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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ever had a blowjob and thought just leave my cock alone?

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

Maybe you could give classes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say i have.... must be luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not yet anyway

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By *sRedbbwWoman
over a year ago

Amwythig

Can't say I've given one, well no one has said anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Some people just don't put their heart in it

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By *ntcovMan
over a year ago

Church Gresley / Swadlincote

Yes! There are some fab tongue techniques to learn, it's not just wet mouth and loose lips...but then I'm not into being sucked anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Describe the worst blowjob you ever had? Answer. Bloody gorgeous!

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By *s.KerryTV/TS
over a year ago

Blackpool

Is there such a thing as a bad blow job

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Can't say I've given one, well no one has said anyway "

What bloke is gonna complain when he's got his cock in your mouth lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More bad ones than good ones. There's a type of girl who thinks the only effort they gave to put in is to open there legs.

Poor technique is excusable but a lack of enthusiasm really puts me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't say I've given one, well no one has said anyway

What bloke is gonna complain when he's got his cock in your mouth lol "

Yeh teeth can be sharp lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes... quite a few if I'm being honest. Few guys will admit it though for fear of not getting a repeat meet or get negative reprisals.

I'd say it's far more common than one would be lead to believe OP. Goes to reason. Each cock is different, and how it's handled would be different. Much like a pussy.

So no surprises OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people just don't put their heart in it "

Do men put heart into oral when doing it to a womem ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't say I've given one, well no one has said anyway

What bloke is gonna complain when he's got his cock in your mouth lol "

If it wasn't doing much to me I wouldn't complain but rather take over the situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people just don't put their heart in it

Do men put heart into oral when doing it to a womem ? "

Yes I love giving oral to a woman as long as they’re enjoying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people just don't put their heart in it

Do men put heart into oral when doing it to a womem ? "

Yes because I'd like the same in return

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Some people just don't put their heart in it

Do men put heart into oral when doing it to a womem ? "

Some do, some don't

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Some people just don't put their heart in it "

You must be meeting the wrong people.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people just don't put their heart in it

Do men put heart into oral when doing it to a womem ? "

Lol why don't you start your own thread and find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people just don't put their heart in it

Do men put heart into oral when doing it to a womem ? "

They may do but doesn't mean they're doing it right either I'd say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to do it and ask if they’ve enjoyed it and if there are any certain things that they like having, some like their tip & length licked, some balls, some not so. Some like gagging & some not.

I think it’s personal so I try to accommodate as best as I can and as for enthusiasm, as long as I think they’re enjoying it, I will have GREAT enthusiasm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually roles reveresed, if a man isn’t licking me the way I wish, I’ll ask them to do certain things, in a nice way.

I really do think communication is the key to good oral sex & sex all round!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to do it and ask if they’ve enjoyed it and if there are any certain things that they like having, some like their tip & length licked, some balls, some not so. Some like gagging & some not.

I think it’s personal so I try to accommodate as best as I can and as for enthusiasm, as long as I think they’re enjoying it, I will have GREAT enthusiasm "

I like you

I think asking somebody what they like is the best policy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to do it and ask if they’ve enjoyed it and if there are any certain things that they like having, some like their tip & length licked, some balls, some not so. Some like gagging & some not.

I think it’s personal so I try to accommodate as best as I can and as for enthusiasm, as long as I think they’re enjoying it, I will have GREAT enthusiasm "

A lady who seems to understand that they're all different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Actually roles reveresed, if a man isn’t licking me the way I wish, I’ll ask them to do certain things, in a nice way.

I really do think communication is the key to good oral sex & sex all round! "

And reading the situation if you can tell the person is about to cum (unless you’re edging) don’t stop doing what you’re doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've never had any complaints but I've had lots & lots of compliments

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I love sucking cock..... In fact I spent the weekend with a guy but couldn't fuck so all I did was suck and I really didn't mind

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I love sucking cock..... In fact I spent the weekend with a guy but couldn't fuck so all I did was suck and I really didn't mind "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So bad I asked him to stop.

