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By *andyandy12345 OP   Man
over a year ago

Edgware

What is a good ice breaker that will guarantee you get a follow-up message as this seems the hardest thing to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is a good ice breaker that will guarantee you get a follow-up message as this seems the hardest thing to do "

Hi, I'm HandyAndy12345, I'd like six with you.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"What is a good ice breaker that will guarantee you get a follow-up message as this seems the hardest thing to do

Hi, I'm HandyAndy12345, I'd like six with you."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no guarantee of getting a reply to any message.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Actually on reflection Jim all joking aside that's not a bad one if backed up with a decent profile and pics and more of an introduction in the rest of the message

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

There are no guarantees in this game matey. Just be yourself, make sure you read their profile first and refer to it to show them you read it, attach a clear face pic and avoid "hi how are you?" "Fancy a fuck" and "how are you finding the site?" type messages.

They are going to look at yr profile first so make sure its giving the right first impression of you and is more than a few lines and a phoney legal warning.

You get one chance to make a good first impression... don't mess it up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it might be quite hard to find a generic ice breaker that will ‘guarantee’ a message. People like different things..

maybe if you read the profile and touch on something in that, rather than send just a short hello how are you, it might make people feel like you’ve taken your time to read it and maybe they’ll be more inclined to reply..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is a good ice breaker that will guarantee you get a follow-up message as this seems the hardest thing to do "

Many women and couples gleefully announce on the forums how they ignore messages because they love their inboxes to be full. Bear that in mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it might be quite hard to find a generic ice breaker that will ‘guarantee’ a message. People like different things..

maybe if you read the profile and touch on something in that, rather than send just a short hello how are you, it might make people feel like you’ve taken your time to read it and maybe they’ll be more inclined to reply.. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FAF Along with 2 cock pics... Works every time...

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By *ornyDubMan25Man
over a year ago

Berlin


"What is a good ice breaker that will guarantee you get a follow-up message as this seems the hardest thing to do "

I think the tone of this message shows the wrong attitude towards the site...

You should not be looking for a formula to guarantee a response from ladies with the only goal being to satisfy your needs...

You should find a profile that you feel you will naturally connect with and mention why you took the time to message them in particular for these reasons and not be looking for a set text to get you more action, get some classes with a "pickup artist" or read some books if you're just looking to portray yourself in any way to get a ride!

Sorry if it sounds harsh... just seems like a silly question to me! Some people you will connect with, some you won't... the only way to guarantee a response is by being a chameleon!

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By *ornyDubMan25Man
over a year ago

Berlin

And photoshopped cock pics help

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"What is a good ice breaker that will guarantee you get a follow-up message as this seems the hardest thing to do

Many women and couples gleefully announce on the forums how they ignore messages because they love their inboxes to be full. Bear that in mind. "

Can't say I've ever seen anyone gleefully announce that they love their inboxes to be full - have seen plenty that state they get a lot of generic and uninteresting messages from entitled single guys, with just as generic and uninteresting profiles, who think just because they've sent such a message that they're guaranteed a reply though

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"What is a good ice breaker that will guarantee you get a follow-up message as this seems the hardest thing to do

Many women and couples gleefully announce on the forums how they ignore messages because they love their inboxes to be full. Bear that in mind.

Can't say I've ever seen anyone gleefully announce that they love their inboxes to be full - have seen plenty that state they get a lot of generic and uninteresting messages from entitled single guys, with just as generic and uninteresting profiles, who think just because they've sent such a message that they're guaranteed a reply though "

Well said

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"There are no guarantees in this game matey. Just be yourself, make sure you read their profile first and refer to it to show them you read it, attach a clear face pic and avoid "hi how are you?" "Fancy a fuck" and "how are you finding the site?" type messages.

They are going to look at yr profile first so make sure its giving the right first impression of you and is more than a few lines and a phoney legal warning.

You get one chance to make a good first impression... don't mess it up! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually on reflection Jim all joking aside that's not a bad one if backed up with a decent profile and pics and more of an introduction in the rest of the message "

I'd send it.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area


"What is a good ice breaker that will guarantee you get a follow-up message as this seems the hardest thing to do

I think the tone of this message shows the wrong attitude towards the site...

You should not be looking for a formula to guarantee a response from ladies with the only goal being to satisfy your needs...

You should find a profile that you feel you will naturally connect with and mention why you took the time to message them in particular for these reasons and not be looking for a set text to get you more action, get some classes with a "pickup artist" or read some books if you're just looking to portray yourself in any way to get a ride!

Sorry if it sounds harsh... just seems like a silly question to me! Some people you will connect with, some you won't... the only way to guarantee a response is by being a chameleon! "

Absolutely agree.

Best thing is to look at people's profiles and write to them because you would genuinely like to meet them, because you think you would get along well and are after similar things.

If you can articulate that, in a personal and humorous or interesting message, then you will have a better chance of success .

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By *ensual-dominant-passionMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Partly it is to do with the message but attraction plays a part too.. just be genuine.. be original.. show an interest in the person you are messaging I.e read their profile and relate to it.. face pic always helps lol

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