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By *ackT07 OP   Man
over a year ago

Southampton

This is probably the most diverse site ever due to the different backgrounds of people I see. Not to make things depressing but I’m struggling (badly) with some issues and I was wondering if a kind stranger would have a chat?

Nothing serious I’m just very alone at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m here.

How are doing, lovely?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m here.

How are doing, lovely?"

Insert “you” in that sentence!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve done something brave and often difficult by reaching out.

No matter what you might think, someone out there will always listen.

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By *ackT07 OP   Man
over a year ago

Southampton


"I’m here.

How are doing, lovely?"

Tried to PM but got blocked out!

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Happy to chat anytime...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m here.

How are doing, lovely?

Tried to PM but got blocked out!"

That’s weird, I don’t have filters...talk here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m here.

How are doing, lovely?

Tried to PM but got blocked out!

That’s weird, I don’t have filters...talk here. "

Age!

Will send you a PM and you can then reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m here.

How are doing, lovely?

Tried to PM but got blocked out!

That’s weird, I don’t have filters...talk here.

Age!

Will send you a PM and you can then reply. "

But if you talk here you’ll get lots of people chatting with you (possibly more interesting for you) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone is willing to also post and chat here, OP is feeling low and encouragement and solidarity would be good.

It’s a funny thing this life and we all often feel really isolated and unable to cope and the reassurance that this is something many people experience is always a reassurance.

Show the OP some forum love people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on Jack - what made you join fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jack you should also come and say hello in the late late nocturnal thread, Jim and the gang there are lovely too!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Hey Jack! Life can be a bit crap at times (understatement) - I'm on here sporadically but am happy to chat nonsense on the forum when I am. I hope that things get better and you feel better soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey Jack.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll never be alone on here bud, always someone willing to lend an ear. Don't feel like your alone, we all have our demons

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By *ink Panther.Woman
over a year ago

Preston

Hey there Jack, the forum is one huge ear fire away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *essandpatCouple
over a year ago

chester

Always good to speak your mind no matter the issue someone has bin there and can try and help you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Jack! Sorry you're going through a hard time right now. There are loads of people here to help you through if you want it

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

You've made the first step you've asked for advise / help.

Well done you.

I'm off to bed shortly but pm if you want too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi jack sorry you’re going through a bad time. Lots of us go through it at times so there’s always someone around to talk to who understands and can lend a sympathetic ear x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey Jack.... you're never alone on Fab mate

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

Jack.

I can fully understand where you are.

In 2016, I developed severe Mental Health issues caused by bullying employers.

As well as the real professionals (GP and Nursing staff, Union Rep etc) to assist me, I also came on here & mentioned what I was going through.

The support here was FAB-ulous! Sometimes it may not have been the most "PC" of advice from some but collectively, the great people on here all helped to get me through and keep me on the right track.

So, take stock of our comments, support, and often laugh out loud stuff. We're here for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is probably a lot of folks on here that have some form of mental health problem and I’m one of those.

I find a nice Sauna & jacuzzi with some great like minded folks is a good way of chilling out.

Find a good club and just go for the social side.

Anything else would be a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Jack. Good that you’ve expressed how you’re feeling. Welcome to the forum

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By *sylockeWoman
over a year ago

East Anglia


"Hi Jack. Good that you’ve expressed how you’re feeling. Welcome to the forum "

Hey Jack. 1 in 4 people are living with mental health issues. You are not alone my friend.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Well, nobody ever messages me on the back of these types of thread, but I'm supportive as fuck if you fancy a chat

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By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

Hey there

Sorry you’re struggling. The Samaritans are awesome. You don’t have to be suicidal to call (although, if you are, they’ll listen without trying to stop you). You don’t even have to know what you’re going to say.

Their number is 116123 from landline or mobile.

Sending a hug.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, nobody ever messages me on the back of these types of thread, but I'm supportive as fuck if you fancy a chat "

As i said earlier on in the thread we're all fighting our own battles and have our own demons. It's good that we can reach out and ask for help. You ever need an ear or shoulder, I'm about

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

The MIND website also has some great advice and its own forums where you can discuss how you are feeling.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Even if we don't all chat op, there are lots of us here who care. Hope you see some lighter times soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey Jack. Rough day here too, my anxiety is rocketing.

Hope you're feeling a little more positive seeing all the support you have here. Well done for reaching out xx

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Hi Jack. I read your status about being in hospital. I hope there is someone about you can talk to, or if you have escaped back home look after yourself. Leave us a message so we know how you are doing.

Lots of support about on here, Mind and Samaritans. Happy to chat . Xx

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By *ealthy_appetiteMan
over a year ago

London

Hi Jack, hope you’re ok. We’ve all got your back if you need us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Jack. Only just saw this. Hoping you are okay. You are brave to reach out. That's always the start when you've got some mental health issues. Bottling them up is never healthy. I've suffered on and off for years. Happy to be an ear for you.There are a good bunch of people on here, if you want to speak in the forums. Some knobs too (but easily avoided). I hope you have read some of the comments on here, so you know you are not alone. Sending hugs

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