Is a lie when some gay men say they give the best blow jobs.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I love sucking cock..... In fact I spent the weekend with a guy but couldn't fuck so all I did was suck and I really didn't mind

"

Oh tell a lie. We did do it up the bum a bit but that was because he stayed so hard after an epic blow job and he kept poking me with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love sucking cock..... In fact I spent the weekend with a guy but couldn't fuck so all I did was suck and I really didn't mind "

Well I wouldn’t say no to a weekend like that if you’re offering lol

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By *eansayianMan
over a year ago

oxford

ive had many that are terrible! teeth! ive even had women who luv to do deep throat and all i can feel is teeth! many a time ive been thinking oh god dont go soft just get through it, you can do it! lol. i wish you could say something but often women take it personally and it completely kills the mood.

best blow jobs are when they use there hand and mouth in one motion, using that twisting motion with there hand is an extra plus to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people just don't put their heart in it

Do men put heart into oral when doing it to a womem ?

Yes I love giving oral to a woman as long as they’re enjoying it

Ads"

As a couple yes but single men meeting single women on fab .not alot of men on fab do oral on women.read all the threads about it .women do blow jobs all the time on men but women hardly get it in return or its a single lick .Very selfish alot of men and maybe this is why alot fail on repeat meets .

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Some people just don't put their heart in it

Do men put heart into oral when doing it to a womem ?

Yes I love giving oral to a woman as long as they’re enjoying it

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As a couple yes but single men meeting single women on fab .not alot of men on fab do oral on women.read all the threads about it .women do blow jobs all the time on men but women hardly get it in return or its a single lick .Very selfish alot of men and maybe this is why alot fail on repeat meets . "

I've met more men who do than don't

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester


"More bad ones than good ones. There's a type of girl who thinks the only effort they gave to put in is to open there legs.

Poor technique is excusable but a lack of enthusiasm really puts me off. "

Same can be said for men too. Have you ever gone down a water slide while its dry? Exactly why foreplay is needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people just don't put their heart in it

Do men put heart into oral when doing it to a womem ?

Yes I love giving oral to a woman as long as they’re enjoying it

Ads

As a couple yes but single men meeting single women on fab .not alot of men on fab do oral on women.read all the threads about it .women do blow jobs all the time on men but women hardly get it in return or its a single lick .Very selfish alot of men and maybe this is why alot fail on repeat meets . "

When I was single I’d give oral whenever it was available lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ive had many that are terrible! teeth! ive even had women who luv to do deep throat and all i can feel is teeth! many a time ive been thinking oh god dont go soft just get through it, you can do it! lol. i wish you could say something but often women take it personally and it completely kills the mood.

best blow jobs are when they use there hand and mouth in one motion, using that twisting motion with there hand is an extra plus to. "

Handless blowjobs are the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people just don't put their heart in it

Do men put heart into oral when doing it to a womem ?

Yes I love giving oral to a woman as long as they’re enjoying it

Ads

As a couple yes but single men meeting single women on fab .not alot of men on fab do oral on women.read all the threads about it .women do blow jobs all the time on men but women hardly get it in return or its a single lick .Very selfish alot of men and maybe this is why alot fail on repeat meets .

When I was single I’d give oral whenever it was available lol"

Alot say this but are all talk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, from some goth chic with about 4 lip piercings. It just hurt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people just don't put their heart in it

Do men put heart into oral when doing it to a womem ?

Yes I love giving oral to a woman as long as they’re enjoying it

Ads

As a couple yes but single men meeting single women on fab .not alot of men on fab do oral on women.read all the threads about it .women do blow jobs all the time on men but women hardly get it in return or its a single lick .Very selfish alot of men and maybe this is why alot fail on repeat meets .

