FabSwingers.com forum: One for the couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Random thought, im bored!

Have you ever receieved a well written message from someone, but then looked at their pictures and deleted the message because you thought they were too attractive to let near your partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This sounds like you’ve been turned down and are looking for a reason they deleted other than they didn’t fancy you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m married but don’t play with the hubby so this doesn’t apply to me whatsoever...

But there’s an absolutely GORGEOUS guy, lives local, who wants to meet. I’ve looked at his verifications and I know a few of the women who he’s met with and they’re gorgeous and so sexy....I don’t think I can compete!

He’s told me not to be daft but I just feel too fat and ugly to be worthy of him

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This sounds like you’ve been turned down and are looking for a reason they deleted other than they didn’t fancy you

Not at all, the reason people delete is up to them (never going to be everyones cup of tea). I was just thinking and thought id throw it out there.

Im also not arrogant enough to consider myself that attractive that someone would think that about me.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"Random thought, im bored!

Have you ever receieved a well written message from someone, but then looked at their pictures and deleted the message because you thought they were too attractive to let near your partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This sounds like you’ve been turned down and are looking for a reason they deleted other than they didn’t fancy you

Not at all, the reason people delete is up to them (never going to be everyones cup of tea). I was just thinking and thought id throw it out there.

Im also not arrogant enough to consider myself that attractive that someone would think that about me. "

In all honestly, your OP is probably a lot of truth for some couples.

Can’t see anyone ever admitting it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Random thought, im bored!

Have you ever receieved a well written message from someone, but then looked at their pictures and deleted the message because you thought they were too attractive to let near your partner?

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we always answer all messages even if were not interested. We are always polite. We are not jealous and not worried if we meet someone better looking. At the end of the night we are going home together. Thats all that matters. As long as everyone has a good time. Have you been ignored and let down then ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This sounds like you’ve been turned down and are looking for a reason they deleted other than they didn’t fancy you

Not at all, the reason people delete is up to them (never going to be everyones cup of tea). I was just thinking and thought id throw it out there.

Im also not arrogant enough to consider myself that attractive that someone would think that about me.

In all honestly, your OP is probably a lot of truth for some couples.

Can’t see anyone ever admitting it though."

That kind of why I asked, I would be shocked if it didnt happen and even more shocked if someone came out and admitted it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Random thought, im bored!

Have you ever receieved a well written message from someone, but then looked at their pictures and deleted the message because you thought they were too attractive to let near your partner?

we always answer all messages even if were not interested. We are always polite. We are not jealous and not worried if we meet someone better looking. At the end of the night we are going home together. Thats all that matters. As long as everyone has a good time. Have you been ignored and let down then ?"

Id think most couples would be similar to you, but also curious if there was a few thay went the other way and if they'd openly admit it.

Oh like most single men on here ive been ignored plenty, but that isn't the reason behind the post. Being ignored is part and parcel, there's not a single person out there that ticks everyones boxes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Random thought, im bored!

Have you ever receieved a well written message from someone, but then looked at their pictures and deleted the message because you thought they were too attractive to let near your partner?

Id think most couples would be similar to you, but also curious if there was a few thay went the other way and if they'd openly admit it.

Oh like most single men on here ive been ignored plenty, but that isn't the reason behind the post. Being ignored is part and parcel, there's not a single person out there that ticks everyones boxes. "
so really ur just looking for chat cos ur bored ?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Random thought, im bored!

Have you ever receieved a well written message from someone, but then looked at their pictures and deleted the message because you thought they were too attractive to let near your partner?

No, we don't get women messaging us often it's normally men who want to dominate me or at least think they can and that's not going to happen or men that think their chatting to Dick saying things like I'll show Red a good time I'm worth it, let me have a go on her..

Well I choose who I do or don't it's a joint decision if we play with a couple or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" so really ur just looking for chat cos ur bored ?"

Id say looking for an answer to a question that popped into my head.

I may not have posted if I wasn't bored though, so your partially right I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Random thought, im bored!

