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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do girls on here get messages from girls asking if they'd like to get together? Before I put my filters on I'd get around 30 messages a day from guys asking if I wanted a descrete suck and go. My profile says straight.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"Do girls on here get messages from girls asking if they'd like to get together? Before I put my filters on I'd get around 30 messages a day from guys asking if I wanted a descrete suck and go. My profile says straight. "

Some women do and some don’t but I doubt women have to pretend not to be gay/bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish.

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By *educedWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Do girls on here get messages from girls asking if they'd like to get together? Before I put my filters on I'd get around 30 messages a day from guys asking if I wanted a descrete suck and go. My profile says straight. "

No

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Do girls on here get messages from girls asking if they'd like to get together? Before I put my filters on I'd get around 30 messages a day from guys asking if I wanted a descrete suck and go. My profile says straight. "

Even when I was only looking for single guys I got couples and women messaging me. Or at least that’s what their profiles said they were

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wish. "

Are bi girls that hard to find? Every other profile I go on says the girl is bi.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do girls on here get messages from girls asking if they'd like to get together? Before I put my filters on I'd get around 30 messages a day from guys asking if I wanted a descrete suck and go. My profile says straight.

Even when I was only looking for single guys I got couples and women messaging me. Or at least that’s what their profiles said they were "

What do you mean by that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do girls on here get messages from girls asking if they'd like to get together? Before I put my filters on I'd get around 30 messages a day from guys asking if I wanted a descrete suck and go. My profile says straight. "

Yes. Some from bisexual or lesbian women (probably because I’m bi and actively open to being approached by women), some from women of a couple, some from women who are likely men pretending to be women.

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By *arciocialWoman
over a year ago

Leicester

Never have, even when I allowed women to message me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hardly ever get approached by ladies in disguise or otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had one or two however I'm never sure how genuine they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish. "

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish.

Are bi girls that hard to find? Every other profile I go on says the girl is bi. "

Well within five miles of my postcode, between the ages of 18 & 40 there's only three verified bi women who have logged in over the past month, so...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And if I do a search in the same distance and the same age range for couples looking to meet single women, 18 have logged on in the past week. Very steep difference.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wish.

Are bi girls that hard to find? Every other profile I go on says the girl is bi.

Well within five miles of my postcode, between the ages of 18 & 40 there's only three verified bi women who have logged in over the past month, so..."

Why look for verified? Alot of people on here aren't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a fair few, I suspect some are guys faking though

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

Weve had "ladies" contact us... but think they wre actually fellas. Im straight so it was a wasted effort either way.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

No the only messages I get from other females is to surprise their boyfriend by meeting when they are out of town with work, or it is his birthday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. But then I don't get many messages from guys either. *shrugs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wish.

Are bi girls that hard to find? Every other profile I go on says the girl is bi.

Well within five miles of my postcode, between the ages of 18 & 40 there's only three verified bi women who have logged in over the past month, so...

Why look for verified? Alot of people on here aren't. "

Because it's easier for women to get verified and prove that they're genuine, so if a woman's been on here for a few months and hasn't met someone it sounds dodgy. And although I've never come across a fake single lady or couple profile, I can imagine there's a few floating around that's being used for wanking material by a single man.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Do girls on here get messages from girls asking if they'd like to get together? Before I put my filters on I'd get around 30 messages a day from guys asking if I wanted a descrete suck and go. My profile says straight. "

Sure.... but nothing like 30 a day... 2-3 per week maybe, but how else could they meet another girl if they never asked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I've had a few message me

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By *inkycouplespainCouple
over a year ago

Malaga Spain but sometimes Manchester and

Never lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Do girls on here get messages from girls asking if they'd like to get together? Before I put my filters on I'd get around 30 messages a day from guys asking if I wanted a descrete suck and go. My profile says straight.

Sure.... but nothing like 30 a day... 2-3 per week maybe, but how else could they meet another girl if they never asked? "

I see why girls have an issue with guys now. They are relentless. I'd tell them that I'm not bi and they are like "thats what they all say and I'm sucking them off 10 minutes later" why can't guys just put bi curious if they are? Nobody cares on here.

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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

I don't know... you moan you don't get messages then moan when you do

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Do girls on here get messages from girls asking if they'd like to get together? Before I put my filters on I'd get around 30 messages a day from guys asking if I wanted a descrete suck and go. My profile says straight.

Sure.... but nothing like 30 a day... 2-3 per week maybe, but how else could they meet another girl if they never asked?

I see why girls have an issue with guys now. They are relentless. I'd tell them that I'm not bi and they are like "thats what they all say and I'm sucking them off 10 minutes later" why can't guys just put bi curious if they are? Nobody cares on here. "

Some do care, which is why a lot of bi or bi-curious guys have 'straight' on their profiles. Lots of women/couples prefer not to meet bi men.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

Chance would be a fine thing! Women rarely message sadly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't know... you moan you don't get messages then moan when you do "

I got messages from guys but not any from the ones that counted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rarely, but 3 fakes for every one genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do yes. Some I've ended up becoming friends with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women never send messages, they just wait for their inbox to fill up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't know... you moan you don't get messages then moan when you do

I got messages from guys but not any from the ones that counted. "

Just block dingle guys from contacting you. Solves it no? Unless of course you do want them contacting you for whatever reason. Then that's fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't know... you moan you don't get messages then moan when you do

I got messages from guys but not any from the ones that counted.

Just block dingle guys from contacting you. Solves it no? Unless of course you do want them contacting you for whatever reason. Then that's fine. "

As said before I have applied filters to block them.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Very few ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few alright.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do girls on here get messages from girls asking if they'd like to get together? Before I put my filters on I'd get around 30 messages a day from guys asking if I wanted a descrete suck and go. My profile says straight. "

I get messages from single ladies and couples all the time.

I’m not especially interested in women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes Ive had a few offers.

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