When I was single I’d give oral whenever it was available lol

Alot say this but are all talk "

Lol you don't like Mondays, do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive had many that are terrible! teeth! ive even had women who luv to do deep throat and all i can feel is teeth! many a time ive been thinking oh god dont go soft just get through it, you can do it! lol. i wish you could say something but often women take it personally and it completely kills the mood.

best blow jobs are when they use there hand and mouth in one motion, using that twisting motion with there hand is an extra plus to.

Handless blowjobs are the best "

My experience has been hand jobs are far better than a blow job. Maybe it's the taste of tantric massage that has relegated the bj.

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By *ilveryFoxMan
over a year ago

Midlothian

Don’t think I’ve ever had a bad one but I’ve never been made to cum with any woman I’ve been with. Don’t get me wrong they’ve been very enjoyable but never been able to finish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people just don't put their heart in it

Do men put heart into oral when doing it to a womem ?

Yes I love giving oral to a woman as long as they’re enjoying it

Ads

As a couple yes but single men meeting single women on fab .not alot of men on fab do oral on women.read all the threads about it .women do blow jobs all the time on men but women hardly get it in return or its a single lick .Very selfish alot of men and maybe this is why alot fail on repeat meets .

When I was single I’d give oral whenever it was available lol

Alot say this but are all talk

Lol you don't like Mondays, do you? "

No lol i dont i need a good fuck too sort myself out then i will be fine .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"More bad ones than good ones. There's a type of girl who thinks the only effort they gave to put in is to open there legs.

Poor technique is excusable but a lack of enthusiasm really puts me off.

Same can be said for men too. Have you ever gone down a water slide while its dry? Exactly why foreplay is needed."

Real foreplay is most underated on fab from women I've met or chatted with.

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Some people just don't put their heart in it "

Most use their mouths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don’t think I’ve ever had a bad one but I’ve never been made to cum with any woman I’ve been with. Don’t get me wrong they’ve been very enjoyable but never been able to finish "

Geeky is the only woman who’s made me cum from oral I realised then I need to marry this woman!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah, from some goth chic with about 4 lip piercings. It just hurt "

Oh mate...feel sorry for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people just don't put their heart in it

Most use their mouths "

Then they put there foot in it .

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"Some people just don't put their heart in it

Do men put heart into oral when doing it to a womem ? "

Well I do.. her pleasure is such a turn on for me so I put everything into it heart and soul

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ive had many that are terrible! teeth! ive even had women who luv to do deep throat and all i can feel is teeth! many a time ive been thinking oh god dont go soft just get through it, you can do it! lol. i wish you could say something but often women take it personally and it completely kills the mood.

best blow jobs are when they use there hand and mouth in one motion, using that twisting motion with there hand is an extra plus to.

Handless blowjobs are the best

My experience has been hand jobs are far better than a blow job. Maybe it's the taste of tantric massage that has relegated the bj."

I think both are totally different, a slow hand job with oil is wowzers but blowjob is blowjob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, from some goth chic with about 4 lip piercings. It just hurt

Oh mate...feel sorry for you "

Was my first ever bj as well haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive had many that are terrible! teeth! ive even had women who luv to do deep throat and all i can feel is teeth! many a time ive been thinking oh god dont go soft just get through it, you can do it! lol. i wish you could say something but often women take it personally and it completely kills the mood.

best blow jobs are when they use there hand and mouth in one motion, using that twisting motion with there hand is an extra plus to.

Handless blowjobs are the best

My experience has been hand jobs are far better than a blow job. Maybe it's the taste of tantric massage that has relegated the bj.

I think both are totally different, a slow hand job with oil is wowzers but blowjob is blowjob"

Bit selfish though as how long will this wank be ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah, from some goth chic with about 4 lip piercings. It just hurt

Oh mate...feel sorry for you

Was my first ever bj as well haha "

Did you report her to the police? That's criminal lol

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

The best blow jobs are going to come from a long term partner. Someone who knows every bit of your cock and what it does to you.

