘oh dear’?"

Eye rolling (sorry not very good with the emojis). So what do men want, for women to fall at their feet with their legs open? Will that be obvious enough for them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so how many of you just say "I want to fuck you" ?

Do you flirt a little... invite round for coffee? Maybe a little suggestive texting or do you just jugular and say it? "

I have occasionally

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

No , we wouldnt like that. I’ve kind of lost track as to how this thread started and not clever enough mid message to track back. We are not that far apart - men and women in wants, needs, desires erotic. I don’t buy in to the men are from mars women Venus thing. We are all on planet earth so just need to get in with it.

When it works and you click, fantastic and it doesn’t need reporting, when it goes wrong we complain on here.

What the fuck am I waffling on about now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You girls have to bear in mind that god played a terrible trick on men.

He gave us a brain and a dick but only enough blood to operate one at a time.

Help us out - laugh uncontrollably at our jokes, strip naked and jump on us from our chat up lines or innuendo "

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By *ollyGWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"I don't social meet so I'm pretty direct with what I want. I haven't got time to second guess others either. Direct flirting is my style when I'm in meeting mode. "

Me too

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

"You girls have to bear in mind that god played a terrible trick on men.

He gave us a brain and a dick but only enough blood to operate one at a time.

Help us out - laugh uncontrollably at our jokes, strip naked and jump on us from our chat up lines or innuendo "

Being a male and not always using my dick to think i agree with this lol

When tucked or in chastity i think completely differently as the blood is still in the right place lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so how many of you just say "I want to fuck you" ?

Do you flirt a little... invite round for coffee? Maybe a little suggestive texting or do you just jugular and say it? "

All of the above

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