Have you ever receieved a well written message from someone, but then looked at their pictures and deleted the message because you thought they were too attractive to let near your partner?

Well I choose who I do or don't it's a joint decision if we play with a couple or not. "

What about who your husband/partner fucks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go by how someone chats. Don't care how good looking they were. If their chats shit they couldn't lace my boots x

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By *i fem huntersCouple
over a year ago

london

Hell no. We are the definition of beauty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hell no. We are the definition of beauty

You are so cute. Lovely photo x

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By *i fem huntersCouple
over a year ago

london

"Hell no. We are the definition of beauty

You are so cute. Lovely photo x"

Haha we were only joking but youre too kind

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

You need to get out more OP....just saying

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Random thought, im bored!

Have you ever receieved a well written message from someone, but then looked at their pictures and deleted the message because you thought they were too attractive to let near your partner?

Far from it .

The better looking the guy is , the hotter it is for me to watch .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

No, they're a stranger. Regardless of their looks, and believe me Mrs N has met guys much more attractive than me I don't feel threatened at all and why would I, we're 20 plus years and very much still into each other. Growing a life, home, offspring together I'm not worried about a random breaking up our ties that have been built up over decades. It's our little bit of fun is fab. Bring on the six packers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This sounds like you’ve been turned down and are looking for a reason they deleted other than they didn’t fancy you

Not at all, the reason people delete is up to them (never going to be everyones cup of tea). I was just thinking and thought id throw it out there.

Im also not arrogant enough to consider myself that attractive that someone would think that about me.

In all honestly, your OP is probably a lot of truth for some couples.

Can’t see anyone ever admitting it though."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll admit I turned down meeting a women with an ex FB because she was too attractive.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

That's an interesting question.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"I’ll admit I turned down meeting a women with an ex FB because she was too attractive.

Yeah I think I would have this same feeling

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’ll admit I turned down meeting a women with an ex FB because she was too attractive.

Yeah I think I would have this same feeling "

I did think the FB/FWB dynamic on this would be a little different to the married couples. Cant help but feel a few married people have done it though lol.

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

"This sounds like you’ve been turned down and are looking for a reason they deleted other than they didn’t fancy you

Not at all, the reason people delete is up to them (never going to be everyones cup of tea). I was just thinking and thought id throw it out there.

Im also not arrogant enough to consider myself that attractive that someone would think that about me.

In all honestly, your OP is probably a lot of truth for some couples.

Can’t see anyone ever admitting it though."

We have not bothered because of such feelings, as the op states. Afterall its all about feeling comfortable with those that we choose to play with. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m married but don’t play with the hubby so this doesn’t apply to me whatsoever...

He’s told me not to be daft but I just feel too fat and ugly to be worthy of him"

He's right you're being daft you're beautiful. So go have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do look at profiles and not message as they are way above our league lol I know there isn't leagues but some just wouldn't look twice at us x

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

"Random thought, im bored!

Have you ever receieved a well written message from someone, but then looked at their pictures and deleted the message because you thought they were too attractive to let near your partner?

Well I choose who I do or don't it's a joint decision if we play with a couple or not.

What about who your husband/partner fucks?"

That's his choice

We don't meet people on our own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Random thought, im bored!

Have you ever receieved a well written message from someone, but then looked at their pictures and deleted the message because you thought they were too attractive to let near your partner?

This is the main reason I get turned down so often: too good looking. They call me the Zoolander of Fab’...

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

"Random thought, im bored!

Have you ever receieved a well written message from someone, but then looked at their pictures and deleted the message because you thought they were too attractive to let near your partner?

We're shallow and only in it for the pretty people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so much that I thought they were too attractive, but because I wouldn’t have felt comfortable playing with them. X

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Often

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

The opposite. Katie likes hot young men and plenty seem ready and willing to fuck her. I am under no illusions that, objectively, they are more sexually attractive than me, but that doesn't bother me.

Obviously, if I had jealously issues like that I wouldn't be doing this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us the answer would be no, the wife can play with who ever she wants to, the only reason I'd say no is if I thought the other person/people were bell ends.

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