Years of practise with our lass and her BJ's are heavenly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ive had many that are terrible! teeth! ive even had women who luv to do deep throat and all i can feel is teeth! many a time ive been thinking oh god dont go soft just get through it, you can do it! lol. i wish you could say something but often women take it personally and it completely kills the mood.

best blow jobs are when they use there hand and mouth in one motion, using that twisting motion with there hand is an extra plus to.

Handless blowjobs are the best

My experience has been hand jobs are far better than a blow job. Maybe it's the taste of tantric massage that has relegated the bj.

I think both are totally different, a slow hand job with oil is wowzers but blowjob is blowjob

Bit selfish though as how long will this wank be ? "

You must be fun at parties

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The best blow jobs are going to come from a long term partner. Someone who knows every bit of your cock and what it does to you.

Years of practise with our lass and her BJ's are heavenly. "

How do I know?

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I think most of us men can tell when when a woman genuinely enjoys giving head as opposed to treating it as a necessary chore.

A technique that's lacking can be usually made up for with enthusiasm and a little coaching. A lack of enthusiasm is just a turn off and not worth continuing with....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive had many that are terrible! teeth! ive even had women who luv to do deep throat and all i can feel is teeth! many a time ive been thinking oh god dont go soft just get through it, you can do it! lol. i wish you could say something but often women take it personally and it completely kills the mood.

best blow jobs are when they use there hand and mouth in one motion, using that twisting motion with there hand is an extra plus to.

Handless blowjobs are the best

My experience has been hand jobs are far better than a blow job. Maybe it's the taste of tantric massage that has relegated the bj.

I think both are totally different, a slow hand job with oil is wowzers but blowjob is blowjob

Bit selfish though as how long will this wank be ?

You must be fun at parties "

Been told im a live wire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, from some goth chic with about 4 lip piercings. It just hurt "

I can feel my lip piercing dragging on hubbys cock sometimes! He insists it doesn't hurt he can't feel it, but I'm acutely aware of it. Sometimes I take the piercing out it bothers me so much. Have only met one other guy since I've had it, his cock was pierced I was paranoid we'd end up a tangle of metal - thankfully we didn't

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think most of us men can tell when when a woman genuinely enjoys giving head as opposed to treating it as a necessary chore.

A technique that's lacking can be usually made up for with enthusiasm and a little coaching. A lack of enthusiasm is just a turn off and not worth continuing with...."

Cock never lies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive had many that are terrible! teeth! ive even had women who luv to do deep throat and all i can feel is teeth! many a time ive been thinking oh god dont go soft just get through it, you can do it! lol. i wish you could say something but often women take it personally and it completely kills the mood.

best blow jobs are when they use there hand and mouth in one motion, using that twisting motion with there hand is an extra plus to.

Handless blowjobs are the best

My experience has been hand jobs are far better than a blow job. Maybe it's the taste of tantric massage that has relegated the bj.

I think both are totally different, a slow hand job with oil is wowzers but blowjob is blowjob

Bit selfish though as how long will this wank be ? "

I never do short meets...That's less than 3 or 4 hrs and usually my meets involve full day/ night or weekends, so plenty of time is given to a proper hand job.

NB. A tantric massage will last 3 hrs minimum if done correctly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ive had many that are terrible! teeth! ive even had women who luv to do deep throat and all i can feel is teeth! many a time ive been thinking oh god dont go soft just get through it, you can do it! lol. i wish you could say something but often women take it personally and it completely kills the mood.

best blow jobs are when they use there hand and mouth in one motion, using that twisting motion with there hand is an extra plus to.

Handless blowjobs are the best

My experience has been hand jobs are far better than a blow job. Maybe it's the taste of tantric massage that has relegated the bj.

I think both are totally different, a slow hand job with oil is wowzers but blowjob is blowjob

Bit selfish though as how long will this wank be ?

You must be fun at parties

Been told im a live wire "

I have a job for you

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds


"The best blow jobs are going to come from a long term partner. Someone who knows every bit of your cock and what it does to you.

Years of practise with our lass and her BJ's are heavenly.

How do I know? "

You don't. But I do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The best blow jobs are going to come from a long term partner. Someone who knows every bit of your cock and what it does to you.

Years of practise with our lass and her BJ's are heavenly.

How do I know?

You don't. But I do "

That's not right! Lol

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By *uardiansCouple
over a year ago

Isle of Wight


"Ever had a blowjob and thought just leave my cock alone?"
don't think it say it, it's your blow job, I would want to know if I wasn't hitting the spot,I absolutely enjoy sucking cock, and want to bring pleasure, but every guy is different we don't have telepathy, so just say, could you suck my balls hard, or be rougher or gentler, don't put up with a bad one, moan and groan a lot when we get it right!! Remember, they may bring the orchestra but you are the conductor! Rocket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One time a couple of years back it was like a rabid Rottweiler was munching on it

It actually got painful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, from some goth chic with about 4 lip piercings. It just hurt

I can feel my lip piercing dragging on hubbys cock sometimes! He insists it doesn't hurt he can't feel it, but I'm acutely aware of it. Sometimes I take the piercing out it bothers me so much. Have only met one other guy since I've had it, his cock was pierced I was paranoid we'd end up a tangle of metal - thankfully we didn't "

Maybe it doesn't hurt him but I found it painful lol. I wanted to stop her and ask her to take them out but I was too shy

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By *uslaffMan
over a year ago

manchester


"Some people just don't put their heart in it

Do men put heart into oral when doing it to a womem ? "

Of course not,why would they,that's only so the lady returns the favour,it's a formality men have to endure

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Any other ladies checking in to see if any of their past meets have posted?!

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By *rCurious1Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

All I'm saying is teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any other ladies checking in to see if any of their past meets have posted?! "

Haha all my meets have been very good at it. Fab girls can suck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually like chewing a penis, only gently with my molars but I've always asked the guy first. I like to lay with my head in his lap whilst watching tv and have his penis in my mouth so I can have a chew. Guys have been hard from it so couldn't have hurt them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, from some goth chic with about 4 lip piercings. It just hurt

I can feel my lip piercing dragging on hubbys cock sometimes! He insists it doesn't hurt he can't feel it, but I'm acutely aware of it. Sometimes I take the piercing out it bothers me so much. Have only met one other guy since I've had it, his cock was pierced I was paranoid we'd end up a tangle of metal - thankfully we didn't

Maybe it doesn't hurt him but I found it painful lol. I wanted to stop her and ask her to take them out but I was too shy "

I often think he's just being polite!

You should of asked her, as I say I only have the 1 but wouldn't be offended if someone asked me to take it out as I'm aware of it dragging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore pleasuring a guy with my mouth but sometimes, if I don't like the look of his cock or smell or taste of a guy, my bj isn't going to be spectacular. If I'm really into him and there is electric chemistry, I know I'm doing a good job from the noises he makes etc. I have honestly never been told I'm bad or pushed off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah, from some goth chic with about 4 lip piercings. It just hurt

I can feel my lip piercing dragging on hubbys cock sometimes! He insists it doesn't hurt he can't feel it, but I'm acutely aware of it. Sometimes I take the piercing out it bothers me so much. Have only met one other guy since I've had it, his cock was pierced I was paranoid we'd end up a tangle of metal - thankfully we didn't

Maybe it doesn't hurt him but I found it painful lol. I wanted to stop her and ask her to take them out but I was too shy

I often think he's just being polite!

You should of asked her, as I say I only have the 1 but wouldn't be offended if someone asked me to take it out as I'm aware of it dragging. "

I think I would now, but I was 14 at the time and couldn't believe it was actually happening to me haha. 1 probably wouldn't be so bad, she had a few lip rings

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By *is vixen at playCouple
over a year ago

Dundee

I've never had any complaints, have had quite a few compliments though

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Only when I was in my teens and with girls who had very little experience, the same girls who when giving hand jobs seemed to think trying to flay the skin off it would be nice

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd say we all get what we deserve. If a blow job is rubbish and a person endures rather than tactfully guides the person doing it, how is the person doing it ever going to know it could be better?

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley


"Some people just don't put their heart in it

Do men put heart into oral when doing it to a womem ?

Yes I love giving oral to a woman as long as they’re enjoying it

Ads

As a couple yes but single men meeting single women on fab .not alot of men on fab do oral on women.read all the threads about it .women do blow jobs all the time on men but women hardly get it in return or its a single lick .Very selfish alot of men and maybe this is why alot fail on repeat meets . "

You must be meeting the wrong guys. I tend to play with guys who are good at oral. I love to give oral too so I make sure I give as well as receive. I like to cup their balls in my hand and gently rub and squeeze them, a finger rubbing just behind the scrotum whilst I use my tongue and mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say we all get what we deserve. If a blow job is rubbish and a person endures rather than tactfully guides the person doing it, how is the person doing it ever going to know it could be better?"

Fair point. I wouldn't want to come across as rude though. How could a guy do it tactfully?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'd say we all get what we deserve. If a blow job is rubbish and a person endures rather than tactfully guides the person doing it, how is the person doing it ever going to know it could be better?

Fair point. I wouldn't want to come across as rude though. How could a guy do it tactfully?"

It depends on the person doing it. Some people take the merest hint of guidance as criticism, if you've got someone like that on the end of your cock keep quiet . Mature people however can accept that they can always learn (except me of course since I know everything ) and saying something like "that feels really good, could you swirl your tongue round the tip" or "I love it when you open your eyes and look at me" etc. In other words don't criticise, encourage. Imply they're doing a great job but that you have particular things you like. Then repay by asking if there's anything you can do for them.

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By *eeky goodnessMan
over a year ago

Worcester


"I'd say we all get what we deserve. If a blow job is rubbish and a person endures rather than tactfully guides the person doing it, how is the person doing it ever going to know it could be better?

Fair point. I wouldn't want to come across as rude though. How could a guy do it tactfully?

It depends on the person doing it. Some people take the merest hint of guidance as criticism, if you've got someone like that on the end of your cock keep quiet . Mature people however can accept that they can always learn (except me of course since I know everything ) and saying something like "that feels really good, could you swirl your tongue round the tip" or "I love it when you open your eyes and look at me" etc. In other words don't criticise, encourage. Imply they're doing a great job but that you have particular things you like. Then repay by asking if there's anything you can do for them.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon

I’ve had a few duff ones and luckily some sensational ones along the way.

So much to do with the setting and the moment as much as skills and techniques.

Let’s face it, it’s so much trial and error, both ways of course. As it is wanting to please your partner.

As brilliant as we all like to think we are, we are all enthusiastic amateurs really.

Some of the best have been where it was so unexpected where seconds earlier I thought ‘ butter wouldn’t melt’ next thing I know she is reveling in having my cock in her mouth.

Happy days !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've given bad blow jobs, does that count? My technique did nothing for him so I stopped and did something else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had plenty of bad blowjobs ! Thankfully lizzy is brilliant at it so no more need to worry there hahahahaha

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I've never had a 'bad' bj, or one where I've asked her to stop, but there's only been one woman who consistently could bring me to orgasm orally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes the scraping of teeth on the end of my bellend no and no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That tongue swirling makes me weak at the knees haha

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By *sRedbbwWoman
over a year ago

Amwythig


"Can't say I've given one, well no one has said anyway

What bloke is gonna complain when he's got his cock in your mouth lol

If it wasn't doing much to me I wouldn't complain but rather take over the situation. "

Not bragging but got told I gave the best head just in February

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By *sRedbbwWoman
over a year ago

Amwythig


"That tongue swirling makes me weak at the knees haha "

That's my favourite thing to do

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By *sRedbbwWoman
over a year ago

Amwythig

A good blow job requires less sucking and more hands and tongue usage

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By *uckymooMan
over a year ago

Mid-Cheshire

Did your mum not tell you off for speaking with your mouth full?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A good blow job requires less sucking and more hands and tongue usage "

More tongue yes Yes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That tongue swirling makes me weak at the knees haha

That's my favourite thing to do "

It's magic haha

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"That tongue swirling makes me weak at the knees haha "

Then say exactly those words to the next person you find down there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That tongue swirling makes me weak at the knees haha

Then say exactly those words to the next person you find down there. "

I will

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

The only time I've been told to stop is when they're about to blow....and they don't want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most of us men can tell when when a woman genuinely enjoys giving head as opposed to treating it as a necessary chore.

A technique that's lacking can be usually made up for with enthusiasm and a little coaching. A lack of enthusiasm is just a turn off and not worth continuing with...."

Spot on.

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By *oneeMan
over a year ago

bath

There is never a bad blow job

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only time I've been told to stop is when they're about to blow....and they don't want to "

Haha are you that good then

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By *eefyBangerMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Yes. Too much teeth constitutes a bad blowjob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giving a bj for me is one of my fave things to do. Taking it deep into my throat and swirling round the shaft up to the head with my tongue yummy xx

MrsK x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"A good blow job requires less sucking and more hands and tongue usage "

Oh i don't know. Most guys I know like the sensation of a good strong suck.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Once had a woman open her mouth to the size of a 20 pence piece and start vigorously heading my dick. After softening up some she started running her mouth up and down my shaft with the same technique like she was trying de-corn a cob.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had more bad than good, my wife being the worst culprit.I said to her if she didn't like doing it , she didn't have to, but she said she loved doing it , which made her technical problems even more difficult to point out!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'd never assume that every guy liked it done the same way so I'd never claim to be the best at it. To my mind if two (or more) people are having sex together it's down to them both to make it good for themselves and each other. If someone tells me their technique is the best I lose interest because I know they're not going to listen to what I want.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I've had more bad than good, my wife being the worst culprit.I said to her if she didn't like doing it , she didn't have to, but she said she loved doing it , which made her technical problems even more difficult to point out!"

Why? I love sewing and I enjoy it even more when someone shows me how to do it better.

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By *orruptedAngelCouple
over a year ago

norwich

Every guy I've given a BJ too I've used a different technique as I read their body language while doing it, what they enjoy I do more and what gets no reaction I do less! I thoroughly enjoy it though and the more he's enjoying what I'm doing the more I enjoy it!! Love looking up at him and knowing he's loving it and hearing him is a huge turn on! Some men prefer more deep throat gagging and no hands, others like just lots of tongue swirling and lots of attention to the tip or with hands and mouth at the same time and lots in-between! Can't beat being on my knees with his hands on my head fucking my mouth how he pleases though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t there is a bad blow job

Some may consider a good blow job if the person swallows but reality is Sitely hard compare blow job v blow job .

Different person different technique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A good blow job requires less sucking and more hands and tongue usage "

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By *eviantdeliteWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Every guy I've given a BJ too I've used a different technique as I read their body language while doing it, what they enjoy I do more and what gets no reaction I do less! I thoroughly enjoy it though and the more he's enjoying what I'm doing the more I enjoy it!! Love looking up at him and knowing he's loving it and hearing him is a huge turn on! Some men prefer more deep throat gagging and no hands, others like just lots of tongue swirling and lots of attention to the tip or with hands and mouth at the same time and lots in-between! Can't beat being on my knees with his hands on my head fucking my mouth how he pleases though "

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